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I Feel Very Unwanted

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    Last year in november i was at one party

    and saw one guy, a friend from friends. I find him attractive. I saw him only 2 times so far in one year. At the party last november i tried to dance with him and as we said "bye" i touched his hand carefully. Then i didnt saw him anymore. Yesterday was a day where he supposed...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response May 25

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    I've felt completely unwanted

    and unimportant for most of my life. I've just always felt like I was disposable, like if I wasn't here things would be better for my family because all in all I'm just a huge disappointment... I've had one boyfriend... All the rest of the guys I've started talking to have...
    MarissaRachelle MarissaRachelle 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I Am Unwanted By The One Thing I Want Most

    I think the title says it well. I am head-over-heels for him. We have known each other since were 11. We were in such deep love. I know this because I felt it with my whole being. But today... He said he was done with me. He has done many horrible things towards me, yet I STILL...
    deathcab4cutie deathcab4cutie 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    Nobody likes me, I'm use to

    that by now that's why I spend so much times with guns, there reliable when you need them, will always be at your side, your primary doesn't care if you have a backup, your backup doesn't care if you have a primary, your handgun will stay with you even when your out of amo, and...
    ghost123098 ghost123098 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Its A Sucky Feeling To Have!

    I have felt very unwanted a lot throughout my lifetime. Its a feeling that I think I will pretty much always have to deal with because due to some events from my past. I am trying to cope with the feelings, and try to push them aside, and realize that I am wanted, btu when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    I Always Wanted To Kill My Classmates.

    My story. http://youtu.be/2_YTIOvzY2g -Big Mike. BigMikeRadioProgram.com
    TheBMRP TheBMRP 26-30, M Jan 27, 2012

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    All The Time!

    I'm sure I'm not alone when I say this. But I feel very unwanted all the time. Either I'm not good enough or something, I always feel vibes from others that I'm not wanted. Whatever.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    I Feel Like Noone Wants Me

    I dont understand why I havent found a girlfriend yet its been nine years and every year gets even harder to keep trying.But some part of me just think it would be best to just give up.Today I woke up better than ever but still feeling unwanted I actually commiting myself to a...
    angelus1988 angelus1988 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    I Feel Unwanted All The Time...

    Everytime I find a person that wants to be friends with me it doesnt last long. Its like after they spend time with me they see how dumb i am. See i have dislexia and im not smart. I know this, and i hate this. the school system failed me. they didnt push me to be more. every...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    Nobodys Girl

    How very sad to be over forty, completely single, with no real prospects on the radar screen.  I was very shy growing up, so I've never even had a real boy-friend.  Not really.  I was a "one of the guys" kinda girl.  More...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 12 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Sad But True!!!

    One thing that I knew up until recently was that I was sincerely loved and wanted.  It is true that you can have it all in one moment and lose it all in the next. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Man, I don't know if I'm doing the right things in life. I don't know if I'm a good person, or a bad person. I don't know what to believe in or who to trust. I need help and in the...
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    I always make people feel comfortable. I try my hardest to make it to where if hey need me they can come to me. It seems the more I do that the more comfortable they are with...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I love my boyfriend. He's my best friend and is always there for me, but lately I just don't feel as close to him as I used to. We've been through so much together. I battle...
    GabriellaChristine GabriellaChristine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Last night I put on my sexiest negligée, got all dolled up, tried to seduce my husband in to have some wild passionate sex. But he did not want to. I felt so undesirable...
    Bettyjb Bettyjb 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Spent my entire life thus far romantically alone.  Is this reasonable for anyone?  Is it fair that none of my peers ever consider me an option?Avoid eye contact.  He...
    imposed imposed 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Dad got sentenced to 25 years in prison today. He was charged for: sexual assault, child abuse, forced confinement, statutory rape and neglection. His girl friend had to adopt me
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I really do my best friend who I always thought would be there for me would rather hang out with my boyfriend that used to like her instead of me
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Jul 29

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    Well my first breakup ever happened and it was going fine.. Then he comes out and admits he was seeing another girl while we were still together. I told that guy my whole life...
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Perhaps you're just destined to outshine the extroverts. Find yourself first, learn about you, everyone will come running to you. After all look at it this way build, from that...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    I guess at the end of the day, I gotta be there for myself.
    Chylena Chylena 13-15, F Aug 4

