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I Feel Unloved

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    Alone

    It started last year when I had just moved to Montana. I was getting calls from my family saying that my 16 year old sister, then 15, had gotten involved with a 35 year old man, she was smoking, drinking, doing drugs and god only knows what else. They all thought that I could...
    cherishlarson cherishlarson 22-25 1 Response Aug 22, 2011

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    Mothers Day Sucks

    Just as i imagined this morning i felt let Down , my 21 year old made Breakfast  way after i got up and probably more for his college returning girlfriend . I then recieved a card a funny one about how i say get your *** in here all the time  cute but made me feel...
    SAMANTHA64 SAMANTHA64 41-45, F May 9, 2010

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    Sad

    Crying & feeling awful & lonely. I really don't want to wallow on it, tomorrow's a work day & I have things to finish. So hard to get someone to love you back and care for you the way you love and care for them. So hard. 
    luckyno13 luckyno13 26-30 Apr 7, 2012

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    Parents

    I'm a senior in high school and am about to graduate. I should be ecstatic that I'm becoming an adult and am about to make the most important decisions of my life. But I'm not. I feel sad all the time and I don't know why. I feel unloved and rejected. My mother loves me to an...
    sabaha sabaha 18-21, F Apr 27, 2010

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    My boyfriend is so distant with me,

    the say he talks to me sometimes as well just makes me feel so inadequate and like he doesn't want to be with me, I have to fight to get attention and rarely does he show me his feelings for me, but when he does I feel amazing but then I worry because it's a temporary bliss. I...
    Somuchformyhappyending Somuchformyhappyending 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I Feel Guilty and Unloved :/

    I don't want this to sound like the ramblings of just another girl.  Because, that's not what it is.  this isn't me having a hormone imbalance, or emotional issues.  I'm in love.  And, I'm loved back.  But, my lover doesn't know how to show his love...
    Fujita Fujita 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    I Feel Unloved

    You might wonder why since I'm married. My husband has asperger's syndrome. He used to be more loving though,  but now he is just not very loving and does not show love. I have been dealing with a lot of pain lately and he has not helped me. I had to write a letter telling...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Looming Love

    The fates string us along. Strumming their web and manipulating the weave until the warp and weft are tight and fitting the design of Creation . . . Some of us know the fiber we are spun with and can sense through vibration where it is best we are to go - where our matching...
    LuridPoppy LuridPoppy 31-35, F Aug 8, 2010

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    I am unloved by both of my parents.

    In exchange for their rejecting me and not loving me and my siblings, I shunned them. I am reminded everyday that my parents don't love me. My mother hasn't spoken to me in 23 years. She took too long to talk to me, so I left the family. The reasons they don't love me is based...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 24

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    my mom used to be so loving

    but when i wanted to live with my dad and not her because she became neglectful toward me she stopped telling me she loved me, now 4years later i barely see her since she lives an hour away, i think about her all the time i want her to call me tell me she loves me that shes...
    mariie97 mariie97 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Its

    the same story everybody goes through... i wish there was someone out there who felt the same way as i felt about them...its always been that the guy i like doesnt like me and the guy who likes me i dont like him:/i know everyone goes through this but im so sick of it! i feel...
    hahsuckerpunch hahsuckerpunch 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    Totally Unwanted And Unneeded...

    I spend so much of my life just curled up in my bed and feeling alone. I hate my life almost 99.9% of the time. I think I am becoming agoraphobic because I hardly ever leave the house and I sometimes feel afraid when I am not in my house. I have a boyfriend...
    afraidunloved afraidunloved 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    So my ex says "I don't have time to talk to you." My second ex says nothing. No one calls. No one says "I miss her." No one stayed or ever wanted to....I am just getting...
    Nurse68 Nurse68 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I may not be able to express it in words, for I have tried the best of means but of no use...I feel unloved and hopeless and all sorts of negative things one can imagine of...I'm...
    natashaesor natashaesor 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It's hard busting my *** trying to get good grades and work to help out with bills around the house. I understand that my mothers stressed out, but so is everyone else. I...
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F Aug 14

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    Sometimes I feel worthless, unwanted and unloved, especially unloved. For the last few weeks it's getting more often. But why is that? Don't get me wrong, not everything in my life...
    Gammler Gammler 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    me and my husband seldom talk and when the kids sleep, he sleeps too ! we didnt even chat or update each other's day. I am getting lonely and felt unloved after 10 years of...
    frusmummy frusmummy 31-35 1 Response Aug 2

