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I Feel Very Unwanted

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    I've felt completely unwanted

    and unimportant for most of my life. I've just always felt like I was disposable, like if I wasn't here things would be better for my family because all in all I'm just a huge disappointment... I've had one boyfriend... All the rest of the guys I've started talking to have...
    MarissaRachelle MarissaRachelle 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Nobodys Girl

    How very sad to be over forty, completely single, with no real prospects on the radar screen.  I was very shy growing up, so I've never even had a real boy-friend.  Not really.  I was a "one of the guys" kinda girl.  More...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 12 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Sad But True!!!

    One thing that I knew up until recently was that I was sincerely loved and wanted.  It is true that you can have it all in one moment and lose it all in the next. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    I Feel Like Noone Wants Me

    I dont understand why I havent found a girlfriend yet its been nine years and every year gets even harder to keep trying.But some part of me just think it would be best to just give up.Today I woke up better than ever but still feeling unwanted I actually commiting myself to a...
    angelus1988 angelus1988 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Nobody likes me, I'm use to

    that by now that's why I spend so much times with guns, there reliable when you need them, will always be at your side, your primary doesn't care if you have a backup, your backup doesn't care if you have a primary, your handgun will stay with you even when your out of amo, and...
    ghost123098 ghost123098 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    All The Time!

    I'm sure I'm not alone when I say this. But I feel very unwanted all the time. Either I'm not good enough or something, I always feel vibes from others that I'm not wanted. Whatever.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    I Always Wanted To Kill My Classmates.

    My story. http://youtu.be/2_YTIOvzY2g -Big Mike. BigMikeRadioProgram.com
    TheBMRP TheBMRP 26-30, M Jan 27, 2012

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    Its A Sucky Feeling To Have!

    I have felt very unwanted a lot throughout my lifetime. Its a feeling that I think I will pretty much always have to deal with because due to some events from my past. I am trying to cope with the feelings, and try to push them aside, and realize that I am wanted, btu when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    Last year in november i was at one party

    and saw one guy, a friend from friends. I find him attractive. I saw him only 2 times so far in one year. At the party last november i tried to dance with him and as we said "bye" i touched his hand carefully. Then i didnt saw him anymore. Yesterday was a day where he supposed...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response May 25

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    I Feel Unwanted All The Time...

    Everytime I find a person that wants to be friends with me it doesnt last long. Its like after they spend time with me they see how dumb i am. See i have dislexia and im not smart. I know this, and i hate this. the school system failed me. they didnt push me to be more. every...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    I Am Unwanted By The One Thing I Want Most

    I think the title says it well. I am head-over-heels for him. We have known each other since were 11. We were in such deep love. I know this because I felt it with my whole being. But today... He said he was done with me. He has done many horrible things towards me, yet I STILL...
    deathcab4cutie deathcab4cutie 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    I feel very unwanted and its terrible. It seems like no one wants me at all and it makes me alone and very sad. Why cant I be wanted? Just one time
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    This weekend we are supposed to go camping. But my mom doesn't want me to go with her because she doesn't think she can "handle me."
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    I have next to no friends, and the 3 friends I do have all have boyfriends, and it's just really annoying the fact that one of my friends who lives with me she goes out with him...
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    I was gone for a few weeks.. I come back to dad having a girlfriend
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    Spent my entire life thus far romantically alone.  Is this reasonable for anyone?  Is it fair that none of my peers ever consider me an option?Avoid eye contact.  He...
    imposed imposed 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Dad got sentenced to 25 years in prison today. He was charged for: sexual assault, child abuse, forced confinement, statutory rape and neglection. His girl friend had to adopt me
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really do my best friend who I always thought would be there for me would rather hang out with my boyfriend that used to like her instead of me
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Well my first breakup ever happened and it was going fine.. Then he comes out and admits he was seeing another girl while we were still together. I told that guy my whole life...
    himynameishikari himynameishikari 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Perhaps you're just destined to outshine the extroverts. Find yourself first, learn about you, everyone will come running to you. After all look at it this way build, from that...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    ever since my dad got remarried and had another kid, my brother and i have taken the back burner. scratch that, we've been moved out of the kitchen entirely. particularly me bc i...
    kggi kggi 16-17, F a week ago

