I Feel That Our Flaws Are Part of What Makes Us Beautiful

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    mstv1112 mstv1112
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2015

    Admitting to them too is unfortunately a

    relatively rare occurrence. I find often that the such are overlooked until a good friend can constructively criticise you for it, and you then realise that there could be a problem. Nobody's perfect.
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    Jul 2, 2015

    Each one of us has a flaw of some kind.

    Our attitude towards it figures in how we are seen and relate to others. Self consciousness can be a torture.
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 25

    Our flaws are what make us beautiful.

    Don't be ashamed of anything people. I don't consider them flaws but maybe things that we could improve on.
    Gayprince1234 Gayprince1234
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jan 14

    I remember a person I loved

    once told me, that they were ugly. He said his scars made him ugly. In my opinion, he was so wrong in so many ways. Yeah. I get it. He has those scars for many reasons. Mostly for fighting, either with other people, or with his own self, I know he isn't proud of the scars, they...
    newsqirshyfuzzball newsqirshyfuzzball
    18-21, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    I will admit that some flaws are extremely

    difficult to live with but there isnt anyone on this earth who is perfect physically or otherwise. No matter what flaw a person has i believe it helps them become who they are. If you use those flaws positively, it is indeed part of what makes us beautiful.
    Shaday18 Shaday18
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    Flaws.... Or is it floors?

    What are your thoughts on it? We are all sinners, arent were?
    Souliefille Souliefille
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    We Are Apart of a Greater Puzzle

     I am not sure why Iam really here . but i do know its for something . ive had across roads in my life and i do know that god had truly watched over me becalse of the really hard things ive been threw in my life. i feel our flaws are what make us who we truly are becalse...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2008

    "There is no beauty which has not some

    strangeness in proportion."
    deleted deleted
    Jul 21, 2015

    Have you ever seen someone smile

    and notice that they have just one dimple.. 1 dimple on 1 cheek --totally adorably uneven and you think "Damn, if they don't stop smiling with that 1 dang darling dimple-- oh my GOSH" lol....... ;)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    People aren't like ken

    and ******* barbie people have flaws we all do and that's what keeps us from all looking the same
    time4tea time4tea
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Human flaws are based on lack of experience

    and inability to remember. When we are babies we have memories of our previous lives clear to us, but being babies we are unable to recount them to others, if write them down. This is why babies dream and have nightmares, otherwise what can possibly trouble the minds of little...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti
    18-21, F
    Feb 9, 2015

    Flaws are what set us apart from the rest.

    Everyone has them just not everyone will admit to them. I am forgetful, a worrier, anxious, too trusting, coffee addicted and I cry in relation to every emotion (happy, sad , frustrated etc).
    Happinessismine Happinessismine
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2014
    DifferentIsFab DifferentIsFab
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    The Truth

    "You're not perfect sport, and let me save you the suspense, this girl you've met she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other." - Robin Williams as Sean Maguire
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 22, 2008

    A lovely stranger inspired me to post this

    picture. Although the swelling is gone and the tubes and staples have been removed and the wound has healed, I always see the scar this way...
    Unsatisfiedstace2 Unsatisfiedstace2
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 5
    Vswagger Vswagger
    13-15, M
    Jun 19, 2015

    They are. No one can be perfect,

    so we should just embrace our flaws and accept them. Flaws are what makes us, us. Without them we'd be no different from each other. Accept your flaws, you're unique and beautiful. <3
    Leonoraa Leonoraa
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    A Flawless Mask

    Perfection both externally and internally is a mask - it is a very hard act to keep up and is something that can never exist naturally.  It demands current upkeep, attention and demands that we depart from certain things that are vital to our own sense of happiness, peace...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jun 27, 2008
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    Do you ever just look at yourself in the mirror

    and notice all of your spots and scars and scratches and bruises and think that you started off as a blank slate, a basic human design in your mother's womb, and now here you are, unique and special and different. Your imperfections and marks only show off how you've been...
    iiCHARLIii iiCHARLIii
    13-15, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    Humans Behave Badly

