I Feel Unloved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 52 People

    Its

    the same story everybody goes through... i wish there was someone out there who felt the same way as i felt about them...its always been that the guy i like doesnt like me and the guy who likes me i dont like him:/i know everyone goes through this but im so sick of it! i feel...
    hahsuckerpunch hahsuckerpunch
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2008

    Parents

    I'm a senior in high school and am about to graduate. I should be ecstatic that I'm becoming an adult and am about to make the most important decisions of my life. But I'm not. I feel sad all the time and I don't know why. I feel unloved and rejected. My mother loves me to an...
    sabaha sabaha
    18-21, F
    Apr 27, 2010

    I Feel Guilty and Unloved :/

    I don't want this to sound like the ramblings of just another girl.  Because, that's not what it is.  this isn't me having a hormone imbalance, or emotional issues.  I'm in love.  And, I'm loved back.  But, my lover doesn't know how to show his love...
    Fujita Fujita
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2008

    I Feel Unloved

    You might wonder why since I'm married. My husband has asperger's syndrome. He used to be more loving though,  but now he is just not very loving and does not show love. I have been dealing with a lot of pain lately and he has not helped me. I had to write a letter telling...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2010

    Mothers Day Sucks

    Just as i imagined this morning i felt let Down , my 21 year old made Breakfast  way after i got up and probably more for his college returning girlfriend . I then recieved a card a funny one about how i say get your *** in here all the time  cute but made me feel...
    SAMANTHA64 SAMANTHA64
    41-45, F
    May 9, 2010

    I feel unloved. That's

    why I spend so much time with my nose buried in a book, or my fingers glued to the keys on my computer; because when I'm reading or writing a story, I'm able to picture myself as the main character, the girl that's going through the hardship of which guy to choose, not which guy...
    EchoOfNamara EchoOfNamara
    13-15, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    Sad

    Crying & feeling awful & lonely. I really don't want to wallow on it, tomorrow's a work day & I have things to finish. So hard to get someone to love you back and care for you the way you love and care for them. So hard. 
    luckyno13 luckyno13
    26-30
    Apr 7, 2012

    ..mostly by God.. I know the general head

    knowldege..that. he loves everyone.. but I can't hep but feel God loves some more than others, and those that spew those trite words (God loves everyone) are those who've had positive, faith- nurturing experiences w/ the Lord.. while people like me.. just receive His silence...
    beebetree3 beebetree3
    22-25, F
    May 25, 2015

    Alone

    It started last year when I had just moved to Montana. I was getting calls from my family saying that my 16 year old sister, then 15, had gotten involved with a 35 year old man, she was smoking, drinking, doing drugs and god only knows what else. They all thought that I could...
    cherishlarson cherishlarson
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 22, 2011

    My family hates me. They treat me like dirt,

    or worse, like I don't exist. We go out to eat, and I just sit there while they talk to each other. I could just fade away and I don't think they'd notice. My child talks to me like I'm dirt. She learned this from my wife, who doesn't accept that years of demeaning my attempts...
    uuugh uuugh
    46-50, M
    Nov 27, 2015

    Looming Love

    The fates string us along. Strumming their web and manipulating the weave until the warp and weft are tight and fitting the design of Creation . . . Some of us know the fiber we are spun with and can sense through vibration where it is best we are to go - where our matching...
    LuridPoppy LuridPoppy
    31-35, F
    Aug 8, 2010

    I am unloved by both of my parents.

    In exchange for their rejecting me and not loving me and my siblings, I shunned them. I am reminded everyday that my parents don't love me. My mother hasn't spoken to me in 23 years. She took too long to talk to me, so I left the family. The reasons they don't love me is based...
    noaht43 noaht43
    41-45, T
    Jan 24, 2014

    Totally Unwanted And Unneeded...

    I spend so much of my life just curled up in my bed and feeling alone. I hate my life almost 99.9% of the time. I think I am becoming agoraphobic because I hardly ever leave the house and I sometimes feel afraid when I am not in my house. I have a boyfriend...
    afraidunloved afraidunloved
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    my mom used to be so loving

    but when i wanted to live with my dad and not her because she became neglectful toward me she stopped telling me she loved me, now 4years later i barely see her since she lives an hour away, i think about her all the time i want her to call me tell me she loves me that shes...
    mariie97 mariie97
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    My boyfriend is so distant with me,

    the say he talks to me sometimes as well just makes me feel so inadequate and like he doesn't want to be with me, I have to fight to get attention and rarely does he show me his feelings for me, but when he does I feel amazing but then I worry because it's a temporary bliss. I...
    Somuchformyhappyending Somuchformyhappyending
    22-25, F
    Jan 27, 2014

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