I Feel Unattractive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 119 People

    Self Consciousness At It's Best.

    When I was younger, my body wasn't really that important to me. Self consciousness didn't really exist in my world and now I look back a couple years and think about how I wish life were still like that. Now my body is this huge insecurity for me. Its as if all the guys I look at...
    beatles345 beatles345
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2009

    I Want To Feel Beautiful Again.

    I look in the mirror and I think to myself. "What happened?" I hate to say this but I feel I am very unattractive. I'm a good person but my face and body sort of ruin that. I want to feel beautiful again. Is that wrong????
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

    I've struggled with my low self esteem

    for years, and the fact that my relationship is devoid of intimacy only makes it worse- but that's a story for a different group. Yesterday I had one of those rare, amazing highs. I felt good. Actually, I felt great! I felt confident and sexy and beautiful and energetic and...
    strange1 strange1
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2014

    I've struggled with self esteem issues my

    entire teenage years and still do, every relationship i've had has ended in failure. Wither it was him/her cheating, me being not good enough, or him/her just not wanting to be commited, or me not being attractive enough. i've always been called ugly,loser, freak, nasty,fat and...
    kaiinuka kaiinuka
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 28, 2014

    Looking for a confidence boost.

    Tried downloading Tinder again which was totally stupid lol it's gone now don't worry
    Bowieinwonderland Bowieinwonderland
    26-30, F
    Jul 24, 2015

    I;m not trying to fish

    for compliments etc. People have been nasty enough to me. Everyone can feel bad about themselves at times, right? I don't know what it is. I really wish that guys would just notice me or approach me. And because it never happens I start to feel even worse abut myself. I don't...
    Asiangirl92 Asiangirl92
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2013


     Once I step outside of my house and see people, I feel unattractive. I take public transportation and when I am on it, I am always wondering if people are thinking that I look ugly. In school, I feel unattractive. I compare myself with so many girls. I have no bf now, a guy...
    highschool3 highschool3
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 20, 2009

    I've always been fat

    and whenever I've found the courage to ask out a girl they just laugh and talk about how I look. I've had great success before and have dated beautiful girls way outside of my league before to, but I've never not been cheated on by them and they always cheat on me with a hot...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    I hate it when people compliment my looks.

    I do not even know what to say if someone says I am beautiful. It feels so false to say "thank you" because I think I am anything but. Sometimes it even makes me mad and I want to bark at people to stop saying it.
    ShiningPoisonFrog ShiningPoisonFrog
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    I'm told all the the time

    that I'm pretty or beautiful etc but my self esteem is so horrible that I never believe it; I feel like they're making fun of me or that they pity me. I can't help it but whenever I look in the mirror all I see is ugly. I also really hate my body, if it ever becomes part of the...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I Just Wish I Felt The Way I Use To!

    I know there alot of pepole who dont like there body but im diffrent i like parts. I love my green eys and i love...um..my hair when its not dead from all the bleach i have put in it! lol. OKAY FINE IM NOT DIFFRENT!!! I wish i had a bigger butt...thanks to my husband makeing me...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 24, 2011

    How Society Breaks Me...

    Ever had those days where you wake up feeling good. You look at yourself and you feel like you're looking great and after you get dressed and all that you look even better. But as soon as you set foot outside of your house all that greatness comes down... No? I do...Too often...
    Jeanellaisha Jeanellaisha
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2012

    I always feel unattractive 24/7

    because im fat and ugly, ive done stupid things because of like cut myself and not eaten for afew days. Ive dated girls that are out my league and wondered how i ended up with them,but they never last, ive been cheated on which just makes me feel this way more and ive been told...
    matheww6 matheww6
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    Men that I am attracted to are not attracted to

    me. But men that I am not attracted to, like me. I just want to like someone that has morals, that is optimistic about life, and that likes me for me. We both share the same level of attraction. I been told I look like a man, like i fear to show my pictures on Facebook and on ep...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    I've been dating my boyfriend 10 months

    and we live together and i feel like he never wants to touch me or have sex with me when we do it's really short :( I feel lonely and unwanted ....
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses May 3, 2015

    Do I look like a man?

    I get that comment a lot.
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2015
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