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I Feel Lonely At Christmas

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    Something about the Christmas holidays that I love so much. The snowy days, the decorations, wrapping presents, Christmas carols, the television specials. But I always end up with a feeling of being broken hearted. Like so many other things, I build it up in my head, just to get...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Loser

    I feel so alone at christmas even though i am married and my mom lives with me. Since i was 11 christmas has not meant much i had to get up by myself open my presents . When my sisters got married it felt like i no longer matterd to my parents. I have been married 14 yrs my...
    loserwife66 loserwife66 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2010

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    I Have The Christmas Blues

    I feel so blah. I just have too much going on in my life and while i'm a happy person i'm not happy right now with some things in my life that I will be changing and have goals for this following year. I just am finding myself going deeper as Christmas approaches. I know it...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    Its Too Quiet.._x

    at christmas it'll be me my mum my two brothers and my mum's boyfriend. i have a small family and those i have are scattered about we've never ever celabrated christmas all together. i long for the traditional family around the table thing. i just feel so alone at christmas, im...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Get Loanly At Times

           I get lonaly at times. I wish that I had someone to share this time of the year with. But I guess that wish will come true someday. I hate seeing all of the couples this time of the year. Its kind of hard to see them. For I don't have any one...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2010

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    Christmas Blues

    I am a single Mom.  Divorced for three years.  Stuck in Alaska for at least another 5 years.  I want to be in love again.  Find my best friend.  I miss the sun.  I keep trying to get into Christmas for my kids sake.  But it is really hard this...
    akladymissingcasun akladymissingcasun 46-50 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    I just moved with my husband to Southern California! Well, of course I love having him around, but oftentimes I feel lonely and miss all my friends back home. I am from the east...
    jillhilal jillhilal 26-30, F Aug 6

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    Even if I have my family and my best friends with me; Thank God. But, sometimes I feel lonely, I want to love, be loved and feel special. I want to believe in true love, but it is...
    tudaisies tudaisies 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    At this moment and time I am feeling lonely... My sister is always getting male attention and all my friends have started dating.. So now its just me on my own. i must be the...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I feel like this is not a bad thing but more of a normal thing. Everyone feels lonely and left out sometimes.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I have come to the end of my sad lonely existence here in this lonely marriage time to make changes if only for my sanity his is making me poorly I can't do this anymore
    liberty22 liberty22 51-55, F Jul 31

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    I'm really lonely, I'm almost always around a group of people but I feel like I have no one I can truly be myself around like I can't talk to anyone freely -I always feel like...
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Lately, I have felt so lonely. I had people around me but I still feel all alone. No one to truly talk to about my life and feelings. I don't think anyone truly understands me. It...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I usually try to avoid parties. Cause when i go i cant seem to make friends. I always end up alone at my chair watching how everyone has a good time. When we r eating its not that...
    malu1835 malu1835 18-21, F Aug 2

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    me and my husband seldom talk and when the kids sleep, he sleeps too ! we didnt even chat or update each other's day. I am getting lonely and felt unloved after 10 years of...
    frusmummy frusmummy 31-35 1 Response Aug 2

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    As of late my whole world has turned upside down... My bestfriend/boyfriend moved away and everything has been slowly and unwelcomingly changing.. When he was here everything just...
    girlinterrupted96 girlinterrupted96 18-21, F Aug 3

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    I have so many people around me yet I am unsure of the life that I am leading because the closest people sometimes do the most surprising things to hurt you. They set up standards...
    transientfeelings transientfeelings 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    To anyone who reads this I want to point out this isn't some sort of pity party or a cry for help or anything; just me venting or whatever. So in 8 days (Aug 15) is my birthday...
    thedude5600 thedude5600 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I work in a cruise ship. I really need someone to chat with. Feeling really lonely.
    izaness izaness 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I guess i feel a little lonely today. I'm not gonna lie or fight it. Well, at least I got my dog with me lol off to study.. Some more.
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F a week ago

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    When I go back to university and my student house I'm not going to have any friends in my house and I haven't really got to know my course mates I'm going to be really lonely but I...
    annoyedgirl annoyedgirl 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I am lonely I just want a friend
    eddiehughes eddiehughes 46-50, M Aug 15

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    So I don't really feel that way now, but I often do... But so I thought this was interesting... I mentioned that I was broke lately, well I started doing stuff to try to fix that...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I think this is my problem a lot of the times. The reason I feel happy, sad, angry, depressed or bored is usually effected by being alone or feeling alone.. On here, I can be...
    heartdeflowerboys1 heartdeflowerboys1 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I feel like I have no passion. No interest. The world just exists and I just exist and there's no point. I feel broken. Everyone seems to have dreams and aspirations and I just...
    chels32 chels32 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anyone or talk to...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 18-21, M Aug 16

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    I just want someone to sit in bed with me so we can watch our favourite films together I can lean in their chest so they can tickle my neck and face and tell me I'm beautiful I...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I may not be able to express it in words, for I have tried the best of means but of no use...I feel unloved and hopeless and all sorts of negative things one can imagine of...I'm...
    natashaesor natashaesor 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Is there one night of the week that makes you feel more alone than others? For me it's Friday, the end of the Working week.
    clutterbuck clutterbuck 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I called my mom this evening to wish her an early happy birthday for tomorrow as I will be working then and not have a good moment to call her. She answered the phone happy and...
    namgal namgal 46-50, F Aug 2

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    I had a busy weekend. But I feel empty . Someone help me.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    We all have our sad moments. The good thing is to have the courage to regain freedom, be happy, realize and learn to bring back the love that you have for yourself before something...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    About a year back, i was away from my brother and sis in law..and my sis in law had an miscarriage around that time.. though she wasn't my responsibility i always blamed myself for...
    sunnsood sunnsood 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I just got finished crying my eyes out & walking around a park 9-10:13 pm . With no shoes i feel so loss & low (picture inside)
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    It kinda feels weird to know there's no one thinking about you in the entire planet
    ajvad ajvad 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    The last few days I just keep crying. I don't even know why half the time. Any issues I am having I don't even feel like I can talk to my friends. Sometimes I just wish I had a...
    justmee20 justmee20 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Wtf? what is happening? this loneliness feeling is cracking my soul like a cracking hammer. :( i like to have friends here and find a person to be my best friend. :(
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I have isolated myself through depression and anxiety so much that now I have no friends because the ones I had I pushed away and it's made me feel worse but my social phobia is...
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I feel that I lost my soul.
    Jms04 Jms04 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want my next boyfriend to also be my best friend
    Braecridhe Braecridhe 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    There's something that I will never ever forget. The time my ex girlfriend got fingered and sucked someone's else's **** while I was on the phone. The pain will never go away.
    shellzshawtee shellzshawtee 18-21, M Jul 28

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    But how do you meet people without looking odd? I mean sure, you suggest pubs, cafés etc. but let's be honest people go to these places with their friends rather than to meet new...
    amyvictoriaaa amyvictoriaaa 18-21, F Jul 29

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    The other night dear as I lay sleeping, I dreamt I held you in my arms. When I awoke dear, I was mistaken so I hung my head and cried.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Somebody who wants to chat With me? c:
    pinkunicornforever pinkunicornforever 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I just don't have anyone to talk, anyone to be with... Nobody cares about me...
    Ricking Ricking 18-21, M Aug 5

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    You know those days where you really need to a hug or talk but no one is beside you, so you just want to curl up in a ball and sleep until all your problems go away.....? And Wake...
    mssst mssst 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 13

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    i think it's only bc i'm always on my phone and have food shoved into my mouth, but whatever, their loss. i'm a fun person!!!
    queentheresa queentheresa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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