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I Feel Lonely, My Bed Is Empty

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    I am writing this in the hopes of saving some

    people out there and to share my pain as well. Suicide is not a cowardly act as so many of us may have believed before. yes i know the cliche's, "Oh they weren't "Brave" enough to face the pain", Well killing yourself takes alot of courage. I had a friend hang himself over ten...
    Bandit1812 Bandit1812 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I'm Hung!

    I never really had any problems growing up, until the ripe age of my sophomore year. I used to be able to laugh so hard until my stomach hurt. That is a feeling long gone for me, as in my main years from Sophi-Junior years I would feel an urge to drop to the ground after laughing...
    HungTrinh HungTrinh 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Well Not Completely....

    It's filled with animals but i'd gladly kick them off the bed for a nice warm human body. Preferably male. :)
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I Have Not Been With A Women In 1o Years And Its Lonely

    I miss it ..someone to hold all night someone to be there when you have a bad dream ..its a lonely world out there
    JOEYORIO JOEYORIO 51-55, M Jul 23, 2013

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    Somewhere She Is Out There

    Somewhere She is Out There “Somewhere she is out there, wondering, looking, searching, as I am. Somewhere she is out there, questioning, doubting, giving up hope, as I am. Somewhere she is out there, wondering if I still exist as I shout I do, I do. Somewhere she is out...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Oct 19, 2012

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    It'd be so sweet to wake up on a rainy day with

    his arms around me. Our bodies warming each other up so sweetly :)
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Jan 31

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    karthik235 karthik235 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    Jsimar21 Jsimar21 18-21, M Mar 7

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    For Awhile !

    I have been lonely in my bed for sometime now ! To beat the blues I have to get a hotel with that special someone !
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I feel sad, lonely, horny

    and upset today. I'm all alone and mad. Need to get laid... Please let tomorrow be a better day.
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 21

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    My Story

    This is the story of my lost relationship  and my life,its ups and downs over the past 12 years. Well it's been 7 weeks since Jo left, she left on 07/03/12 it's been hard trying to get through this, but I know I need to, the road ahead seems to be full of the unknown and it's a...
    Bigpablo78 Bigpablo78 31-35, M Jul 12, 2012

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    love is not forever

    Wish I could stop the sorrow at bay hold me and kiss me, please don't go away Should turn on the  music so we could sway Let's have our last dance, maybe you'll stay With toneless emotion, you  painfully share "I can never be a friend,I know it's unfair Tis hard to...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 12 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Kingsized And Plenty Of Room

    ...as the saying goes.. ..Counted the years as months ..Counted the months as weeks ..Counted the weeks as days ..But the days only seemed longer.... The past six months seem to have whizzed past. EP playing a big part. The previous period though was not so... ...hugs and...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Mar 6, 2013

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    He has to come back to me,

    I can't endure this, I'm too lonely. Sleeping alone is a great torture.
    ChizzyVanGogh ChizzyVanGogh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    The Music And My Thoughts

    Laying in bed listening to love songs ( musiq soul child pandora) ... I am so ******* lonely. I wish I had someone here to cuddle with me. Being single sucks : (
    Netabell Netabell 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    I loved this girl that I spent 3 years of my

    life with and a month ago today I walked in on her having sex with a guy she introduced me to a couple months ago....it was on our anniversary for our 3 years....is it suppose to hurt this much?....
    cchhrriiss cchhrriiss 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 14

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    Come Over......

    I'll leave the door unlocked.  When you arrive, just let yourself in.  GO up the stairs and my bedroom is the one on the left.  Just slide right in.  There's plenty of room for you in my king-sized bed.  I don't want you sleeping at the edge of the bed.  I want you to be...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    It sucks when you go from sharing a bed with

    someone for 7yrs to sleeping alone... I miss holding someone at night and them holding me... Just knowing they are there with you holding you and protecting you I miss that feeling... Now it's hard to sleep at night :(
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I Want My Person

    I am tired of going to bed with no one next to me I want that person I can share the rest of my life with. I feel like there is something wrong with me that I am going to be 30 and still no one and thats killing me I just want that person that makes me feel happy and sad and...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    I Miss Her

    Now this isn't really a normal "my bed is empty" because mine isn't about a girl, or even a boy. My dog. I always wanted a dog growing up and I finally got one my Sophmore year of high school on april fool's day. It started as an April Fool's joke for my dad and brother with me...
    Jeffyc Jeffyc 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Being Dirt :p

    U gotta have fun in ur life I may be a dirty person but if u see me in real life ;) hehe I'm crazy dirty :P don't hate mf
    BeatMymeatallnight BeatMymeatallnight 16-17, M Oct 24, 2012

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    all the stress of everyday life has got me down.

    my woman left town. wishing she was in my arms right now. aqui en mis brazos amor
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I Can't Take This Much Longer...

    I'm cold, I'm lonely and I know I'm worth having somebody to hold. I will love this person forever in loyalty and I don't necessarily mean romantically. I am 100% serious now, but perhaps I'm just being a sop.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 25 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Loveless Bed

    how i wish i really don't have to wait when will be the next time i would cuddle you on my bed, so i can kiss your worries away and hug the troubles at bay. fate may never be kind for the two of us because we have to endure the pain of the past how lonely it is to let the day...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Loneliness has been a reoccurring theme in my

    life. When I was just an adolescent I remember riding my bike alone after school and wondering why I never had a girlfriend. My race hasn't really helped a whole lot throughout. If I believed in God I would probably believe that God made Asian American men so that loneliness...
    Timanonymous Timanonymous 31-35, M Jun 18

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    I wait up at night for him to come home--at

    least on the days I don't have to be into work or school the next day. Then we sleep all day together; I don't feel bad about it, I get the most work done on my website at night and on nights I do this it's usually because I have no obligations the next day. I know it's...
    ValkyriesForValhalla ValkyriesForValhalla 22-25, F May 26