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    I feel vulnerable. Angry. Dissonant. Surprised. I feel happy, and sad, loved and unloved, and weird. I feel lonely, and busy with life, misused, and lost. But I have a good...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    No matter how many times people tell me they like me or that I'm important, I always go back and focus on the little things that make me want to cry. It's so easy to overanalyze a...
    laracomn laracomn 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My wife of four years has told me as of now she doesn't like sex. Ever since we gotten married and had children the affection and intimacy has fell off the grid. She was pregnant...
    born2reign born2reign 22-25, M 6 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I feel so unloved, and just unattractive to the opposite sex .... I suppose it's the fact that I've given my heart for someone else in the past, and she ripped it out and stamped...
    cerberus87 cerberus87 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I just got finished crying my eyes out & walking around a park 9-10:13 pm . With no shoes i feel so loss & low (picture inside)
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I feel so unloved and I think right now I just need some good cuddles
    slippingunder slippingunder 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like if i show how alone i feel i would end up screaming in a room full of people or just speeding up to the end and die already to end the torture. It cant keep going on...
    Noahn85 Noahn85 26-30, M 7 mins ago

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    I always feel that im alone in this world, i dont have the other person i can share everything everyday. Im awkward, i used to be okay but i have always been having some friends...
    hooncaramello hooncaramello 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I have hurt my girlfriend before with a selfish, greedy deed and I feel so guilty. She has forgiven me and I never want to do it again. Thanks for giving me another chance, love. I...
    Iancharles Iancharles 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    So my best friend and I moved to a new school together (high school) she we both didn't know anyone other then each other. We found a really nice new group of friends and they are...
    SweetWolf2 SweetWolf2 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Oh, the years where have they disappeared to? Can't take it back, vanished in air and ran away. Our wishing to take back time, what we spoke, the time we could have spent, the...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F Jul 30

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    I have been feeling apathetic towards anyone I love lately. I feel an emotional detachment and I can't get myself to care as much as I used to for others. Especially my boyfriend...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    i hate feeling guilty. i am ways doing something wrong. i skipped my day to wash dishes. i feel guilty again. i hate it. i has happened before. I've done it before. so i feel...
    boredandreading boredandreading 18-21 Aug 1

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    I never thought I would turn out to be like this when I was younger. Incompetent, inadequate, lost soul. I'm not anywhere close to the life stage points I should be. I feel like I...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Music gets me in different moods. Whether it's feeling incredible, sad, happy, silly, anything. I love all kinds of music and today the music and beats from Beyonce's song gets me...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I was always a weird kid.. was probably difficult to handle.. although the way I have always seen myself, I always try to be a good person and I used to follow the rules to the...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Since I was very young, I have always felt different. I'm talking 8 years old. I've always felt that I thought more than others, am more observant than others, and as awful as it...
    thenebula thenebula 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    my family are nice people don't get me wrong. I love them and they do love me. I just don't feel like I can be myself around them. Granted to an extent, I think people will have...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm feeling really upset right now. I feel like I'm just an object to men. Someone they can just come back to if they want to get laid or something.. I genuinely want to be more...
    moonilluminatedroom moonilluminatedroom 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure if I'm just feeling depressed or If I actually am. But I just need to write my feelings and thoughts right now because I can express myself on here and ONLY here...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F Jul 27

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    In my past I've been married, widowed, and being single mom for two children. After two year of being alone I feel sad and get jealous seeing a couple so I love with each other...
    Redrose28 Redrose28 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I hate feelings... Contradictions... I hate when you are feeling one thing and everyone around you tells you to stop and go in the other direction... I hate when someone tells you...
    Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Sad, but True... July 28, 2014 Have you ever had someone in your life that has been hard to love? I don't mean they are "unlovable"...just that they make it difficult with their...
    JustaMann JustaMann 41-45, M Jul 29

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    Haha, I feel weird writing this but, I've always wondered this. Obviously I know what it feels like to women, but I've always been curious as to what guys feels when they're having...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I never knew how to explain it. In fact, I never think I'll ever be able to fully express it. It's just that I feel like I'm completely on my own. Don't get me wrong; it's not as...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I feel everyone has a feminine and masculine side to them. I feel it's not half n half or anything like that. I just think we all have both of them in us. I feel much more female...
    dev1978 dev1978 36-40, T 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jul 30

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    I am anything but alone but I feel like it. I have been in my relationship for 13 yrs. my partner has had it pretty rough. She's battled with depression, anxiety, and panic which...
    littlechief79 littlechief79 31-35, F Jul 31

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    I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism Feb of this year. I started with Levothyroxine but my body was sensitive to it so in april my dr switched me to .5 of synthroid . at first I was...
    lauryn14 lauryn14 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's a hollow feeling... Sometimes I think I'm feeling something but then I evaluate the situation and realize that I SHOULD be feeling like that; but I don't. My brain is saying...
    NearAsFarCanBe NearAsFarCanBe 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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