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I Feel Unloved All the Time

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    I Have No One

    I was in an abusive marriage for 20 years, took 18 months to get a divorce, worked 2 jobs to support kids, met someone and have been with him for 15 years. My daughter doesn't like him, so she treets me like dirt, my son got married, his wife hates me, I have 2 grandsons by my...
    db2012 db2012 51-55 Aug 19, 2012

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    I feel unloved all the time.

    I feel like everyone's just with me so I don't feel alone but I think that deep down inside their hearts, they don't love me. I feel like my parents don't love me anymore as much as they did when I was 11. They eat breakfast without me, don't wake me up for school, never say...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 24

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    Im Unloved

    I know this because its true It`s not because of you It`s from the people that hate me Call me ugly, nasty, and rude But i know one thing That`s absolutely true No matter how much people call me names, I now you would never call me names And i know i would never say them...
    GummiTreats GummiTreats 13-15, F Sep 25, 2012

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    Not All the Time But Basically

    I think it's true, nobody has ever loved me. Liked maybe, but loved not. I live with it. I live well with myself. Only sometimes I need one who really loves me. You know, these evenings when all is without an end. I've been so much unloved, objectively, that if one loves me now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 2, 2008

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    Unworthy ???

    am worth no ones time or energy deemed unworthy of a simple hug anything that passes for affection even in friendship  unworthy of a conversation even a kind word remembrance consideration- no nothing that is not born of obligation dirty looks abound, scorn ridicule...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 22 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    😞

    I grew up in a broken home. My mother never said the word I love you. I never even hugged my mother. I don't even love my family because I don't know what live is. I was abused by her and I hold grudges. I try my best to get along with her but nothing seems to ever work. We have...
    darkskinnedVegan darkskinnedVegan 22-25, F Aug 19, 2013

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    In Love and Unloved

    I am madly in love with a man who seems to constantly underappreciate me. It seems i do anything and everything to make him happy but if i ask him for just one thing he makes a big issue out of it even though I hardly ever ask for anything.  It's starting to...
    bushbaby911 bushbaby911 18-21, F May 21, 2008

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    I Do

    Ok,maybe not all the time but 99% of the time i do and i cant remember the last time someone said that they loved me.
    frostbittensoul frostbittensoul 41-45, M 7 Responses May 31, 2010

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    My Unknown Life

    I look around and all I see is people that's perfect;while I'm unloved because I'm ugly. People don't just tell me,a voice in my head say it all the time because of the **** UP SH** I HAVE TO DEAL WITH. Almost ever day I see the 4 of my 5 ex's when I'm in or out of school. Its...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2013

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    The Love I Missed Out On

    It's so sad to think about this.  But my parents never gave me words of comfort when I was stressed.  This left me feeling very unloved.    All I wanted was for them to look at me in a caring way...But they never did. Then I got my very first hug, from...
    angelluv01 angelluv01 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    Hello everyone, today I think it is telling a

    story to some, it is only my feelings. I'm an ugly person that lasts as long silence, I am of those who by everything and nothing gets the blame. Life is unfair for those who think it is! Invsivel I look like a person that nobody notices talks or looks, I'm ignored by those...
    lovingCuteSmartGirl lovingCuteSmartGirl 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Well, Mostly......

    Not all the time but often. I guess right now, I feel very disillusioned with life. Despite being there for others throughout my life and trying to be a good and kind person, I can't help thinking that it hasn't got me far. Right now, I have little to not support in my life and...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    Stupid Jerk.