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    I Feel Alone

    For some reason the only time feeling alone bugs me is when I'm going to bed. I want someone sleeping next to me. I stay up late because of this and have a hard time falling asleep. Sometimes i grab one of my pillows and hold to try and replace the empty feeling i have when...
    ShaneStoner ShaneStoner 18-21, M May 25, 2012

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    Vacancy on the right side of my bed - I am 26

    and have had many short term relationships in my adult life. I always find fault.... I don't know what I'm looking for but I'm afraid I am going to make myself a lonely old woman with a flat full of cats!!!!! I think maybe I'm not attracting the right kind of men, I am...
    CurvyRach CurvyRach 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Feel So Alone

    I fall asleep so much faster when someone is holding me, I feel so safe when someone holds me. I have a big pink pillow that I curl up with in place of someone else. Its not the same but its something to hold onto while I sleep, I just wish it held me back.
    bookworm92 bookworm92 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Waiting For U Sweety..

    m open minded .i want a good n sexy mate..she should hv a beautiful heart n should know me n my fellings ..i want a cute n good heart from her ..i will respect her age hv no bar..just a heart for love..i need u..
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2013

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    There's a man in my bed.

    ... Eeeeeeek! Don't panic! Oh. It's just my husband. Time for our monthly thing. It's his conjugal visit. Yay me!
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 25

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    Tired Of Being Lonely.

    I always ended up experiencing a failure whenever I was trying to build a relationship with a man. It is just not happening for me. I try to meet as many people as possible out there, because I want to show the aether how much I no longer want to be lonely, how much I need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    seanc9 seanc9 18-21, M Apr 11

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    Hey, I would love to chat with someone I'm

    really lonely, please be friendly, I've had a **** day and am dreading going to work tomorrow, put me to sleep, tell me a story or just chew the fat.. Plsss
    chazwozza chazwozza 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Feel Lonely

    I wanna cuddle with that specials girl and warm her up and keep her safe but :( I just can't find that girl
    BeatMymeatallnight BeatMymeatallnight 16-17, M Oct 24, 2012

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    Can't Sleep Well At Nights

    When I put my head on my pillow, just can't sleep. I just feel something's missing in my life. I start thinking and eye-balling around the room, I just find a pillow next to me I wanna think I'm touching that person, I wanna convince my intellectual mind that I'm touching you...
    adamwillis adamwillis 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 15, 2011

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    Staying Up Late

    After so many years being in bed alone just the fact that I have to do so every night is constant reminder that all is not well in our marriage. It is not that I need to be reminded I can assure you, but when I understand that it has a much deeper meaning then staying up late...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 29, 2012

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    It really sucks to have a kingsize bed

    and not have someone in it beside me. That's alot of empty space. I love having a soft warm woman beside me to roll over, wrap my arms around and snuggle our naked bodies together with. i also miss not being able to reach over and run my fingers through a woman's beautiful hair...
    Bandit1812 Bandit1812 41-45, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Sleeping Alone.

    I always have to have someone sleeping in my bed with me, otherwise I can never sleep. I feel protected when someone has their arms wrapped around me as I sleep. I love the feeling of being safe. When someone isn't there, I'm being surrounded by paranoia and bad thoughts. They...
    laurenlovesyouu laurenlovesyouu 16-17, F Jul 8, 2012

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    My bed feels cold... I think I was not made to

    be loved or desired as a man.
    viktorwolfman viktorwolfman 18-21, M Mar 13

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    Here I am again...tired from not sleeping.

    ..Sad from not loving. I feel miserable again...here on this plane...Here on this earth. I've done it again...I stayed out all night. I feel it again...I dred this flight. Why? Because I'm sick...Sick of being owned... I write because I'm sick...Sick of being known. If I was...
    Iqbal13 Iqbal13 18-21, M Jun 12

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    Hokey1 Hokey1 22-25, M Mar 5

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    So horny!!!im just so

    so honey!!!shame to say this but...need a guy to warm my bed and be my first<3 <3
    Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx Iskskskdjjzzjjxjxjx 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Last Night

    I have a big glorious bed. King size, Big head and foot boards and plenty of pillows. It's one of the few things I have ever purchased that is just for my benefit.It's funny, to me, that I have such a bed. I have spread completely out and would have little room to share but that...
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 3 Responses May 25, 2011

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    I Miss Him

    I miss my ex. I miss cuddling With him in his bed. I miss spending time with him during the weekends. I miss how sweet and genuine he is. I miss the intimacy we had. To bad it would never work out. To bad I did not feel I was deserving of him. He will make some lucky lady very...
    radiantsky radiantsky 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

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    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Sometimes I get so childish well that happens when I'm sad or gonna leave someone like my friends or when someone I love goes. I feel so empty I just wanna see someone in real life...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I can be laying in bed with my husband, in a crowd of thousands, or with a group of intimate friends but no who I am with or what we are doing, I still feel deep loneliness.
    happybbw happybbw 41-45, F Jul 8

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    Sometimes, it feels as though I'm too young to feel some of the things I do. There's a constant emptiness and drag on everything, but I've grown up with my mother telling me that...
    ellieloux ellieloux 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not sure if I'm depressed. I may not be sad, but I'm not exactly happy either. I can laugh and smile during the day, but I forget how to feel when I'm alone at night... I guess...
    Etherealinsanity Etherealinsanity 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't really know what I'm feeling anymore it's all mixed up just 16 years of ****** up emotions..
    freedom16 freedom16 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hello: My name is Daniel and I'm 13-years-old. Recently I've felt sad, lonely, depressed, and empty inside. I feel like I have nothing to live for. I feel like my family is...