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I Feel Used

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    I Lost Myself - Mending a broken heart is so much easier than putting back together the pieces of a broken identity. The last guy I gave my heart to took away everything I have...
    Diane999 Diane999 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    My Ex - I had a relationship for about 4 months but I feel it was largely a one-way relationship.  I feel like I was just a person of convenience and when I was no use to her...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 19 Responses May 8, 2008

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    Not Used, But Feels Like It!!!! - When my ex-boyfriend  and i were still together, we had a nice relationship. But then it all went downhill. Whenever we had sex, we would...
    tracili tracili 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2010

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    Every Day.. - I feel like people only talk to me at school because I can help them get threw it. You see, school is a very booring place for some children. Obviously. But I seem...
    TrentsXe TrentsXe 16-17, M 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Room Full Of Strangers - My so called friends associate with me when they need me, or when they are bored; but when i try to have a conversation they act as though they don't care...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2012

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    It Never Stops - ie been with my bf for 4yrs no, an this last year ive caught him with 4 other women an now he still cheatting on me with his co work an denies it now but ive seen...
    sweetunknown sweetunknown 31-35, F Oct 12, 2012

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    Unfortunately -  I am used.  I will say there are 5 (at least) men/boys who have taken pleasure in using me in the past 6 months. That is a very conservative estimate...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2008

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    I Lived In a Dream - i dont know where to start from really i had a marriage which was not of chose, i always wanted to fall in love but never had the chance to meet anyone as i...
    nokia6300 nokia6300 31-35 Feb 9, 2009

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    Cover Up - I was used as a cover up for about seven years. My now exboyfriend just told me he is gay. Now I am alone, with no friends. And I can't tell anyone. So i am still a...
    Mposey92 Mposey92 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    Damn Him Again - Ok I will start off saying this is my fault too. I met a military man about 4 yrs ago and we began writing to each other during his 1st deployment. We emailed a...
    DamnHim DamnHim 46-50 3 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    Closed Mouth/open Wallet! - I feel like I am just an old dish rag, that everyone has used to mop up their mess and passes it on to the next person who needs me. But wait! They...
    awkward1 awkward1 36-40 Feb 1, 2010

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    Just Over It - I'm so sick of ppl who use others to their own benefit. Its not funny and its not cute, you use deception to make others think you like or love them when all along...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    I Feel Tired And Sad Most The Time. - To make a long story short I am the person everyone goes to. I know that a lot of people here have experienced this too. My family and friends...
    Survivalofthesickgirl Survivalofthesickgirl 26-30, F 3 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Always Been Used Non-stop - Well, ever since I can remember I have always been the one to call for advice and support. I always know what to say to people and always know how to...
    nefti1256 nefti1256 22-25 1 Response Oct 6, 2010

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    Forever A Fool. - So, I stayed. I lie, I tell everyone things are better. They are not. I'm just a pathetic little fool. I can't stand the idea of people looking at me with pity...
    ignoredwife ignoredwife 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Tonight - Here's my story. I may forget some details but don't hate me suzy. I guess I should start from the beginning before I even met her. Ever since I was in grade school I've...
    SeventhSickness SeventhSickness 18-21, M May 1, 2012

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    Played With My Feelings... - i am working as a PA (personal assistant)..i have a relationship with my boss for over a year now..as the time passes i think i fell in love with him...
    dune712 dune712 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 23, 2010

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    Just An Experiment - So i dont want to write out this long story so i will summarize it.   On feb 1st this guy asked me out... i had never had a boyfriend before (no one had...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2010

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    I've been talking to a guy for nearly a month. He's called Finnbah -nickname 'Finn'- and he's 18. I thought personally we got on great.. He new I was interested in him and I...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 17

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    I Cant Move On From Her - Well i've liked this girl for some time now and we're somewhat friends, we talk at school, on facebook, txting and what not. Yet, she clearly does not...
    Yuko Yuko 16-17, M Feb 12, 2010

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    I Lived In a Dream - i dont know where to start from really i had a marriage which was not of chose, i always wanted to fall in love but never had the chance to meet anyone as i...
    nokia6300 nokia6300 31-35 1 Response Feb 9, 2009

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    Can't Move On. - I think that my doctor took advantage of me. At first I thought that he liked me, he would give more time than normal, up to 45 minutes one time. He wanted me to...
    mangojordan mangojordan 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Getting Divorced As My Husband Has Met Someone While Working Abroad - Hi I am a 40 year old who still feels 18 and am told I dont look my age and have been with my husband for 21...
    paula paula 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    so upset. lets just say ur not my friend anymore.
    forever2116 forever2116 16-17, F Jan 14

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    Sadly.. - I Feel worthless honestly... How could you?? Once was enough.. I took You back as a father.   AND MAYBE NOW Your doing it again?? After all these years...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F Sep 13, 2008

