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I Feel People Give Up On Me Easily

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    Indifference

    I feel nothing but indifference for all my former friends who gave up on me. They wanted credit for something they didn't do. And I didn't want to give it to them. It's not hard to add two and two together, you know...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Apr 1, 2013

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    I Move Slow, Please Respect That

    This is how it has gone for years:I meet someone online, we become friends, talking every day, getting to know one another, etc. After a while, maybe we exchange phone numbers. After a longer while, maybe they start to think they are attracted to me as more than friends, After...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    27th September,,the Worst Day Of My Life

    i live my Grandma to whom i called BB, she was my whole family, my mother,,father,brother,sister and even fa riend,i found every relation in her,,,but on 27th sep she left me alone in this world. it was 6:00 am when i open my eyes and waiting  that BB will came...
    noori93 noori93 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    Reasonable

     I tend to push people away and it takes a lot to handle me. Its sad but I completely understand why they would give up on me easily. I lack the confidence to fight for myself and them. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Struggle

    i belong to a rural area of a third world country,,,, where there is no concept for women to study,,,but i worked hard and study hard to acheive my goals,,,i ignore the opposition and went on my ways,,,,there is only two people in my life who support and encourage me,,,one of...
    noori93 noori93 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2010

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    No Surprise Here...

    It's my fault, I know that. I am very guarded with people, even more so with the ones I like. I purposely make it hard on them, because I have this screwed up logic that says, 'if they never give up on you, you can rely on them to be there.'But, no, this isn't the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    ....Too easily...

     I'm feeling very disposable these days.... It would be nice if for once someone would stick around and maybe even fight to keep me... fat chance.   
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Idk...

    i hate feeling that people are always ready to run one i open up to them or tell them how i feel i hate being scared to talk because people leave. i cant stand getting close to people and they just go away i only look for true friends i dont wana be hurt i dont wana be givin up...
    sierrajacobs sierrajacobs 13-15, F Nov 19, 2010

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    i care about people too much lol like i been talkin to this 6th grader kayla for a lil bit now and i already think of her as a sister lol cuz she be like i wanna fight so n so n i...
    violinmaster242 violinmaster242 13-15, F a week ago

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    i hate it when people do this because i didnt ask and usually it negative and against what i want. me: says something person: you cant do that, you need to do this me: you need...
    thatgreyangel thatgreyangel 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Be it anyone. I end getting hurt but i always remember that i might get hurt in the end but i continue. Its bad but i never like getting into the detail of doubting everyone.
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I am a trusting person but am learning to be less so
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    What does being lonely mean? Well to me it's being by yourself With no one, no physical contact that we all crave, no one to say how much they missed you today no one remembering...
    JustBeYourSelff JustBeYourSelff 22-25, M Mar 13

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    It is extremely difficult for me to open up to someone, and is quite rare that I ever really do. I am usually a very naturally trusting person, perhaps a bit naive, always giving...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 17 Responses Mar 5

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    This feeling I have deep inside, Is a feeling that I cannot describe. From the pit in my belly, To the ache in my heart, Nothing can make me realize that we are really apart Crying...
    ckjackson43 ckjackson43 16-17, F Mar 2

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    People give their judgements and expect you to join in but don't judge others so readily, you knew know why they made the choices they did and if you are happy at heart you will...
    Donny1965 Donny1965 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I often don't understand when people give me "signals" and as I've learnt to be polite since I was a child I've always smiled at everyone no matter what and be well mannered in...
    HekimaUsagi HekimaUsagi 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is what my psychologist wrote about me to my GP I'm writing to update you on Eva's care within EIP service .Eva is 36 years old,she resides in supported accommodation .Eva...
    Powerlesss Powerlesss 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    My philosophy is that they are people just like us. and don't deserve the carp that some people give them. some of my friend are Transgender and i have supported them through it...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I really wonder.Yesterday ,I objected to someone's post.That too in a private message and he said he did not care and if someone did not like it ,they could block him.If we cannot...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 15

