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I Feel Like No One Understands How Deeply I Am Hurting

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    No One Can Hear Me

    He usually ask me what would we do to have a better relationship. Ill tell him what i feel and what i think, but we end up arguing, I do this, i do that, and he gets so frustrated and well both sleep not fixing it. Im getting tired of it. We had a mirage counselour but this comes...
    Mourena Mourena 22-25 Oct 8, 2013

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    My Daughter

    I got a call of the morning Dec 30 2009  at 7:00  On the other end of the call was my son-in-law He told me my daughter is dead. I still am in shock She was only 30 years old. I have a granddaughter thats Seven.  We dont know what happend Only that God took her to...
    agendrolis agendrolis 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    I know nobody knows how deeply I am hurting

    but that doesn't mean people don't understand what I'm going throw. It sometimes hurts a lot. But other times I like to show how strong I am to others and make sure they can't see the real me. I don't really know what to do anymore but I don't think I ever really did. It was...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    no one understands me,

    I have no friends no one to go to or cry to. i just want a friend
    wonderlustdreamer wonderlustdreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    ..

    Yes....but i have myself to blame, because I don't let anyone in, and don't let them know or see just HOW much pain I really am in...to let someone in is so damn scary, but at the same time I just want someone to know, and understand....
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    I know it's not true,

    that there are so many people going what I go through, but sometimes I do feel like no one understands how much I'm secretly hurting inside.
    ImxoxSurviving ImxoxSurviving 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I Am A Little Hurt

    So this past week my sister and her husband had a huge fight. They are slowly recovering, but she talks to the family about everything. I give sound advice, like choose your battles for example, they were fighting over silly things, like who was getting the new car seat. In my...
    Rae1983 Rae1983 31-35, F May 25, 2013

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    My big brother passed away 2 years ago

    and everyone's gradually movin on and I'm stuck behind not wanting to believe it still. Everyone's getting over it together and so no one really knows how bad I hurt
    Freddie13leigh Freddie13leigh 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    What I Feel Towards Pain

    Words cannot explain it The light hides behind it A smile placed in front of it A heart crushed because of it A girl hides because of it Tries to explain the feeling behind it Nobody wished to hear of it Because they all fear of it A monster formed from it Cuts the arms...
    Thecloverbunny5 Thecloverbunny5 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2012

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    As abused as a child life is not the same

    for me as someone has not been hurt, it is catching up w/me
    godswish49 godswish49 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I Am Supposed To Be Happy But I Am Hurting

    I have no sad and touching stories to share. My life is pretty ordinary and some luck even threw itself to my face and I am fed up of how people say to me "You are so lucky", "You have everything", "You should be grateful for everything", "Don't be depressed for something not...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Jan 9, 2011

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    I have been married 5 years,

    I love my husband he often goes out of town! I recently discovered some things he had been doing ****, live web cams ect. I was devastated. I couldn't understand why or what I was doing wrong. I am very sexual and loving I'll do anything he wants! He promised to never to do it...
    LonelyLish LonelyLish 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Marielights Marielights 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Do I Always Need To Explain?

    I try so hard to be strong for those around me. To not show how much I'm hurting. When I need to break down, I always do it alone, out of sight, out of reach. I don't want to burden anyone with my problems. But occasionally, I just break, like I did yesterday. One person, anyone...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Is It Worth Telling You My Story?

    Sometimes, I feel that i should just shut up and keep things to myself. I'm so damn tired of sharing my story to people who doesn't even know how I really feel and doesn't give a damn. They say they understand but then, they'll leave me there hanging with their unfinished words...
    kaaat101 kaaat101 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    I'm Tired Of All This Hurt...

    I just want to talk to someone who genuinely knows what it's like to be depressed... I am stuck in such an uncomfortable position... I don't know what to do any more. I've been struggling with depression, anxiety, self-harm, and re-occurring nightmares... I have yet to actually...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    Well I need to talk to someone like a friend

    right now. No judgement....This happened ages ago I went out with a girl I kind of had a jealousy about like she would always be getting the looks from other guys and just having other guys notice you is confidence boosting. And I was wanting to feel attractive I was down I...
    LaurenJac LaurenJac 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    No One Understands Me...i Am Hurt.

