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I Feel Unloved

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    I'm a senior in high school and am about to graduate. I should be ecstatic that I'm becoming an adult and am about to make the most important decisions of my life. But I'm not. I feel sad all the time and I don't know why. I feel unloved and rejected. My mother loves me to an...
    sabaha sabaha 18-21, F Apr 27, 2010

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    My boyfriend is so distant with me,

    the say he talks to me sometimes as well just makes me feel so inadequate and like he doesn't want to be with me, I have to fight to get attention and rarely does he show me his feelings for me, but when he does I feel amazing but then I worry because it's a temporary bliss. I...
    Somuchformyhappyending Somuchformyhappyending 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Alone

    It started last year when I had just moved to Montana. I was getting calls from my family saying that my 16 year old sister, then 15, had gotten involved with a 35 year old man, she was smoking, drinking, doing drugs and god only knows what else. They all thought that I could...
    cherishlarson cherishlarson 22-25 1 Response Aug 22, 2011

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    I Feel Unloved

    You might wonder why since I'm married. My husband has asperger's syndrome. He used to be more loving though,  but now he is just not very loving and does not show love. I have been dealing with a lot of pain lately and he has not helped me. I had to write a letter telling...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Sad

    Crying & feeling awful & lonely. I really don't want to wallow on it, tomorrow's a work day & I have things to finish. So hard to get someone to love you back and care for you the way you love and care for them. So hard. 
    luckyno13 luckyno13 26-30 Apr 7, 2012

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    Totally Unwanted And Unneeded...

    I spend so much of my life just curled up in my bed and feeling alone. I hate my life almost 99.9% of the time. I think I am becoming agoraphobic because I hardly ever leave the house and I sometimes feel afraid when I am not in my house. I have a boyfriend...
    afraidunloved afraidunloved 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    I Feel Guilty and Unloved :/

    I don't want this to sound like the ramblings of just another girl.  Because, that's not what it is.  this isn't me having a hormone imbalance, or emotional issues.  I'm in love.  And, I'm loved back.  But, my lover doesn't know how to show his love...
    Fujita Fujita 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Mothers Day Sucks

    Just as i imagined this morning i felt let Down , my 21 year old made Breakfast  way after i got up and probably more for his college returning girlfriend . I then recieved a card a funny one about how i say get your *** in here all the time  cute but made me feel...
    SAMANTHA64 SAMANTHA64 41-45, F May 9, 2010

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    Looming Love

    The fates string us along. Strumming their web and manipulating the weave until the warp and weft are tight and fitting the design of Creation . . . Some of us know the fiber we are spun with and can sense through vibration where it is best we are to go - where our matching...
    LuridPoppy LuridPoppy 31-35, F Aug 8, 2010

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    I am unloved by both of my parents.

    In exchange for their rejecting me and not loving me and my siblings, I shunned them. I am reminded everyday that my parents don't love me. My mother hasn't spoken to me in 23 years. She took too long to talk to me, so I left the family. The reasons they don't love me is based...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 24

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    my mom used to be so loving

    but when i wanted to live with my dad and not her because she became neglectful toward me she stopped telling me she loved me, now 4years later i barely see her since she lives an hour away, i think about her all the time i want her to call me tell me she loves me that shes...
    mariie97 mariie97 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Its

    the same story everybody goes through... i wish there was someone out there who felt the same way as i felt about them...its always been that the guy i like doesnt like me and the guy who likes me i dont like him:/i know everyone goes through this but im so sick of it! i feel...
    hahsuckerpunch hahsuckerpunch 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    I just always feel awful. I feel too much. I feel unloved, worthless, ugly inside and out. I feel like I'm the way of people, that I don't belong, that this world is better off if...
    JustBeHere JustBeHere 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Faking a smile, pretending to be happy, always acting as if being the tough character when I'm not, feels broken inside, alone, feels unloved... Always trying to stretch a smile on...
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I am trying to find the correct words to explain why I feel alone or unloved. We both love each other and don't want to let go but we are always in some type of chaos or medical...
    ArdentLuna ArdentLuna 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I feel very uncomfortable being in my own body. I know it doesn't make any sense, but this is what I feel. I feel awkward moving around, functioning. Just like only body is moving...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For people to think my parents actually care about me are stupid. anyone that says 'but they care about you' are so wrong, they don't act like loving caring parents. nothing ever...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19

