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I Feel Unappreciated

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    I don't understand.People hate me at my school.Probably I'm different from them or they think I'm weird.So what if I'm friends with the other people they dislike or disgust...
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 13-15, F a week ago

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    Why Do I Even Try? - It's funny because when you look up people feeling unappreciated it's always a parent feeling unappreciated by a teen. Well in my case it's reversed. Let's...
    username246 username246 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Know How It Feels - I know I'm not the only one but when anyone feels unappreciated it's sad really sad. I haven't felt truly appreciated for years I can't even remember the last...
    ForeverAutumn80 ForeverAutumn80 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2013

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    All The Time Recently... - 1. My mother uses me as a confident and it is getting me down. She is so negative all the time and just seems to assume that I will listen to her endless...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2011

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    I Wanna Cut - i wanna cut cuz of my boyfriend and his friends **** i just don't feel appreciated anymore i feel like i am used just cuz i have money and i have a job so i will buy...
    lifexsucksxthinxuxdie lifexsucksxthinxuxdie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    Work Life - I've been on this team for a long while now. The longest out of everyone on my team. Everyone comes to me when they need answers and they know i always have them...
    jbfignut jbfignut 26-30, M Jul 30, 2009

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    It's Too Late Now - I'm the middle child. So while my older brother was failing school, and my younger brother was just starting school(preschool). I was left to fend by myself. I...
    Emofox Emofox 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Thank You! - I hate that everything I do goes unnoticed. I hate being taken for granted. I work at a nursing home and the elderly take advantage of me because they think because I...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    My One Sided Relationship - I'm exhausted physically and emotionally drained I have given all of me, and I have gotten nothing back I have a boyfriend right now, who i really do...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F May 24, 2012

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    Years of Effort Gone to Waste - I've spent years of my life researching a particular field of study because I uncovered a cure for one of the major medical issues that inflict...
    Strangeling Strangeling 41-45 Mar 31, 2009

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    Murdered By Your Silence - Sometimes I dont doubt that you appreciate me, But damn you have a strange way of showing. And the famous line you would always use, Half of the battle...
    HelpingHand4U HelpingHand4U 22-25 2 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    It Makes Me Cry Myself To Sleep. - I do so much work for everyone. I am always there for others when they need me. I have a problem showing my emotions (I think it has to do with...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    A Day In My Life. This Is Going To Be Very, Very Long. - I am constantly begging my fiance to help me around the house. Do anything, Dishes, a load of laundry, pick up after...
    NoWhiteFlag NoWhiteFlag 22-25, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    I Don't Understand. - They drain me. Then once they are back on their feet, they leave me here by myself. Here being life. I don't get it. When everyone else has a hard time, I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    I Don't Feel I Am Unappreciated I Know I Am... - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. He is almost 25 and I am 21. I usually pay for everything like food and gas. For...
    jeepgirl912 jeepgirl912 18-21 Jun 24, 2012

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    I Made This Group But I Dont Feel This Way Anymore - I made this group but I don't feel this way anymore I found that the only way to feel appreciated is to appreciate yourself.
    mandyme mandyme 31-35, F Dec 26, 2010

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    I know I don't work 40 hrs a week for money right now, but I am a fulltime mom. I feel like he no longer wants to be with me. Maybe he has lost interest, I have just been sooo...
    roses2004 roses2004 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    What Did I Do To Get Treated Like That? - I do alot for people. I listen to my friends cry and whine about their drama and I help them get through whatever it they are going...
    dreamrgrl79 dreamrgrl79 26-30 2 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    Family - Recently, I get the feeling that my family doesn't appreciate me anymore. They rarely thank me when I do things for them... It's just like I'm a ghost sometimes. Do you...
    pigsnout pigsnout 18-21, F Jun 20, 2012

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    I work in the kitchen of a retirement home. I love my job(seriously, not many ppl can say that but I DO) and my elderly residents. I am a dietary aide, which is a glamorized word...
    MillerLite86 MillerLite86 26-30, F Mar 14

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    Hard Work Doesn't Matter - I'm chronically unappreciated at work but am used to it. I take satisfaction in knowing things wouldn't run as smoothly without me and on occasion...
    randomuser15 randomuser15 31-35, F Sep 25, 2009

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    Aahhhhhh!!!!! - I have been married for 14 years now. We have three wonderful kids and an above average life. My wife is totally gorgious, sexy and hot. She fits into the hot...
    boredhubby boredhubby 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    Overwhelmed - I feel very much unappreciated and overworked. My husband owns his own business and is trying to expand at the moment. He is hardly ever at home... usually leaves the...
    gottabeih gottabeih 22-25, F Jul 24, 2008

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    Pain From The Crying. - I am here cryin my eye's out from the yellin. I feel like crap I don't even know what to do anymore I have done so much and yet no appreciation. What do you...
    Honesty89 Honesty89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2009

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    My Life In a Nutshell - Being one co-worker down, all the work has been piled up on me.  I'm doing the work of 3 people.  Just the other day I was then "asked...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    If Only I Knew - I really don't know when it started, but all I can say is that here recently, all I have been feeling is very sad and depressed and unappreciated.  I am on my...
    emhaynes emhaynes 46-50 Nov 7, 2010

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    My Parents.. Do They Care?? - I feel like it doesn't matter if  I talk or not. My parents would mind if I didn't exist, wasn't home or died. But that's it. THis is hard to...
    lunachi lunachi 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    My Husband Never Appreciated Me... - This weekend after a long day I was talking to my best friend who's sitting on my bed.  She is watching me as I'm hanging all of my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    It Has Been A Very Long Two Years - Two years ago, my family chose to relocate in order for better job oppurtunities for my dad. Where I had previously lived, I made the best...
    rememberaa rememberaa 18-21, M Dec 12, 2012

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    Feeling Alone With House Full Of Family - I've given my all to my household. Mother of 3, 31yrs old, full time job, bf if 4 yrs, 2 dogs. In the surface I'm blessed but in the...
    Jan 13, 2013

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    My Husband - I love him SO much, and he loves me. But lately I've been feeling so unappreciated . It's just like he doesn't appreciate what I do. He never says thank you. I stay...
    JennMomof4 JennMomof4 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Nothing Is Ever Good Enough.... - I feel like nothing is ever good enough. At times i wonder what the whole meaning of life really is. I dread each day. My life is going no where...
    Feb 10, 2013

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    Stressed And Tired Of Doing Everything!!!!! - I am married, mostly happy with my husband, I have 2 children of my own and a stepson who's living with us for the summer. My preteen...
    Wolfie2010 Wolfie2010 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Unappreicated - Yesterday I woke up next to and man that I have slept next to for the last 6 months. This man did not hold me, touch me, kiss me or speak with me. He woke up and...
    sosweetelayne sosweetelayne 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2009

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    suesue1978 suesue1978 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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