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I Feel Terrible When I Hurt Somebody

Nothing feels worse. 432 People

    Sad To Say, But This Group Has Been Hijacked

    TimesOfTrouble, I had to post this as a separate story because you have already deleted two (now make that four) of my comments.  You apparently are not equipped to handle opposition when it comes your way.  Deleting my comments, editing your post then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    Is it terrible? Am I terrible?

    For having someone I love and still wanting something else/ someone else To have made a promise to another and be with one and want both to still stay with you. To go to one at one time and to the other the next. To love both of them to the same extent but not be able to love...
    ChiyoAi ChiyoAi 16-17, F Sep 23

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    Telling my family and friends what they don't

    want to hear as apposed to what they want to hear, hurts me way more than it hurts them. What kind of person would I be if I can't be honest to the people I love more than anything in this world?
    Lee124 Lee124 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I Am So Sorry.

      I try very hard not to hurt other persons and I try to get close to persons without them getting too close to me as I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I am sorry if I have hurt you.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    I Caused Trouble And Hurt Feelings At The Store

    It's the weekend and on my list of things I've for sure got to do next week is to go apologize to a lady who works in a store. I am pretty disgruntled with myself because I think that I was short with her. It's a store where you can buy a drum of mayonnaise and everything comes...
    wheretheskymeetsthesea wheretheskymeetsthesea 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    As Is Quite Fitting, And Right.

    I know that there is a segment of the human population that feels no sorrow or regret and have no compunction with hurting others. I am very fortunately not among that ilk. When I've hurt someone, it plagues me until I've made it right or at least sought that person's forgiveness...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    Unintentially

    I do feel terrible when I hurt someone unintentially. sometimes, when I say something; I don't think it's bad; but people say it's bad or hurtfull which is usually not often; then I feel bad. I guess people take words differently; what one person say it's okay; to the other...
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2011

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    It's too true! If I can tell

    that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that person and just be dead so that I never hurt anyone emotionally again. Unfortunately that isn't the case and I have hurt people in...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I feel as if all I do is hurt people.

    I feel so bad and guilty when I hurt someone. I tend to hold onto my guilt and in the end it hurts me more than when I hurt someone. I can't ever say sorry enough
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Oct 10

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    Need To Escape

    So, question. Has anyone ever seen that movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy"? Well, I live it and there is no escape. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this.
    hirsute123 hirsute123 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    For A Long Time

    I always feel like crap when I hurt someone, even by accident. It probably takes me longer to get over hurting someone than it takes them to get over it. I still find myself beating myself up over pain that I caused years ago. Don't get me wrong, I will defend myself even if it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T May 7, 2013

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    This Feeling Sucks....

    I have not only hurt myself to the point where I don't think that the damage can be reverese at this point, but not only have I hurt myself beyond I can put into this story, that is not what I care about. I could care less about the pain I have brought upon myself, but the very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 9, 2011

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    Yes. I Sick To My Stomach.

    That is why I try not to hurt anyone. If I do. I will say sorry over and over again. So that person would forgive me.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Aug 16, 2011

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    Unless they attacked.

    Wow honesty. Uhtohhh. Typical male too. Dangit.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    updated; Anyone Who Feels Terrible When They Hurt Someone Is Very Special In The Eyes Of God.

    Believe it or not those words have more meaning than the vast majority in this world has any understanding of because of there spiritual meaning in relation to the only true God; and care to know why? What fully determines who a person is genuinely is what can only be seen by...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I Feel Bad When I Give Someone Non-benificial Pain

    That's it, the title said it all.
    Wolftide Wolftide 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    Karma Chameleon.

    Pain is never nice. To feel you are giving pain to someone by accident or in deliberate cause, is wrong. Understanding each other is what will make us better. We will move along the road, and lessen the affects of our own karma by being aware of pain and avoiding its uglinesses...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    i did this yesterday.with a cigarette i burned my hand on purpose.it feels better when you have a feeling you have control over your pain i guess idk
    00pleasehelpme00 00pleasehelpme00 18-21 a week ago

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    I feel bad that i am not sad when you are and a great wave of emotion comes flooding over me. Next thing you know im in tears as well.
    cleocat1234 cleocat1234 13-15, F Oct 12

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    my ex bullied me, so his friends tagged along, of course. i was told to go kill myself, that i gave my ex Herpes. rumours went around saying i slept with a twelfth grader and o...
    SuicideIsParadise SuicideIsParadise 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Yess!!... Sneaky sex is the best sex.. Let's do a quickie when no one watching .. That was me earlier . Then walk away and leave him guessing. Got him wanting more.
    kaikae kaikae 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 3

