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I Feel Pain For All Abused Children

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    I don't have any children of my own

    but I can not imagine being able to abuse my own flesh and blood. I was never abused as a child by my parents but I was sexually molested by my Uncle from the age of 12. The only person who knows about it is my best friend and I don't really like talking about it. Plus I was...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2014

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    A Bad Day

    A post from my blog www.diaryofabrokenchild.blogspot.com A Bad Day A bad day doesn't mean i am not healing It doesn't mean i did anything wrong it doesn't mean everyday i am not dealing growing to become someone strong A bad day means something else entirely, it means...
    silverstar415850 silverstar415850 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    Betrayal

    An adult hurting a child is a betrayal. A child is dependent on the adult imparting experience as education. The experience of violence is a lesson best left till last. Love is the best gift you can show a child, and the discipline, non violent discipline of diligence and...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    I was in the hospital

    because my dad pushed me down the stairs then punched me when I cried :(
    goldfishies1616 goldfishies1616 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2015

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    This week is fall break

    for me. Most kids love breaks from school but I hate them. It usually means my parents can hit me and leave really bad marks because no one will see them. I always get spanked and hit a lot more too since I'm not allowed to leave the house. I just feel like my dad is going to...
    goldfishies1616 goldfishies1616 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2015

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    I hate how my sister screams badly at her kids

    all the time, I call that abuse, yep, no other word for it. I know she is not in the best place she could be, but that still doesn't justify messing up her kids. I hate to be judgmental, I hate to play the judge role and declare people as guilty and innocent, but I don't think...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    My Life

    A few years ago, my mother abused me. She cussed at me, yelled at me, hit me, squeeze my arm to a point that I would have a bruise shaped as a hand. One day I was sick and still I bed. My mom was furious at me for not getting up and not getting ready for school. And after a while...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    Just need someone to talk to.

    Today was awful. I got hit/spanked 4 times. One was for spilling water. I got spanked with a belt and punched in the back. The other was for coughing too loud. I got spanked with a belt and wasn't allowed to eat dinner and my mom through a tv remote at me. Another was for...
    goldfishies1616 goldfishies1616 16-17, F Sep 23, 2015

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    Childhood should be carefree,

    playing in the sun; not living a nightmare in the darkness of the soul!!!
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Your Help Is Needed

    Few days ago in Croatia the media wrote the story about a 9 years old girl named Jagoda.This is her story.. "I am unhappy when I spend time with my daddy because I don't like when he is touching me.I don't like it when my daddy is cuddling me.He takes his clothes off and says...
    earwen earwen 26-30, F Feb 9, 2010

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    I feel pain for all abused children

    because I'm one to and I know exactly how it feels
    Keyana136 Keyana136 13-15 2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    Wishing All The Best...

    I feel deeply pained when I see or hear about children being abused in anyway. I truly do because I was abused as a child, so I know the feeling. It hurts, and can put you in a state of absolute despair when your older, It's really sad. I don't know what's going on through the...
    Cyliste Cyliste 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2013

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    Abuse

    I grew up in a very hostile enviorment,i recieved years of emotional abuse by my dad. I grew up in a projects , and my dad told me never run from a punch, so i didn,t but i took a lot of punches from other ppl. but i had the courage to take it. and ppl had respect for me because...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    I haven't posted on here in a long time.

    But every other time I posted on here I got a lot of support so id like to give you guys an update. Not much has changed at home. I still get hit and spanked several times everyday. Other than that, I'm pretty much limited to my room. My parents don't really want to eat dinner...
    goldfishies1616 goldfishies1616 16-17, F Jan 8

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    Neglect Is The Same As Abuse

    A little girl that just moved to our school, comes dirty everyday, and has nits in her hair from lice.  When she found out another  little girl was getting adopted she told me she wished she was getting adopted and they could be sisters.  How sad is that?  Her mother is...
    dare2love dare2love 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    So I ran away a couple of days ago,

    and they made me come back (they= police and family). They said they were gonna change and so far that's bullshit. I am leaving when I turn 17 whether they like it or not, they cannot make me stay. I am done with my mother telling me that I am a mean and ugly ***** . She says...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2015

