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I Feel Like No One Wants Me Around

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    I often feel like I'm just kind of there,

    but not really a part of any group
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I Cant Tell If I'm Making It Up

    All my life i felt like people were tolerating me. like noone wants to be around me without other people. it might be my own social insecurities but i feel ignored most of the time. i have to repeat myself several times before someone gears what im saying even if its a good idea...
    Samara21 Samara21 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Do I Exist?

    So I recently returned to school. I'm in my 20's and have spent a couple years away from school working and I've finally gotten back and it's the first part of the semester so I'm trying to make friends. But here's the problem. I sit by someone in class and try talking to them...
    babco92 babco92 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    When Does It Get Better

    I'm 37, no kids, single and spent the larger part of my life alone. I hesitate to talk about me only because when I do people find it hard to believe I have lived this way. Well....here goes, As a child I was beat up by bullies; anywhere from 4 to 12 kids and as many times a day...
    Detimus Detimus 36-40 3 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    I Know The Feeling

    i try not to be a prude but i feel like no one wants me around. i'll always be needed and never wanted. i admit i am an asocial kind of person. i try but can't fit in anywhere. but when you think about it, the most brilliant minds were loners. my mind has opened to new ideas and...
    standalone1 standalone1 18-21 Nov 1, 2011

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    Not Wanted!

     I feel like my life is meaningless alot of the time. My adoptive family doesn't want me around. My friends don't right now.    Who does want me around any more.    I have people who care yes but no one that is close to me that I can trust that...
    kthimm1 kthimm1 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I Feel Like Everyone Uses Me

    I feel like all of my "friends" don't really want me around. I feel like they just use me for their own good. It's very rare that I get invited places, and when i do get invited somewhere i feel like they don't actually want me to be there.
    krist1quest krist1quest 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I'm Boring...

    I'm boring boring boring... really really really boring.. like to the extreme boring. No one has ever told me the I am interesting. they just are nice to me because I'm nice to everyone. But no one wants me around and no one cares. And I'm really beginning to not expect much from...
    puzzles100 puzzles100 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    All of the other students at collage

    and now my friends are shoving me away cos of my past yes I have done bad things in the past but have stopped Why can't people get over it
    tommo61 tommo61 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    When Does It Get Better II

    Love is something I have always known but for me it feels like standing just close enough to a open fire i.e. your close enough to barely feel the heat but it's never enough to keep you warm. My family, and friends love me but never have I known a love outside of that. I never...
    Detimus Detimus 36-40 Apr 17, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Believe

    There are days where I feel like my closest friends really don't care about me or like me. I have slight paranoia, so that's part of it but I've been used and lied to in the past. I get paranoid that that's what my friends are doing, using me. I have no idea what for, there's...
    NothingButNumbness NothingButNumbness 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    No One Wants Me

    my wife died 8 years ago christmas eve ever since then i have not been able to enjoy life anymore i have been trying to meet someone so i can be happy again but no one seems to want me the hoilday are coming again and i am alone i hate this i just want to be happy again it feels...
    tryingtofindtheone tryingtofindtheone 41-45 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    *sigh*

    I get this feeling more than often...Its a terrible ******* feeling to have, and one that I feel like i just can't shake it off sometimes.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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    Story Of My Life...

    For the past year i've been feeling very alone. I live at home with my step mother and father but i feel like it's always tense in the household. No one really ever talks to me, voluntarily. I always feel second best. I've had a boyfriend for close to 5 years now and lately, it...
    Brookelr Brookelr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Burden In Their Hands

    I just feel like a little burden all the time. I feel like I get in the way of the happiness and the tranquility of the people in my life.I have five good friends, and I get along with people in general; I certainly do not have any real enemies (except for this one insecure girl...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    When It Rain It Pours

    I am a very loyal, happy go lucky kind of person, I wear my heart on my sleeve. Lately I have been dealing with loneliness in my personal life, I dunno weather its because of my recent break up? But it just seems like when it rain it pours, not only that I lost my significant...
    poeticaznguy poeticaznguy 26-30 Dec 15, 2012

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    I feel at school that no one wants me sitting

    with them, when I get home I rarely get any messages from my "friends" they don't acknowledge me and my best friend doesn't care about me because she's so wrapped up in her love life
    jxnnaa jxnnaa 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Unreal

    I have a lot of really great friends. I have made the decision not to be romantically involved with anyone for a while now. Lately I feel like there is no one I feel truly comfortable around. I am a very secure person but whenever I'm upset about anything I...
    greatromances greatromances 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    ~ Ostracized

    i hate myself. i have always wanted to be an american (many many reasons) , they look so good, they are confident (well i can't stereotype all of them). i don't have much real friends. and my closest friend is leaving for norway soon (for 3-4 year) over this period, i am pretty...
    pokedesu pokedesu 13-15 2 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    Confused And Lost

    I'm 19 and I have no idea what to do with my life..military seemed like the answer but I can't even join. I have no interest in anything else I have no talents. Nothing. I feel like my parents don't want me around and I barely moved back in a week ago my mom is physically and...
    RecklessAndHopeless RecklessAndHopeless 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2013

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    Host Of A Ghost

    I feel like I am just a host to something bitter and old. I all want to do is sleep and read. 21 should be this amazing experience and I 21 and 2 and have had a **** hole of a time.... Why doesn't anyone like me? I know I'm bitter but I don't want to be, but it feels like I can't...
    Hostofaghost Hostofaghost 18-21 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    I'm in high school and I have a nice group of

    friends and a best friend. But I'm under the constant impression that I'm not wanted. My friends don't object to me being there but it would make no difference to them if I wasn't around. And the more I feel like this, the less confidence I have and the more I draw in on myself...
    madsted madsted 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I Will Take All The Kicks And Punches When I Am Down But When I Get Back Up I Will Be Gone

