I Feel So Stupid, Useless, Lost And Lonely

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    I feel so dumb... I am not capable of doing

    anything.. I feel like I can't do any job... I can't explain properly how I feel.. maybe it's a matter of low self esteem or because I suffer from schizophrenia... I am on medicine and have almost no symptoms other than feeling stupid, useless and with a bad memory... anyone...
    Dpfemale Dpfemale
    26-30, F
    Mar 11, 2016


    i know there are billions of people in this world, and with problems worse than mine, but i just have to tell this .. i really need to say what i'm feeling even no one will read it .. Basically, i don't have a boyfriend, i never had one; i'm not pretty, a lot of people called me...
    justxsofia justxsofia
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2013

    after my breakup with my boyfriend I got

    confused with my emotions because he said it doesnt feel rite dating me yea it hurts because were far away but still idk how im gonna see him I dont know I just cant even do this anymore,at school I see everyone holding hands kissing and hugging well I just feel invisable its...
    CryBbyFrancis CryBbyFrancis
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    I feel so lost in this relationship

    and everything i feel i do is wrong. But im not getting the things in the relationship that i need...
    hansen7681 hansen7681
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    GOD is the answer. Believe

    or not. Struggles are continuous on earth but, the outcome is really what's important. Humans and science don't have the answer to everything. Belief wasn't made out of thin air. There is a higher power.
    dashuria dashuria
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2014

    Never push a loyal person to the point

    where they walk away and no longer give a damn!
    rehabparty23 rehabparty23
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I lost will to do anything now.

    He broke up with me because he read my stupid depressive posts here, but i wasn't saying he gave up on me, just that I am so afraid of losing him and now I did. I am still into him but he thinks the relationship has become unhealthy. So hello loneliness, my old friend
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    I really want someone to hold me.

    Even better if they love me, but I feel so insignificant and unworthy of someone's love.
    Smudges Smudges
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 17, 2015

    Funny thing is , I'll hurt more

    if I let go than if I stay . That a sign that I'm not ready to give up ? I'm hurting myself being in love. He's my heart. Can anyone describe it ? That feeling you have when he's not yours. That feeling when your in your bed and crying in agony . Your holding yourself and...
    AliForever AliForever
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    I have so many good things in my life,

    beautiful experiences, lots of opportunities, caring friends, amazing kids, but I can't fight this sickness that's infected me. I feel sometimes like I am a ghost and I don't really exist in this plane of existence. That I am trying to connect through time and space. I had the...
    LittleBirds0827 LittleBirds0827
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 10, 2014
    jasminexox jasminexox
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    i want to help but dont know how.

    i dont know whats wrong. i worry that maybe im the problem. am i that cluless that i cant tell? if there is something else....i feel bad that i cant be there to help or that you feel i dont have a place to help. i want to be there for my friends. i want to be someone...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    Oct 12, 2015

    I decided to make a account on here today

    because I often find myself googleing I am sad , depressed , confused about life , don't know how to talk to people , I have low self esteem and much more stuff and it always leads me to this website and I always read what people write on here and it kinda calms me down . I feel...
    Annaerbc Annaerbc
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    nothing seems to excite me lately,

    not friends not family hell even my boyfriend has gone a wall on me. maybe I'm slipping into depression nd don't want to admit it, but I can tell its starting to show on my face from everyone's response... I don't know whether I want to be alone or with people when I feel the...
    beautifu1nightmare beautifu1nightmare
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    I feel like I'm no ones priority

    and no one really cares about me at all, I just think that maybe it would be best if I wasn't here at all. I never thought I'd be someone that would consider suicide but that's all that's going through my mind lately. I feel like it's the easiest way out because I can't handle...
    arcticmonkeys9 arcticmonkeys9
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    I keep getting jealous of a childhood friend

    who is good at everything including english even though she is from Korea. She is good at everything: music (violin, oboe, piano, vocals), math, other academic subjects, leadership, sports. I can't find any of her weaknesses. I can't do anything well except for empathizing with...
    algezebra algezebra
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    Why do I feel so useless

    when I try to help or do something my parents don't let me I mean I'm the eldest son but they go my brother and ask him even when I was his age I wasn't allowed to help out
    PositiveStateOfMind PositiveStateOfMind
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 3, 2016

    this feeling doesn't really touch me often

    because I think I'm so used to being alone...but at the moment I don't know why I really wish that I had someone who would care for me and understand me...:(
    dreamylife dreamylife
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    I'm sad and lonely. I have no idea what am I

    doing with me life. I don't have real friends with me. I'm far away from the people I love. Pursuing something that I'm not even sure if I'm interested. Living in a country where I don't speak the language. I need help.
    SereneDior SereneDior
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    So, I posted a story on this app,

    around a year ago, about my mother. If you read it, you know that she loves to make me feel like crap about myself. It's her favorite hobby, other than gambling. I turned to this site for advice then and now, I'm turning to it again. I've tried everything... Everything.. I've...
    VAxox VAxox
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015

    It has been a while since I've been on.

    I just think that I must with out knowing push people away. I don't know what is wrong with me. I know I think very negative about myself. I've just been like that since I was in elementary school. I think it has to do with being bullied from such a young age. Always hearing...
    emotionalheart89 emotionalheart89
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 13, 2016

    Trust Issues. Hi. I’m 15 year old male.

