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I Feel Lonely At Christmas

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 169 People

    I can't let you go superman.

    Every time I see your username on here and I see our comments on my posts I almost cry. I'm holding the tears back because I know you don't want me crying. You want me to be happy. Miss you soo much #ConnorFranta
    WaitingForSuperman WaitingForSuperman 16-17, F Dec 6, 2014

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    What is your last comment

    for your last morning in 2014 mine is god please save my country because we are in a war with ISIS so we are not celebrating christmas
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Sigh...

    Something about the Christmas holidays that I love so much. The snowy days, the decorations, wrapping presents, Christmas carols, the television specials. But I always end up with a feeling of being broken hearted. Like so many other things, I build it up in my head, just to get...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Christmas is never the same without my mother

    (r.i.p) or my brother and nephew being so far away. Thank God for my bed friend and her family. Blessings from the most high. :) :) :)
    Melaninqueen Melaninqueen 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    Its Too Quiet.._x

    at christmas it'll be me my mum my two brothers and my mum's boyfriend. i have a small family and those i have are scattered about we've never ever celabrated christmas all together. i long for the traditional family around the table thing. i just feel so alone at christmas, im...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Get Loanly At Times

           I get lonaly at times. I wish that I had someone to share this time of the year with. But I guess that wish will come true someday. I hate seeing all of the couples this time of the year. Its kind of hard to see them. For I don't have any one...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2010

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    Christmas Blues

    I am a single Mom.  Divorced for three years.  Stuck in Alaska for at least another 5 years.  I want to be in love again.  Find my best friend.  I miss the sun.  I keep trying to get into Christmas for my kids sake.  But it is really hard this...
    akladymissingcasun akladymissingcasun 46-50 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    Loser

    I feel so alone at christmas even though i am married and my mom lives with me. Since i was 11 christmas has not meant much i had to get up by myself open my presents . When my sisters got married it felt like i no longer matterd to my parents. I have been married 14 yrs my...
    loserwife66 loserwife66 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2010

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    This year gonna be so hard on me bc my bf is

    locked up another state & I'm afraid he's not gonna call on Christmas or New Years days which it's my birthday! I'd miss him so much! Idk what he's thinking or feel about me! I am so lost this holiday! At least I'll be spending time with my daughter & alone! It's so hard! I hope...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    It's been my first Christmas in care this year.

    I think I felt quite lonely once all my carers family were round, because well I'm not really apart of the family. Christmas is supposed to be, what I think, 'family' time. It's like I didn't know where to turn to or who to talk to. I'd rather of been on my own, I don't know...
    ExPButterfly ExPButterfly 16-17, F Dec 25, 2014

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    I haven't go back home too long.

    I felt lonely and nervous to talking to my family on Christmas
    yesdesn yesdesn 18-21, M Dec 25, 2014

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    juniorM789 juniorM789 22-25, F Dec 25, 2014

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    This is not how I want to live.

    I'm tired of waking up alone on Christmas Day and every day in between. I thought I was a good person. I'm not sure what I did to deserve this loneliness.
    sofygraves sofygraves 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Today is one of those days when on the loneliness seeps to the soul. It gnaws at the heart and sinks it fangs into my veins. My last relationship ended over a year ago. The lack of...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    It feels like I go from place to place and never settle, and never properly get to know people. This gives a certain sense of freedom but at the same time a real feeling of...
    thatfeelwhen thatfeelwhen 18-21, F Mar 9

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    What does being lonely mean? Well to me it's being by yourself With no one, no physical contact that we all crave, no one to say how much they missed you today no one remembering...
    JustBeYourSelff JustBeYourSelff 22-25, M Mar 13

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    Yah, as of the weekend, Im a lonely person, I enjoy talking face-to-face or at least chatting or texting. Anyone wanna chat, just feel free to message me. Ill especially respond if...
    Tak162015 Tak162015 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Im overall a lonely person
    Makurat7 Makurat7 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I feel his love for me fading away and it's literally like being brutally murdered over and over and over again...he completes me, makes me a better person, makes me feel loved and...
    XxMisguidedxGhostxX XxMisguidedxGhostxX 13-15, F Mar 13

