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I Feel So Helpless

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    I hate knowing that you are upset. I hate knowing you feel suicidal. But I especially hate that I can't seem to do anything to help you. I wish I could do something, say something that would magically make you feel better. I wish I could be that person for you, who can cheep you...
    NoWayToGoOn NoWayToGoOn 18-21, M Oct 17, 2010

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    All I want is to be loved by someone like the way I love you
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    Help!!!! Please!! I can't take it!
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    I know I'm very beautiful. It's not a subjective thing. I get comments about my beauty all the time - unwanted comments. Unwanted attention. I used to get everything based on my...
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    Did you enjoy my pain? Was it fun to watch me fall? You where the reason why I became this way Everyday, my life is tormented by nightmares, Nightmares that are my reality Do you...
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    I'm in bit of a rut that's lasted about three or four years. Symptoms of this are narcissism, lack of empathy and anger/bitterness. I feel guilty because I'm not there for people...
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    "You wanna bet I can make you laugh within 5 mins?" I glared at my older brother. "No. Doubt you can. Get out of my freakin room." I turned my back to him. I thought he'd left, but...
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    I feel as if I'm alone. I have nobody to talk to, no one that cares. I can feel the darkness closing in around me. My only problem is I want a friend or somebody to talk to so...
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    some times i feel normal other times i just feel really girly and act girly its like my feminine side needs to come out evry now and then
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    having many friends is awesome, :) I feel comfortable in this site. Anyone is free to message me, as far as I can! I will response to your message. beep me up :)
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