    I just recently went thru a break up, I have been with the person for 6 years. It started out just like any other relationship and its stages, we met we kissed we fell in love and now I am sheding a tear. We had so much future plans together, house, kids, careers, we can kiss...
    poeticaznguy poeticaznguy 26-30 Dec 15, 2012

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    No One Wants Me

    My boyfriend of over 2 years dumped me when I moved over 700 miles to go to school with him. I've tried working things out with him but last night he told me all I've done is slow him down even though he distracted me and insist we spend time together to the point that it made me...
    strugglebus8 strugglebus8 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Today right after class I was hanging out with

    the people that claim are my friends and they three if them kinda circled me out and excluded me but we walk home together and they just left me with out even saying bye because they all decided to hang out after school at one of their houses and they practically invited each...
    frozenkisses21 frozenkisses21 16-17, F Mar 21

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    Alone

    I have to wonder why i'm always alone. Nothing is random, no there is too much of a pattern in my life for it to be plain bad luck. The simplest conclusion is that i'm damaged and no one wants to deal with damaged goods. So I'm alone again, just the way i like it, right?
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I Know No One Wants Me Around

    It's a day I should be celebrating but I am alone. No one wants to be with me. My one friend just told me that he doesn't think we can be friends right now. I'm always alone. I don't know what's so wrong with me that no one wants me around. But I don't even want to e around me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    Ever since I can remember I've never had friends. In 50 years it hasn't changed. I am always there for people, I work hard at my job, I help people, and for some reason, no-one ever calls me, or invites me anaywhere, or helps me. I really feel like there's something wrong with me...
    smackey50 smackey50 51-55 4 Responses May 21, 2011

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    Nobody

    They never ask me to come into public with them and only talk to me in public places when it is required like for a class. They say I'm ugly and embarrassing to be seen with so they won't get laid. I've only ever been texted by my mom (yes I have NEVER EVER gotten a text from...
    Mansdarkness Mansdarkness 22-25 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I Just Don't Know

    I'm actually serious. Almost everyone at my school doesn't want to talk to me. The only throng that keeps me going is my future. Otherwise, I would have already ended my life. I think I am pretty. People tell me that. I'm insecure about the one thing most girls aren't. I hate my...
    cszarazua cszarazua 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    Eh...

    As much as it hurts, I'm used to it now. But I'm sure I'll find a place where I'm wanted, welcomed, and loved.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 21, 2011

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    Is It Me Or Them?

    i honestly cannot remember the last time i was invited to go somewhere or do something with a friend.i just feel unwanted, like they dont need me for anything but a cheap laugh.iv rly only ever helped 1 person.they r greatful and say im a wonderful person, but i just fee they r...
    sadKid34 sadKid34 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 5, 2009

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    No one wants me around

    and I know it for a fact. I have been told that no one wants me in this world. That I should die. That no one would miss me... I dont know what to do... I feel terrible...
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    No Friends?

    I have only a small bunch of friends but ever since they have had boyfriends(over a year this has been happening) I feel I am just pushed aside and they make me feel like I'm annoying them when I ask to do things with them. I'm the only one keeping the convo going or even...
    emgalpal emgalpal 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    What Ear?

    I always get ignored no one bothers to listen to me or to even ask if I'm ok. Everyone's doing there own thing and I feel like I don't even exist and no one seems to want me around at all because no one understand me and I honestly don't want to understand most other people. I...
    bunachan bunachan 18-21 3 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    No One Wants Me Around

    Ever since I've been 18 ive been going clubbing say about once a week I work part time but do full time hours sometimes I go to college so when I do go out with my Mates I like to make it a good night anyway one night I came home ands I was sick in my woodrob then sick out my...
    richardbrownz richardbrownz 18-21 Oct 4, 2011

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    Let's be honest we have all felt this way in

    some situations. Mostly in the dark deeps of depression. I'm 20 years old (April 14-2014) and have been cast out of my "group" of "friends." At work I am always looked at as a very articles individual with good morals and aditude. I feel as if I give everyone the benifits of the...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ghost

    Ill be hanging out with my family and friends kicking back having a few beers just relaxing. I'll talk loud enough so they can hear and be part of the conversation but it's like I'm not right there. I sometimes have to force myself in a conversation. Like I get over it but...
    Friendlymexican91 Friendlymexican91 18-21 Oct 20, 2012

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    Me Myself And I

    No matter where i am i am not really wanted there and it makes me feel so uncomfortable! I try and hide myself away as much as possible so they almost forget i am there ... I often wish i didn't have to depend on ANYONE for anything but sometimes i do need to. I have given my...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    :(

    I am a good looking guy who has a girlfriend who loves me very much lately i have been feeling neglected in the friends department. I had alot of things happen to me all at once that involved me moving out of my parents house and moving into my girlfriends parents house. "...
    Pulverizor Pulverizor 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    I Am Not Sure Why

    But it seems as if everywhere I go, I never fit in. No one asks me to hang out, and no one seems interested in getting to know me in any way. I am not sure how to change this. I feel like some freak whenever I go somewhere. Like my internship. Sure, the people are nice. But the...
    JubeJube1231 JubeJube1231 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    What Happened? I Use To Be Fun Right?

    Seems like every time I get into a relationship it's always the same. One of the things I fall in love with is...' this guy actually likes being around me!' not long after I let myself fall it happens. They stop listening to me, they stop talking to me, and before long I'm...
    deedrabree deedrabree 26-30 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Unwanted

    I have this pretty nice group of friends. They are all pretty great and I love them all. I love hanging out with them and doing all the weird/crazy things we do. But whenever I do hang out with them, I feel like no one really wants me around. In our group, there's only really 2...
    beautifulgoodbye beautifulgoodbye 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2013

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