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    One thing that always really troubles me is where I feel people are following me from site to site as if I'm some kind of authority or spiritual leader, checking out all my posts...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 26-30, F Mar 14

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    My breath is usually not stinky and I usually also drink mints. But I am afraid of people smelling my breath when it's bad because you can't smell you're own breath and you never...
    heyheynatalie heyheynatalie 22-25 33 mins ago

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    i have 2 smart phone and 2 pc and no one to talk to....no one to play with...lol been days i havent even charged my laptop...i play san andreas sometimes...but that also gives me...
    mikeee3135 mikeee3135 22-25, M 1 Response 31 mins ago

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    Rambling With Rum Well..., don't blame me for what you're about to read. You're the one that clicked here to see it. It is a bit of an intriguing title though..., isn't it ? Of...
    TheHiker TheHiker 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 16

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    I feel wayyy different than most people in my life and for the most part I like it, but sometimes it is super annoying. I don't mean different in a "I'm unique but it's cute" type...
    meeeghanp77 meeeghanp77 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    How Women Think FINE This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this...
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    Whenever I meet someone new for the first time, it's unfortunate that the first thing I think is: 'Will this person try to hurt me?' I know I shouldn't assume the worst of people...
    sleeperstream sleeperstream 26-30, M a week ago

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    I wrote this as comment initially, But I felt this was worthy of a post. So, people who grow, and look deeply at life, people who are reflective, and seek out the truth of things...
    ctguitardude ctguitardude 26-30, M Mar 16

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    "personal heaven abdicated" golden sunshine goddess notwithstanding the rain she gives her grace so easily to the fleeting fast day so apparent in her eyes that she in concept...
    mudmen mudmen 51-55 a week ago

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    People love me or hate me, no happy medium. I'm straightforward, honest to a fault, funny, kind, & apparently easily misunderstood. I have to defend my thoughts & openness...
    BelAmi0420 BelAmi0420 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I have a problem, I get embarrassed so easily and obsess constantly after to try and make the bad feeling go away. This usually happens when I've been drinking... Last night I...
    KathleenMolloy KathleenMolloy 22-25, F Mar 18

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    I like watching the youtube vids where kids discover how they can make themselves puke. They tickle the backs of their throats and gag a lot. Sometimes they go on until they puke...
    pukeboy pukeboy 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This is not mines: “I'm sorry, but I don't want to be an emperor. That's not my business. I don't want to rule or conquer anyone. I should like to help everyone if possible; Jew...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I hate when people see me cry cus I'm known at school as a strong tough girl who can take a hit or put down and walk away with a smile on my face because I still feel good about...
    kenyakayabney kenyakayabney 13-15, F Mar 18

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    Some people feel really upset and miserable when they have to drop people out of their life. I am not one of those people. I find dropping relationships to be a great thing because...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR. First of all this story is 100% true even though I wish it wasn't. I got WAY more then I bargained for and if anyone has a way to possibly go back to...
    JTam2090 JTam2090 22-25, M Mar 4

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    Instead of just thinking I have more diseases so my life is harder on me then it is on you. Try to understand. Not worrying about understanding them because it's not your problem...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 4

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    I was told I need to prove myself. I admit at this stage in my life I again have hit bottom and filled myself with depression as BPD has raised its ugly head again but in my life...
    wickedone72 wickedone72 41-45, F Mar 5

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    Give up? No, give IN is more fun!
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    I enjoy taking the time to be nice to people that are friendly to me online or off line.I write many stories because I find it good to express myself as I care to express myself.If...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Mar 9

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    My friend was pretty bossy to me back in December 2014 before Christmas. It was around two weeks after my grandfather passed away. She invited me to spend the night so I can get my...
    maialove maialove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Hey :3, firstly I just want you to know I'm quite happy, this isn't making me feel down or anything. I really want to start dating, but at the same time I don't. It's hard to...
    Aethic Aethic 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17

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