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I Feel Unwanted

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    I'm gonna go away now bye EP
    Yandyp Yandyp 18-21, F Dec 7, 2013

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    Rejection Snowball - I heard a comment today. "To be succesful, we must conform". The person who said it was actualy talking about buisness, but I thought, it really...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 8 Responses Oct 21, 2008

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    what do you do when your own mother doesnt want to deal with you... n its not because u did nething wrong but simply because she only wanted
    forever0invisible forever0invisible 22-25, F Dec 26, 2013

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    I'M So Lonely... - I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    I Gave It My All - I love him and I always will but I need to let him go. He's going to find himself while I sit in this unfamiliar waiting room for my friend to come back. He...
    oxygenhasflaws oxygenhasflaws 18-21, F Nov 14, 2009

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    I've always been an independent person. The type of person who didn't need anyone to make her feel secure or good about herself. I've built walls around people so I don't get hurt...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    I Feel Unwanted And Unappreciated - I am 41 and some days I am ok and other days I am not ok. There were so many love stories and I felt excluded. Unwanted. Unadored. It brings me...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    By Most - Most everyone I try and talk to ignores me. They don't hear me, sometimes they don't even see me.  My boyfriend for the most part, he listens and hears me, but he has...
    CrystalCelestria CrystalCelestria 16-17, F Feb 15, 2013

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    Baabaa Black Sheep - I have always been the one in my family that was different. I was the sickly one. The one that strayed away from the norm. Never did drugs. Partied more and...
    mrcrackers mrcrackers 36-40 Sep 23, 2013

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    I Just Do.. - It's hard looking in the mirror and not wanting yourself but at the same time not expecting the same thing from everybody else. Apart of me says "you might as well...
    KeezyDerp KeezyDerp 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 14, 2013

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    Not Wanted - they want you at first, least that's what they say but when you need them the most thats when they go away I had friends once so I thought then when I got sick a lot...
    nicetee9 nicetee9 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    Unwanted - I am a 16 year old girl who has slight depression and is slighlty bipolar. About 4 years both of my parents passed away for various cancers and other problems. I know...
    bubbleskayj22 bubbleskayj22 16-17, F 1 Response May 12, 2011

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    Pushing My Limits. - These past couple of weeks have been kinda rough between me and my boyfriend. But i feel as if im not appreciated by him anymore. He lost his job earlier this...
    noverholdback noverholdback 18-21, F Nov 1, 2012

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    The Unwanted Daugter and Sister - haaaaaaaaaaay I am the eldest and the only girl in our family. My brothers don't respect me and call me STUPID. We always argue about certain...
    kulit kulit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    I Have Been Rejected All My Life - and bashed and humilated. men i like never want to know me unless they are degridating and shaming me or trying to make me look like a retard...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 13, 2011

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    I Totally Feel I Am Unwanted, - I truely feel unwanted. I found out I'm pregnant and my boyfriend broke u with me. He suffers from alchole abuse that was the excuse I've always...
    eunsilly eunsilly 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    ive felt unwanted pretty much since birth..my older sister used to bash me up..i felt like more of a burden to my father as his needs were to chat up women and get them in the sack...
    h0r1bledan h0r1bledan 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    How do I feel? I feel stressed. I feel overworked. I feel overwhelmed. I feel unappreciated. I feel as if I don’t have any purpose on living anymore. I feel as if I am a burden...
    troubledchild2 troubledchild2 18-21, F Mar 4

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    Me Too - It is not a happy experience but I have felt this a lot. The sense that, whatever you do or say counts for little or nothing. Still, I am in good company. Although this...
    sichtbar sichtbar 46-50 7 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    At least I did. Coming here to EP has changed that for me. I have met a number of really good people, and they treat me like I am somebody. I'm glad I'm here! :D
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 24

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    I'm 28 single with no children. All my friends have either children, a boyfriend and a lot of my friends and associates are married. I can't even get past 3 dates with the same guy...
    1986Cupcake 1986Cupcake 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    I Am Unwanted. - I've felt this way my whole life.  Part of it is the fact that I've never felt good enough for any one person in my life.  I'm like a burden, and I don't...
    DistantDreamer DistantDreamer 18-21 4 Responses Jul 1, 2008

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    Unwanted - I've been bullied for years now. I'm used to it. I don't have many friends but I at least have friends now. I started cutting last year and I have a total of 37 I think...
    Hollie1216 Hollie1216 13-15, F Aug 7, 2013

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    Rejected On Ep - Even here on EP I feel unwanted. Rejected. Most stories I write go without a reply. And when there is, it's just the same old tired cliches, that just make me feel...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    It'S More Than Just A Feeling - Why would everyone always eventually leave me if I wasn't I am always left no one ever stays with me just recently I was left by my friends that I...
    JWB1 JWB1 13-15, M May 5, 2013

