Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Feel Terrible When I Hurt Somebody

Nothing feels worse. 540 People

    I feel as if all I do is hurt people.

    I feel so bad and guilty when I hurt someone. I tend to hold onto my guilt and in the end it hurts me more than when I hurt someone. I can't ever say sorry enough
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Oct 10, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    updated; Anyone Who Feels Terrible When They Hurt Someone Is Very Special In The Eyes Of God.

    Believe it or not those words have more meaning than the vast majority in this world has any understanding of because of there spiritual meaning in relation to the only true God; and care to know why? What fully determines who a person is genuinely is what can only be seen by...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sad To Say, But This Group Has Been Hijacked

    TimesOfTrouble, I had to post this as a separate story because you have already deleted two (now make that four) of my comments.  You apparently are not equipped to handle opposition when it comes your way.  Deleting my comments, editing your post then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    As Is Quite Fitting, And Right.

    I know that there is a segment of the human population that feels no sorrow or regret and have no compunction with hurting others. I am very fortunately not among that ilk. When I've hurt someone, it plagues me until I've made it right or at least sought that person's forgiveness...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need To Escape

    So, question. Has anyone ever seen that movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy"? Well, I live it and there is no escape. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this.
    hirsute123 hirsute123 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This Feeling Sucks....

    I have not only hurt myself to the point where I don't think that the damage can be reverese at this point, but not only have I hurt myself beyond I can put into this story, that is not what I care about. I could care less about the pain I have brought upon myself, but the very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is it terrible? Am I terrible?

    For having someone I love and still wanting something else/ someone else To have made a promise to another and be with one and want both to still stay with you. To go to one at one time and to the other the next. To love both of them to the same extent but not be able to love...
    ChiyoAi ChiyoAi 18-21, F Sep 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am So Sorry.

      I try very hard not to hurt other persons and I try to get close to persons without them getting too close to me as I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I am sorry if I have hurt you.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 16, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    For A Long Time

    I always feel like crap when I hurt someone, even by accident. It probably takes me longer to get over hurting someone than it takes them to get over it. I still find myself beating myself up over pain that I caused years ago. Don't get me wrong, I will defend myself even if it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T May 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes. I Sick To My Stomach.

    That is why I try not to hurt anyone. If I do. I will say sorry over and over again. So that person would forgive me.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Aug 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's too true! If I can tell

    that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that person and just be dead so that I never hurt anyone emotionally again. Unfortunately that isn't the case and I have hurt people in...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel Bad When I Give Someone Non-benificial Pain

    That's it, the title said it all.
    Wolfbilly Wolfbilly 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Karma Chameleon.

    Pain is never nice. To feel you are giving pain to someone by accident or in deliberate cause, is wrong. Understanding each other is what will make us better. We will move along the road, and lessen the affects of our own karma by being aware of pain and avoiding its uglinesses...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have once broken down

    since I made my friend feel disappointed and sad. When I knew that, I couldn't stop crying. And the next few days, I felt so terrible. I felt so guilty and sad. Then, when I met that friend, I told her that I cried a lot and I was so sorry for that. She was a bit surprised. I...
    Acrylic19 Acrylic19 16-17, F Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Telling my family and friends what they don't

    want to hear as apposed to what they want to hear, hurts me way more than it hurts them. What kind of person would I be if I can't be honest to the people I love more than anything in this world?
    Lee124 Lee124 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Caused Trouble And Hurt Feelings At The Store

    It's the weekend and on my list of things I've for sure got to do next week is to go apologize to a lady who works in a store. I am pretty disgruntled with myself because I think that I was short with her. It's a store where you can buy a drum of mayonnaise and everything comes...
    wheretheskymeetsthesea wheretheskymeetsthesea 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Finally getting back on the road.

    Everything is as it should be.
    Jackem82 Jackem82 31-35, M Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    When it rains, my creativity comes to life. It's like all my feelings that were buried deep inside of me burst out when the rain falls. When it's dark and rainy, I listen to sad...
    Yunocorn Yunocorn 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I posted a few days ago about my recent break up. 3 years of highs and lows, not being cheated (to my knowledge) but we broke up once after a few months and she immediately jumped...
    timthomp timthomp 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Feelings Are Hurt && Im Disappointed, But Ill Be Fine 😕
    YoungForever101 YoungForever101 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    which is all the damn time cause I'm currently too small for a bra
    Zurea Zurea 26-30, T 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    its so much difference when im alone and walking than when im with someone
    JerryyJamess JerryyJamess 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today, I was driving to the mall with my mom. We were going to catch the early show of The Man from UNCLE as we both had some stuff to do later in the day and I didn't want to...
    EddA22 EddA22 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Did you feel this when you were a teenager or lately?:-( huhuhuhu
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
    fragilegile fragilegile 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lately I've been feeling/thinking that I would be better off with out my husband. I love him very much but I just feel better when he isn't around. I've grown accustomed to being...
    URLOVED4EVA URLOVED4EVA 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everytime i hurt somebody or i did unpleasant to anyone, I always apologize to them. I will never stop apologizing unless I'm forgiven..
    annieIn21 annieIn21 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do not know why but sometimes i feel heartbroken when the most loyal one prove himself unloyal.Its true that people don't say what they feel about you but they show it to you.I...
    gettingmad1154 gettingmad1154 18-21, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I seriously don't feel loved when all he does is ignore me lately. He always accuses me of many things. He spends more time and enjoys himself with his friends. He rarely hangs out...
    InfinityIBeyond InfinityIBeyond 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im not good with story telling .i dont think my problem is even worth mentioning but im a first year college student and i feel so empty .i am not depressed even though my life is...
    M00ah M00ah 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The worst feeling is when you feel alone with the one whom you are with and the one whom you really want to be with is 1000 miles away.
    writergirl71 writergirl71 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm starting college soon and i'm not ready.
    PandorasWitness PandorasWitness 16-17, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 50, Jewish, Male (I say this in case other people share my background it might make then feel better that they are not alone). I am very depressed right now. I have been...
    badman50 badman50 46-50, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like to look sad or mad or scared in front of people so I hide those emotions. I give people a smile and say I'm fine. I walk around like I feel great. I talk to people...
    ajofawesome ajofawesome 16-17, M Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i feel better when i am drunk
    khawarii khawarii 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how to handle it. All my life I've been treated badly even by those who I'm meant to trust with my life. I can't help but feel that when someone is being kind to me...
    dreampaladin dreampaladin 16-17, F Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just feel like I'm on a different page most of the time. No matter how much I try to explain myself, I feel like people don't get where I'm coming from. They get what I'm saying...
    XlizrocksY XlizrocksY 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's the overload of catastrophic events in the news that get to me. I think my maternal hormones were overproducing once upon a time. I could only see things from a mother's...
    vocaleyes vocaleyes 56-60, F Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I feel people staring really hard at me, I find myself fighting the urge to smile. I bust out laughing.
    SplitGivanni SplitGivanni 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it is an ill feeling, too....
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Its hard to explain. It only lasts a few seconds but its the best feeling really. When you wake up and you don't know anything or remember anything. That moment when you don't...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66 22-25, F Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel