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I Feel Lonely At Christmas

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 168 People

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    I feel so alone at christmas even though i am married and my mom lives with me. Since i was 11 christmas has not meant much i had to get up by myself open my presents . When my sisters got married it felt like i no longer matterd to my parents. I have been married 14 yrs my...
    loserwife66 loserwife66 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2010

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    I can't let you go superman.

    Every time I see your username on here and I see our comments on my posts I almost cry. I'm holding the tears back because I know you don't want me crying. You want me to be happy. Miss you soo much #ConnorFranta
    HisMsLane HisMsLane 16-17, F Dec 6, 2014

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    Christmas is never the same without my mother

    (r.i.p) or my brother and nephew being so far away. Thank God for my bed friend and her family. Blessings from the most high. :) :) :)
    Melaninqueen Melaninqueen 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    This year gonna be so hard on me bc my bf is

    locked up another state & I'm afraid he's not gonna call on Christmas or New Years days which it's my birthday! I'd miss him so much! Idk what he's thinking or feel about me! I am so lost this holiday! At least I'll be spending time with my daughter & alone! It's so hard! I hope...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    It's been my first Christmas in care this year.

    I think I felt quite lonely once all my carers family were round, because well I'm not really apart of the family. Christmas is supposed to be, what I think, 'family' time. It's like I didn't know where to turn to or who to talk to. I'd rather of been on my own, I don't know...
    ExPButterfly ExPButterfly 16-17, F Dec 25, 2014

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    juniorM789 juniorM789 22-25, F Dec 25, 2014

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    Sigh...

    Something about the Christmas holidays that I love so much. The snowy days, the decorations, wrapping presents, Christmas carols, the television specials. But I always end up with a feeling of being broken hearted. Like so many other things, I build it up in my head, just to get...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    What is your last comment

    for your last morning in 2014 mine is god please save my country because we are in a war with ISIS so we are not celebrating christmas
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    This is not how I want to live.

    I'm tired of waking up alone on Christmas Day and every day in between. I thought I was a good person. I'm not sure what I did to deserve this loneliness.
    sofygraves sofygraves 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I Get Loanly At Times

           I get lonaly at times. I wish that I had someone to share this time of the year with. But I guess that wish will come true someday. I hate seeing all of the couples this time of the year. Its kind of hard to see them. For I don't have any one...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2010

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    Christmas Blues

    I am a single Mom.  Divorced for three years.  Stuck in Alaska for at least another 5 years.  I want to be in love again.  Find my best friend.  I miss the sun.  I keep trying to get into Christmas for my kids sake.  But it is really hard this...
    akladymissingcasun akladymissingcasun 46-50 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    I haven't go back home too long.

    I felt lonely and nervous to talking to my family on Christmas
    yesdesn yesdesn 22-25, M Dec 25, 2014

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    Its Too Quiet.._x

    at christmas it'll be me my mum my two brothers and my mum's boyfriend. i have a small family and those i have are scattered about we've never ever celabrated christmas all together. i long for the traditional family around the table thing. i just feel so alone at christmas, im...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    JackReich JackReich 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I know how it feels, so message me if your justy feeling like theres no one to talk to, or any reason :) cause maybe all you need is just someone to help show you your not alone...
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    I dontknkw why, but when im with most people, im in my own little psychological world, made up of just me and my thoughts....holler to all you natural loners out there, I know how...
    Zionari Zionari 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Anyone up and want to talk?
    DesertRose713 DesertRose713 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Does anyone wants to talk?
    clevernikname clevernikname 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    When loneliness is your future, solitude is your only companion
    extex59 extex59 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Ninive Ninive 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    snstewa1 snstewa1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    my secret lover went away for 5 days. and I cn barely survive. I tried another alternative guy who is cute and so much fun to talk with. . but didn't work. He's still on my mind.
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    CindersAndSmokes CindersAndSmokes 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    eternitygoeson eternitygoeson 13-15, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    why is it so hard for people to care about me or love me?
    eternitygoeson eternitygoeson 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I get close to you, we bond, then you disappear. why? what's wrong with me? why does everyone leave? am I boring? am I not fun? am I annoying? I guess it's all of them. I really...
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    maxos maxos 31-35, M Apr 18

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    I have a lot of people around me, but the majority of them are professionals involved in my care. I have one family member i'm close to but I can't talk to him when i'm lonely or...
    LinkinParkMuse LinkinParkMuse 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm just a girl who feels lonely, but has probably no real reason to feel that way. I have good friends, a loving family and a nice life. No bf though. And I just... feel lonely. I...
    Justagirl1996 Justagirl1996 18-21 4 Responses Apr 14

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    So I typed in "feeling lost in my 20's" on google and this app popped up. Basically, I do love being sociable and having a good Chin wag but working in London with weird hours...
    NurseR1265 NurseR1265 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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