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    I feel unwanted and ulgy! I am ugly and everyone tells me that I'm not! Idk if that means I'm depressed! I have bad anxiety. I cry myself to sleep listening to sad music. I just...
    k6g5 k6g5 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I just yelled at my mom and I feel so guilty but it's almost like I'm too prideful to apologize. Since I don't really have any friends, my mom and my brother are like my best...
    ems350z ems350z 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    idk why i keep holding on the person that not even give a **** to me.I dont know why i am the person that try to hold everythings,idk why things is just complicated and eveythings...
    bettyjea bettyjea 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 25 and when I found out I was pregnant, I cried, full of despair and fear. I instantly new what I had to do and instantly realised that I would never get to know my baby, that...
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    Ok maybe most unwanted by the women who prefer a tall sexy man. 6' at least
    erica0415 erica0415 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Feels like everyone is leaving me. What will happen when there is no one left? I used to feel like I mattered but now No one understands or cares what's happening to me on the...
    naomilocke2444 naomilocke2444 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    i'm really sick of being alone , unwanted most of the time , i hate this feeling ... i feel rejected , unloved , forsaken by everyone , no one ever appreciated me or loved me...
    izaacgrin izaacgrin 18-21, M 12 Responses Jul 22

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    Everybody is so so much closer than me...when my friends and I meet new people they always relate to them better and they always hangout with them, not me. The people who I thought...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I feel bad right now, I don't even know why. I Just feel useless, maybe I'm just tired though. That's probably it. 😕😔
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I just want to feel love and wanted! Is that to much to ask for
    k6g5 k6g5 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I have been feeling apathetic towards anyone I love lately. I feel an emotional detachment and I can't get myself to care as much as I used to for others. Especially my boyfriend...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So I'm at this dinner party with my cousins and my ex is here as well. I feel so completely alone today like I don't belong here. I'm about to break down crying but I'm trying not...
    VasilisaDra VasilisaDra 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I feel so bad about myself. I look so different. All the girls my age are really skinny girls with no curves. I really hate my body. I feelreally fat and disgusting and I am...
    guitarsongwriter guitarsongwriter 13-15, F 8 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I feel like i am being suffocated by the people and the walls around me, like i say no but no one hears me. I feel like i have to say and do what people expect from me and to smile...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Just about an hour ago, there's a child that was hit and run near our neighborhood. I didn't have the courage to even look because I was scared. I turned away on that scene but I...
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    It is too complicated, too much worry and complication and fear and confusion. I dont feel like I have the energy to put it into words I cant make enough sense of it even to...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 8 hrs ago

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    I was lifting boxes and crap this morning for a yard sale and now my butt hurts xD It like feels like that kinda painful feeling that you get when you need to pop your back lol but...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    :| :( i feel nothing... i feel so empty inside. so pathetic.
    dasosleefi dasosleefi 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    just spoke to a friend. She's having a difficult time. I try to motivate her but I lost my words. I feel terrible she is in need and I have nothing...
    Bananaboat12 Bananaboat12 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Amnesia by 5SOS really gets me thinking about this guy. I really like the song and it makes me cry. I hate that I feel this way. I wish that I could just get the guys and talk to...
    lizquiet lizquiet 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Damn man my only other family member I have is in prison.i may be getting a scholarship and none of my family can be there you know how much this hurts? I'm not gonna lie I feel...
    mrbuckets15 mrbuckets15 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    My brother was always the one that got good grades, I one the other hand didn't really do that well. I struggle in a lot of subject as for my brother he gets straight A's and...
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    Is there one night of the week that makes you feel more alone than others? For me it's Friday, the end of the Working week.
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    I honestly just feel like life would be better if I was gone.... Plus my sister told me that she wouldn't care if I died.. So why should I..?
    PrincessShanti PrincessShanti 13-15, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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