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    Easily Forgotten............... - I know the feeling all too well. I wake up some days and push myself to get out of bed. Get in my car and drive to work. Thought that enters my...
    onmyknees21 onmyknees21 26-30 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Unwanted.. - im never good enough, no matter what i say or what i do
    Charlotte31 Charlotte31 18-21, F Jul 25, 2013

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    My Life - I always felt I was the unwanted person in my life. The fact people never stayed my friends, I was placed in foster care, family not giving me support during hard...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    Mylife In a Nutshell Living With Bpd Alone - Lately with the holidays and circumstances beyond my therapist’s control, we have not been having therapy regularly, which...
    lkg4btrlife lkg4btrlife 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2009

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    All Alone With No One To Talk To - What have I done to become so unwanted? I feel there is something wrong with me like a illness that there is no cure to. I start off well but as...
    niamhynoo niamhynoo 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2011

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    My Husband Looked At A Picture Of Me And Actually Said "eww" Tonight - There has been many times during my marriage of 3yrs that I have felt unwanted. Tonight beats all of those...
    HurtingLonelyMama HurtingLonelyMama 22-25 2 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    I Am Nobody - My whole life, I was born unwanted, I was a small child, and told that I was only here for my brother, I was a teen ager who did not know what a virgin was, I was a...
    Sadlonelywaytolong Sadlonelywaytolong 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    I Feel So Unwanted. - I am almost 16 years old and for some reason as soon as I get close to someone, I push them away. Lately I feel like nobody wants to talk to me anymore. I...
    Kitkat25 Kitkat25 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Reject - Who knows why I feel like this, I have family who loves me, friends who love me and always want me to do something with them...and yet I just feel like I am a burden and...
    LipstickandBruises LipstickandBruises 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2008

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    I Feel Unwanted - hello thank you for reading my story. I am male 43 i still live with my Mother which can cause tension. all my friends have gone and met women and got houses and...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 16, 2013

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    I Know... - I know in my head there are people who want me, but I dont feel it.... There are a few people who I know for absolute certain that they want me. I know that these...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 26, 2008

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    So it's my school's Debs Ball (this is not a prom because its more of a fundraiser where couples dance but their parents are there to watch). I was so sure that I wouldn't go...
    Kiva10 Kiva10 22-25, F Feb 12

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    What Did I Do? - Feeling unwanted is nothing new. It's like a heavy black blanket that envelopes my entire body. It's hot and hard to breath, but inside I feel cold. Did I do...
    cc132 cc132 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2009

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    All the people I know are not interested in me at all. Now firstly, i don't blame them. I have a few acquaintances that were at one point several years ago slightly close friends...
    TransverseLieKid TransverseLieKid 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    So far this year I feel so alone my best friends turned on me and wants me to change everything and I refuse but not sure I'm doing the right thing I feel like I'm just a waste of...
    DestinyJade DestinyJade 13-15, F Mar 10

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    I've Done All That I Could In My Relationship - Before entering into my current relationship I made a promise to myself that I would do all that I could to make it work, and now it...
    amourcharlie amourcharlie 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Life...i Guess - I walk a path where I am free yet alone. I walk among the ghosts of dead friends and family I can see their faces clearly like it was yesterday yet no one around...
    kitkat1989 kitkat1989 22-25, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Unnecessary Existance - Someone said they feel like everyone would be better if they were gone.  Not me.  I don't think it matters if I'm here or if I'm not.  If I...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 10 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    The Feeling Of Being Unwanted - As i always feel alone I went to my safe zone With no one to bother me With no one to see me When I'm here, i feel free feel the breeze of the sea...
    SecretWriter7 SecretWriter7 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Less Interesting Than An Online Game - My boyfriend plays online games all day long on his iphone- he sits with his back to me, ignoring me and playing on his phone- he is part of...
    willow406 willow406 51-55 3 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I've been with my boyfriend for going in 5 years and ever since we had our baby he has been expressing to me how unhappy he is he makes me feel unwanted and I still love him but I...
    trevans trevans 22-25, F Mar 2

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    Unwanted - i know i'm unwanted. ppl in life have rejected me. i feel at times i'm a burden to everyone. only time ppl want me around is when something goes wrong or i'm the only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    Alone For Far Too Long - For nearly 8 years, I've been going to college. Out of those nearly 8 full years, I can only recall just a handful of people that have become my friends...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I Hate It - ever since i started university this is exactlyhow i feel. i felt unwanted numerous times throughout my life but never as much as when i started university. it fet like...
    HiddenFallenAngel HiddenFallenAngel 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    I Can't Maintain Relationships, Platonic Or No... - I have always tried to make friends, and have never been successful. I'm never invited anywhere. Any friends I have ever made...
    absolutionist absolutionist 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Never Have Felt As Unwanted As Right Now - Hey guys, just going to quickly explain this and then look to read about others experiences that are similiar. First off, it keeps coming...
    jaxcy jaxcy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2013

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    I hate this feeling but it's how I feel and I wish it could change.. I know people are here for me and love me,I just feel unwanted and idk why...
    cameron20 cameron20 18-21, M Apr 4

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