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I Feel Terrible When I Hurt Somebody

Nothing feels worse. 522 People

    I Am So Sorry.

      I try very hard not to hurt other persons and I try to get close to persons without them getting too close to me as I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I am sorry if I have hurt you.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 16, 2010

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    I feel as if all I do is hurt people.

    I feel so bad and guilty when I hurt someone. I tend to hold onto my guilt and in the end it hurts me more than when I hurt someone. I can't ever say sorry enough
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Oct 10, 2014

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    Telling my family and friends what they don't

    want to hear as apposed to what they want to hear, hurts me way more than it hurts them. What kind of person would I be if I can't be honest to the people I love more than anything in this world?
    Lee124 Lee124 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    It's too true! If I can tell

    that something I said has emotionally effected someone in a negative way. I want to die. I want to go back in time kill myself before I hurt that person and just be dead so that I never hurt anyone emotionally again. Unfortunately that isn't the case and I have hurt people in...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12, 2014

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    I have once broken down

    since I made my friend feel disappointed and sad. When I knew that, I couldn't stop crying. And the next few days, I felt so terrible. I felt so guilty and sad. Then, when I met that friend, I told her that I cried a lot and I was so sorry for that. She was a bit surprised. I...
    Acrylic19 Acrylic19 16-17, F Jun 25

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    Karma Chameleon.

    Pain is never nice. To feel you are giving pain to someone by accident or in deliberate cause, is wrong. Understanding each other is what will make us better. We will move along the road, and lessen the affects of our own karma by being aware of pain and avoiding its uglinesses...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    Finally getting back on the road.

    Everything is as it should be.
    Jackem82 Jackem82 31-35, M Apr 14

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    This Feeling Sucks....

    I have not only hurt myself to the point where I don't think that the damage can be reverese at this point, but not only have I hurt myself beyond I can put into this story, that is not what I care about. I could care less about the pain I have brought upon myself, but the very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 9, 2011

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    As Is Quite Fitting, And Right.

    I know that there is a segment of the human population that feels no sorrow or regret and have no compunction with hurting others. I am very fortunately not among that ilk. When I've hurt someone, it plagues me until I've made it right or at least sought that person's forgiveness...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    updated; Anyone Who Feels Terrible When They Hurt Someone Is Very Special In The Eyes Of God.

    Believe it or not those words have more meaning than the vast majority in this world has any understanding of because of there spiritual meaning in relation to the only true God; and care to know why? What fully determines who a person is genuinely is what can only be seen by...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    Sad To Say, But This Group Has Been Hijacked

    TimesOfTrouble, I had to post this as a separate story because you have already deleted two (now make that four) of my comments.  You apparently are not equipped to handle opposition when it comes your way.  Deleting my comments, editing your post then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    Is it terrible? Am I terrible?

    For having someone I love and still wanting something else/ someone else To have made a promise to another and be with one and want both to still stay with you. To go to one at one time and to the other the next. To love both of them to the same extent but not be able to love...
    ChiyoAi ChiyoAi 18-21, F Sep 23, 2014

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    Yes. I Sick To My Stomach.

    That is why I try not to hurt anyone. If I do. I will say sorry over and over again. So that person would forgive me.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Aug 16, 2011

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    I Caused Trouble And Hurt Feelings At The Store

    It's the weekend and on my list of things I've for sure got to do next week is to go apologize to a lady who works in a store. I am pretty disgruntled with myself because I think that I was short with her. It's a store where you can buy a drum of mayonnaise and everything comes...
    wheretheskymeetsthesea wheretheskymeetsthesea 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Need To Escape

    So, question. Has anyone ever seen that movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy"? Well, I live it and there is no escape. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this.
    hirsute123 hirsute123 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    For A Long Time

    I always feel like crap when I hurt someone, even by accident. It probably takes me longer to get over hurting someone than it takes them to get over it. I still find myself beating myself up over pain that I caused years ago. Don't get me wrong, I will defend myself even if it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T May 7, 2013

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    I Feel Bad When I Give Someone Non-benificial Pain