    Has no appreciation for anything.  He makes me cut his hair.  I accidentally cut my finger and am bleeding all over the place and the only thing he cares about is his hair.  He gets mad at me and takes the scissors away in a huff.  I wish I could stab him.  He doesn't love...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 25, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    So my ex says "I don't have time to talk to you." My second ex says nothing. No one calls. No one says "I miss her." No one stayed or ever wanted to....I am just getting...
    Nurse68 Nurse68 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm a guy so it been hard dealing with being a victim of rape. I'm also straight which makes it a million times worse in my head to deal with. Only my parents and my therapist know...
    andrew20142014 andrew20142014 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    2 years ago, when I was 18, I was raped by a male coworker. I was heavily intoxicated, half passed out on my couch, and I had just been dumped a few hours before that. He texted me...
    kishatatme kishatatme 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I haven't written anything on here in a long time, I guess until this point I've been okay. No that's a lie I've been telling myself I'm okay but I know really I need help. I've...
    Maddie1O1 Maddie1O1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm always broken I hide a fake smile behind it all because I know that I'm always alone I have no one in this forsaken world I've been lied cheated and betrayed all my life my...
    LGKolor LGKolor 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I haven't been able to talk to anyone about it but ive tried. I've tried telling my best friend but every time i try i let things get to me and i cant. I just got the courage to...
    rhianon22 rhianon22 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am not my mistakes, not my unsaid apologies. I am not my past. I forget this, all the time. I need to engrain into my head that I am made of lovely skin and strong bones- not...
    sleevesandbracelets sleevesandbracelets 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I have absolutely no friends. We used to get together at least once a week just to talk. For some reason unknown to me that stopped. I blame myself. I have no one to talk except...
    tinia1 tinia1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I can't forget the night I was raped! I try to tell myself that it's not still happening but that's just a lie! I can no longer sleep because all I can see is him! When I do sleep...
    skysplits skysplits 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Exactly. I was raped twice in my life and the first time I was to young to understand what was going on. I let him do what he wanted because I didn't know what was actually...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Until you got sick of me I was never good enough to be Anything but remedy To all of your constant pressing needs Story of my life
    Temi2707 Temi2707 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I was 16, he had just turned 17. He was my best friend, and it was his birthday. He invited me over to hang out with a couple of our friends. Sadly, he lied, and it was only me and...
    Shekinarose Shekinarose 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I was 13 and was walking home with my "boyfriend" we stopped by his house and he asked me to come in. He lead me to his bedroom and said he had to get something. 2 boys walked in...
    bluepanda111 bluepanda111 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    "If you were really that upset about your rape you wouldn't dress and act the way you do. I tried to tell you this kid was just using you for sex why would you sleep with him after...
    VolleyBallPrincess14 VolleyBallPrincess14 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    A very hard decision for me but they have to be 1:X Men days of future past 2: Underworld Rise of the Lycans 3: Pirates of the Caribbean at Worlds End 4: Harry Potter and The...
    TargetAimShootKill TargetAimShootKill 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I have been seen as a man who always try to "act" good but in reality I try and be honest with everyone and at every possible moment of my life. Be it family, friends, girlfriend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Audi's commercial was so clever !
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Eric Violette's FreeCreditReport.com commercials
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Pretty much all of the time. I am grateful enough and appreciate that i have all my family and i have no problems with them and i also am grateful that they love and accept who i...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    You know who you are, you're the one I lay in bed every night thinking about, the one I met online, and fell in love with. Your name is Dylan, we met on an app called hot or not...
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    I want to give a message to all the girls out there with any insecurities about their looks or weight. PLEASE do not feel under pressure by these stupid magazines to be made to...
    memph31 memph31 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I may not be able to express it in words, for I have tried the best of means but of no use...I feel unloved and hopeless and all sorts of negative things one can imagine of...I'm...
    natashaesor natashaesor 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It's hard busting my *** trying to get good grades and work to help out with bills around the house. I understand that my mothers stressed out, but so is everyone else. I...
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I've never told anyone about this and now I'm telling it to anyone who has the time and good will to get to know me and maybe even help me feel true happiness again. I'm a...
    Viodhora Viodhora 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    1. What is your name? Samantha! 2. How old are you? I am 15. 3. Are you sure? Yup, 5 days until I get my temps. 4. What is your earliest memory? My grandpas funeral. 5...
    sammanthaa sammanthaa 13-15, F Aug 15

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    She's 10 years older than me and has a seven year old despite our different ages and lives we're still as close as I would say best friends. Anyhow over the last year I would say I...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F Jul 27

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    I haven't been diagnosed with anything yet but I'm pretty sure I have an anxiety disorder. I've been anxious for months now and panic attacks with it. I feel like Im slowly dying...
    ElephantCozmo ElephantCozmo 16-17, F Jul 29

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    I'm a 35 year old Mother, Woman, and now Wife (second marriage)..I married the man of my dreams...he's my best friend, my life and spiritual partner..I'm a full-time Doctoral...
    sbigcrow1 sbigcrow1 31-35, F Aug 2

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    I have this feelin 'it's time to stop wheelin' and dealin' cuz things have changed. And it seems to have come fast and really kind of overwhelms me, Maybe I turned a corner, or...
    puddetat puddetat 61-65, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    There are two things that I have my mind on right now at 4:06 in the morning. Why do people give up on life? Or almost. And what is love? This happened today with a relative of...
    thatonecollegekid thatonecollegekid 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Sometimes I just feel constricted inside with all the pressure to succeed. Grades, extracurriculars, sports, a social life, and personal health. I feel like I've already failed at...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    My mom's anger has gotten out of control, and because of it being out of control I feel I cannot trust her with her words and action when she is in this state. This of course...
    pnleg pnleg 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    i feel lonely most of the time, at my age i thought by now i should be married with kids my own family with a nice job, but it turns out that life don't really give us what we want...
    wogaga wogaga 31-35, F Aug 3

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    I can go a couple days almost enjoying my life then comes that feeling of me wanting to give up on EVERYTHING, school, work, life etc. When this feeling hits me it hits hard I just...
    dezy2be dezy2be 18-21, F 5 days ago

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