    Without remorse. Quite deliberately. A series of totally unconnected events and conversations led to these thoughts, and I won't bore you with them, but the coincidence of these regular cropper-uppers leads me to Having A Lot To Say, as I sometimes do. People are naughty. We...
    chovhani chovhani
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 2, 2008

    I left university, graduated last year,

    and already I'm in my second job. Some have said I am arrogant in how I spoke about my role and my first day this morning, before I went to my second day. It isn't intentional, it's a fact of this new role for me. Jean-Marc has made it an executive position, which means I am a...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    When I was younger I had people laugh about my

    moles. Because of funny symmetry or the way they are gathered around my belly button. But you know what, I love my moles. When I was young I was always fascinated by my fathers back. He is very pale, but his back is all speckled with moles in all different shades and sizes. My...
    Annelina Annelina
    18-21, F
    Jan 26

    Flaws In the Weaving

    It has been noted before: In many cultures, when a work of art is created such as a tapestry or rug or other craft, often a deliberate imperfection is left in the work, either as an homage to a deity or to the idea of beauty itself, and ultimately, truth.  Deity or not...
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Mar 21, 2008

    I have a butt chin! I didn't

    even know that was a thing? A cleft chin? No, someone informed me .. It's a BUTT chin! *insert raucous laughter* How very rude. Let's talk about *ahem* cleft chins - as they are properly known. Some of the most attractive people have them ... and I dare say ... it has...
    skidoodles skidoodles
    26-30, F
    Dec 13, 2015

    My Biggest Flaw

    I learned, the hard way, that I am shallow.  Shallow, beyond the norm.  After steroids and other pre-term labor drugs, i ballooned to 148 pounds.  I was 98 when I became pregnant.  I was so shallow and weak about my weight that I forced our family to move to...
    FiFiDelmar FiFiDelmar
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2008

    I dont get how flaws make u beautiful?

    Like seriously??? How??? I have a major flaw. I dont have hair on my head. Im a girl. It just makes me ugly. It does not make me beautiful. Instead its makes me feel sad and ugly most of the time
    AchingSoul AchingSoul
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    It took years for me to realize my beauty.

    I was always the not so pretty sister. My older sister was always getting complimented for how "light" she was. Guys tended to like her more. I remember at 11 years old a guy that liked my sister told me that I was the ugly sister and that I got the "ugly gene". I was sad but I...
    Pnl23 Pnl23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    at first I Would get upset

    when someone talk about my mistakes or flaws. but after some time I started thinking symmetric as even other people has some flaws. if I want others to accept my some things then I should first accept theirs. and as nobody is perfect. rather perfect is overrated. we should be...
    rumukta rumukta
    22-25, F
    Nov 7, 2015

    It's pretty hard to learn to love yourself with

    all your flaws, but if you look at things differently like everybody has flaws and this makes them beautiful therefore my flaws must make me look pretty too. Tell yourself you're perfect and love every inch of you because if you dont then who else will?! :)
    lillyhatesu lillyhatesu
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    I agree with this 100%.

    ... adcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz. (is my experience long enough now EP?)
    deleted deleted
    Sep 20, 2015

    We human beings become more beautiful

    when we embrace our flaws and try to be real. Despite all the flaws, We all have had that nagging critic inside our brains that keeps censuring us for our flaws and helps us understand more of our good intentions.
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    Aug 17, 2015

    We are as wonderful slabs of marble awaiting

    the hand of the great sculpter who can bring our beauty to life for all to see. These flaws in marble, the varied viens of colour and texture are what make each piece unique and when looked at individually these flaws often upset or repluse us, but when seen as a whole and...
    HaylieghsComet HaylieghsComet
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    The gap between teeth is sexy

    and exotic he loves it too so why change it lol.
    nana2085 nana2085
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2015

    I am my biggest criticus.

    Society sometimes makes it really hard to love yourself, but so do we. Whenever I see someone say, somewhere in the comment section of any kind of social media platform, 'you have really yellow teeth, that's not pretty, get them whitened', I reflect that on myself. I'll look in...
    Annelina Annelina
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

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