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    My boyfriend hides things from me and talks to girls he shouldn't be talking too. Awesome.
    GabriellaChristine GabriellaChristine 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    ever since my dad got remarried and had another kid, my brother and i have taken the back burner. scratch that, we've been moved out of the kitchen entirely. particularly me bc i...
    kggi kggi 16-17, F Jul 25

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jul 30

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    idk why i keep holding on the person that not even give a **** to me.I dont know why i am the person that try to hold everythings,idk why things is just complicated and eveythings...
    bettyjea bettyjea 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    It's funny. Supposedly your family is the one encouraging you to go on, telling you that they will always be there, and most importantly support you in everything you do and...
    odeybelle odeybelle 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I am 25 and when I found out I was pregnant, I cried, full of despair and fear. I instantly new what I had to do and instantly realised that I would never get to know my baby, that...
    parislondonrome parislondonrome 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I am going to tell the following little story, just in case there are other people out there who, like me, didn’t realize quite how many pets animal rescue centres have to deal...
    randomlygenerated randomlygenerated 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Sometimes I feel worthless, unwanted and unloved, especially unloved. For the last few weeks it's getting more often. But why is that? Don't get me wrong, not everything in my life...
    Gammler Gammler 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    i'm really sick of being alone , unwanted most of the time , i hate this feeling ... i feel rejected , unloved , forsaken by everyone , no one ever appreciated me or loved me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 22

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    Everybody is so so much closer than me...when my friends and I meet new people they always relate to them better and they always hangout with them, not me. The people who I thought...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    Whelp, a friend of mine, that not too long ago said that I was one of the few people she would actually stay friends with in college and such, recently posted something on Facebook...
    icevsnow icevsnow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    You know those situations in modern society where u are forced to conform to some sort of social stigma because everyone goes along with it, yea I hate being the one who feels...
    Shitbox Shitbox 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    I feel inadequate, unwanted and not desirable. I've only been with 15 women in my 23 years of life and three I paid for. I have a son and many long term relations or flings. I've...
    bradman1390 bradman1390 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wish someone would tell me they want me or need me. I love helping the people...at first they would talk to me all the time and that I'm great at being supportive...then slowly...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    People know me as the happy one. I love to help out people during their times of need. But deep down inside I'm sad as heck. I think that, I'm just this person who no one talks to...
    margauxoxo margauxoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My academic grades aren't the best, and with an older sister who excels in many things I am often overshadowed by her. My parents support her in everything she does but refuse to...
    sleepsoundsnice sleepsoundsnice 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Music is naturally a part of me. I feel it's rhythm and sound naturally floating through the air. it flows right through me and in that moment chases away every care. I feel most...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Today is the first time in my life were I feel the pressure of reality. For some time Iv always wanted to escape from reality and be hidden away from everything... I don't really...
    MidNightSightX MidNightSightX 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    I decided to stop worrying about things out of my control. What kind of person would that make me if I judged people by their past? We all make mistakes, and it is not like Jenna...
    NiennaG125 NiennaG125 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    the title pretty much sums up the past 2 months of my life... I am so stuck at the moment, the one person I sort of trust (my care coordinator) is on holiday and I have no one to...
    RobynGreen RobynGreen 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I used to be to tolerant of everyone and I feel I'm just so intolerant of anyone I sometimes forget how good people can feel. It's like I need constant attention or I feel rejected...
    dancerinadaydream dancerinadaydream 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I always say I feel like I'm married to someone I hate because I don't particularly like myself and I can't escape myself. It's really hard to be in this position and I hate the...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    My ex bf made me go through depression.. I loved him, but he just used me all along. He was still in love with his ex gf. After timed passed, I began to forget him.. My heart...
    EmmaParsons EmmaParsons 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    But right now I'm numb. I'm trying not to think about anything. Haven't left my bed yet today. I'm afraid if I get up I will eat. I'm in this battle trying to decide if I should or...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    it is that transgendered differentness as there are so few of us, allthough I have straight allies, you so very often feel all alone
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 11 hrs ago

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