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    The only thing that danced around my mind last night was why he is so affectionate in private but he stands off in public.. Was he embarrassed of me? Was I not pretty enough for...
    KaylaStackhouse KaylaStackhouse 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Self-sabatoge - I know it was my fault. I met him and my heart jumped. He reminded me slightly of past love but with a higher capability of compassion. I wanted to care about him...
    FireInFlames13 FireInFlames13 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    I'm done with giving out any advice or talking to people on this site. I rejoined a few months ago thinking it would be different this time, I was totally wrong. I have been lied...
    snowman70 snowman70 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Fool Me Once Shame On You. Fool Me Twice... - I've been waiting up now for 3 hours waiting for a guy to call me. Tonight we were talking online, and everything he said to me made...
    gloryhallelujah gloryhallelujah 16-17, F Feb 16, 2009

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    Used Again And Again - I dated this guy for 2 monthes and I always suspected he was cheating on me with his ex. He was txting her and was gonna get a job where she worked at. It...
    rocker26 rocker26 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2012

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    I'm Confused - I moved to the west coast with my gf. Just me and her. We're renting a nice place, leased a car. I work full time she goes to school and works part time. I pay most...
    Dontgetit69 Dontgetit69 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Might As Well. - Might as well get this over with. I know I should write about this. I've just been worried he would see this or something. I'm just the fuq with it now. It was in...
    EndlessApathy EndlessApathy 16-17, F Jun 9, 2012

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    Please Dont Judge Me For This . . . - But im only 14 , and I had sex . (not good. I know). Just yesturday I realized I was used by the guy. I also realized that guys are full of...
    mandycandy0123 mandycandy0123 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    It ******* ******* me off because all of these people I'm "friends" with or that have supposed interest in me only want sexual stuff and I'm getting ******* sick of it
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Do you know how it feels? Do you know how it feels to feel used, unloved, forgotten, uncared for, helpless, depressed, so sad you want to kill yourself? Well I go through all of...
    lifeishurtful lifeishurtful 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm not the type of girl who has sex with anyone outside of a relationship but I did. I met him on vacation and I was incredibly intoxicated to the point where I barely remember it...
    tasharose tasharose 18-21, F Mar 23

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    my wife of 14 years is treating me like a slave she never does anything around the house cooking cleaning etc she is only interested in Avon cosmetics and it takes up all of her...
    justchris123 justchris123 46-50, M Mar 17

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    Its hard for me to be serious when it comes to verbally saying i care and love the people i really love because we just show it and all though we fight a lot we know we have each...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I was so much in love with him..I took good care of him and make sure that he feels happy...but when i discovered that he was cheating on me..I broke up with him ..then he came...
    musungu musungu 18-21, F 3 Responses 46 mins ago

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    I smoked pot daily for over 6 years in an attempt to not deal with the trauma that I experience in my life. I lost my job, my friends and my will to even live. Anytime I had a...
    bellafyre bellafyre 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    It's more like they aren't even there. I am bad at trying to making people feel better when they are down. I often don't laugh at jokes because I didn't know they were funny. I...
    Hersheychic Hersheychic 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    If you can remember the experience that I posted about cheating, I never got to say the aftermath. Not only did I learn some lessons on reality and earned some memories but I just...
    HydroChronexia HydroChronexia 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    My Life Of Drug Addiction By: An Addict named brad In the beginning, I shot myself in the head. Three times. With a nail gun. As I remember, it didn’t really hurt all that...
    sober4life sober4life 41-45, M 19 hrs ago

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    I'm messing up everything. Everything. I found someone wonderful and I can't even keep her happy. She deserves someone sooo much better for me. Some one who's a lot more qualified...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Just for fun I again used both my real name and my username Wraithorn. Again I received rather similar results. The first is for Wraithorn, although i must say that i do not...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M Mar 26

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    Marriage over? Check. Zero love life? Check. Hopelessly dead-end career? Check. Fear of failure limiting dreams? Check. Self-loathing? Check, check, and check. I'm posting this to...
    Kronk23 Kronk23 36-40, M Apr 1

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    Used to have friends I could talk to forever Used to love being surrounded by people Used to love dancing, swimming, chilling Used to love my family especially my sister Used to be...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am just a common person, who used to have large dreams. I would be glad if you have the patience to hear my story. To cut a long story short, I studied at a college, completed...
    commonguy42 commonguy42 22-25, M Mar 23

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    My story is like an issue that happens mostly o everyone may be...or may be with people who are kind heart and easy out going personality...i am sensitive and always care much...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I feel completely used, and learned that I was completely oblivious to it. I am generally very open and love meeting new people and with those that I already know I consider...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm sorry I'm not who you want me to be. I'm sorry I'm weak. I'm sorry I can't always pick myself up when I fall. I'm sorry that I'm there for you, every minute of every hour...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My life has forever changed from the past 2 years. I am no longer myself! Who used to just live in today and not worry about anything. Now I have become this hard rock. Someone who...
    endlesslyyyforever endlesslyyyforever 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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