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    Lately I have had a couple people telling me everything that is wrong with me. It makes me feel worthless. They tell me I am too pretentious, too bitchy, over materialistic, tell...
    nnggww nnggww 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I don't know what more I can do to feel loved. I've tried everything. Being there, making an effort with her family, flowers, gifts, nice house. When I met her she was in the...
    friendlygent friendlygent 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 9

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    My family hates me and want me out of here. I wouldn't blame them I'm a terrible child! I don't take out the garbage everyday bcz I'm exhausted from cheer and when they talk crap...
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F Dec 1

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    I feel confirmed right now by my wife and child because I chose to discipline her through school rules. I have warned her time and time again about her lack of communication. The...
    bubley bubley 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    well I'm back , and this time everything is not rainbows and flowers with my relationship . to make this short , my boyfriend thinks that I complain way too much now and that...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Well maybe they're not the ones to blame. I'm becoming terrible at being a friend, being a sister, being a daughter, being a relative. Basically everything. My mind is inclined to...
    pleadingsorry pleadingsorry 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    leanncc11 leanncc11 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Having a single mom to raise me was hard but i defiantly made it seem like it didnt bother me at all. But now i realised how much of my childhood was missing from trying to grow up...
    appetanc3 appetanc3 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I do. But that is mostly because my life is empty. My life is a loop of dull, quiet, empty days. Wake up, eat, sit by the computer for several hours, eat, go back to bed. I hate...
    MissClueless MissClueless 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Last night, my current boyfriend and I had a fight, like we always seem to do at the moment. I went home upset, and ended up dreaming about the guy I dated when I was 18 and living...
    louisevc louisevc 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I cant help but post! Im just very depressed and feeling lost and lonely!
    shan369 shan369 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    I feel like **** today But this was the best day ever But I wanna cuddle with something/one But I want a puppy But I also wanna go to bed .....help?
    sixpackbookworm sixpackbookworm 13-15, F 3 Responses 44 mins ago

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    Green eyed devil, came back! I thought she was gone, so I hoped, so I feared. She returns, and all the memories are rushing back, but for an odd reason, none of the bad ones are...
    andro333 andro333 22-25, M Nov 20

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    Do you ever feel like you don't belong here? In a place, in a situation, among people, indeed anywhere. Like, you should be living some other life? When I sit in my room at night...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    I don't know if it's depression, or what, but since last year i've been feeling like I have no direction in my life, like I don't like nothing, I've been feeling that what is ahead...
    licito licito 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    I don't want to sit here and have people think I'm feeling sorry for myself. It's time to let out this pain. So, I met a man seven months ago. He was practically everything I liked...
    ChellyRocker ChellyRocker 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    ROCKWELL "Somebody's Watching Me" Who's watching Tell me, who's watching Who's watching me I'm just an average man With an average life I work from nine to five Hey, hell, I...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    Name: Raina (My name is strange, i know) Gender: female I don't know how to describe this feeling, i wonder if anyone feels the same way. ~I feel lonely, i feel as though no one...
    RainaTwilight RainaTwilight 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I've been with my now husband since I was 17 in high school. We just married this year and I am 28. We've been married going on 8 months soon. I love him so, so much. I've told him...
    CGM14 CGM14 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I feel worried that being angry is bad. I feel bad that I get worried about feeling angry. I feel scared that i will be judged for being angry. I feel scared that being angry will...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    well today is just another day of me being in my feelings ..so what the hell....another sappy story of love lost........but i really do miss that feeling of being in love......how...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I'm a pretty happy person for the most part; I tend to be pretty positive and look on the bright side of things but lately I've been feeling different. I had been feeling so...
    trevb22 trevb22 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    Learn to fly, Learn to fly, Show the world How you try ... When I get home, When I get home, I want to feel less alone. I couldn't feel, I couldn't feel Anybody. This isn't home...
    soutson soutson 13-15, F Nov 22

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    Most people around my age have it all. A good job, plenty of friends, few worries and are generally moving in the right direction, they get opportunities and can embrace life for...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    I was 15 and in high school when I started to admit to myself that I liked her. We were good friends, daily debates and petty quarrels, we forged our bond and we've known each...
    shugo23 shugo23 18-21, M Nov 22

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    This is my first shared experience so bear with me please. Lately, for no apparent reason, I have just been feeling like I don't belong anywhere. And I ask myself all the time why...
    broller broller 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 22

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    I'm 20 years old and feel stuck at this point in my life I already feel as if I will never be good enough or have a successful life. My sophomore year of college my mom decided not...
    BSoxNation94 BSoxNation94 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22