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I Feel Unloved

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    I am unloved by both of my parents.

    In exchange for their rejecting me and not loving me and my siblings, I shunned them. I am reminded everyday that my parents don't love me. My mother hasn't spoken to me in 23 years. She took too long to talk to me, so I left the family. The reasons they don't love me is based...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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    I Feel Guilty and Unloved :/

    I don't want this to sound like the ramblings of just another girl.  Because, that's not what it is.  this isn't me having a hormone imbalance, or emotional issues.  I'm in love.  And, I'm loved back.  But, my lover doesn't know how to show his love...
    Fujita Fujita 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Its

    the same story everybody goes through... i wish there was someone out there who felt the same way as i felt about them...its always been that the guy i like doesnt like me and the guy who likes me i dont like him:/i know everyone goes through this but im so sick of it! i feel...
    hahsuckerpunch hahsuckerpunch 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    Alone

    It started last year when I had just moved to Montana. I was getting calls from my family saying that my 16 year old sister, then 15, had gotten involved with a 35 year old man, she was smoking, drinking, doing drugs and god only knows what else. They all thought that I could...
    cherishlarson cherishlarson 22-25 1 Response Aug 22, 2011

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    my mom used to be so loving

    but when i wanted to live with my dad and not her because she became neglectful toward me she stopped telling me she loved me, now 4years later i barely see her since she lives an hour away, i think about her all the time i want her to call me tell me she loves me that shes...
    mariie97 mariie97 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2014

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    I Feel Unloved

    You might wonder why since I'm married. My husband has asperger's syndrome. He used to be more loving though,  but now he is just not very loving and does not show love. I have been dealing with a lot of pain lately and he has not helped me. I had to write a letter telling...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Sad

    Crying & feeling awful & lonely. I really don't want to wallow on it, tomorrow's a work day & I have things to finish. So hard to get someone to love you back and care for you the way you love and care for them. So hard. 
    luckyno13 luckyno13 26-30 Apr 7, 2012

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    Totally Unwanted And Unneeded...

    I spend so much of my life just curled up in my bed and feeling alone. I hate my life almost 99.9% of the time. I think I am becoming agoraphobic because I hardly ever leave the house and I sometimes feel afraid when I am not in my house. I have a boyfriend...
    afraidunloved afraidunloved 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    My boyfriend is so distant with me,

    the say he talks to me sometimes as well just makes me feel so inadequate and like he doesn't want to be with me, I have to fight to get attention and rarely does he show me his feelings for me, but when he does I feel amazing but then I worry because it's a temporary bliss. I...
    Somuchformyhappyending Somuchformyhappyending 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2014

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    Looming Love

    The fates string us along. Strumming their web and manipulating the weave until the warp and weft are tight and fitting the design of Creation . . . Some of us know the fiber we are spun with and can sense through vibration where it is best we are to go - where our matching...
    LuridPoppy LuridPoppy 31-35, F Aug 8, 2010

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    Parents

    I'm a senior in high school and am about to graduate. I should be ecstatic that I'm becoming an adult and am about to make the most important decisions of my life. But I'm not. I feel sad all the time and I don't know why. I feel unloved and rejected. My mother loves me to an...
    sabaha sabaha 18-21, F Apr 27, 2010

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    Mothers Day Sucks

    Just as i imagined this morning i felt let Down , my 21 year old made Breakfast  way after i got up and probably more for his college returning girlfriend . I then recieved a card a funny one about how i say get your *** in here all the time  cute but made me feel...
    SAMANTHA64 SAMANTHA64 41-45, F May 9, 2010

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    I am unloved, it really hurts finding out the girl u loved just played u the whole time tht she had another bf.
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M Jan 31

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    It seems like ill always be obligated to this life that i am expected to live. These standards my parents, family and religion sets for me. But am i wrong to rebel? I dont like...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    My name, Amanda, literally means "worthy of love" but I sure as hell don't feel like I am. I just keep getting rejected by everyone, and no one has a clue how horrible I feel. I'm...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Feb 8

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    I feel like I'm not loved by anybody, in both real life and online. No one likes me. No one wants me. And the feeling hurts so bad. Why do I even exist in the first place? I think...
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    I swear I don't know how loud I have to scream for anyone to care enough to console me in my pain. Why do I have to explain myself over and over?! And they still don't understand...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    Feeling lost, lonely, abandoned, rejected, unloved, unwanted....anyone out there that understands I wouldn't mind getting to know you.
    voodooGoddess77 voodooGoddess77 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    I'm sick of feeling this way, there is nothing good about me. I'm a waste of life.
    louisr louisr 16-17, M Feb 13

