I Feel Unwanted

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    I don't know what it is about me

    or what drives people away from me but they all end up leaving me for some unknown reason. What's wrong with me. just say it!!! Don't be a pus and ignore me. tell me how you feel.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 15, 2015

    The feeling is slowly creeping back in.

    . Maybe it's true? Maybe I am unwanted. My suspicions are getting more and more confirmed everyday.. I'm smart enough to know, but choose to be ignorant and think that maybe there is still a chance that you do want me, that you do love me. But reality is I don't think you do love...
    Catho Catho
    18-21, F
    Jun 2, 2015

    These days I feel unwanted,

    my dad hates me,my mom just wants me to leave so she can have time for herself,my best friend is busy with her new boyfriend and parties and dinners but I can't go to any like she does because my parents won't let me go even though they have no time for me and my boyfriend is...
    DepressedAngell DepressedAngell
    18-21, F
    May 31, 2015

    Slowly loosing everyone

    who ever loved me... She moved on and got a new best friend.. I didn't mean to push you away :( He doesn't really care because he never really did.. Only when it was convenient for him.. He can just leave... And lastly I'm so unsure that you want me.. You want a clean slate...
    Catho Catho
    18-21, F
    May 10, 2015

    Just when I hang out with people I feel like

    they don't want me there and it really sucks. I hate being uncomfortable
    lukesdeadpenguin lukesdeadpenguin
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    So I still don't have a dorm room

    for next year because people keep kicking me out of theirs. My current roommate even kicked me out and has already replaced me. I keep venting to people on the floor about how I don't feel wanted and they just say, "No, you are wanted!" Like if I was actually wanted around here...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys
    22-25, F
    Apr 20, 2015

    Literally, my husband won't stop playing a

    video game to give me a hug and a kiss. Mind you, I just complained to him the other day how he's not as affectionate as he should be. He literally wouldn't stop playing a game to give me a hug and a kiss. I am not worth a pause. That's great to know. I'm going to have an affair...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 14, 2015

    I try so hard to please others

    but nothing I do ever seems good enough I feel soo unwanted and I don't know what to do
    xkeaipra xkeaipra
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2015
    dmanton dmanton
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    Been awhile now since I felt this way

    and it only increases with. Each day. Don't feel wanted by anyone. Almost like I shouldn't exist anymore
    anton88 anton88
    26-30, M
    Mar 28, 2015
    virgin2ink virgin2ink
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2015

    I've been feeling so unwanted lately :-/ i have

    a boyfriend and friends and a good family but I just can't help feeling that everyone just doesn't wanna talk or be near me. I mean I guess I kinda understand why they wouldn't since I tend to be on the annoying side sometimes but I've been trying my best not to get on people's...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015

    I've never been with anyone,

    i've never had a boyfriend, i've never been kissed, i've never even held hands with a bloke. i'm 20 and just feel unwanted. a lad i work with is a year younger than me, he's already got a child and another one on the way with a girlfriend and here i am, the only love i get if...
    makeitsomeday makeitsomeday
    22-25, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    Okay here is my story I knew I should have came

    here from the start. I have been in a good relationship so far. But lately its been hell, he doesn't hold my hand or kiss me anymore. I asked if he had feelings for me still and he says yes but yet doesn't show it. I feel so unwanted. I got to the point where I am hinting to him...
    ceceleann ceceleann
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    It seems like everyone

    and their mother has had sex when they were like 15, and it seems like sex all they care about. I'm more of an emotional guy and i'd rather be in love before i go anywhere near sex. It seems like no one else feels that way except for religious people, and I'm definitely not...
    aFuzzyBlouw aFuzzyBlouw
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    I fell for this guy who unintentionally led me

    on for a few months... And now I'm just left with these pieces that I have to glue back together and it sucks. It hurts the most when I'm alone with my thoughts and idk I thought that we had something but he said there was no "special connection" and that hurt alot. Everything...
    KissableWhale KissableWhale
    18-21, F
    Jan 16, 2015

    you think they are best friends.

    but they don't love you back..is so sad. i thought she was very good friend.i thought we were... but the reality is different. i feel like i am so stupid.... but the only right thing i know is don't bother them anymore if they leave you
    juryandrews juryandrews
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    i mean.. sometimes people just totally blank me

    out. i try for people all the time, i try my best to not leave them out and treat them with kindness, and it's like nobody even realises what i'm TRYING to do. all i ever do is try. i feel lost.. i cry myself to sleep most nights on how messed up my life is and all my...
    alliixxxx alliixxxx
    16-17, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    I hate being a fool when you find out your not

    as important to someone as you thought.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

