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I Feel Lonely, My Bed Is Empty

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    Loneliness has been a reoccurring theme in my

    life. When I was just an adolescent I remember riding my bike alone after school and wondering why I never had a girlfriend. My race hasn't really helped a whole lot throughout. If I believed in God I would probably believe that God made Asian American men so that loneliness...
    Timanonymous Timanonymous 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 18, 2014

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    It's nights like these.

    When it's late. Not a sound in the house and I can't sleep,that I miss having someone to cuddle. Just to lay back and listen to the sound of another breathing. And the warmth of the loved one next to you.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    all the stress of everyday life has got me down.

    my woman left town. wishing she was in my arms right now. aqui en mis brazos amor
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    I Feel Alone

    For some reason the only time feeling alone bugs me is when I'm going to bed. I want someone sleeping next to me. I stay up late because of this and have a hard time falling asleep. Sometimes i grab one of my pillows and hold to try and replace the empty feeling i have when...
    ShaneStoner ShaneStoner 22-25, M May 25, 2012

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    This is ridiculous. I have a queen size bed,

    I should not be sleeping alone in this thing
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 27

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    I cannot be with my girl,

    kind of sucks and is empty. It is hard to love someone who is away.
    killerjrm killerjrm 18-21, M Dec 16, 2014

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    I had a busy weekend.

    But I feel empty . Someone help me.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Vacancy on the right side of my bed - I am 26

    and have had many short term relationships in my adult life. I always find fault.... I don't know what I'm looking for but I'm afraid I am going to make myself a lonely old woman with a flat full of cats!!!!! I think maybe I'm not attracting the right kind of men, I am...
    CurvyRach CurvyRach 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Someone could join me in bed

    for a bit of fun. Girl or boy, I don't mind;)
    chloelou chloelou 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    I loved this girl that I spent 3 years of my

    life with and a month ago today I walked in on her having sex with a guy she introduced me to a couple months ago....it was on our anniversary for our 3 years....is it suppose to hurt this much?....
    cchhrriiss cchhrriiss 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I Miss Her

    Now this isn't really a normal "my bed is empty" because mine isn't about a girl, or even a boy. My dog. I always wanted a dog growing up and I finally got one my Sophmore year of high school on april fool's day. It started as an April Fool's joke for my dad and brother with me...
    Jeffyc Jeffyc 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    sprocket100 sprocket100 26-30, M Jan 28

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    It sucks when you go from sharing a bed with

    someone for 7yrs to sleeping alone... I miss holding someone at night and them holding me... Just knowing they are there with you holding you and protecting you I miss that feeling... Now it's hard to sleep at night :(
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    I Can't Take This Much Longer...

    I'm cold, I'm lonely and I know I'm worth having somebody to hold. I will love this person forever in loyalty and I don't necessarily mean romantically. I am 100% serious now, but perhaps I'm just being a sop.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 25 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    im gonna think im not good

    for anyone. im kinda emotional and weird sometime but im nice and sweet im gay dreaming for a guy of my age to date and i hug my pillow crying in the night cuz i hate myself and my deepest dream is to fly away
    puppySmexyBoy puppySmexyBoy 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I Want My Person

    I am tired of going to bed with no one next to me I want that person I can share the rest of my life with. I feel like there is something wrong with me that I am going to be 30 and still no one and thats killing me I just want that person that makes me feel happy and sad and...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Hey, I would love to chat with someone I'm

    really lonely, please be friendly, I've had a **** day and am dreading going to work tomorrow, put me to sleep, tell me a story or just chew the fat.. Plsss
    chazwozza chazwozza 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Yurpiti Yurpiti 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I thought this guy I was talking to liked me.

    . I really did.. After last night I just feel stupid for ever thinking anyone could. Why would they. I always tell myself I am not gonna get my hopes up, but I always do. I just wish everyone would leave me alone so I don't have to be disappointed by them.
    madsgrammar madsgrammar 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I am writing this in the hopes of saving some

    people out there and to share my pain as well. Suicide is not a cowardly act as so many of us may have believed before. yes i know the cliche's, "Oh they weren't "Brave" enough to face the pain", Well killing yourself takes alot of courage. I had a friend hang himself over ten...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I Feel So Alone

    I fall asleep so much faster when someone is holding me, I feel so safe when someone holds me. I have a big pink pillow that I curl up with in place of someone else. Its not the same but its something to hold onto while I sleep, I just wish it held me back.
    bookworm92 bookworm92 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Tired Of Being Lonely.

