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I Feel Terrible When I Hurt Somebody

Nothing feels worse. 452 People

    Telling my family and friends what they don't

    want to hear as apposed to what they want to hear, hurts me way more than it hurts them. What kind of person would I be if I can't be honest to the people I love more than anything in this world?
    Lee124 Lee124 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Is it terrible? Am I terrible?

    For having someone I love and still wanting something else/ someone else To have made a promise to another and be with one and want both to still stay with you. To go to one at one time and to the other the next. To love both of them to the same extent but not be able to love...
    ChiyoAi ChiyoAi 18-21, F Sep 23, 2014

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    Sad To Say, But This Group Has Been Hijacked

    TimesOfTrouble, I had to post this as a separate story because you have already deleted two (now make that four) of my comments.  You apparently are not equipped to handle opposition when it comes your way.  Deleting my comments, editing your post then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    This Feeling Sucks....

    I have not only hurt myself to the point where I don't think that the damage can be reverese at this point, but not only have I hurt myself beyond I can put into this story, that is not what I care about. I could care less about the pain I have brought upon myself, but the very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 9, 2011

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    Unintentially

    I do feel terrible when I hurt someone unintentially. sometimes, when I say something; I don't think it's bad; but people say it's bad or hurtfull which is usually not often; then I feel bad. I guess people take words differently; what one person say it's okay; to the other...
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2011

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    Karma Chameleon.

    Pain is never nice. To feel you are giving pain to someone by accident or in deliberate cause, is wrong. Understanding each other is what will make us better. We will move along the road, and lessen the affects of our own karma by being aware of pain and avoiding its uglinesses...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    I Feel Bad When I Give Someone Non-benificial Pain

    That's it, the title said it all.
    Wolfbilly Wolfbilly 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    It's too true! If I can tell

    that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that person and just be dead so that I never hurt anyone emotionally again. Unfortunately that isn't the case and I have hurt people in...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12, 2014

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    Need To Escape

    So, question. Has anyone ever seen that movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy"? Well, I live it and there is no escape. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this.
    hirsute123 hirsute123 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    As Is Quite Fitting, And Right.

    I know that there is a segment of the human population that feels no sorrow or regret and have no compunction with hurting others. I am very fortunately not among that ilk. When I've hurt someone, it plagues me until I've made it right or at least sought that person's forgiveness...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    For A Long Time

    I always feel like crap when I hurt someone, even by accident. It probably takes me longer to get over hurting someone than it takes them to get over it. I still find myself beating myself up over pain that I caused years ago. Don't get me wrong, I will defend myself even if it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T May 7, 2013

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    I feel as if all I do is hurt people.

    I feel so bad and guilty when I hurt someone. I tend to hold onto my guilt and in the end it hurts me more than when I hurt someone. I can't ever say sorry enough
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Oct 10, 2014

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    updated; Anyone Who Feels Terrible When They Hurt Someone Is Very Special In The Eyes Of God.

    Believe it or not those words have more meaning than the vast majority in this world has any understanding of because of there spiritual meaning in relation to the only true God; and care to know why? What fully determines who a person is genuinely is what can only be seen by...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I Caused Trouble And Hurt Feelings At The Store

    It's the weekend and on my list of things I've for sure got to do next week is to go apologize to a lady who works in a store. I am pretty disgruntled with myself because I think that I was short with her. It's a store where you can buy a drum of mayonnaise and everything comes...
    wheretheskymeetsthesea wheretheskymeetsthesea 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Yes. I Sick To My Stomach.

    That is why I try not to hurt anyone. If I do. I will say sorry over and over again. So that person would forgive me.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Aug 16, 2011

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    I Am So Sorry.

      I try very hard not to hurt other persons and I try to get close to persons without them getting too close to me as I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I am sorry if I have hurt you.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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