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I Feel So Alone

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    Alone In A Crowded Room....

    I have alot of family and i am a wife and mother. im also very young, and dont have any friends. i sometimes get of chat sites and talk to strangers. bad thing: its mostly men, who tlk to me...my husband doesnt know. i guess its because i have low self esteem...but i cant help it...
    dramaloves dramaloves 18-21, F Sep 19, 2010

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    This isn't a story about how romantic

    or personal relationships. ... this is about the fact that despite having a LOT of friends in many countries , despite knowing a lot of people IRL I can't seem to find a way to network myself, and thus I rely mainly on applying online anonymously along with other people. I also...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I dont feel like anyones there

    for me anymore my friends they choose to ignore me when i dont feel like telling them what happend with me and my bf, that doesnt mean they have to shut me out, everyone thinks im so happy when really im just getting worse in my condition im in right now. My friends think they...
    angelicflare angelicflare 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I feel so alone .....

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    Younusxkhan Younusxkhan 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend he treated me

    badly but I miss him and now he wont take me back
    ilovedyouinthemorning ilovedyouinthemorning 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Why I Feel Alone

    Changed to a school where I know no one and everyone knows each other and have "history," so i'm always the odd man out. My family that I live with is always pff smewhere even when we are in the house together they still drfit as far apart from each other as possible. After a...
    ZeelX63 ZeelX63 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2011

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    I feel so alone right now.

    ...I can literally be surrounded by people yet I feel alone I no that sounds stupid but it's true I don't know the person I have become anymore I feel alone and miserable I hate myself and everything I've done and become just wish I could end it all sick of feeling alone
    Jachlimi Jachlimi 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 23

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    For some reason things just keep going down

    hill in my life. I don't know I guess I haven't been the good person I thought I was. Why is it that I help and help and when I need help even thou I'm surrounded by a lot of people I still can't get help and I still feel so alone. Yes I might be a strong girl and yes I...
    courage2live courage2live 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Dear Future Special Someone,

    I need you more than I ever have in my life. I miss you, and I don't even know who you are. I can't help but wonder if I've already met you, or if we've ever even spoken. I can't help but wonder if your reading this now. Sometimes I lay in bed and wonder what it'll all be like...
    LookWithinMe LookWithinMe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    I caught my husband looking up ****.

    He's looked it up two days in a row... He hasn't romantically touched me in weeks. I miss him. I don't even know how to handle this or if I'm suppose to care.
    Laurax2 Laurax2 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    No One Cares About Me

    Hey. My name's Jennifer and I'm 18. I had a really close  friend,  but we had a serious argument and we're no longer friends anymore. I realised that he was only using me, and didn't really cared about me. He was the only friend I had. Now I have no friends and I feel...
    darkazuria darkazuria 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 18, 2010

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    David, So today I flew to California,

    the entire way I was actually hoping the plane would crash. I wanted the plane to go down, so I wouldn't have so many people blame themselves for my death... I took a walk on the beach today, walked in the surf alone. All I could think about was how you said we'd do that one...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I just want someone to hold onto.

    I miss the feeling of being loved. I believe have only experienced it once in my life. I keep trying but it just ends up being casual sex.
    loveinass676 loveinass676 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I feel so alone. I guess I should be going

    through a lot, as I'm a teenager, but these trials keep piling up and they're becoming a huge, huge burden. I am trying to be happy and I'm also trying to be there for my friends, but it's hard when I feel like I'm crumbling to pieces. Although I have my friends and family to...
    catchingfeelings catchingfeelings 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    My Own Doing

    I no longer have friends.  There is one person I consider a good friend, but we have never met irl.  I'm married but that is very strained.  I don't want to get close to him again because I know he will just break my heart as usual.  I have family...
    eromreven eromreven 26-30 9 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    lilikhaoula lilikhaoula 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    Tired Of Being Sad/lonely

    This is my first post on this website, I just registered a few minutes ago. I read through a couple of stories and decided to contribute something of my own. It's heartening to hear that i am not alone, when I feel alone (if that makes sense). I am 20 years old, and I am at a...
    nate3702 nate3702 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    down time…I can’t handle it.