    Can you not see that I am in pain? Do you not see that I am so sick and tired of being alone? Even now as I write this for millions to see. No one will know.. Not truly. Why would they? Why should they? I'm nothing. But I still feel. I feel: Love - I've loved her for 5...
    YourRoad2Awe YourRoad2Awe 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    I Dont Feel Loved For Who I Am

    I haven't felt loved by my immediate family since they found out that i have a girlfriend that i love very much. My girlfriend does all she can to help me feel better about everything but im deeply hurt about it. I've been treated by my own family. I've been verbally attack...
    lilniayahshep lilniayahshep 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    The Changes Around Us!

    things have changed with time, the way they always do as its a general rule of nature and no body can cease it or make it illegal ...can anybody? i don't guess so, but the question that revolves in my mind that is "how far they can change?"  i have seen climate changing their...
    ar93 ar93 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    I'm 19 (young Ik) but the man I'm talking to is

    36 we've been talking for 8 months well I can tell he likes me but one time I told him stop pretending that you don't care, the next day he brought it up and he said I do pretend to care but I asked him why and he didn't want to respond idk what to do?
    babieetori babieetori 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 9

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    Really Me

    people always tell me the same thing over and over again.... "you have everything", "peoples lives are way worse than yours", "youcan't be in that much pain", "you seem so happy" that's not me, it's like i put on a disguise everywhere i go. i never go anywhere without my...
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    As the days pass by i feel more & more

    depressed, more dead inside & i cant even talk to anyone about it because the last time i was open about how depressed i was people veiwed me as a negative gloomy person when i was just stating how i feel so now i have to put on a front & lie to everyone & pretend like im ok...
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 6 Responses Apr 6

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    Pain

    I feel their is no one out their understands me. Their is people want to try to understand me, but they don't fully understand me at all. If they did, I would't be in all this pain I'm in right now. I would't be in the state feeling left out. They would know how to comfort me...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    Sometimes I feel like just curling up on the

    floor and clawing at my own face. Picking at my skin, ripping and scarring because I can’t handle all the noise going on inside. It hurts on a level I hadn’t anticipated. I wasn’t prepared and now I’m left stranded with a crippled heart and nowhere to turn. A thousand...
    Sapphirefayth Sapphirefayth 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    no one knows how I've felt every single day

    since last year on January 20, 2013. my grandma died that day. she was the only person I really loved! the only one I could talk to! the only one I actually wanted to see when I didn't wanna see anyone. when I lost her, no one helped me. no one talked to me. no one even...
    haiitzamanda haiitzamanda 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Just waiting for that good night text

    or good morning text .. When really? It's never going to come :(
    ainecole14 ainecole14 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Every day I carry so much pain with me.

    I hide it, because some people abuse the knowledge. They will pour salt in the wounds that cause me pain. The people I usually trust simply give me the usual 'cheer up', or 'you'll be fine', and the best of all is 'you're a strong person'. Yes of course, but in the mean, I'm...
    Jeanellaisha Jeanellaisha 22-25, F Jan 21

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    Hi I am to to EP.. I just found out today

    that my parents are getting divorced and we have always been a very close family.. That is practically been the last straw for me! I have no one to talk to that understands I have been dealing with depression I just need someone to talk to! Please help
    Marie156 Marie156 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    What A Day It's Turning Out To Be

    Okay, so anyone who's read any of my stories has heard me mention my sister. I seem to remember a time when if I was hurting she would try to do anything to make me feel better. And then I realized, that it was always me trying to make her feel better. Case in point, I had a...
    johnsb78 johnsb78 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2012

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    Nothings The Same :'(

    I have depression and people see me different. I'm still in high school (junior age 18) so its more of a struggle. I found out one of my close friends is moving away. I've known here since I've moved out of Indiana to Pennsylvania. She's been there for me when I've needed her. My...
    abbybelieve122 abbybelieve122 18-21, F Mar 11, 2013

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    Pleeezzzeeee Make It Stop!

