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I Feel Like No One Loves Me

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    I Feel Like "why Should They?"

    I am so socially inept and so awkward. I don't have what it takes to be loved. no money, no charm, no inner beauty, no inspiration, nothing to really admire. I don't have prestige I don't have a house, or a child, or a spouse or pleasant, happy, inspiring disposition. Maybe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Hate This Feeling

    17 years old, and I already feel dead inside. I'm the least favorite child, the least favorite grandchild, cousin, niece, and sibling. I have no friends. How does somebody ever get over this? How am I supposed to hold myself together when I feel this way? It's always one thing...
    Cnic0le Cnic0le 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Someone Out There Loves You.

    Someone out there loves you? Really? I find this hard to believe. At the age of 20, I can stumble down any street and witness people in love all around me. Couples shyly holding hands, hugging and stealing a kiss. Their laughter echoes around me and I hurry away as I feel I don't...
    StaceyNight StaceyNight 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    No One Cares About Me.

    I've had a rough life for someone my age... I don't feel like my parents truly care about me, because when I was raped they were made I got a rape kit and blamed me for it. My mother constantly tells me I am a failure. I can't remember one instance where I made her proud. She...
    WiltedRose WiltedRose 18-21, F 18 Responses May 28, 2010

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    Forever Alone

    So as a kid I always avoided asking guys out and things like that because I didn't want to get rejected and I always thought it would be better to wonder than to be hurt. I am now 21 and just about the most innocent girl you will ever meet. The only thing I've done is hugged a...
    Justblendingin Justblendingin 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    You know you got nothing left to live

    for when you wake up every day, no one called, or texted, and than you remember that you got no family anymore, that you lost everyone you love so dearly, that you got nothing in your life that makes you happy anymore... That you released you screwed up everything and now if...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am a gay guy and I always feel like no guy

    here want me cause I either too fat or I don't met their standard
    rukateria rukateria 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    My boyfriend says he loves me

    but he doesn't show it so how do I know that this love is real
    kjohn595 kjohn595 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Suffering depression

    but its affecting me great effect, i hate my personality because iam antisocial i don't have social skills i talk less than usual, my parents are the reason of my problem and all problems, i want to feel that iam social like people, i feel myself stranger, i think that people...
    Emmajasonn Emmajasonn 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Absoluetly No One Truely Loves Me

    I know this is probably what most would call a false statement but is how I am feeling. Feel as though no one truely loves me most don't even know me, heck do I even know myself.   Not loved
    Rachel4now Rachel4now 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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    All my life, I've always been the shadow of my

    friend, let's just call her Gracie. Gracie and I are friends for a really long time. She's very beautiful in every way. She's intelligent and funny too :) I'm lucky to be her friend. But sometimes, if you have a friend who is almost perfect and is popular, you can't avoid but...
    nocturnalninja nocturnalninja 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Today is my last day on EP.

    .. if on today.. 14th Feb ill not get any girl who is willing to be with me and accept my love.. then ill be deleting my a.c i can;t bear it anymore... thanks for just few girls who become my good friend.. and talked to me. thanks for whose who rudely rejected me... i wish them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 13

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    Why WOULD anyone love me.

    Me. Why should anyone even like me. Everyone has every right to hate me. Because I'm ME and that's a good enough reason. It is for me anyway.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    A Real Friend

    These days I really feel like everyone except a few family members really care about me. I feel like if I dropped off the face of the planet no one in my age group that I know would notice because when I am really quiet and make no effort to talk to people no one bothers to...
    JustANumber JustANumber 22-25, M 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    So Lonely....

    All in honesty I feel so lonely. I have very little friends or people I can actually talk to. Im not sociable, my sociable skills have just dramatically decreased over the years and I just don't know what to do anymore. I usually just drown myself in watch korean dramas or read...
    tiredsadalone tiredsadalone 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Unloved

    So Lately I've been feeling unloved. It's like the weight of all this pain and hurt has caught up with me and it fills my brain to where I can't think straight. I'm about to be 20 and never had a boyfriend. It's not by choice either, it's just the guys I'm into don't feel the...
    Yuna91 Yuna91 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    I grew up in an abusive household.

    I don't think any of my friends, not even my husband, really understand how it feels and how destructive having had an abusive childhood can do to your mind. I'm a happy person, in general. My relationships with my parents are getting "better". But because of what had happened...
    downwardsunflower downwardsunflower 22-25 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I just want to find someone

    who will love me...and mean those three little words for once. I don't want to be cheated on or lied to anymore. Is that so much to ask?
    serephina serephina 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 12

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    Who Am I Kidding ?