    Growing up I was foster care

    and I was in and out of homes until my uncle eventually adopted me. I had to live with my uncles wife's mom and dad(how weird huh) which really made me feel alone. I felt like such a burden to everyone. Recently I visited my father across the country because he had just gotten...
    FelBaby FelBaby
    22-25, F
    Nov 26, 2014
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    Sometimes I feel like I am just like some other

    girl or person to him. That maybe he just wants me gone so that he could be with someone else... I mean I don't blame him but still.... it sucks. I care so much for him and am always scared that he is going to leave one day, but he is just constantly pushing me to be with other...
    KeKeNae KeKeNae
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2014

    Every time things seem like they are finally

    coming together they ground beneath me crumbles. I thought I was finally in a place where I could be free, where I could be myself but that place does not exist. I now understand that love does not come free of cost. No one hands it over to you like here, here's some love and I...
    Fi07 Fi07
    22-25, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    Would anyone even care

    if I killed myself tonight?
    aholliday3300 aholliday3300
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    I want a boyfriend but then I don't

    because I always get hurt. And always **** something up.
    MeganDawnn MeganDawnn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2014

    I can't anymore. I'm

    so tired all the time
    onceafunnything onceafunnything
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2014

    I am a young woman who gave up a whole lotto

    follow the man who I thought would make me happy and feel cherished. I became pregnant and well, things changed. After having my daughter my body wasnt the same. Im chubbier and full of stretch marks. Its been more than a year. My partner doesn't touch me, doesnt tell me im...
    iamv1991 iamv1991
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2014

    My whole life growing up my mom gave her full

    attention to my sister and left me with my abusive step dad and 19 years down the road she realize my sister ain't going no where and saw how lonely and depressed I was. She tried to be a good mom and change but I feel she's a little to late
    mrpipes420 mrpipes420
    26-30, M
    Sep 21, 2014

    Sometimes I just want to disappear

    and see if anyone miss me
    jafrin jafrin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    When you realize he could have just about any

    girl he wants, and your probably not even in his "top 100" All you want is to give up, but you don't. You still tell him happy birthday in hopes of even just a smile from your long time friend.
    CookE114 CookE114
    26-30, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    I'm sitting with my two oldest friends.

    I brought Malibu coconut rum, because they wanted it, but I'm the only one drinking it and I'm getting really bad vibes and an awful gut feeling and I just want to cut so so bad. I want to cut so bad. It's eating at me. I feel it in my chest. I want to cut. Because I feel so...
    onceafunnything onceafunnything
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    I don't even know why I try any more.

    I'll always be the second choice or the person on the outside. I just wish it didn't hurt as much.
    aelizabeth3300 aelizabeth3300
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

    It's not because I'm single it's just i feel

    so unwanted I don't want to feel like this and I dot know why I do feel like this, I'm so lost, but I have found that when I'm laying in bed and I'm at peace, I feel nothing more than peace an I just wish I could feel like that all the time
    gabichal gabichal
    16-17, F
    Aug 26, 2014

    I feel unwanted because no one seems to notice

    me. I just deleted my profile on a dating site because no one bothered to message me or even message me back. I have been hurt emotionally by three guys from it so I kinda gave up on it...im wondering if there is something wrong with me that makes me feel unwanted by everyone...
    redphoenix02 redphoenix02
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    I always make people feel comfortable.

    I try my hardest to make it to where if hey need me they can come to me. It seems the more I do that the more comfortable they are with telling me they don't want me. I feel like a ******* doorstop. When I'm needed I'm used when I'm not I'm thrown to the side. My sister...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2014

    This weekend we are supposed to go camping.

    But my mom doesn't want me to go with her because she doesn't think she can "handle me."
    Kali3 Kali3
    22-25, F
    Jul 9, 2014

    I feel like I'm not important to a lot of

    people. I feel like I take up too much space. I feel like that maybe just maybe this world is not for me anymore. I make so many mistakes compared to the average human. I hurt so many people when I've hurt myself. I can't go even a night without crying myself to sleep. My family...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    sooo many hate me i wouldnt be surprised

    if someone close to me were to be plotting to kill me...soo many friends left me soo many turned against me....no one can love a demon like me
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 6, 2014

    My sister is always telling me to go die.

    She just told me to go die because I am using the iPad charger actually so sick of it now!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    Tired of feeling unwanted.

    Really would anyone miss me if I just disappeared?
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    My husband works 10 hour days,

    5 days, sometimes 6 days a week. 9am-7pm so during like the entire day. When he is home, he's on his phone or his computer or his game system... Or in the rare occasion he is watching a movie, it's something he knows I really hate, instead of watching something we'd both enjoy...
    ThatConfusedGirl ThatConfusedGirl
    26-30, F
    May 30, 2014

    I hate myself because of it.

