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I Feel Lonely, My Bed Is Empty

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    It'S A Bad Feeling

    I would like to have one of these girls.
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Apr 1, 2013

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    Kingsized And Plenty Of Room

    ...as the saying goes.. ..Counted the years as months ..Counted the months as weeks ..Counted the weeks as days ..But the days only seemed longer.... The past six months seem to have whizzed past. EP playing a big part. The previous period though was not so... ...hugs and...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Mar 6, 2013

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    It'd be so sweet to wake up on a rainy day with

    his arms around me. Our bodies warming each other up so sweetly :)
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Last Night

    I have a big glorious bed. King size, Big head and foot boards and plenty of pillows. It's one of the few things I have ever purchased that is just for my benefit.It's funny, to me, that I have such a bed. I have spread completely out and would have little room to share but that...
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 2 Responses May 25, 2011

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    Well Not Completely....

    It's filled with animals but i'd gladly kick them off the bed for a nice warm human body. Preferably male. :)
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    My Bed Is Always Empty

    My bed has been empty for six months my bf hasnt spent the night. I hope we move in with eachother soon I hate not being able to see hold touch kiss n do naughty stuff with. It sux but I knw I shld be happy that I even have a bf but damn I be feeling lonely
    DESIRE326 DESIRE326 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Most Nights I Put Off Laying Down For The Night Because Of This

    because i know that i will be laying in an empty bed.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M May 5, 2011

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    There's a man in my bed.

    ... Eeeeeeek! Don't panic! Oh. It's just my husband. Time for our monthly thing. It's his conjugal visit. Yay me!
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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    I Can't Take This Much Longer...

    I'm cold, I'm lonely and I know I'm worth having somebody to hold. I will love this person forever in loyalty and I don't necessarily mean romantically. I am 100% serious now, but perhaps I'm just being a sop.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 26 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Jsimar21 Jsimar21 18-21, M Mar 7

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    I Hate Myself For Letting You Walk Away! My Chubby Hubby

    "I hate myself because I am not worth you! I never deserved you probably thats why God has taken you away from me. We dont talk, we dont fight but I miss you my Mr. Right! " This is what goes on in my mind. Im rude, ignorant stupid and very very notwortharelationship that is why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 20, 2012

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    It really sucks to have a kingsize bed

    and not have someone in it beside me. That's alot of empty space. I love having a soft warm woman beside me to roll over, wrap my arms around and snuggle our naked bodies together with. i also miss not being able to reach over and run my fingers through a woman's beautiful hair...
    Bandit1812 Bandit1812 41-45, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Hate The Lonlyness Of Sleeping On My Own

    for 27 years i shared my bed with my dear wife but since i lost her almost a year ago i have slept on my own but the bed is just to big i toss and turn all night long and i think this is because in my head i am wanting to snugle up as i used to but then i wake up because there is...
    tez49 tez49 46-50, M Dec 25, 2010

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    Temporarily Misplaced

    I may not have the best story in here but I have one just the same. I am 25 so I realize I haven't been looking as long as others but I finally found who I am supposed to be with and she isn't here. She is in the hospital for a little while. This bed is entirely too big without...
    anubrid anubrid 22-25, M 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    He has to come back to me,

    I can't endure this, I'm too lonely. Sleeping alone is a great torture.
    ChizzyVanGogh ChizzyVanGogh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Ladies Night Out...

    ...was fun. I love my girls. I can be open with them about anything. And they always make me laugh. But I still feel lonely. Being downtown and seeing all those couples around me laughing, holding hands, rubbing on each other as if they will never get enough. I was jealous and...
    strangersnthenite strangersnthenite 22-25, F Jul 14, 2012

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    It sucks when you go from sharing a bed with

    someone for 7yrs to sleeping alone... I miss holding someone at night and them holding me... Just knowing they are there with you holding you and protecting you I miss that feeling... Now it's hard to sleep at night :(
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Loveless Bed

    how i wish i really don't have to wait when will be the next time i would cuddle you on my bed, so i can kiss your worries away and hug the troubles at bay. fate may never be kind for the two of us because we have to endure the pain of the past how lonely it is to let the day...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    I've Been Alone The Past 2 Years...

    and it's not getting any easier. I have 2 cats but cats do not a relationship make - well, they aren't human even if they seem to talk to me and understand what I say to them at times! I miss having male companionship and wish I could have a lasting, fulfilling relationship...
    BlueVelvetCake BlueVelvetCake 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Alone And Lonely

    My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me.... so thats why I have an empty bed, I do feel very lonely because he is always on my mind and I miss him, but its worse at night because i miss his touch, his smell, his warmth, cuddling together and falling asleep in his arms. So I dont...
    AgeIsJustAnumber AgeIsJustAnumber 36-40, F Jul 29, 2012

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    I am writing this in the hopes of saving some

    people out there and to share my pain as well. Suicide is not a cowardly act as so many of us may have believed before. yes i know the cliche's, "Oh they weren't "Brave" enough to face the pain", Well killing yourself takes alot of courage. I had a friend hang himself over ten...
    Bandit1812 Bandit1812 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I'm Hung!

    I never really had any problems growing up, until the ripe age of my sophomore year. I used to be able to laugh so hard until my stomach hurt. That is a feeling long gone for me, as in my main years from Sophi-Junior years I would feel an urge to drop to the ground after laughing...
    HungTrinh HungTrinh 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Can't Sleep Well At Nights

    When I put my head on my pillow, just can't sleep. I just feel something's missing in my life. I start thinking and eye-balling around the room, I just find a pillow next to me I wanna think I'm touching that person, I wanna convince my intellectual mind that I'm touching you...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 15, 2011

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    For Awhile !

