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I Feel Neglected

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    Neglected By Somebody Who Thinks They Love You

    I was neglected by my dad and step-mom growing-up and it was very hard and sad and it was also very painful. They never really talked to me or supported me and they even didn't comforted me when my grandma died. It was just so hard living with those two but i'am so glad that i...
    goneawayforgood goneawayforgood 22-25 Feb 4, 2009

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    My Heart Was Taken Long Ago, If I Ever Change; I Hope I Never Know.

    I feel like this story is wearing thin, like no one ever cares to hear me speak anymore. Like if I just vanished, no one would even care. I sound like a broken record anymore. Why can't I just reach out to someone? Anyone? I feel like I can hardly put my story into just one...
    xAithne xAithne 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    Little Notes

    Good morning! Please don't forget the weeds. You can find gardening gloves in the garage and there are some in the shed also. Thank you so much for your help. I love you Mom. Is it such a bad thing that I got so excited over this post-it note sized note from my mother...
    UnderneathWhatYouSee UnderneathWhatYouSee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2010

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    Jeep Driveway

    This ain't a scary story so don't judge about the title. Well right now ever since I came to the Philippines, the feeling of being neglected came to me. I was usually a half social type of person who usually loves to be nice with people. I came from Abu Dhabi but of course I'm a...
    askull23 askull23 16-17, F Sep 2, 2013

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    A Ghost In His World.

     so i am the type of girl that hang out with guys and not with girls. girls are bitchy backstabbing and just not trustworthy so why bother wasting my time with them. i have one problem with my guys friends tho. i feel neglected by them. yeah i know they are guys and they don...
    xMiNNiEx xMiNNiEx 16-17 Sep 20, 2009

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    I Feel...

    ...like I have been neglected emotionally and physically.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Takes Me For Granit

    My boyfriend thinks that spending time with me is sitting beside me watching tv...he never wants to talk to me or hear my thoughts...i love to express my views opinions, and my ideas! But he just silences me...
    confused122 confused122 18-21 4 Responses May 26, 2009

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    Everything Is Just Falling Apart, And I'm All Thats Still Standing

    Well, I graduated from high school about 5 months ago, and since then my life has just gotten progressivly worse. About 2 weeks after graduation I had an accident and cut my hand, I was forced to quit my job because I lost dexterity. Then my girlfriend, who was also my first...
    deepseadiver1288 deepseadiver1288 18-21, M Oct 6, 2009

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    "boy Friend?"

    My boyfriend only wAnts to see me on weekends when I don't have my kids. He doesn't want involvement in my real life.
    kwalone kwalone 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    PUT Simply: I Guess He's Just Not That Into Me

    HE CALLS AND JUST SEEMS AS IF HE IS NOT REALLY INTERESTED IN TALKING. I'M LIKE, "WHY THE HELL DID YOU CALL, IF THIS IS THE TYPE OF VIBE WE'RE GOING TO HAVE?" (I DON'T SAY THAT, BUT IT'S HOW I FEEL.)  OFTEN OUR CONVERSATIONS END WITH ME FEELING DISAPPOINTED BECAUSE...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 1 Response Aug 21, 2009

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    When you neglect a flower It begins to wither.

    ..even before your eyes! And you still refuse to water it for what ever reasons And you look up one day at your once beautiful flower and find that it is no longer there but on your neighbor porch flourishing and bearing fruits for your neighbor for all the love and water that...
    coraleigh coraleigh 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There is nothing in the fridge

    or cabinets but expired food and sardines. My mother went out to get everybody food at Burger King but me because I was too depressed to go to church with her.... I feel neglected and hungry.
    KawaiiKisu KawaiiKisu 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I needed you and you weren't there,

    but that's not even what hurts right now. What hurts is that you never even realized I needed you at all.
    sagefish sagefish 22-25, M Mar 24

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    With Unlove, Your Daughter

    Every heart has a holeIt is filled, though achingly empty,With beach sandCobwebsFamily photosAnd dustThese holes acheAnd burn withPain and hurtFrom the not-nowsThe go-awaysThe I'm-busysThe be-quietsInnocent questionsShoved beneath the basement stairsAnd they cry as painfullyAs...
    UnderneathWhatYouSee UnderneathWhatYouSee 18-21, F Apr 30, 2011

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    meowmeowlittlekitty meowmeowlittlekitty 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Venting And Stuff.

    I feel like my mom is someone I cannot depend on. When I try to approach her I am put at fault or put down. I am treated like I cant do anything and that I am a child. I am tired of it. She keeps telling me what to do and when I don’t do it she puts me down. She talks to me...
    melisa1211 melisa1211 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2013

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    My Dearest Rewby,

         When me and my boyfriend first stated dating, we use to do everything together, spend every waking (and sleeping) moment together, he even pretty much lived at my parents home with me, i moved all my stuff to the basement so that we would have more room...
    heatherxx heatherxx 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Musicians Wife

    My husband has a very time consuming career. He works mostly at night and it can carry over into the early morning at times. He's makes much less money than I do but I'm trying to be supportive of his career because he is so passionate about it. My problem is that I don...
    lonelymarriage1976 lonelymarriage1976 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Feeling Alone In a Relationship