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    Poverty... "We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 56-60, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    Hi, everyone... I need your help, please... I have a good friend and he find the girl he loves. And im very happy. To express my feeling, cause im living in different country and...
    mariavita mariavita 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I've noticed that I can change how I feel if I really try to, most of the time I only do it when I want to feel happy.
    justaCRbot justaCRbot 18-21, M 17 hrs ago

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    I feel numb. as in theres no feeling anymore. I'm acting happy but i'm dying inside, and angry, depressed, and all of that at once makes me feel like a girl lost and not moving at...
    serenapaul serenapaul 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I've just visited our coffee shop, the place we used to meet. Where we would sit holding hands under the table, legs touching. You talking to me like I'm a real person, someone...
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 12 hrs ago

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    Life has hardened me so much. So much so, that I could rarely feel anything now, other than emptiness & sadness. That feeling I couldn't replace it with anything, even as I try to...
    Josua070 Josua070 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Hallo, anyone...This is my first post and i do really need your help... I have too much to say but i don't know how to say.There is a nice couple that i know one of them is my...
    mariavita mariavita 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I feel great giving too, def feel best when making someone smile. I just don't have money to give. http://www.gofundme.com/future4
    let1the2wall3down4 let1the2wall3down4 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    A New Road I am sure that as my wonderful teenagers finish high school and start college that they will make their way well in the world. Each of them can study and earn top...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    Me and my best friend feel each others pain literally, even if we can't see each other. We have known each other for two years, and have become attuned to each other. We are not...
    deerinheadlights999 deerinheadlights999 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    Feeling sad because bf of six years is cheating and doing drugs
    thiscanntbelife thiscanntbelife 26-30, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    So today my crush gave me her response letter to my love confession..tbh I thought she forgot completely about it, but she didn't obviously. My feelings weren't returned, but I'm...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    I'm hungry and feel like some ham
    Jay2002 Jay2002 13-15 15 hrs ago

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    feeling bored at work its been an exhausting day
    lizSMN lizSMN 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So we are down to about once a month. There are lots of reasons why. Al of which logically seem ok. Still breastfeeding, but she wants to stop. Has wanted to stop with our...
    Alohaguy Alohaguy 36-40, M 14 hrs ago

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    There is something I will never understand with people, men in particular. When some speaks to you online about becoming friends, and for a while things are pretty nice as you two...
    illamasqualover illamasqualover 18-21, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I honestly don't know what to do .i tried everything expect moving in other country ,I changed my friends group ,church,school ...but the same feeling comes up everywhere ... What...
    damianananana damianananana 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    what is it with some people you add them, send them message they send one/two back then they ignore you. even though i send 5/6 messages to them with no reply. then theres the...
    cuckoldkevintomel cuckoldkevintomel 41-45, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I feel so sick and nauseous! My stomach is all messed up! :(
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    So, I find myself sitting here, listening to some Frank Sinatra, when my cheeks start to tingle a little. It took me a few moments to realize that tears were starting to stream...
    SparkyPantsL SparkyPantsL 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    There's so much in my life I have no control over. I love someone but I'm not allowed to, I hate myself, my insecurities are eating away at me, I want to run away and escape but I...
    linesofasmile linesofasmile 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I always have to take a shower. Today I had to take a cold shower because it wasn't no hot water. I was gonna take a bird bath but that wasn't going to make me feel good. So I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    i am doing an msc. its really tough, i have a lot of deadlines. in my undergrad i used to be the best, always caring about the grade, now i just want to make it up to the finish...
    thisonetime13 thisonetime13 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm a bowl of different brands of kibble and people around me are picky eaters who take what they like and expect me to pretend like the rest doesn't exist. No one...
    chitters chitters 18-21, F 29 mins ago

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    So my feelings sort of made me "burst" tonight...and I wish I could hit rewind. I was so exhausted and worn out by everyone and was feeling pretty depressed today. I received a...
    TiraVara TiraVara 22-25, F Jan 29

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    Lately I have been feeling very alone. Just... alone. And I can't seem to feel a positive emotion. Even when I do, it's always short-spanned. It's momentary. As soon as whatever...
    EmeraldCat EmeraldCat 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I feel guilty for leaving my heroin addict boyfriend and falling in love with someone who is healthy. I feel as if i could've been there for him to help him through his hard time...
    justwanttobehappy1 justwanttobehappy1 18-21 4 Responses Feb 5