I Feel Used

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    Not Used, But Feels Like It!!!!

    When my ex-boyfriend  and i were still together, we had a nice relationship. But then it all went downhill. Whenever we had sex, we would do it then he would go to sleep afterwards which made me feel used. This about about more than 100 times to be exact. Then i left him...
    tracili tracili
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2010

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11
    26-30, F
    Dec 22, 2014
    chevellT chevellT
    22-25, M
    Aug 26, 2014

    Ever since my marriage officially ended over

    three months ago I have met a few men along the way and each and every time I get told how gorgeous I am, how sexy I am, how I have captivated them and how I apparently have them under a spell... But yet none of them have hung around for longer then a couple weeks... There is...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    My Ex

    I had a relationship for about 4 months but I feel it was largely a one-way relationship.  I feel like I was just a person of convenience and when I was no use to her anymore I was out the door (I sold my car).  I worry that being a "nice guy" will only lead...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
    41-45, M
    19 Responses May 8, 2008

    I feel like people take advantage of my caring

    personality. For example: I saw a girl sitting down alone on my first day of high school. It was her first day too and I befriended her. I talked to her, I sat with her and I was really nice to her. But all of a sudden she starting sitting with some other girls and completely...
    AReadingWriter AReadingWriter
    16-17, F
    Aug 17, 2015

    Like a condom. Not in

    that melodramatic teen crisis My-GF-broke-up-with me sense. Improbable days are insistent.
    s0undgarden s0undgarden
    18-21, M
    Aug 21, 2014

    I didn't want to do stuff with him I told him

    no .... But he made me give him head and I told him don't come in my mouth but he did and it was gross and then he was like yeah I have to leave and told me to leave... He kept trying to get in my pants too and I kept saying no..... Non of that was even suppose to happen cause...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses May 9, 2015

    I didn't mean anything to you

    after all. You meant a lot to me and you just made me feel used. Hope you're happy.
    lovesthenightsky lovesthenightsky
    26-30, F
    Feb 17, 2016

    I dont know what it is about my life,

    but i pick the worst friends. Majority of them use me for my money, but then theres one friend i have. And a few weeks back i told her that i liked this guy that i meet through her i thought it would be ok to like him cause she didnt and he lived nowhere near me. But then i meet...
    SoulKeeper14 SoulKeeper14
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    Just Over It

    I'm so sick of ppl who use others to their own benefit. Its not funny and its not cute, you use deception to make others think you like or love them when all along you know you could care less about them. That is SO fake! And then as soon as you no longer need them you either...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    I lost count how many times I helped some of my

    "friends" no matter if it is school or anything else. I am not asking for help everyday but if I can help you often why you can't be there for me when I need something.
    Nedza96 Nedza96
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    Please Dont Judge Me For This . . .

    But im only 14 , and I had sex . (not good. I know). Just yesturday I realized I was used by the guy. I also realized that guys are full of lies & cheating. I am surley not gonna bother anymore . I was in denial the whole time about it & the funny thing is, I still like him, but...
    mandycandy0123 mandycandy0123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    About two weeks ago I met this lovely girl

    who talked with me for hours. Whether we were in class, or home, until we were hanging out with one another, we were messaging each other. We became a little intimate and I found she had just been getting over a previous relationship. We talked and considered a relationship...
    Devilscar Devilscar
    22-25, M
    Mar 19, 2015

    A guy that I have considered my best friend

    for over ten years I feel has used me. We dated for a brief period of time over five years ago but only ever kissed. Our connection is deeply emotional and I can tell him aanything. We hung out about two weeks ago now and ended up having sex. Since then we have only spoken a...
    hottmom22 hottmom22
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 7, 2015
    stupid28 stupid28
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    I said no to sex and

    now hes ignoring me, why are all men i come across like this :'( maybe i should become easy, im going to get drunk tonight and **** any random guy i see maybe i will feel liked :( **** life x
    nevermentioned nevermentioned
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2014

    I have friend that I met through work.

    He had recently broken up with his girlfriend when he started flirting with me, telling me how much he wanted to spend time with me. I figured he was going through rebound feelings... but I couldn't resist. I had always liked him a little bit, and here he was... wanting me. It...
    Muse20 Muse20
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    Used Again And Again

    I dated this guy for 2 monthes and I always suspected he was cheating on me with his ex. He was txting her and was gonna get a job where she worked at. It caused problems with us so we broke up. Few Weeks later he said he missed me and wanted me back so I gave it another shot...
    rocker26 rocker26
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2012

    I was really digging this guy a lot,

    but I wanted to keep it as a friendship. Saturday was our first date together and we ended up going to his house. When We got there I was introduced to his little sister and we ended up going down stairs to his room. He offered me food and water and I just got something to drink...
    zy7a zy7a
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2014

    I think he's using me.

    ..just for my body and to distract his own feelings. I asked him about it but he said no- he likes me for me. I want to trust him...But I'm not sure. He broke up with his ex two months ago and then he started using other girls to mask his own feelings. He said he stopped. But...I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    At 13, I was speaking to a boy.

    I obviously thought I 'loved him' everyone's stupid at that age with love. One night, me my friend and him and his friend went to his house. He got me drunk, really drunk...he did stuff with me, I didn't mind some stuff. But he had sex with me, and I can't class it as rape but I...
    SocietyKilledHer SocietyKilledHer
    18-21, F
    Feb 20, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    I hate being betrayed.