    I am anxious, frustrated, sad. Alone.I can’t take it.I am seeking, needing, wanting. Alone.I can’t understand it.I am sweet, soft, patient. Alone.I can’t believe it.I am pleasant, sexy, erotic. Alone.I hate down time.I hate being left to my own devices.I hate not being in...
    january71 january71 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Feeling Alone

    It seems lik no matter what i do or say sometimes ppl just dnt understand me which casuses me to be tha person left out of things. I feel lik no one in the world could really relate to me and know how i feel or care about me. I dnt hav anyone i can realli just sit down an talk to...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2010

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    I Feel So Alone Too... :)

    I feel so alone. I have spent the past six months or so trying to read/learn about healthy relationships.  My boyfriend of three-and-a-half years and I moved from Western MA to Cape Cod in February of 2007 for my job.  He moved back to Western MA recently, and I am...
    CapeCodJenn CapeCodJenn 31-35 2 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Do I have friends? Yes.

    Do they talk to me? Sometimes. Do I want friends? Yeah. But do I feel alone? Always! Does anyone understand me? Hell no! Can I tell my therapist of my feelings? I don't think so...
    BlackPit123 BlackPit123 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I used to be happy, don't get me wrong.

    I used to love laughing, and smiled a hundred times a day. I used to surround myself with good happy people. Now, It's not the same I'm not happy, I cry most of the time. I hardly laugh, it just feels fake. I isolate myself and shut all of them out, because what's the point? I...
    ThatGurlDailyy ThatGurlDailyy 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Even when I have a person to talk to,

    I don't REALLY feel like I have someone to talk to. I don't feel like a person is the greatest person to communicate with if both that person and I can't be COMPLETELY open with each other. I want someone I can go to at all times to talk to whenever I'm feeling lonely or...
    EnigmaticBeing EnigmaticBeing 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Marriage over? Check.

    Zero love life? Check. Hopelessly dead-end career? Check. Fear of failure limiting dreams? Check. Self-loathing? Check, check, and check. I'm posting this to a random website because I have bored my friends and family to tears with all this. I don't know what else to do. I'm...
    Kronk23 Kronk23 36-40, M Apr 1

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    I Guess Im Alone

    I guess im alone is the best word i could think of for how im feeling. Ever since i was a kid ive felt it, i had to deal with being raped by a family friend on my own i didn't want to tell my parents cause i didn't want to make a fuss. I didn't really have friends seeming as i...
    Averagekid Averagekid 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Do You Think I Am Not Attractive Women????

    MY LIFE IS NOT BAD, BUT I FEEL SO ALONE AT TIMES. EVERYDAY I WAKE UP IN AN EMPTY HOUSE.  IT’S SILENCE CAN BE QUITE DEAFENING.  I WALK DOWN THE HALLWAY AND HEAR MY FOOTSTEPS ECHOING THROUGH  OUT THE HOUSE.  A BLEAK REMINDER OF JUST HOW ALONE AND LONELY I AM.  THERE ARE NO...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I just need someone that I know will be there

    for me. That I know I can call on those sleepless nights. Someone that would just care.
    LacedYoung LacedYoung 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm Not Sure Anyone Wants Me Around Anymore.

    I'm not saying this like a teenager usually would. But I'm not good enough. I never am and I'm really sick of it. Its seemed that since I've been back at school, nothing I've done is good enough for anybody. This guy I was talking about, he's decided to remember he's inlove with...
    JustTiggz JustTiggz 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    Blackest Abyss

    I sit alone in this dark abyss that I once called life. It once was a beautiful painting but now only the ripped canvas remains. I remember having hopes and dreams but day by day they have faded to darkness. I tried so hard to be what they want and lost myself along the way...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    I wish someone would hold me tight,

    tell me they love me, tell me they care, that they are here for me. Someone who wont leave me or ever letme go... :'(
    Spinningoutofcontrol Spinningoutofcontrol 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Don'T Hold It In!

    I just downloaded this free iphone app called 'Whisper' and you basically anonymously tell secrets and it's great for those things you can't tell anyone but need to get out kbye
    brittmeetworld brittmeetworld 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    I wake up, go to school

    and come home. At school, I talk and everything's fine. But once I get home, I realize how few friends I have. No one really talks to me outside of school, I never hang out with anyone anymore, and even my best friend has found someone else to spend more time with. I just feel...
    sanctuary3 sanctuary3 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Only Myself To Blame.

    Inside I'm doing things that would have me strapped to a bed and sedated.On the outside everything is fine.As long as I'm still doing everything I'm supposed to be doing. Acting like I'm fine. No one notices the turmoil inside.Am I really so good at faking happy? Or do they just...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    I just don't know what to do anymore.