    It's not just that no guy likes me and stuff like that, though that is a part of it (the cheating and being used didn't really help either). But it's more that I don't feel that I matter to a single person on this Earth. I always try to be really nice and considerate. But that...
    chuhulil chuhulil
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 28, 2014

    Yeah i really feel unwanted always specially in

    my college life i always feel no one really wanted me around they just invited me in so they won't look rude to me. I'm always the forgotten one in the group the one that no one really cares about me. I'm the always one who comes in last and need to speak just to be noticed. I'm...
    DauntlessWallflower DauntlessWallflower
    22-25, F
    May 16, 2014

    Things between my baby

    and I are not good. We miss each other so much. She told me today that there is a girl she works with that she had been hanging out with a lot lately. I knew a long distance relationship would be difficult but I thought she was going to stick to her word when she said i was the...
    lesbianloverr lesbianloverr
    22-25, F
    Apr 26, 2014

    At least I did. Coming here to EP has changed

    that for me. I have met a number of really good people, and they treat me like I am somebody. I'm glad I'm here! :D
    Whoami30 Whoami30
    31-35, M
    Mar 24, 2014

    So far this year I feel

    so alone my best friends turned on me and wants me to change everything and I refuse but not sure I'm doing the right thing I feel like I'm just a waste of space and that I should be dead I've felt like this since last Christmas when we didn't even see the whole family not even...
    DestinyJade DestinyJade
    18-21, F
    Mar 10, 2014

    I'm 28 single with no children.

    All my friends have either children, a boyfriend and a lot of my friends and associates are married. I can't even get past 3 dates with the same guy. I really want a family but I have such bad luck with dating :( This makes me really unhappy
    1986Cupcake 1986Cupcake
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for going in 5 years and ever since we had our baby he has been expressing to me how unhappy he is he makes me feel unwanted and I still love him but I feel stuck like I can't live with out him he has been with me through the death of both my parent so I kinda cling to him in a...
    trevans trevans
    26-30, F
    Mar 2, 2014

    So it's my school's Debs Ball (this is not a

    prom because its more of a fundraiser where couples dance but their parents are there to watch). I was so sure that I wouldn't go because the guys weren't asking us, we had to ask them. I knew guys would say NO if I asked so I didn't. Then my mum said that I had to ask at least...
    Kiva10 Kiva10
    18-21, F
    Feb 12, 2014

    what do you do when your own mother doesnt want

    to deal with you... n its not because u did nething wrong but simply because she only wanted
    forever0invisible forever0invisible
    26-30, F
    Dec 26, 2013

    ive felt unwanted pretty much

    since birth..my older sister used to bash me up..i felt like more of a burden to my father as his needs were to chat up women and get them in the sack..despite he being married or the woman being married..he spent his earnings on his wardrobe..mum got little for food..i wore...
    h0r1bledan h0r1bledan
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 24, 2013
    Yandyp Yandyp
    22-25, F
    Dec 7, 2013

    Baabaa Black Sheep

    I have always been the one in my family that was different. I was the sickly one. The one that strayed away from the norm. Never did drugs. Partied more and was more rebellious. Got into trouble and had psych probs. I lived a life a little bit more on the edge than was expected...
    mrcrackers mrcrackers
    Sep 23, 2013

    I Have A Dream

    I have four beloveds All of them beautiful in their own unique way My Wife : fair, chic and blue eyed golden locks My baby doll : blue green eyed kitten light blonde The gift : very very fair with light brown hair and grey eyes Lady Love : blonde green eyes pink skin and cherry...
    WannaKissU WannaKissU
    31-35, M
    Aug 27, 2013

    I've Done All That I Could In My Relationship

    Before entering into my current relationship I made a promise to myself that I would do all that I could to make it work, and now it feels like I'm failing myself. Everything was completely in the beginning and we have yet to get into a fight about anything because I make a point...
    amourcharlie amourcharlie
    22-25, F
    Aug 26, 2013

    I Feel Unwanted

    hello thank you for reading my story. I am male 43 i still live with my Mother which can cause tension. all my friends have gone and met women and got houses and cars some have kids, i have just rotted. im sick of being alone. i crave affection.i crave someone to like me and hold...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013


    I've been bullied for years now. I'm used to it. I don't have many friends but I at least have friends now. I started cutting last year and I have a total of 37 I think. My family never wants anything to do with me and they don't even know how I feel. I hate my life but I don't...
    Hollie1216 Hollie1216
    18-21, F
    Aug 7, 2013


    im never good enough, no matter what i say or what i do
    Charlotte31 Charlotte31
    22-25, F
    Jul 25, 2013

    Never Have Felt As Unwanted As Right Now

    Hey guys, just going to quickly explain this and then look to read about others experiences that are similiar. First off, it keeps coming to my mind that anyone reading our stories might come to quickly judge that we are pathetic crybabies without an inch of a backbone. But I...
    jaxcy jaxcy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2013

    Less Interesting Than An Online Game

    My boyfriend plays online games all day long on his iphone- he sits with his back to me, ignoring me and playing on his phone- he is part of a chat group connected to the main game he plays, ignores me and chats all day to them, now I have just found out he has even joined...
    willow406 willow406
    3 Responses Jun 12, 2013
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