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    I just hate feeling this way.. I feel like no one is there when I need them and everyone who actually wants to talk to me just wants to ask questions about my private life.. I just...
    Aidree Aidree 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I'm friends with almost every single person in my school, yet I never get invited to go out with anyone. I feel like nobody really cares about me. Even though while I walk in the...
    futuremike1 futuremike1 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I want to transform into a girl. A sexy girl. IT is my dream but I Still cant dare to take the step. I feel un supported. Would LOVE to have someone to talk to and also...
    Alexis55 Alexis55 36-40, M Mar 16

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    it's only been a couple weeks since my soldier left but nights are so difficult for me to get through. I wonder what he's doing and how he's feeling or whether he misses me..i know...
    angieeM angieeM 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i often get lost in the thought on life. Its so powerful. There is so much wonder on how everything is so perfect that life goes on everyday without a single glitch,fault or some...
    SeJunior SeJunior 18-21, M Mar 2

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    I just need someone to talk to....
    avnn avnn 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    He doesn't talk to me for days but he can be on facebook. I am use to it because he is a marine. But it hurts knowing that he rather be on Facebook then then talk to me. I don't...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    She ignores me most of the time, and won't touch me anymore. She smiles and pretends that everything is fine, but she preoccupies herself with hobbies and often sleeps in the other...
    CalvertJ CalvertJ 46-50, M Mar 3

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    Not sexualy. i just want to cuddle
    Kanimaz Kanimaz 13-15, F Mar 5

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    It sucks. I see all my friends getting to hang out with their bestfriends and it makes me miss my bestfriend. Its been almost 6 years since the last time i hung out with him. We...
    arias831 arias831 22-25, M Mar 7

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    Does anyone want to talk like for hours Someone that isn't lame or old I'm just upset
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    It descends without warning and surrounds you. A smokey fog, thick and oppressive making it hard to breathe and your chest hurts from the effort. You can't see what's in front of...
    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 8

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    This is why I have social anxiety. This is why I don't like talking to a lot of people. This is why my room is my safe haven.
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Random nights come up where I remember falling asleep in my ex's arms, and I can't fall asleep now bc my bed is so big and empty without them.
    fawnprince fawnprince 16-17, T Mar 9

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    I don't feel sorry for myself. I don't feel the need to be needy. Do I feel lonely? Yes but it's okay,I can live with this feeling because I understand why I am lonely. Life can...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so lonely. I've always been lonely, but I don't think I've ever been as much as I am now. I love being alone, but it's because I can't be left alone that it makes me feel...
    BlueRio BlueRio 18-21, F Mar 2

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    I'm always lonely.too lonely to feel so.. i'm numb. i don't feel i am lonely like other people feels lol But today i..feel lonely very much. if you need company,pm me. nothing...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    said it once and il say it again im married but lonely as times goes by problems I dont confrot just get worse mariage is not punishment allways oposition allways agrersive...
    sirpercival sirpercival 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I mean go out with people and all they do is judge very hard others, gossiping about them like there arent any other things in peoples lives. When i don't want to prarticipate in...
    Joannaa21 Joannaa21 18-21, F Mar 16

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    A lot of the reason behind why I'm sad and alone is that I'm too picky. I have this idea in my head of what kind of guy I'd like to date, but that isn't why I'm still single and...
    hniki21 hniki21 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dont get why but i feel lonely a lot, im engaged but still feel lonely at times
    kait1121 kait1121 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 10

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    I feel this deep emptiness filling every inch inside of me. Maybe it the result of my impatience to move forward. I want to leap but things in life are not obtained in a single...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Alright so tonight I went to a quinceñera.. and I thought it would take my mind off things you know this from home and tired of feeling unimportant but sadly I felt very...
    betsyfloyd betsyfloyd 13-15, F Mar 15

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