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I Feel Lonely At Christmas

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    I Get Loanly At Times

           I get lonaly at times. I wish that I had someone to share this time of the year with. But I guess that wish will come true someday. I hate seeing all of the couples this time of the year. Its kind of hard to see them. For I don't have any one...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2010

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    Christmas Blues

    I am a single Mom.  Divorced for three years.  Stuck in Alaska for at least another 5 years.  I want to be in love again.  Find my best friend.  I miss the sun.  I keep trying to get into Christmas for my kids sake.  But it is really hard this...
    akladymissingcasun akladymissingcasun 46-50 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    Sigh...

    Something about the Christmas holidays that I love so much. The snowy days, the decorations, wrapping presents, Christmas carols, the television specials. But I always end up with a feeling of being broken hearted. Like so many other things, I build it up in my head, just to get...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Loser

    I feel so alone at christmas even though i am married and my mom lives with me. Since i was 11 christmas has not meant much i had to get up by myself open my presents . When my sisters got married it felt like i no longer matterd to my parents. I have been married 14 yrs my...
    loserwife66 loserwife66 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2010

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    I Have The Christmas Blues

    I feel so blah. I just have too much going on in my life and while i'm a happy person i'm not happy right now with some things in my life that I will be changing and have goals for this following year. I just am finding myself going deeper as Christmas approaches. I know it...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    Its Too Quiet.._x

    at christmas it'll be me my mum my two brothers and my mum's boyfriend. i have a small family and those i have are scattered about we've never ever celabrated christmas all together. i long for the traditional family around the table thing. i just feel so alone at christmas, im...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I don't know where to start, i mean, i'm surprised that i come here to share my experience... I'm not someone how can really talk about the problemes that i struggle with in my...
    Ousss Ousss 18-21, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I hate when I feel so lonely . When I feel that way I just wanna cry and cry so much and eat as well idk y but I do.
    kikolola kikolola 18-21, F Sep 7

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    I guess i feel a little lonely today. I'm not gonna lie or fight it. Well, at least I got my dog with me lol off to study.. Some more.
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F Aug 20

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    Just lost another one of my great friends Idk what I did to deserve it. I am feeling very lonely though I honestly have no idea what to do now
    MsLouisLane MsLouisLane 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    lost my family.i feel depressed and lonely when i see people enjoying with their family.my relatives are damn fake,hence unreliable..please help
    tiktok234 tiktok234 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My nights have suddenly gotten lonely and depressing and I don't know what to do about it.
    SuperWomanFly SuperWomanFly 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    everyone around me either getting married or in a serious relationship and here I am, 21 years old who has never had a real boyfriend. I often find myself feeling so alone. I've...
    fmxo903 fmxo903 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I don't understand why i feel this way. Overall I don't think I can complain about anything in my life, yet I feel alone. I have tons of friends but none close. My two closes...
    Souldiscover Souldiscover 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I may not be able to express it in words, for I have tried the best of means but of no use...I feel unloved and hopeless and all sorts of negative things one can imagine of...I'm...
    natashaesor natashaesor 18-21, F Aug 23

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    I'm 38 years old, and from my earliest memories I have been alone. Only slightly after my first memory of loneliness came my first feeling of being undeserving. I grew up in a cold...
    solitary42 solitary42 36-40, M Aug 30

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    Sometimes I feel that life is against me. I've been trying so hard, and no matter how close I get, I always fail. I feel like a big loser and I spend most of my free time alone
    abkareno abkareno 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I hate these moments at night when I just feel so alone. Day time is not as bad because always busy with work or something. I try keep myself occupied at night but doesn't always...
    HeartbreakHotel87 HeartbreakHotel87 26-30, M Sep 1

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    I feel like everyone is moving on in life except me....I'm afraid i'm being left behind and i'm tired of this feeling.
    Mackieboo Mackieboo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I feel so alone in this big world
    thequitebutcuriousone thequitebutcuriousone 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Coming home, Waking up, Performing the mundane tasks of the day. I know I'm alone Facing struggles, Facing fears, Torturing myself reliving mistakes. I feel alone...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Even though life is going pretty great, I can't help but notice this huge void in my life. I'm missing someone else to share my life with. To share myself with. I have all the time...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm in a queer based fraternity that said they valued brotherhood and here I am alone. They forgot about me. I hate this feeling. I hate them.
    louistoblerone louistoblerone 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    When I'm caught in a net and I haven't a clue All I've got to do is climb the ladder to you Climb the Ladder When there are ghosts in my coat and everything is askew All I've got...
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I only feel like this when Blake is gone for a trip around the world :(
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Another day gone, another day I did nothing with myself. I lay here wasting away my life and I'm bringing everyone down with me. I hate feeling the way I do. It's so controlling...
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    It's like guys are avoiding me :(
    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    no one ever want's to talk unless they need something, i hate being alone.
    jos951 jos951 18-21, M Aug 23

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    I live in another country with my wife. I haven't made friends and I miss home so much. I just need someone to talk openly to.
    abkareno abkareno 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    The loneliness always hits hardest at night
    qeust24 qeust24 18-21, M Sep 11

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    Someone could join me in bed for a bit of fun. Girl or boy, I don't mind;)
    chloelou chloelou 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Its normal for my phone not to ring or not to get a text message all day.on my Fridays and weekends off its normal to stay home alone.it makes me sad
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Grieving on my fathers death. He left us last night.
    misscloseup misscloseup 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't stop wishing he was here....but he's sooo far away... :'(
    Tara20 Tara20 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate waking up every morning to face the day alone. I wish I has some one to kiss me goodbye when I leave for work. I want some one to talk to about my day. I wish I had some one...
    unheardvoice14 unheardvoice14 36-40, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm trying to be a good friend but he's not letting me. At this point I don't know how to help him. Maybe the best thing he needs is other people, maybe I can't really help in this...
    louistoblerone louistoblerone 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I wish I had more people to talk to :( sucks
    SmileAlexandra SmileAlexandra 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    10 Tips on How to Work Through Feelings of Social Isolation: 1. Stop comparing your life to the lives of others. Absolutely everything you “know” about others is based on...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Without the constant rummaging of hormones through my veins, I am suddenly left not feeling compelled to live my life through a social channel.... If the last few weeks of my life...
    99hello99 99hello99 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't always feel lonely, but it does hit me sometimes on the weekends when I see couples or groups of people having fun and laughs on a patio. Mostly I enjoy my solitary...
    meggerz14 meggerz14 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    I have my precious baby girl with me who I take care of daily and I love. My house is always loud and never empty but I just can't help but to feel lonely. After my last...
    Chelsea21216 Chelsea21216 18-21, F Sep 7

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    So I am a really easy to get along with, friendly person. I meet a lot of people everywhere I go and always leave a great first impression, but I kinda hit a dead end after that...
    LonelyAsAllHell LonelyAsAllHell 22-25, F 10 Responses