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I Feel Very Unwanted

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 323 People

    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    All The Time!

    I'm sure I'm not alone when I say this. But I feel very unwanted all the time. Either I'm not good enough or something, I always feel vibes from others that I'm not wanted. Whatever.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    Sad But True!!!

    One thing that I knew up until recently was that I was sincerely loved and wanted.  It is true that you can have it all in one moment and lose it all in the next. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    I Am Unwanted By The One Thing I Want Most

    I think the title says it well. I am head-over-heels for him. We have known each other since were 11. We were in such deep love. I know this because I felt it with my whole being. But today... He said he was done with me. He has done many horrible things towards me, yet I STILL...
    deathcab4cutie deathcab4cutie 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    People should just show a little bit more

    feelings. But **** it you know.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 18-21, M Oct 16, 2014

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    Nobody likes me, I'm use to

    that by now that's why I spend so much times with guns, there reliable when you need them, will always be at your side, your primary doesn't care if you have a backup, your backup doesn't care if you have a primary, your handgun will stay with you even when your out of amo, and...
    ghost123098 ghost123098 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I Feel Unwanted All The Time...

    Everytime I find a person that wants to be friends with me it doesnt last long. Its like after they spend time with me they see how dumb i am. See i have dislexia and im not smart. I know this, and i hate this. the school system failed me. they didnt push me to be more. every...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    Nobodys Girl

    How very sad to be over forty, completely single, with no real prospects on the radar screen.  I was very shy growing up, so I've never even had a real boy-friend.  Not really.  I was a "one of the guys" kinda girl.  More...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 12 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    I could us a smile right now

    but **** it i always have to keep my head up high.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 18-21, M Oct 13, 2014

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    Its A Sucky Feeling To Have!

    I have felt very unwanted a lot throughout my lifetime. Its a feeling that I think I will pretty much always have to deal with because due to some events from my past. I am trying to cope with the feelings, and try to push them aside, and realize that I am wanted, btu when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    I've felt completely unwanted

    and unimportant for most of my life. I've just always felt like I was disposable, like if I wasn't here things would be better for my family because all in all I'm just a huge disappointment... I've had one boyfriend... All the rest of the guys I've started talking to have...
    MarissaRachelle MarissaRachelle 18-21, F Jun 26, 2014

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    I should leave him, but I love him.

    I feel like I'm scratching and pleading for my own husbands attention. He comes home and if I'm not making a sandwich or cleaning or taking off his boots I'm invisible. Every word feels like a lashing of hate. I can not compete with the competition I never expected. A wife of...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I Feel Like Noone Wants Me

    I dont understand why I havent found a girlfriend yet its been nine years and every year gets even harder to keep trying.But some part of me just think it would be best to just give up.Today I woke up better than ever but still feeling unwanted I actually commiting myself to a...
    angelus1988 angelus1988 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Whyy Can'tt Youu Justt Tell Mee What Youu Feel,

    Becausee Howw Youu Actt Is Confusinq Mee...
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I Always Wanted To Kill My Classmates.

    My story. http://youtu.be/2_YTIOvzY2g -Big Mike. BigMikeRadioProgram.com
    TheBMRP TheBMRP 26-30, M Jan 27, 2012

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    I GUESS I AM NOTHING TO ONE TO ONE :/ LIKE MY

    UNCLE SAID EVERY ONE FOR THEN SELFS AINT NOBODY HELPING NO ONE.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 13, 2014

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    So I didn't eat again today.

    It's hard to eat when the only person in your life looks at you and talks to you like you the most annoying thing on earth. I just wish I could stop being me. I hate myself because he hates me. There's no good use of me anymore.
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    No one ever understands me.

    No one tries to. In always the one who has to compromise myself, my feelings and my thoughts and in sick of it. My mom doesn't care about me-she'd rather take the side of my abusive so called siblings and risk me being sexually abused by them again. My boyfriend is never around...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Been awhile now since I felt this way and it only increases with. Each day. Don't feel wanted by anyone. Almost like I shouldn't exist anymore
    anton88 anton88 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    So I still don't have a dorm room for next year because people keep kicking me out of theirs. My current roommate even kicked me out and has already replaced me. I keep venting to...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    So alone. Guess I should try to get back up
    dmanton dmanton 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Literally, my husband won't stop playing a video game to give me a hug and a kiss. Mind you, I just complained to him the other day how he's not as affectionate as he should be. He...
    aurismith aurismith 26-30, F Apr 14

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    I Try Not To Acknowledge How You Didn't Say "GoodMorning" Today Because Then I'll Remember That You Didn't Say It Yesterday Either And I Won't Say Goodnight....
    YoungForever101 YoungForever101 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I think I'll be a walking skeleton by the time someone tells me that they actually care.
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just don't feel like I belong within my circle of friends. they're different from me and I often feel unwanted everywhere. I feel like everyone just uses me to answer homework...
    ewitsdiana ewitsdiana 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    My wife and me had sex in July 2014... Sound like a long time ago? Yeah... Been going on for years. My wife has hormone disorders and some other medical issues, causing her to...
    norwegian73 norwegian73 41-45, M Apr 16

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    My parents split a few years ago. My mom fell in love with a neighbor and eventually moved states away. That was the most difficult depressing time of my life. As soon as she moved...
    Shessolovely Shessolovely 18-21 Mar 30

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    it's like guys don't notice me and the ones who do are the opposite of what i'm looking for. no one flirts with me, or even looks at me. i feel repulsive, undesirable, and unwanted...
    worrier07 worrier07 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    I have a crush on my coworker. He invited me to hang out with him the other night after work to "smoke" for my first time. He kissed me but I resisted because I knew he had a gf...
    maemae928 maemae928 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    save the sympathy guys. i know im unlovable. im pretty much a tool, or at least thats how my exs viewed me. i want to feel loved so badly, i just wanna cuddle up with a nice guy...
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I'm unwanted no matter where I go. I try to do things that are good but people just don't want me around. What did I do? I can't help who I am. :'(
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Hi there Wolves, Therians and otherkin alike! I am the delta wolf of a UK pack called the Blizzardclaw Pack. If you are looking to join a pack. Looking for someone to talk to and...
    LoneBlackLycan LoneBlackLycan 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Hi there Wolves, Therians and otherkin alike! I am the delta wolf of a UK pack called the Blizzardclaw Pack. If you are looking to join a pack. Looking for someone to talk to and...
    LoneBlackLycan LoneBlackLycan 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    My husband & I have been married for the 4.5 yrs now. We havent had our wedding yet because his mother is overseas and we couldnt get her to come for a visit somehow. We got...
    itsmeyi itsmeyi 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I m stay at home mother and feel unloved, unacknowledged and ignored. I felt like a ghost around my husband. I thought of meeting other men just to get some attention. I wanted to...
    questforsoul questforsoul 36-40, F 17 hrs ago

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    The feeling getting worse and I don't know how to explain why I feel this way it comes and goes but it's an empty feeling a feeling of pain and ?????? God knows I can't explain it...
    jorgoth jorgoth 16-17, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It's a weird thing that I have... I used to be very social, and still am to a certain extent. I associate with people at school and such, but these days I never feel like talking...
    naeramarth1 naeramarth1 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    I just hate the thought that I am feeling so jealous. I know that I got no right for that, but the thought of him with someone, even talking and trying to know that someone, gives...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 23 hrs ago