    That's it, the title said it all.
    Wolfbilly Wolfbilly 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    Nothing makes me feel better when I'm upset than spooning sex. I get the best of both worlds-se.x and being held. Love it!
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    All i do most of the time any more is sit and satire at the tv. its not on i just sit and wonder what my life could have been if i choose a different path. i wonder if the choices...
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    Missing you everyday. Not being around you two hurts everyday. I feel like I'm getting the run around from you. You can't ask me certain things. Certain things you shouldn't k know...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    The stomachache, the emptiness I feel where my heart should be. As many times as they have come and gone you'd think I be used to this pain by now.. Feels like a new wound every...
    willowAnn2434 willowAnn2434 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Lately, I haven't been feeling the most upbeat. There is so much going on that I am feeling very overwhelmed about. I'm moving to Texas in about a week. My on and off boyfriend...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Being guilty is a very annoying, stressful, and pestering feeling. That's why I don't do anything that would make me feel guilty anyways. In the situation im in, I feel guilty when...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    i dont know what is happening. i m avery shy person when it comes to talking about myself dont even have a single friend with whom i can share personal stuff. there is this guy...
    paigeologist paigeologist 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    It hurts again today.. Thought I was getting over it but I guess I'm not sigh When will this be over?
    lennyx91 lennyx91 22-25, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Sorry if this bothers anyone but I really want to get this off of my chest. Okay so Im in a relationship and things were really nice and fun on the beginning but recently I?ve...
    shiveredwolf23 shiveredwolf23 18-21, T 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Today was the worst day ever. This lady made me feel less of a person.
    Kandy08 Kandy08 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    "Broken" I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away I keep your photograph, I know it serves me well I wanna hold you high and...
    AwakenEdge AwakenEdge 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I broke up and it really hurt me. He called today and I didn't answer then he text me and we went back and forth for a while about random things but I had to tell...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I have something amazing to share. This weekend might have changed my life forever. first of all, I'd like to thank everyone who showed me support in my situation. I've never felt...
    redlipscandy redlipscandy 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Aggravated may be a better term. Don't you just love logging in and seeing the word "deleted" next to a message of a "friend"? I mean, really.. how rude. At least a goodbye...
    BadlyBent BadlyBent 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    "Bittersweet" Every now and then I still get a flashback Of the time I spent Thinking you could be that one Should I have just kept your love? As I understand, We did have some...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F Jul 26

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    Hmm. Well, I recently began talking with a girl and liked her within a couple of days. We kept talking and it grew more and more and..I really really like her now. Like, a lot...
    brainiak13 brainiak13 13-15, M Jul 26

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    Its a terrible feeling to be alone. none around you, everyone has rejected you. you can't find someone to tell all your sorrow to. you begin to feel sorry for yourself, and its...
    sadwithasmile sadwithasmile 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    it always seems to be circular..what happened before happens again. however i try avoid it, it never changes. im so tired of it...please let it end. but i know it wont....ever...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I am really hurt and upset right now. My dad went into my room and bagged all of my things into garbage bags and put them out in the backyard because I haven't had a chance to...
    goshgollydolly goshgollydolly 22-25, F Jul 24

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    I feel good when I help people. Basically I'm a very emotional person if I see small kids or old people begging I feel very bad and for a moment I forget everything and it makes me...
    Reacher2436 Reacher2436 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 24

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    Watching him get ready for work. Even though he was running a bit late, he had time to have a deep, philosophical conversation with me. It lasted only twenty or thirty minutes. His...
    TheAssemblee TheAssemblee 22-25, F Jul 24

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    I feel lonely when I saw people hanging out with their friends especially the one that I recognized.It makes me feel despair and sad hoping that someday I could gain that myself.
    maablues maablues 18-21, M Jul 24

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    It makes me feel special when people say sweet things to me. I love compliments and I love to give them as well. Anytime you can say something sweet to people it makes them feel...
    jjohnnyboy jjohnnyboy 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I started school again two days ago and since yesterday I've began to feel lost and this emptiness inside. I feel good when I'm at school but when I come out it feels as if...
    DifferentbyNature DifferentbyNature 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Well i'm a loner ever since i was a kid. Over the last two, three years I was able to make some friends . I still feel empty. Those years i have been praying to God to give friends...
    Otunev Otunev 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 21

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