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I Feel Neglected

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    Feeling Alone In a Relationship

    I have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, and I've been depressed for two years. When I was first diagnosed a year ago, he was very supportive and encouraging. He took a month off from work to spend time with me. Yet now, I feel as...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2007

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    I'm So Fed Up

    My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 8. In the beginging it was perfect but now I feel like I always have to ask for time and most of the time I don't get it. I always have to be the one to plan something for us to do and a lot of the times we don't do...
    grace7201 grace7201 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    I Feel...

    ...like I have been neglected emotionally and physically.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2010

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    "boy Friend?"

    My boyfriend only wAnts to see me on weekends when I don't have my kids. He doesn't want involvement in my real life.
    kwalone kwalone 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    meowmeowlittlekitty meowmeowlittlekitty 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    PUT Simply: I Guess He's Just Not That Into Me

    HE CALLS AND JUST SEEMS AS IF HE IS NOT REALLY INTERESTED IN TALKING. I'M LIKE, "WHY THE HELL DID YOU CALL, IF THIS IS THE TYPE OF VIBE WE'RE GOING TO HAVE?" (I DON'T SAY THAT, BUT IT'S HOW I FEEL.)  OFTEN OUR CONVERSATIONS END WITH ME FEELING DISAPPOINTED BECAUSE...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 1 Response Aug 21, 2009

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    Venting And Stuff.

    I feel like my mom is someone I cannot depend on. When I try to approach her I am put at fault or put down. I am treated like I cant do anything and that I am a child. I am tired of it. She keeps telling me what to do and when I don’t do it she puts me down. She talks to me...
    melisa1211 melisa1211 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2013

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    So, my boyfriend leaves

    for three days. But the night before he leaves we argue about how he doesnt show me enough affection or attention. So now, I've barely talked to him in three days and im honestly ready to say screw it. Is that wrong of me? I feel like im being over dramatic but at the same time...
    BrokenPhoenixx BrokenPhoenixx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Everything Is Just Falling Apart, And I'm All Thats Still Standing

    Well, I graduated from high school about 5 months ago, and since then my life has just gotten progressivly worse. About 2 weeks after graduation I had an accident and cut my hand, I was forced to quit my job because I lost dexterity. Then my girlfriend, who was also my first...
    deepseadiver1288 deepseadiver1288 18-21, M Oct 6, 2009

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    My Heart Was Taken Long Ago, If I Ever Change; I Hope I Never Know.

    I feel like this story is wearing thin, like no one ever cares to hear me speak anymore. Like if I just vanished, no one would even care. I sound like a broken record anymore. Why can't I just reach out to someone? Anyone? I feel like I can hardly put my story into just one...
    xAithne xAithne 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Takes Me For Granit

    My boyfriend thinks that spending time with me is sitting beside me watching tv...he never wants to talk to me or hear my thoughts...i love to express my views opinions, and my ideas! But he just silences me...
    confused122 confused122 18-21 4 Responses May 26, 2009

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    A Ghost In His World.

     so i am the type of girl that hang out with guys and not with girls. girls are bitchy backstabbing and just not trustworthy so why bother wasting my time with them. i have one problem with my guys friends tho. i feel neglected by them. yeah i know they are guys and they don...
    xMiNNiEx xMiNNiEx 16-17 Sep 20, 2009

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    Musicians Wife

    My husband has a very time consuming career. He works mostly at night and it can carry over into the early morning at times. He's makes much less money than I do but I'm trying to be supportive of his career because he is so passionate about it. My problem is that I don...
    lonelymarriage1976 lonelymarriage1976 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Story Of My Neglected Life

    my father has gone 3months without talking to me and he done it four times in the part 4years.i find it so hard to deal with become i feel so neglected and angry. i cant cope with being ignored by the person i love so much and thats mento love me back. i always worrie that while...
    lolalucky48 lolalucky48 16-17 Nov 21, 2011

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    I needed you and you weren't there,

    but that's not even what hurts right now. What hurts is that you never even realized I needed you at all.
    sagefish sagefish 22-25, M Mar 24

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    Jeep Driveway

    This ain't a scary story so don't judge about the title. Well right now ever since I came to the Philippines, the feeling of being neglected came to me. I was usually a half social type of person who usually loves to be nice with people. I came from Abu Dhabi but of course I'm a...
    askull23 askull23 16-17, F Sep 2, 2013

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    My Dearest Rewby,

         When me and my boyfriend first stated dating, we use to do everything together, spend every waking (and sleeping) moment together, he even pretty much lived at my parents home with me, i moved all my stuff to the basement so that we would have more room...
    heatherxx heatherxx 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Sometimes I just don't know what I'm looking for I don't know what I want I feel like wandering around the woods by myself and just going in one direction till I discover something...
    emphire emphire 31-35, M Mar 29