    I didn’t want to tell anyone what I was going through, so just jotting my feelings down here, anonymously. Problem with me is loneliness. I never had any friends in all my school life. I couldn’t fit in anywhere. Is this world where I belong to? What kind of twisted...
    justamindofateenager justamindofateenager
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    it's hard for someone

    as prideful as I to tell anyone something they say bothers me.... in the end I just end up letting myself slip into depression ya kno
    beautifu1nightmare beautifu1nightmare
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    The more I grow up, the more I realize how

    ****** the world is and the humans in it. Those around me are shallow and self absorbed and I need to get away & find some true friends
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    Stupid, lost and lonely definitely.

    Useless only because no one gives me a chance to share my talents and skills. Its all just going to waste. Good job life! Way to go everyone! Potential is always a great thing to waste....
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    I've Wasted My Life? Or...maybe I'm Just A Waste Since The Very Beginning. (please Read My Story! Maybe You Can Relate!)

    I'm a 24, hispanic male. I have an athletic look but i'm definitely not that much of an athlete. I SUCK at talking to girls , just like i suck at everything in life. I get rejected in a very polite way by the girls i talk to. They usually seem interested in me but when they...
    Neardeathsoul Neardeathsoul
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    Yesterday there was a misunderstanding

    and I did something so so stupid. I said things I should never have said. It was nothing but the truth but now, the pain of not knowing, and most of all, the pain of having you act so cold and angry towards me, breaks my heart. If you by any chance are reading this, I'm so so...
    CindyLEvans CindyLEvans
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    Everyone leaves and im starting to believe im

    just an easy person to replace...
    beautifu1nightmare beautifu1nightmare
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    so stupid thinking some one would care,

    , useless guess so lllllllll lost with out love,, lonely heart always broken
    lonelyheart1967 lonelyheart1967
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2014

    Why I feel so useless

    and helpless today? I hate to feel this way because it's too stressing and depressing but it keeps popping. I feel so pathetic. All of these doesn't makes sense to me now.
    ssangvellies ssangvellies
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    I have tried to kill myself,

    and am felling useless almost 24/7
    Bobfishcatfish Bobfishcatfish
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    Once I used to feel pretty intelligent,

    not a genius but a smart girl and whatever happened at least I knew I had my mind and I could do something with my life with it. Now I feel just useless, I realized that I'm not intelligent at all and my school grades show it. I feel worthless, I think I'm a bit depressed but I...
    BubbleHolmes BubbleHolmes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2013

    idk why. Every day, walking home from school,

    I feel like **** and I don't know why. I just want to get out and never see some of the people there again. I love too much and just get used. I'm stupid for every trusting anyone. I'm useless, because I'm not good at anything, I'm lost because I have no idea where else I can go...
    Kairics Kairics
    16-17, T
    May 4, 2015

    I found out that my friend likes my ex.

    ..who I still care for and like...and she has been denying it. I also found out that my friends were talking behind my back saying that I cut for attention. When I really don't. People just get involved at the worse times. And last night I was hanging out with my friends and I...
    breatheasy2017 breatheasy2017
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2016

    That Pretty Much Sums It Up

    Well, I feel stupid because I am stupid....I have a brilliant head that got me through college with not much effort, and yet I haven't been able to find a solution for my issues....like I said: STUPID I feel useless because I am useless....apparently whatever I think I do good...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2011

    All anyone's done today is make me feel stupid

    and worthless. All I want to do is lay here and cry. I dont deserve any of this. My whole life has been hell. And just when I thought I was going to be happy, everything had to come crashing down. I cant handle it anymore. I cant handle the anxiety I have every second of every...
    blackspikex blackspikex
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015

    Im so ******* stupid

    and pathetic.... This I am well aware. Always pushing people away until Im completely alone, because I want to test those to see who will remain loyal and true.... But it seems in my broken insanities, I am to complicated for any man to love. Ive driven everyone who has even...
    EclecticDay EclecticDay
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 13, 2015

    Feeling so stupid and useless.

    . I can't do any Kind of Job because i am To anxious.. I Feel worthless and can' t Even sell Shoes or Something like that.. I Don' t know how i could change my life. Everyone is better off than me... I just want To kill myself..
    Dpfemale Dpfemale
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    the saddest part is that everyone in this

    section can agree we all feel the same way...
    countryboyjoey countryboyjoey
    22-25, M
    Jul 6, 2015

    I'm an outsider I'm different there's no one

    like me it's like in divergent how tris is divergent and the only one dats like me
    CryBbyFrancis CryBbyFrancis
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 22, 2015

    17 years I've known I'm not good enough.

    17 years I've known I'm worthless. Yet when someone took a liking to me, I forgot who I was. I forgot what I was. And I ignored that it was too good to be true. But they're gone now. And here I am, back where I was, just with one more piece of me missing, and with more will-be...
    AnonymousR771 AnonymousR771
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jan 12, 2016

    my gran has just had heart attack back home

    and I'm so far away. I feel so useless.
    goodwife37 goodwife37
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I just feel so lost. I don't know what to do

    anymore. I think I have a best friend and then I don't hear from them for a very long time. I am tired of always having to start the conversations. It bothers me that I am always there for them when ever they need no matter what I am doing or how I am feeling, but when I need...
    emotionalheart89 emotionalheart89
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    Life sucks I'm just tired of it

    and I just want to be alone because I just ruin everything good in my life cuz my life is a piece of **** and I can't stand it anymore
    misunderstoodgirl1994 misunderstoodgirl1994
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 23, 2014

    stupid because i just am.

    useless because i can't do anything. lost because i still don't know who i really am. lonely because i...don't have the "love one" for all my entire life.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 6, 2015

    This pretty much sums up how I'm feeling lately.

    .. Stupid for believing people care about me Useless because I'm told I am Lost because I thought someone I really love loved me in return Lonely because I have no one who really gives a damn
    deleted deleted
    Jan 23, 2016
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