    I'm sick and tiered of this and idk. Ever since I was little my older sister who is 4 years older than me has fought with my parents. Mainly my mum as my dad works away and is never really here. When I think of my childhood all i really remember is hiding in my room crying...
    RuinedGirl RuinedGirl 13-15 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have no one to talk to.

    I feel like I get judged on everything I do. Everything I do bothers my mom. No one even bothers to ask me whats going on in my house even if they see me crying Literally they will just walk out the room and not care. Im always there for ever one and no one is here for me. Idk...
    marlenea12 marlenea12 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    sitting in your room,

    crying quietly to yourself, hoping no one can hear you. wiping away the tears quickly when someone walks in and painting a fake smile on your face, but when they leave the paint washes away from the tears rolling down your face.
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I always feel so alone,

    even though I have great friends and a living family, I just feel like I can't talk about ANYTHING to anybody, it's making me feel so empty inside
    samthefreak samthefreak 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I feel worthless and lost.

    I don't know what to do anymore. It seems as all hope has faded. I barley have enough energy to get up from what I'm doing. I feel useless. The sun never seems to shine anymore and all the world has been covered with gray. Please help. I just feel so lost and unloved.
    sofia4559 sofia4559 13-15, F Feb 18

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    I Don't Matter

    Today I realised I'm visable when someone shoved past me... But I don't matter to anyone. No-one know's I'm here unless they need something and as I've grown older I have lost my friends. I considered my personality; maybe I'm boring because I prefer reading a book than going...
    Amaya8 Amaya8 22-25, F 27 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    BORED and Alone

    im not doing so good right now. my husband went back to work yesterday from being laid off. he went in today and hasnt been home yet. i feel alone and unappreciated. i called his friend mikes house but he called back looking for warren. my friend sophia came over during her lunch...
    alwaysbeafriend alwaysbeafriend 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Distance Even In Closeness

    I have always got along well with whatever group of people i was surrounded by.  My family consists of alot of people whom like to keep to them selves.  I have felt distant to everyone my whole life even when in relationships.  I am married and the feeling remains the same...
    BgDmbOx BgDmbOx 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Mar 28

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    Jealousy? Envy?

    Jealousy. Envy. You can give this feeling many names, but i could never feel this way. The right word would be 'hurt' because i could feel the pain right there in my heart. A physical pain. Too painful to ignore. It knocked the breadth out of me for a while. I would feel...
    sweetsour sweetsour 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2011

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    daviejones008 daviejones008 46-50, M Mar 9

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    I have incredible friends,

    and the two people I've met at college are so so great, but I miss romance and intimacy. Out of my friends I'm the only one who is single and I'm not even remotely talking to someone in a romantic sense. They're so happy and loving with their significant others, which makes me...
    agm0829 agm0829 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Hello my name is Anna,

    I can help in all matters in life. I give advice to those who are troubled and confused. Don’t sit and wonder if a loved one is being faithful to you. Don’t sit and wonder where you went wrong in life, or who done wrong to you. If you want to know the answer to your...
    PsychicAnnaOnline PsychicAnnaOnline 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Some days I do. Some days I go crazy wanting

    to find that special someone, while on other days I treasure my independence! Today is one of those lonely days. *sigh* :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    Its Weird, But When I Am Alone...

    Its weird, but when I am alone, i don't feel alone. When I am trying to make connections with other people I feel alone. Its like out of sight out of mind with me. If I don't know there are people immediately about me, I don't think about being alone.
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Alone In a Crowd

    This is my first attempt to put my feelings down in words. I have been feeling down and unable to pick myself up lately and I have tried to figure out why. It would be foolish to self diagnose but I wonder if I might be grieving my mom passed away over 25 years ago,and I did'nt...
    jackpine jackpine 61-65, M 9 Responses Dec 15, 2007

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    jonathanlolbmx jonathanlolbmx 16-17, M a week ago

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    I See All These People...

    ...and I want to help.  I do.  I read of someone feeling lost and alone and I want to instantly put myself on the back burner and help them feel better.  I think, sometimes, that it heals me to heal others.  But here's the thing.  I'm tired.  I'm...
    Anesthesia Anesthesia 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 2 days ago

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    Everyday Is Exactly the Same...

    I had so much hope..... Things were going well for me after I graduated from highschool. But through it all, later that summer I lost myself. I've been alone for such a large part of my life, I feel like I've missed out on soo much. My parents never let me go out with...
    Stillunknown Stillunknown 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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