    I have been lonely in my bed for sometime now ! To beat the blues I have to get a hotel with that special someone !
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Staying Up Late

    After so many years being in bed alone just the fact that I have to do so every night is constant reminder that all is not well in our marriage. It is not that I need to be reminded I can assure you, but when I understand that it has a much deeper meaning then staying up late...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 29, 2012

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    I Miss Her

    Now this isn't really a normal "my bed is empty" because mine isn't about a girl, or even a boy. My dog. I always wanted a dog growing up and I finally got one my Sophmore year of high school on april fool's day. It started as an April Fool's joke for my dad and brother with me...
    Jeffyc Jeffyc 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Hate The Lonlyness Of Sleeping On My Own

    for 27 years i shared my bed with my dear wife but since i lost her almost a year ago i have slept on my own but the bed is just to big i toss and turn all night long and i think this is because in my head i am wanting to snugle up as i used to but then i wake up because there is...
    tez49 tez49 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    Come Over......

    I'll leave the door unlocked.  When you arrive, just let yourself in.  GO up the stairs and my bedroom is the one on the left.  Just slide right in.  There's plenty of room for you in my king-sized bed.  I don't want you sleeping at the edge of the bed.  I want you to be...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Feel Lonely

    I wanna cuddle with that specials girl and warm her up and keep her safe but :( I just can't find that girl
    BeatMymeatallnight BeatMymeatallnight 16-17, M Oct 24, 2012

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    Tired Of Being Lonely.

    I always ended up experiencing a failure whenever I was trying to build a relationship with a man. It is just not happening for me. I try to meet as many people as possible out there, because I want to show the aether how much I no longer want to be lonely, how much I need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    I Feel Alone

    For some reason the only time feeling alone bugs me is when I'm going to bed. I want someone sleeping next to me. I stay up late because of this and have a hard time falling asleep. Sometimes i grab one of my pillows and hold to try and replace the empty feeling i have when...
    ShaneStoner ShaneStoner 18-21, M May 25, 2012

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    love is not forever

    Wish I could stop the sorrow at bay hold me and kiss me, please don't go away Should turn on the  music so we could sway Let's have our last dance, maybe you'll stay With toneless emotion, you  painfully share "I can never be a friend,I know it's unfair Tis hard to...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 12 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    So horny!!!im just so

    so honey!!!shame to say this but...need a guy to warm my bed and be my first<3 <3
    Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Being Dirt :p

    U gotta have fun in ur life I may be a dirty person but if u see me in real life ;) hehe I'm crazy dirty :P don't hate mf
    BeatMymeatallnight BeatMymeatallnight 16-17, M Oct 24, 2012

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    I Miss Him

    I miss my ex. I miss cuddling With him in his bed. I miss spending time with him during the weekends. I miss how sweet and genuine he is. I miss the intimacy we had. To bad it would never work out. To bad I did not feel I was deserving of him. He will make some lucky lady very...
    radiantsky radiantsky 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    The Music And My Thoughts

    Laying in bed listening to love songs ( musiq soul child pandora) ... I am so ******* lonely. I wish I had someone here to cuddle with me. Being single sucks : (
    Netabell Netabell 26-30, F Aug 29, 2013

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    Why Be Married If Your So Lonely!!

    Well ive been married for 13yrs i have for four kids and my husband believes that making money and impressing others is important his been the only man ive been with am afraid to met someone because am afraid i might feels stuff i never felt before and want more
    Unfold Unfold 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Hokey1 Hokey1 22-25, M Mar 5

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    I Have Not Been With A Women In 1o Years And Its Lonely

    I miss it ..someone to hold all night someone to be there when you have a bad dream ..its a lonely world out there
    JOEYORIO JOEYORIO 51-55, M Jul 23, 2013

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    I Want My Person

    I am tired of going to bed with no one next to me I want that person I can share the rest of my life with. I feel like there is something wrong with me that I am going to be 30 and still no one and thats killing me I just want that person that makes me feel happy and sad and...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    My bed feels cold... I think I was not made to

    be loved or desired as a man.
    viktorwolfman viktorwolfman 18-21, M Mar 13

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    seanc9 seanc9 18-21, M Apr 11

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    Alone

    I lost my girl friend to some guy in California right now my life seems so empty because this is not the first time i have been cheated on and left alone as time goes on i feel as though i am getting used to it yet every day there are those small reminders hits me hard and i...
    PhazonMario PhazonMario 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Vacancy on the right side of my bed - I am 26

    and have had many short term relationships in my adult life. I always find fault.... I don't know what I'm looking for but I'm afraid I am going to make myself a lonely old woman with a flat full of cats!!!!! I think maybe I'm not attracting the right kind of men, I am...
    CurvyRach CurvyRach 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    My Story

    This is the story of my lost relationship  and my life,its ups and downs over the past 12 years. Well it's been 7 weeks since Jo left, she left on 07/03/12 it's been hard trying to get through this, but I know I need to, the road ahead seems to be full of the unknown and it's a...
    Bigpablo78 Bigpablo78 31-35, M Jul 12, 2012

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    Half True

    Well, my bed isn't empty. I'm surrounded by pillows unless I accidently kick them off during the night. Actually, I can't remember the last time I didn't lose any pillows during the night. One for my head, one between my knees (hip problems), one for my feet (my ankles get stiff...
    mononoaware mononoaware 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    I Feel So Alone

    I fall asleep so much faster when someone is holding me, I feel so safe when someone holds me. I have a big pink pillow that I curl up with in place of someone else. Its not the same but its something to hold onto while I sleep, I just wish it held me back.
    bookworm92 bookworm92 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2011

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