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    I have a SO, however, I feel neglected all the time... I dont know if I am the one who should understand him, and give him space... Or if he just dont care about me...
    Mari1984 Mari1984 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    In Oct. of 2013 my boyfriend and I went to an animal shelter just to see the sweet dogs and cats. As we looked around we just happen to stumble across this adorable older dog, who...
    whoevausayiam whoevausayiam 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I have no reason to feel this way really. I am financially comfortable, my kids are all right, my wife is looking forward to going to happy hour with me tonight - and there is...
    quazar92128 quazar92128 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F a week ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F a week ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F a week ago

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    For some time now I've been struggling with this issue. I barely "feel" any feelings, this doesn't mean I don't have emotions, I like animals, I hate stupidity. If I experience...
    Zer000 Zer000 22-25 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I konw nobody is going read this till the end, cz it's a bit long. But still just want pour my heart out. I have my depression issues. No matter how hard I try to get over this...
    Scaro54 Scaro54 18-21 9 hrs ago

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    I'm feeling tired about my life not moving forward. I'm rarely satisfied (if ever) on how things are going for me. My professional career is just a switch-and-bait situation; my...
    MrC88 MrC88 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    I hate to use the word "inspired" and you'll probably think it's crass if you know where this speech actually came from but I feel the same way this young girl did. Some of us...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I was making a manga short of my good friend in kindergarten. He died a few days from my birthday. I showed it to my mom, and she really liked it. I had changed the name in the...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    13, Seventh Grade. I'm quiet, shy, and anti-social. But I can't really say I'm depressed. Life is just so boring, my grades are slipping, and my friends act like I don't exist. I...
    SkaterGirlForever12 SkaterGirlForever12 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I feel slightly depressed because I cannot think of a way to get the lifestyle I want. Maybe, I need to just live in the moment more. However, perhaps I simply live a life I don't...
    jjeng1989 jjeng1989 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I can't make myself feel a certain way... Not sure if I can trust my feelings anymore.
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I don't know what to do anymore. My dad is an alcoholic and in a motorcycle club and my mom won't let me see him right now. Which is literally tearing me apart. I sneak out to see...
    ImNotAFake ImNotAFake 16-17, F 44 mins ago

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    Im looking for friends on here. I feel like people doesnt respect me. i have only one person who was talking to me on here regulary. I dont want pitty from others. I just want to...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    i know so many people say that but its fcking 4 am in Southern California and i feel like ****. I seriously need an intervention. Prom dress shopping turned out to be a disaster...
    dropitwhileitshot dropitwhileitshot 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Smart phones is now the most common way of people communicating isn't it? Everyone is so focused on it that I suspect that they actually forgotten how to interact with real life...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Looking at her & not talking to her making me feel sad.
    raoudupi raoudupi 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    “Placing my head on my knees, I let the irrational tears fall unrestrained. I am crying over the loss of something I never had. How ridiculous. Mourning something that never was...
    parastrue parastrue 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    Iv never done this before excuse the long story but I need to get every detail off my mind I have no One else to talk to I'm hoping some1 will understand I was on holiday when it...
    Candlelight01 Candlelight01 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    ***Post of the Day*** Find out more at: www.facebook.com/FavorUponYou It's funny - I'm actually a #Muslim! The term used to conjure up images of backward Bedouin Arabs living far...
    FavorUponYou FavorUponYou 22-25, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I just want to feel special to someone. I want to be loved..
    Itsmeiguess Itsmeiguess 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I'm still very new to this site. I started feeling my way around it. Out of the blue someone I'd never had contact with EVER called imback05 left me a message "I'm his friend. Don...
    LindaNKVermey LindaNKVermey 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    Just a heads up. I don't want to talk to men and I like women, so if you are a bisexual woman or lesbian, that would make things a little easier. But if you aren't, that is fine to...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    Idk why but I really do. :3 it's a terrible feelingg.
    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am in bed listening to music. All I want is for someone to touch me. Run their hands down my soft body and make me feel good.
    asweetheart asweetheart 22-25, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I feel really horny right now
    girlygirl12789 girlygirl12789 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I feel like cutting myself
    TechLash TechLash 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My loved goat, 12 years of age (one of three) passed away last night. Her twin is so confused, she had a sniff, and their half sister who lost her twin 3 years ago won't go near...
    LindaNKVermey LindaNKVermey 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    Well, I can write my college project right now... I'm feeling weird and lost. And alone, maybe anxious. And I don't really know...
    pattiemorais pattiemorais 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Ahhhh, for no reason other than having no reason not to, feeling so good about life today :) Thinking it may be something to do with the awesome advice from all you lovely people...
    loutorres loutorres 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I dont think my parents really understand how much I do. I am homeschooled which means I do my schoolwork at home and I take care of the house. This usually means in a normal day I...
    ForeverUnordinary ForeverUnordinary 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I sit down in my bed in my room and just stare at my laptop, bored, no not bored, just .... empty.... like everything that makes me who I am is gone an what joy I used to get from...
    katzland katzland 18-21, F 1 Response 54 mins ago

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    I feel like I can never forget your smile and your eyes. When you hugged me, I felt so safe in your arms. You were stronger than me and I was attracted to your strength. If only I...