    I gave a speech on the topic 'Freedom' in a program conducted by our college. I received praise from many people there. On the next day they showed me and my parents the video of the speech. I realized two things from that video. Initially that I was confident and most...
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 5 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Another dreaded/negative story i was trying to

    avoid posting since i wanted to focus on being more happy but I guess shouldn't kill me to vent..not sure if it'll even be a vent or just ramblings or some other thing,but I'll begin.This is probably one of my strongest negative feelings that I have about myself I dont wanna...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response May 25

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    Who Cares About Me?

    I feel no one truely cares about me, sure some go through the motions but do they really care? If they do I will eventually scare them off. I always do. People can't handle me. I am unlovable, and unwanted unless it is for someone elses' malicious intents. Rach
    Rachel4now Rachel4now 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    I feel like I'm un-loveable like everyone is

    slowly trying to push me away, it just really gets to me that I'm not worthy of anyone.
    BrokenArrow25 BrokenArrow25 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    I Don't See How Anyone Loves Me

    I know, or at least am confident that I can say, that I'm well-liked. Several people have made a point of telling me that they like me, and I get the feeling that a lot of the people who don't say it explicitly do as well. I'm on good terms with nearly everyone I know - a few...
    iviixtime iviixtime 18-21 3 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    All I Have Are Tears.

    I understand what it means for no one to care about you. I am almost 28 and I don't even date. I am always alone and I spend most of my time crying when I am not at work. I take long walks on my lunch breaks so I can cry to myself. Men use to come into my life just to use me and...
    Brknhrtdlnly1 Brknhrtdlnly1 26-30 9 Responses May 4, 2011

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    CuriosityKills96 CuriosityKills96 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Alone In the World.

    do you ever feel as if no one wants to be with you? as if no one wants to talk to you or ignores you. this is how i am feeling about my life. every single say of my life i have to go through with my parents fighting, or my friends saying secrets about me that i absolutely HATE...
    iinx0loveex3 iinx0loveex3 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 5, 2008

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    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    No Love

    No matter what i do i cant seem to make people happy, did i do something to deserve hatred? All i do is try to help everybody but no one tries to help me....No one seems to care , no one seems to want me happy...Even though people say they love me say they care...i dont...
    VampreEmoNeko VampreEmoNeko 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I have lost all hope.

    I don't know where I'm going from here. Just imagine you know this pure, innocent woman who has a curfew, living with her parents, no clubbing, no boyfriend,drinking, smoking - that woman is me. All my life I have been warned to "stay away from guys". It came to a point...
    zulii zulii 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Nothing

    I think I'm not good enough to be loved. That's why I hate everyone now. I don't want to say I'm not attractive or something. But I've never really felt that someone REALLY needs me. All of my friends and secret lovers have found their own love. I wish them good luck, of course...
    TerrifyingPerson TerrifyingPerson 18-21, T 3 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    Never In My Short Life Has Any Girl Loved Me...

    The only people who care about me are the 1 or 2 friends I have and my family, but that's not the problem. The problem is, that no girl has ever loved me. I'm not the best looking person (Despite my parents saying that I'm handsome), but I treat everyone kindly (except for the...
    DinoHunter2 DinoHunter2 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    I have friend named Jeanie.

    Jeanie here is a very friendly person and I admire her for that. But sometimes, I feel like she only calls me whenever her new friends aren't with her, once those friends do hangout with her again, it's like she doesn't know me at all. Then when her new friends forgot about...
    nocturnalninja nocturnalninja 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Why Do I Feel Like No One Cares For Me?

    I use to be so happy and okay with myself when I was in middle school and elementary school; had good group of friends and seemed like I was important. Ever since I entered high school it's like all my "fake" friends ditched me, people don't seem to care about what I put as a...
    brittanyjamaica brittanyjamaica 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    I don't know how to describe it,

    but there used to be a time when was afraid of nothing, i was outgoing,confident,and pretty much had everyones attention, used to love everything,life seemed like a vanilla scoop..all sweet and bright, but for the past 2-3 yrs i have been feeling very lonely,even though i have...
    vdrancer vdrancer 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    everybody has someone significant in their life.

    everyone is somebodies number one. i am nobodies. i belong to no one and no one belongs to me. my absence and presence is not notable to anyone. i am insignificant. i have so much to offer but nobody cares. nobody wants to know me and i don't mean anything to anyone.
    ughomg ughomg 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    What's The Freaking Problem With The Women?