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    I have the house to myself until tomorrow night. Time to spend the rest a the day completely naked. 😉👍
    pmo77 pmo77 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    It's so hard being around all the negative people in the world. I'm ready for new adventure, good times meant to be lived. No more tears. I'm so excited to get to know the new...
    LastofmyKind LastofmyKind 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Today my mum shouted at me, saying rude things and things that hurt me so much. So i tried to defend myself and trying to fight for myself. But I ended up being scolded and yelled...
    llamaxxi llamaxxi 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I know it sounds terrible and I sound like a monster saying this. I'm sure 99% of you guys would think so. But please help me understand why I shouldn't (or should) feel this way...
    WhoAml WhoAml 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    One day I was playing outside on the swings before supper, and Mom was inside. I was swinging sideways while my sister Rachel was swinging beside me. She got annoyed and told me to...
    spankedbarebutt spankedbarebutt 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Broken rib.. home alone the whole week-end, chilling a little and watching few movies. No sport.. and that's hard for me. I slept a lot, my student career is ending soon, and I'm...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Oct 12

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    I've had 3 people who I have genuinely called my best friends. Each one has hurt me and each one worse than the last... Recently I moved to NYC, it wasn't a place I had planned on...
    luvzmusic89 luvzmusic89 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I am a senior in high school. My school work is starting to ramp up. I have two AP classes which is the maximum I can take at my small school. I have a full class schedule. I have...
    Edwin96 Edwin96 18-21, M Sep 24

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    This is the story of my life, from my earliest childhood memories to the age of majority (18). Today is October 2. 2014. I am a Norwegian male, so my English is not perfect. I'm...
    Dakris Dakris 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    I just don't want to bother anyone. I don't want to upset anyone but that's all I seem to be good for. I deserve to hurt emotionally and physically. I want it, because it's what...
    Incogneato555 Incogneato555 16-17, F Sep 25

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    I feel alone, like no one cares. When someone does come along and say they care it always ends up showing that they don't care even after all the late calls and texts I receive...
    geoffpavel geoffpavel 22-25, M Sep 26

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    I always felt different, witch is not a bad thing, because being different is not always something bad. But it feels good feel that there's somebody who understands our side...
    monicafixe monicafixe 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I feel an ache in My Heart I gasp to breathe a breath of air and feel a hestiant sigh come out my lips, a feeling of blue and dark loneliness embrace my every thought through my...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I cheated and I feel horrible. My boyfriend lacks a sex drive almost completely and after 3 years I finally went out to see if sex was as important to me as I thought. It isn't...
    kaylee84 kaylee84 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't know what to do I try and I try but no one hears me My only safe haven is my home and even there I'm out of place I only feel right when gone and in a place I don't know I...
    EverChangingMind EverChangingMind 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    It is hurtful and makes you feel unimportant when someone doesn't respond to your texts or messages. Do you just walk away from a person in the middle of a conversation when you...
    ceridwen610 ceridwen610 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    I don't know why. I help people and then find out I feel so used. I feel guilty when I don't sacrifice for people who are unfortunate with something. And when I do, I feel like i...
    rockstin87 rockstin87 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Hate it when I get that feeling like either something bad is about to happen or it's already happened. 95% of it stems mostly from paranoia and sometimes from stress. But the other...
    SonofSomebody SonofSomebody 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    I even feel guilty when I tell people how I feel. I even feel guilty for feeling guilty.
    NotActive NotActive 18-21, M Oct 9

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    I feel attractive when I put on lipstick I feel ugly when I apply eyeshadow on my eyelid why because I don't know how to put on eyeshadow right
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    I hate this feeling of feeling alone when I have so many people around me. I know so many people and have I guess you can call them friends but I still feel alone. Empty space in...
    arshaunaaaa arshaunaaaa 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yeah I got the belt. Studies show that black parents are more likely to use corporal punishment("spankings")than any other group. Why? Historically the black body has been subject...
    theslyfox theslyfox 31-35, M Sep 24

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    I just came home today. I haven't been home since Tuesday. My sons were playing and the youngest smacked the oldest for no reason. I yelled and told him to say sorry and go to his...
    NJLonely NJLonely 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Here comes my feelings again! & I'm so worried about how it's going. I really like somebody, whenever we talk and hangout or just physically present next to each other there's that...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I fell madly in love with this guy over the course of about five years give or take. he is so hilarious and makes me laugh so much when I'm with him my sides start hurting. when I...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I loved him so much. And I didn't want to believe it but he strayed from me. And after a month and a half of hiding from the truth I have finally called it off. Shouldn't I feel...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm at university studying History. However, because I went through clearing, I had trouble finding somewhere to live. I eventually found somewhere to live in a private halls of...
    Keltic95 Keltic95 16-17 1 Response 9 hrs ago