    I have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, and I've been depressed for two years. When I was first diagnosed a year ago, he was very supportive and encouraging. He took a month off from work to spend time with me. Yet now, I feel as...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2007

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    I'm So Fed Up

    My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 8. In the beginging it was perfect but now I feel like I always have to ask for time and most of the time I don't get it. I always have to be the one to plan something for us to do and a lot of the times we don't do...
    grace7201 grace7201 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Story Of My Neglected Life

    my father has gone 3months without talking to me and he done it four times in the part 4years.i find it so hard to deal with become i feel so neglected and angry. i cant cope with being ignored by the person i love so much and thats mento love me back. i always worrie that while...
    lolalucky48 lolalucky48 16-17 Nov 21, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes I feel like I was never needed around in my family. Clearly, no one wants me around or bother asking me for help. Only , because I tend to make mistakes around my home...
    pomtonic1109 pomtonic1109 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I think we all at some point feel weak & think death would be better then life think about it you no longer feel what your feeling anymore, & that seems pretty damn good.. But none...
    presseve presseve 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I feel awful saying this but a friend of mine has decided because of various issues to move out of his houseshare early, came to me yesterday and said can you put me up for three...
    elphaba2309 elphaba2309 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    If you feel taken for granted you should read Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher.Its a great book about suicide.I read it because i felt that people dont understand but characters...
    pierce789 pierce789 18-21 6 hrs ago

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    Music is pretty much my life. Without it, I wouldn't have a way to truly express my feelings. Lyrics to Ed Sheeran's music explains on the pain I've felt. The song "Happy" shows...
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    I just always feel like an outsider like I don't fully belong anywhere...
    rocknangel rocknangel 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I dońt know how to describe my feelings but all i want is to disappear from this life , i never succeed in anything ...i couldnt succeed to find love, having a good job, being...
    nadyan nadyan 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a simple 15 year old guy who thought suicide would prevent him from seeing his 16th birthday. I went into a new school system for the 9th grade. New school new people, the new...
    nobleman1341 nobleman1341 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    I hate this feeling I don't like being like this
    Thehappyguyy Thehappyguyy 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    ...especially when I'm dripping wet after a long workout. I sip down an icy glass of fresh mint tea then trot off to the bath. I love how a long, relaxing bath feels. Watching soft...
    maggiemaggamuff maggiemaggamuff 36-40, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    We were always close. We always shared and did things equally. That was until he had an affair. 22 yrs of marriage, and hey!!! He had an affair. I mean, when you've got a...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    What happens to me is that I'll feel weird being alive at all. I'll feel "weird" being a human being. I'll feel hyper-aware of my existence, and I'll feel like I'm in a vast...
    59Ballons 59Ballons 13-15 Jun 29

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    Sometimes I wonder why we function as we do, and sometimes I wonder why I feel the way I do for some situations. Sometimes I wonder if what I do and feel is what others feel as...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 12

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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Sometimes I can't help but feel like a failure and that I'm letting my dad down. All he talks about is how I wanted to go to Harvard, be a doctor, got straight A's. Part of me...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I am the type of person who is always there for others. I always take everyones feelings into confederation before my own. I will not tell people that I'm upset or my feelings are...
    overwhelmedandexhausted overwhelmedandexhausted 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I feel unhappy I feel lost I feel stressed I feel angry I have anxiety I have regrets I feel mislead I feel misguided I feel depressed I feel misunderstood I feel so many...
    XOmysteriousgirlXO XOmysteriousgirlXO 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am feeling so alone, no matter how many people are really around me. I have 2 kids and a partner. I also live in a house with my family, a total of 8 people. I feel I need more...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    When I fall in love, I repeatedly look for problems, sometimes manufacturing them out of whole cloth and sometimes dramatically exaggerating either the magnitude or the...
    DominicRain DominicRain 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    Twenty four hours in each day and without music serenading us in our lives, I sincerely feel it would be a bore atmosphere. It lifts our souls and touches us in a way indescribable...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    After almost 2 years of being single, I just got into a relationship again. This guy is my type and he's very sweet. He's serious about pursuing a relationship with me, I wanted to...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I Just Don't. Feel Beautiful. I try. But Being With You. I Just Don't Feel It. Being With Her. I Feel It. You Use To. Make Me Feel Pretty. Say Things. Which Made Me...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 3

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    I've been diagnosed with Affetive Bipolar disease, but, it's not a common one, actually I have months of feeling incredible, and suddenly, for some months I feel depressed. Anyway...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am a very sensitive girl. When I younger, nothing in the world bothered me. I was an outdoorsy/tomboy. The amount of friends I had, the clothes I wore, or the amount of money my...
    ellbellsvsj ellbellsvsj 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    i can hardly even think about it without crying. I feel it now. The hot tears running down my face. Ill have to hide it. From my parents. From my friends. From everyone. This is...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I know I'm still at a young age and will probably find someone again blah blah, but it hurts to have heart broken by someone you thought loved you. My first relationship was awful...
    anyoneoutthere1 anyoneoutthere1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I guess I've never really felt anything, from a young age I was bullied and being powerless to do anything i shut off my emotions it felt better then feeling pain I then began to...
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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