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    Throughout his short life,

    Garnett Spears was forced to suffer through repeated hospitalizations, unneeded surgical procedures and ultimately poisoning with salt, all at the hands of the one person who should have been his ultimate protector: his mother. If this story does not move U, get help. :(( http...
    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 46-50, M Apr 9, 2015

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    Please visit: http://www.

    fclu.org/reform/
    NJReform NJReform 31-35, F Jul 19, 2015

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    Home Sweet Hell

    I've always gone out of my way to make sure the kids around me are happy and smiling although I have none myself I love spending time with my friends kids my childhood has always been really hard to talk about... My mom spent most of the days at work and the nights drunk it was...
    Forbiddenfantasies Forbiddenfantasies 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    And Many Go Unnoticed

    I used to work in housing so had a few cases of child abuse come to my attention. I chose to deal with the cases myself as i had reported it to the relevant authority and no action was taken..this happened on several occassions so i took it upon myself to make sure i would just...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    Any Advice?

    Lately I feel so strained, sad, and worried...Haven't we all been in a situation where you know someone is being abused, but no matter how much you know you should report it, you don't? I think the biggest reason I never do is because it's not physical abuse.. It's verbal...
    Paxis Paxis 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    i am abused by my stepfather,

    verbally and physically and it sucks
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2015

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    Would Anyone Even Notice If I Were Gone...

    ....as i sit here while the world flows like water around me,its as if i'm not moving at all....as a child i experienced many heart aches,i dont even know where to begin so i'll try to list them in order 1. my earlist childhood memory was when i was 2 years old and my mom jumped...
    CraziiBeautiful CraziiBeautiful 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    He Took Away My Childhood

    Before I write I am so glad that I can finally get this off my chest with people not judging me. I am one of three children and I am the only girl. I remember the bad days like it was yesterday. I was sexually, physically, and emotionally abused by my father. I remember the first...
    LissaLoves LissaLoves 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Abused Children

    Abused children,I feel their pain,There's no need,How people can do it,I don't know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    When I was a child I was Illegal.

    I was illegal because I crossed the borders with my mother. I crossed the borders with my mother because our Home Country got invaded by Americans. The Americans came with their bombs and missiles. So we crossed the Border. Then we faked the papers. Then we lied to ourselves...
    T055 T055 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    https://www.change.org/p/nj-legislature-nj-judiciary-reform-family-court-and-stop-parental-alienation
    NJReform NJReform 31-35, F Jul 11, 2015

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    10 year old Yemeni girl smiling

    after she was granted a divorce from her husband- a 30 year old man.Nujood Ali was nine when her parents arranged a marriage to Faez Ali Thamer, a man in his thirties. Regularly beaten by her in-laws and raped by her husband, Ali escaped on April 2, 2008, two months after...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F Sep 5, 2014

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    "You Can't Save The World" !

    I did fostercare for about 8yrs, and was told by an ex caseworker, "you can't save the world". What she didn't know, was that I wasn't trying to save the world, I just felt I could help a few, and I did !!
    libertybalanced libertybalanced 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    It shouldn't hurt to be a child.

    There's a special place in hell for people who abuse children and next to them will be a special place for people who think it's okay to just stand there and watch children being hurt. I believe people are just as bad as the abuser if they just stand there and do nothing. Why...
    MishelLovesYou MishelLovesYou 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    Angels Beware

    Its too cruel when it happen to small children.Children are angels.They only know to luv.They  dont understand the cunningness of the outside world.That is why most them dont even understand that they r abusedInnocence is what is threatened.Parents should ask and try to pickup...
    mellifluousme mellifluousme 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2012

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    Daddy Still Screamed

     I'll never forget the screams.Nothing can erase that  rumble that shook my houseMost people don't knowmy daddy can roar.I hope they never know.I felt my heart breaking, literally,a piece falling out as my brother cried.It fell down, down, down,into a black hole, an endless...
    shadowdancer17 shadowdancer17 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    Thanks Uncle.