    Like he never loved me at all
    ThanksButNoThanx ThanksButNoThanx
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    This week i met a really nice cute guy

    who made me dinner,yes we hooked up, it was too perfect not to, and I hadn't had any luck trying to hold off, cause that doesn't seem to work either. But my friend comes into town and ends up hooking up with his roommate all week long, and she had a boyfriend!! I was stuck as...
    hollymarie32 hollymarie32
    31-35, F
    Oct 29, 2014

    I feel used. Used by guys.

    I feel like I attract the wrong ones. When I think I meet someone decent turns out they only want me for one thing. For sex, even though I've had some explain they wouldn't be using me, if I agreed to it. Would they not be using me? It's insulting and it makes me feel less of a...
    Saabatt Saabatt
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2014

    Damn Him Again

    Ok I will start off saying this is my fault too. I met a military man about 4 yrs ago and we began writing to each other during his 1st deployment. We emailed a couple of times when he came home, but when he went back for the 2nd time we started writing more and realized we...
    DamnHim DamnHim
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2008

    im one who falls fast.

    . though it happens quickly doesnt mean its not meaningful and im not one to jump into sex but it seems like, to most, thats what they see as "love". Eveytime i give "love" im always dumped... not that it was bad or anything i dont think... but i was just used. Its only happened...
    Fallen321 Fallen321
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2015

    I Lost Myself

    Mending a broken heart is so much easier than putting back together the pieces of a broken identity. The last guy I gave my heart to took away everything I have; even myself. Before I met him I was confident, funny, and most importantly happy. I met this guy over the summer when...
    Diane999 Diane999
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    I'm done. I've decided to just move back into

    the state of mind that I used to be in when I was younger where I was happy and nothing bothered me. Literally nothing did. And anything anyone said just passed by me as if I was a cold heartless bastard. But when you could be like me when I was younger, say "I'm sorry" and mean...
    Devilscar Devilscar
    22-25, M
    Aug 23, 2015

    I'm starting to realize more

    and more how men will take advantage of a kind heart. And that's sad because I really thought they were all my friends..
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    It Never Stops

    ie been with my bf for 4yrs no, an this last year ive caught him with 4 other women an now he still cheatting on me with his co work an denies it now but ive seen him texts to her an i just wont to scream an yell at him. why do men like tohurt women so much? im so fn hurt by all...
    sweetunknown sweetunknown
    31-35, F
    Oct 12, 2012

    I turned down his request

    for sex. Ive now been called a lazy *****, a piece of meat, and a slob. I feel stupid. I feel sick. I feel relieved that I blocked his number.
    AlisonAnnAbby AlisonAnnAbby
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    O, Hello! I am homeless

    and I live in a certain voluntary work based shelter. The reason I write her eare problems I have there. Many people living there are rude and agressive. Many want me to have sex and sit and drink in the park with them, and as I dont, and search the work actively, they are...
    DogBlog1 DogBlog1
    46-50, F
    Sep 18, 2014

    I feel unbelievably used.

    But then again, it isn't something new for me.
    YoureMyDemonMyDemise YoureMyDemonMyDemise
    22-25, M
    Jun 5, 2014

    So recently got back in touch with a friend

    from high school haven't talked with her in forever she just moved back from Florida. We talked about meeting up for drinks and to catch up... So today I check my Facebook a message from her asking me for a favor... I said it depends on what it is... She then proceeds to say...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    Forever A Fool.

    So, I stayed. I lie, I tell everyone things are better. They are not. I'm just a pathetic little fool. I can't stand the idea of people looking at me with pity anymore so I pretend it's all ok. He never loved me and never really will. That is really the truth. He keeps me around...
    ignoredwife ignoredwife
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2013

    I feel like literally every single guy I come

    across wants to use me just for sex. Every relationship I've ever had ended up this way. I'm disgusted by their ways but at the same time I can't help but trying to please them. Everybody thinks I'm a strong and fearless young woman, but nobody knows I don't believe in myself...
    xdropsofjupiter xdropsofjupiter
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    all these lost weeks all

    that mental effort all those tears and for what!? to mock me? to laugh about me? was it a bet perhaps? till when i wonder?
    kinskibu kinskibu
    Mar 20, 2016

    I've been talking to a guy

    for nearly a month. He's called Finnbah -nickname 'Finn'- and he's 18. I thought personally we got on great.. He new I was interested in him and I thought it was mutual. We've met up once and planned to meet this week (Saturday) basically today. Since it's 1:32am but whatever...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    I've known this guy for 7-8 years.

    We've done some things and now he asks for "favors" all the time... And I get nothing in return... I don't think I mind but it's just I want to know If that's all I am to him now, I mean I'm not asking to be the love of his life. But ti know if im a friend or something would be...
    silverxrose silverxrose
    22-25, F
    Jun 16, 2015

    My name is Marcia. I'm 41 years old

    and no man has ever loved me. I need a friend tonight. Who's willing to be a sounding board? Depression and pain is gripped around my neck...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    It's not even worth confronting you about it

    now. You came into my life so quickly I didn't have time to process what was actually happening. You said you loved me. Your words caressed my brain and it was as if you knew all the codes to open my most secret compartments. You stealthily invaded my mind and took ANOTHER...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes
    26-30, F
    Jan 7, 2016
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