    I truly don't know where to start. Just 2 1/2 short years ago I was on top of the world. Great career, beautiful home, dear friends, beloved family, awesome credit score, adorable cats, passionate love relationship. Just as I approached 50 I had realized my goals and although...
    JennyShore JennyShore 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Suffering Alone

    When I lived away from my family I had always to lie to cover my suffering, no-one understands this kind of pain. 16 years hurting so much in my chest, burning inside, sometimes I think death hurts, but can't hurt more than what I feel. Getting prepared to end it all, forever...
    rikkbb rikkbb 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I keep messing up in life n my other half is

    going berserk I feel like I can't do anything right I suffer from paranoia n mpd n I can't cope any more my tablets don't help I'm getting worse I feel like just leaving my other half n my kids
    hayley34 hayley34 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I found out that the person

    that I love an was in love with has been cheating on me our whole four years of being together.He was in another relationship while with me everything came out an I am deeply hurt I don't know what to do because he was my first love my best friend an also the person who took my...
    CieraNOTSierra CieraNOTSierra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I Hate This I Hate It And I Hate Me:/

    I feel like I just ..I'm just not good enough and I never will be and I feel like no one could ever love me I mean just when I think everything is ok an it's alright to let my guard down just a little because for once I'm happy and I feel almost normal reality smacks me in the...
    EmilyMaeMarie EmilyMaeMarie 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    What Can I Do

    no one understand how i feeli feel like jumpingscreamingcryinghurting myselfagainand againwhat can i dohow can i show themhow i feeli cant tell themi just canti don't have the couragei don't have the gutsto tell peopleeverythingi cant just give themthe key to meto all of my...
    invisiblegirl904 invisiblegirl904 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    Anxiety is making it harder then ever to do

    anything and just to go out of the house and get things done, it's like this constant fear feelings and it makes me crazy an takes me away from myself and pushes everybody away, I use to do meth and I've been sober from it over a year but dam it's really been a struggle, the...
    lilstomper101 lilstomper101 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Seeing your mother cry

    as a child has to be one of the most heartbreaking things that can ever happen to you.
    lissetm lissetm 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I kinda feel a different way,

    like since I wasn't born in the 80's but I'm such a big fan, I know who Heather O rourke is the Horror movie icon of the 80's. Though when I read about her life and death a couple if months ago, I was greatly impacted, and no one really understands how much I hurt and am...
    80sGirlForever 80sGirlForever 18-21 Mar 5

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    I'm Hurting Badly --

    No one knows that i'm hurting. There's not one person to talk to about it, so it lies inside of me and poisons my thoughts. I fell in love with a man 17 years ago -- he hurt me deeply -- 7 months ago, I met a young man on Facebook, we chatted and then began talking on the phone...
    KillerKitty666 KillerKitty666 46-50, F 6 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    i am so fed up of people telling me to cheer up! no one understands how i feel within myself and i constantly put myself down. i am trying my hardest to see things through and...
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    I feel like I owe my old friends an apology. I feel like I’m the reason a lot of my past relationships haven’t worked out. I feel like I’m always wasting time...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 6 days ago

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    Hi everyone! I guess I'll share my little troubles here since I'm tired of bugging my friends. I haven't told them this because they'll worry but I feel like I'll never find true...
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    I'm drowning in loneliness and confusion because no one understands what I feel or how I am, in this world filled with humans I feel so lonely. When I look in the mirror I don't...
    juliiie juliiie 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I have felt things in the past couple of months that I can't explain. And then in the last few weeks I have been bombarded with accident ( both to me and to others ). I am not...
    noreic123 noreic123 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Meanwhile my boyfriend is in NYC for a college course schmoozing with publishers and, after one day, got a job working for a cooking website from the publisher he is staying with...
    dendroica dendroica 22-25, F Apr 15

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    I feel alone and no one understands me....
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have overprotective parents who dont let me do anything, and the wont let me talk to my girlfriend anymore. I feel like i have nobody to turn to.
    bmcdill bmcdill 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I feel like giving up I have been depressed for over a year and a half I have good weeks and bad it really varies sometimes I am excited as hell and running round and motivated but...
    mellywoo mellywoo 13-15, F Apr 14

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    I feel like relapsing again. And it sucks. I'm not sure what to do.
    Silentscreamsx3 Silentscreamsx3 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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