    At 5 years old i was innocent and free, already suffered through phsyical and mental abuse from my step brother and sister.Then my uncle sexually abused me, in my grandmothers bed, My grandmother knew, but didn't tell anyone, I had lived with it for 17 years before finally asking...
    Deanisstilltrying Deanisstilltrying 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    facebook.com/groups/312914168881814/
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993 18-21, F Aug 22, 2014

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    Walked A Mile In Their Shoes

    This probably sounds stupid, but I often wonder what would I be like, what would it feel like not to know what the sharp pain from cold leather hitting my naked skin would feel like?? I wonder what would it be like to have a father be there to help me learn how to shave?? What...
    libra604 libra604 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Open Season On Abused Children In Florida

    If you are contemplating a move to Florida you should be aware of the dire situation that has occurred in the last year in Florida. It's called the "Family Law Rewrite Act of 2003" that took effect on 1 October 2008. This law strips children of any protections they...
    Spellsing Spellsing 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    I Feel Pain For All Abused Children

    yes i really do i realize many abused children have a mental illness the brain cannot take that abuse for long and in time the brain will split off into illness i know some abused ppl are ocd , others are schizophrenic others have high anxiety , and many other disorders and they...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 6 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    When I was 5 years old,

    my adopted father came home it was 7 in the morning. He asked why are you not asleep. So i told a lie. He then proceeded to put my face on a electric stove. Saying this is what hell feels like. Then afterwards he say Jesus name, I tried but what came out was jebus.
    hippygod1 hippygod1 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I hate to see others in pain especially children

    because I was sexually abused when I was 11 years old and it didn't end until 13 I feel good know but the effect doesn't go away ={
    Raouf50 Raouf50 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    I feel so much pain for all the abused children

    out there, maybe it was because I was one of them, I was in their shoes, and I know what they are feeling, and the paint that they are facing. I remember back to when I was in their shoes, and it pains me so much to know that they have to go through it. maybe that is why I hurt...
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2015

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    I Joined This Group

    And now i can't write coz I'm feeling so sh!t I feel too much... so much i ge t almost overwhelmed, i feel like most people can write in their comments and express how angry they feel at abusers and even offer words that comfor people who hav bad memories of abuse or are...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    When I was younger, my father would drink a lot.

    and normally with any person that drinks a lot have a certain characteristic about them... For him it was anger, out of control anger for no apparent reason. I have 8 siblings, all of us grew up around it, and it became part of life as if it was normal to be thrown around...
    zgirl694 zgirl694 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2015

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    Moral Compass

    I placed a report with child protective services today.  I won't pretend to be a perfect human being, a perfect mother, or a perfect anything else.  But, I came to a crossroads within myself and made a choice to do what was right just because it was right - not because it was...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2011

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    Police: Mother Beat Son Because His Pants Sagged

    THIS S A REALLY HORRIBLE THOUGHT THAT THIS COULD HAPPEN !!! AND I PERSONALLY KNOW OF A CASE WHERE SOME BOYS WERE GOING TO SHOOT A BOY EVEN YOUNGER THAN THIS BECAUSE OF THE SAME THING, "THEY DIDN'T LIKE THE WAY HE DRESSED", SO HAD I NOT CALLED THE POLICE, IT MORE THAN LIKELY WOULD...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Hi guys. Sorry I haven't posted in a while

    but it was a really awful week for me. I don't really want to talk about what happened over a post, but I was in the hospital for 2 days. I just got back home on Tuesday but things haven't been going well. I still get hit several times a day and made fun of. My parents NEVER...
    goldfishies1616 goldfishies1616 16-17, F Oct 1, 2015

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