I Feel Lonely At Christmas

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 172 People

    I haven't go back home too long.

    I felt lonely and nervous to talking to my family on Christmas
    yesdesn yesdesn
    22-25, M
    Dec 25, 2014

    What is your last comment

    for your last morning in 2014 mine is god please save my country because we are in a war with ISIS so we are not celebrating christmas
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    Christmas Blues

    I am a single Mom.  Divorced for three years.  Stuck in Alaska for at least another 5 years.  I want to be in love again.  Find my best friend.  I miss the sun.  I keep trying to get into Christmas for my kids sake.  But it is really hard this...
    akladymissingcasun akladymissingcasun
    46-50
    1 Response Dec 21, 2008

    I am always lonely during holidays

    and birthdays. I hope one day I can be around people who are important to me and be happy.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    Christmas is never the same without my mother

    (r.i.p) or my brother and nephew being so far away. Thank God for my bed friend and her family. Blessings from the most high. :) :) :)
    Melaninqueen Melaninqueen
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    This year gonna be so hard on me bc my bf is

    locked up another state & I'm afraid he's not gonna call on Christmas or New Years days which it's my birthday! I'd miss him so much! Idk what he's thinking or feel about me! I am so lost this holiday! At least I'll be spending time with my daughter & alone! It's so hard! I hope...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2014

    Loser

    I feel so alone at christmas even though i am married and my mom lives with me. Since i was 11 christmas has not meant much i had to get up by myself open my presents . When my sisters got married it felt like i no longer matterd to my parents. I have been married 14 yrs my...
    loserwife66 loserwife66
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2010
    juniorM789 juniorM789
    22-25, F
    Dec 25, 2014

    I Get Loanly At Times

           I get lonaly at times. I wish that I had someone to share this time of the year with. But I guess that wish will come true someday. I hate seeing all of the couples this time of the year. Its kind of hard to see them. For I don't have any one...
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2010

    I can't let you go superman.

    Every time I see your username on here and I see our comments on my posts I almost cry. I'm holding the tears back because I know you don't want me crying. You want me to be happy. Miss you soo much #ConnorFranta
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    This is not how I want to live.

    I'm tired of waking up alone on Christmas Day and every day in between. I thought I was a good person. I'm not sure what I did to deserve this loneliness.
    sofygraves sofygraves
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

    Its Too Quiet.._x

    at christmas it'll be me my mum my two brothers and my mum's boyfriend. i have a small family and those i have are scattered about we've never ever celabrated christmas all together. i long for the traditional family around the table thing. i just feel so alone at christmas, im...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

    It can be a difficult time of year.

    Many of us have experienced how the holiday season often magnifies certain distresses in our lives - the most prominent usually being loneliness. It can be an illness or loss of someone close that emphasizes a certain void. We just don't feel comfortable or complete. These, and...
    youzd youzd
    36-40, M
    Dec 25, 2015

    It's been my first Christmas in care this year.

    I think I felt quite lonely once all my carers family were round, because well I'm not really apart of the family. Christmas is supposed to be, what I think, 'family' time. It's like I didn't know where to turn to or who to talk to. I'd rather of been on my own, I don't know...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 25, 2014

    Sigh...

    Something about the Christmas holidays that I love so much. The snowy days, the decorations, wrapping presents, Christmas carols, the television specials. But I always end up with a feeling of being broken hearted. Like so many other things, I build it up in my head, just to get...
    sweetsie sweetsie
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    this song is made as campaign song ''stop abuse'' this is cover song,still beautiful in a differently way. i am also abuse survivor and this makes me cry and encouraged me always...
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    Thanksgiving and Christmas are my favorite holidays.
    EdwardKellner EdwardKellner
    41-45, M
    Apr 16
    He won't hold me tonight.
    Ivon33 Ivon33
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    2 Responses Apr 15
    There are days when sitting in the same room is lonely . I love my husband with all my heart and soul . when we met the chase his perspective on life dreams ambition morals where...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 14
    am feeling very lonely here someone to get alone with me now
    priscilladillson100 priscilladillson100
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    I want to be able to say I'm not lonely just because I'm alone, but it wouldn't be true. I am lonely. I have not one friend and the three I thought I had stopped talking to me it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 12
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    nocool nocool
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 11
    Well, not just tonight, but I've felt this way all day. Hell, practically this whole weekend. :/ I wish I didn't. I posted something like this last night as well, but I deleted it...
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    EridianaAndErin EridianaAndErin
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    Before I found EP, Lonely was just part of the day. It became the norm after ten years of my wife not having any physical touching due to her heart meds. My days were made up of...
    boldtimer boldtimer
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    Well I felt lonely then I got into EP and now it's going away so I guess bye everyone can't do anything about this now, time to be lonely again.
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    My boyfriend and I broke up last week and I am having a hard time getting over him....I need a friend tonight
    sweetcandyxo sweetcandyxo
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
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    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
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    boldtimer boldtimer
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    kinskibu kinskibu
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
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