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I Feel That All Relationships Need Some Work

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 144 People

    A relationship is always a work in progress.

    And it should never feel like work. Mutual giving and sharing
    4mdj 4mdj 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Follow Your Heart? Compromise?

    Growing up in Beautiful British Columbia, my heart is there. I love the mountains, the lakes, and the hustle bustle of a thriving city. Though right now I live in Moldy Manitoba, I one day hope to return to BC. I am in a great relationship with a man I love dearly...
    DaniellaSonya DaniellaSonya 18-21 Nov 6, 2008

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    Understatement!!

    Boy do I find the title of this group to be a major understatement.  Relationships take LOTS of work.   What I’m battling with now is after ending a nearly 20 year marriage and becoming involved with a man whom I just adore.  How does each of us deal with...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    Realtionships Are Like

    flowers when you stop working on them they will pass away and be back to dust
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Dec 17, 2011

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    The Things We Struggle With

    It's so easy to look at other people and see what we think they are doing wrong or what they aren't doing right. I sometimes look at a friend or partner and think, how can you keep doing that. What I've realized is that I need to always ask the same question of myself. While...
    femme7 femme7 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2008

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    Another Woman X

    I belive thay do need work , i lost the will too keep my marrage going last year and left my husband , while were trying to sort stuff out, the started dating a woman that was a bit of a stalker, she was horrable, she did stuff in my car came into my house, and he would say stuff...
    LIZZIE79 LIZZIE79 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    There are days when I do feel down and need someone to lend an ear. I have friends but there are things I don't feel comfortable telling them. Sigh. :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I feel like he's pulling away. My boyfriend, we've been together 2 and a half years. We we first got together, and up until the last December, everything was great. We got each...
    krissyhopee0726 krissyhopee0726 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Seriously thinking about ending it all. I'm in a really bad situation. Let me start off by saying that I have only two real friends, and have lost nearly my entire family in the...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really need someone to talk to ;(I feel alone on this app ;;( Iwwant someone who i can tell anything to l im sick of been judged on this app you don't know me so please don't...
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I met a guy through a legit dating service and we hit it off really well. I didn't think anything of it. Then we started emailing and that turned into phone calls and texting, on a...
    notworthtime notworthtime 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 27

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    Someone smart told me all relationships deserve a second chance? What do you think?
    baybabes71 baybabes71 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I really need some advice from a female regarding females and relationships. I already have gotten male advice, Anyone up for it?.
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    (This is long but I just want someone to read and hear my struggle and understand. Please read I'll appreciate it!) I have no friends in high school. None at all. During break I...
    DavidDG DavidDG 16-17, M 8 Responses Jul 26

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    I'm upset right now and can't figure out if I'm over reacting. My fiancé and I have a work friend. She's mostly my friend. She's very young, sweet, naive and beautiful. Your...
    secret911 secret911 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 8

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    Idk why I'm feeling all sad all over again about my ex. I'm so afraid that I will lose him forever. Yet i can't text him how I feel and I don't want to text him because I'm still...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    One of the biggest things I need to work on...smh I just feel like I am never good enough...
    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F Aug 5

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    this man who i have been living with since jan. and have went thru being pregnant and having a abortion is still trying to act like we are not together!! he says contantly how i do...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is a note I'm writing to someone that I've felt used by. I know should confront them in person, but the opportunities are dwindling, and I always mess things up in person...
    nickrif nickrif 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My affair just ended a couple of months ago after my BF found out about a MM I had been seeing for over a year. The MM was my best friend and helped me trough the toughest times...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    My affair just ended a couple of months ago after my BF found out about MM I had been seeing for over a year. The MM was my best friend and helped me through the toughest times at...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    As many know, I just recently discovered about my husband cheating after giving birth to our child. Since then, I have left the house, and have stayed with family. Now the question...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F Aug 12

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    Did you ever meet someone and feel a strong connection to them without even really knowing them? Like they just "get" you and you feel like you know them and feel empathy towards...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I need some guy advice from y'all. Would love anything you have to offer. Xoxo.
    Moweb95 Moweb95 18-21, F 5 Responses 43 mins ago

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M Jul 27

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M Jul 27

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    I believe in you! I know sometimes you can feel like all you ever do is support others but when it comes to you, there's a drought in your pool of friends. I have felt the same way...
    YoungPadawan YoungPadawan 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I need 2 workout Buddies. I'm in the Springfield/Dayton, OH area. If interested, reply to my Email: dabbssd@aol.com
    InShapeDave InShapeDave 56-60, M Aug 1

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    I have been feeling like i need a break from everything and everyone im used to.....I really need some quality alone, me time. I have also been feeling like i just need someone to...
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I hate that feeling, when you are sad but have no idea why. You feel so f#cking empty, but nothing in particular happened. They ask you whats wrong, but you can't explain. Or they...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Ever since I met my boyfriend I slowly lost all my friends and along with that any trust I had, my boyfriend is the only one I can talk to but I wish I had friends and I wish I had...
    downinlife downinlife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Soo this is kinda long and weird I guess but I do need advice This weekend I am ment to be meeting up with someone so we can go to his house and watch films and potentially have...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and I am in love. As every couple we have ups and downs. I need some advice. We have recently been arguing over things that...
    ulovedesi ulovedesi 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    It seems when I'm alone and bored my brain decides to remember not only everything that's gone wrong in my past but also what can go wrong in my future, it's worked before where I...
    Franchise1107 Franchise1107 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    It seems like I am always there to listen and to give advice but when I need someone to simply just listen... The crowd is silent. Everyone has a bad day or a rough time and just...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 3

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    My life at the moment is slightly ****** up I mean I'm not taking one thing seriously just kind of having fun and my moms drinking again and I know a therapist isn't going to work...
    Battlescars1524 Battlescars1524 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Several weeks ago I posted about how my in laws treat our little tiny apartment as their place.. They come and go as they please. Now it's been 3 days my sister in law and her 3...
    lilieme lilieme 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 10

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    So here goes! I'm female 21 and have been struggling with maintaining a healthy weight for sometime, (i wouldn't necessarily say I had an ED, more borderline) I feel so alone right...
    RachB1992 RachB1992 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I need someone to talk to about reincarnation. I need to talk about these memories and strange, strong feelings about the future I keep having. Anyone who is willing to talk...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 27

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    Alot of the time there are people with no one to talk to and feel like they've just had the worst day, it would be nice to know if you can find one person to listen. So I'm here if...
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    because I can tell no one how I really feel. I have to act happy all the time, and honestly I just want to die. I am so extremely depressed that talking to my friends makes me...
    DesireKreation DesireKreation 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    If anyone ever needs to vent or someone to talk to I try my best to listen and try to help~ feel free to message meh if you ever need someone to talk to or listen! cx
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F Jul 30

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    Message me if you feel like you need help or you're alone
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I feel alone amongst all the people who are supposed to be my friends, my family, who say they care about me and that they'll understand everything. I'm afraid to talk to them...
    YamiNoHimitsu YamiNoHimitsu 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I feel like my dad is really disappointed in me. I feel like he thinks I'm selfish and kinda stupid. We took a trip together to get some father daughter time and besides a few...
    cloudy97 cloudy97 16-17, F 13 Responses Aug 7

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    Today I was reading about some stories of bullying and how people react on it! I came to very bad conclusion of how people end up killing themselves 😭😔, it's really a big...
    Romyyy Romyyy 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I feel down at the moment:( I've got a lot going on in my life right now including an eating disorder and depression and really need someone who will generally understand my...
    Bethh98 Bethh98 13-15, F Jul 22

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