    I always ended up experiencing a failure whenever I was trying to build a relationship with a man. It is just not happening for me. I try to meet as many people as possible out there, because I want to show the aether how much I no longer want to be lonely, how much I need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Honestly! Do I get on a plane ,

    reach my husband, F his brains out and mine too, then return ? WTF it's been more than a month. I CANT any more. I might slip, and that wont be pretty
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I can't stop wishing he was here.

    ...but he's sooo far away... :'(
    Tara20 Tara20 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    karthik235 karthik235 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    I just miss my friends

    so much. I miss sharing my life with them and its so lonely at night and god it just hurts and I don't know how to move forward
    ShakespearewasWrong ShakespearewasWrong 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    So horny!!!im just so

    so honey!!!shame to say this but...need a guy to warm my bed and be my first<3 <3
    Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Curseoftheblade Curseoftheblade 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    fabulouschrissy fabulouschrissy 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    For Awhile !

    I have been lonely in my bed for sometime now ! To beat the blues I have to get a hotel with that special someone !
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I'm alone by choice..

    .. But nights like this I wish I didn't have to be alone. My bed is no longer a welcoming place. Just a place to sleep, even if it's restlessly thru the night.
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2014

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    That's the reason I'm

    so sick of love songs So tired of tears So done with wishing you were still here Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow So why can't I turn off the radio?
    NewBeginnings5 NewBeginnings5 26-30 Nov 5, 2014

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    I feel sad, lonely, horny

    and upset today. I'm all alone and mad. Need to get laid... Please let tomorrow be a better day.
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    Here I am again...tired from not sleeping.

    ..Sad from not loving. I feel miserable again...here on this plane...Here on this earth. I've done it again...I stayed out all night. I feel it again...I dred this flight. Why? Because I'm sick...Sick of being owned... I write because I'm sick...Sick of being known. If I was...
    Iqbal13 Iqbal13 18-21, M Jun 12, 2014

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    I guess it happens however it's not fun.

    I feel it's really not that great when you do have someone in your bed and they don't want to be with you. So I'll pick the sleep alone option and hope one day I'll have an amazing person by my side again soon.
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 2

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    Come Over......

    I'll leave the door unlocked.  When you arrive, just let yourself in.  GO up the stairs and my bedroom is the one on the left.  Just slide right in.  There's plenty of room for you in my king-sized bed.  I don't want you sleeping at the edge of the bed.  I want you to be...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Late at night and feeling lonely.

    .. I wake up from the couch and drag myself to my bed. I have a gf but we sleep in separate rooms/beds. I don't want it to be that way...not in my future, not with somebody else. But at this moment in the late night, before drifting back asleep; I feel lonely and alone. I'm too...
    AfterToday AfterToday 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    It really sucks to have a kingsize bed

    and not have someone in it beside me. That's alot of empty space. I love having a soft warm woman beside me to roll over, wrap my arms around and snuggle our naked bodies together with. i also miss not being able to reach over and run my fingers through a woman's beautiful hair...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    love is not forever

    Wish I could stop the sorrow at bay hold me and kiss me, please don't go away Should turn on the  music so we could sway Let's have our last dance, maybe you'll stay With toneless emotion, you  painfully share "I can never be a friend,I know it's unfair Tis hard to...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    I hate waking up every morning to face the day

    alone. I wish I has some one to kiss me goodbye when I leave for work. I want some one to talk to about my day. I wish I had some one to look forward to coming home to.
    unheardvoice14 unheardvoice14 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Loveless Bed

    how i wish i really don't have to wait when will be the next time i would cuddle you on my bed, so i can kiss your worries away and hug the troubles at bay. fate may never be kind for the two of us because we have to endure the pain of the past how lonely it is to let the day...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 12 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Sometimes, I really hate being a night owl.

    .. That is the first thought that popped into my head while getting ready for bed (ritual-routine). But mainly it's my excuse to post something here. Late night dispatches from a separate bed... The first time I posted it felt good to communicate into the great unknown. Like...
    AfterToday AfterToday 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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