    I mean, I'm a nice young 20-years old guy.  I'm funny and I like talking to everyone.  No one hates me (well,  I think so, and if there is some, I don't give a damn).  But what I don't understand, is why is every single girls I may had a chance with, I found...
    Kathoros Kathoros 18-21, M 4 Responses May 13, 2010

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    I need to vent. I'm really upset right now

    and very close to giving up on everything. I've been lonely for all of the 20 years I've been on this earth, and it's slowly destroying me. My family and friends love me, of course, but that's the only kind of love I've ever known. I yearn for a soulmate I can tell everything...
    katastrophywife katastrophywife 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Just Like You I Get Lonely Too...

    I don't know my life is so hard to everyone I'm so funny out going.But deep inside I'm sad and lonely I want to be loved for who I am and not what I can do for others. I want to feel something I don't have I'm missing something in my life. Sometimes I feel like what would others...
    AlesiaMing AlesiaMing 26-30 Apr 6, 2013

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    Nobody Has Ever Fallen In Love With Me

    Well, I know that my family loves me. But When I say that nobody loves me, it means that no guy (or even girl) Loves me in a girlfriend/boyfriend kind of way. It always happens to other girls, but it never happens to me. I mean, Im sure that no boy has ever fallen in love with me...
    JuliBeatles JuliBeatles 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    PowerThoughts PowerThoughts 16-17, M May 25

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    No One Loves Me

    my parents are old (over 80 for my dad and 65 my mum) they ignore me my mum is cheating on my dad they fight almost all the time. my bf is sometimes so cold to me i feel rejected i have no friends due to my bf (at the beggining we were very close so left our friends behind). i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    I feel like no one loves me.

    .. Even though I know they love me... If that makes sense? I can recognize them loving me and caring for me... But I don't feel it. I don't know why I don't feel it... But I don't. I just see it and it's kind of like "Oh. Okay. Thanks." And everyone gets frustrated with me. They...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Unloveable

    I am 27. I am going through this bad funk. I have no one who truly cares about me. I am always criticized by family. I can't do anything right. I don't get along with them unlessII'm givingtthem money. I live at home with my 8yr old son.. WhichIis probably why I get criticized. I...
    Reddle22 Reddle22 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    I know my family loves me it's all just

    relationship stuff. My parents allow me to start getting in relationships and stuff and that is something big for me. So about 1-2 years ago I started trying to find someone who will like me for who I am. My crush always changes every time I know that she's not the one. But I...
    SilverEagle1244 SilverEagle1244 18-21, M 3 Responses May 29

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    Lonely And Hurts Like Crazy

    I feel lonely much of the time and like no one loves me.  Sometimes I even feel like God isn't paying attention to me or loves me.  Alot of this started when my father died in April of 2000 and then my mother died in July of 2000.  Then a few years later, my brother died.  I...
    scooternet scooternet 41-45, M 2 Responses May 17, 2011

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    People Love To Criticize/harass/make Trouble For Me

    My whole life, I've been treated like pure trash. And I'm not even a bad person, actually, I can be very nice, maybe that's the problem? It all started w/my family. I could say I was abused by them, more mentally than anything... I remember getting hit over the head w/a baseball...
    distrustfullscoot distrustfullscoot 26-30 5 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I'm Tired Of Trying To Get And Keep Friends

    Im graduating from college soon and I'm faced with the fact that all the friends I made are gonna leave me soon. On a daily basis, I only call 2 people, one of them being my mom. Other people only call or text me when they need something like a ride but they never give me gas...
    Samara21 Samara21 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Birthday Girl

    on my 18th birthday i recieved no gifts, no cake and my household family of 10 people didnt wish me a happy birthday. it's trivial to want these things when other people in the world might never possibly celebrate their birthdays. i still cant believe no one checked on me sobbing...
    iftheyonlyknew iftheyonlyknew 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    sanjay2849 sanjay2849 56-60, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I fell as if my whole family has no love

    for me and even my girlfriend says she loves me but i don't believe any of their love is genuine or real. writing it down made me realize that its true.
    kushmonster666 kushmonster666 22-25 Jul 17

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    I feel that no one will ever love me

    and it's tearing me apart
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    idk. my family hates me.

    and i never had a gf
    Skykilllers7 Skykilllers7 13-15, M May 17

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    lilasofargone lilasofargone 18-21, F Jul 30

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