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I Feel Very Unwanted

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 317 People

    I should leave him, but I love him.

    I feel like I'm scratching and pleading for my own husbands attention. He comes home and if I'm not making a sandwich or cleaning or taking off his boots I'm invisible. Every word feels like a lashing of hate. I can not compete with the competition I never expected. A wife of...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I Always Wanted To Kill My Classmates.

    My story. http://youtu.be/2_YTIOvzY2g -Big Mike. BigMikeRadioProgram.com
    TheBMRP TheBMRP 26-30, M Jan 27, 2012

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    Whyy Can'tt Youu Justt Tell Mee What Youu Feel,

    Becausee Howw Youu Actt Is Confusinq Mee...
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    All The Time!

    I'm sure I'm not alone when I say this. But I feel very unwanted all the time. Either I'm not good enough or something, I always feel vibes from others that I'm not wanted. Whatever.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Nobodys Girl

    How very sad to be over forty, completely single, with no real prospects on the radar screen.  I was very shy growing up, so I've never even had a real boy-friend.  Not really.  I was a "one of the guys" kinda girl.  More...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 12 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    People should just show a little bit more

    feelings. But **** it you know.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 16-17, M Oct 16, 2014

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    Sad But True!!!

    One thing that I knew up until recently was that I was sincerely loved and wanted.  It is true that you can have it all in one moment and lose it all in the next. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    I Am Unwanted By The One Thing I Want Most

    I think the title says it well. I am head-over-heels for him. We have known each other since were 11. We were in such deep love. I know this because I felt it with my whole being. But today... He said he was done with me. He has done many horrible things towards me, yet I STILL...
    deathcab4cutie deathcab4cutie 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    I could us a smile right now

    but **** it i always have to keep my head up high.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 16-17, M Oct 13, 2014

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    Nobody likes me, I'm use to

    that by now that's why I spend so much times with guns, there reliable when you need them, will always be at your side, your primary doesn't care if you have a backup, your backup doesn't care if you have a primary, your handgun will stay with you even when your out of amo, and...
    ghost123098 ghost123098 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I Feel Like Noone Wants Me

    I dont understand why I havent found a girlfriend yet its been nine years and every year gets even harder to keep trying.But some part of me just think it would be best to just give up.Today I woke up better than ever but still feeling unwanted I actually commiting myself to a...
    angelus1988 angelus1988 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    No one ever understands me.

    No one tries to. In always the one who has to compromise myself, my feelings and my thoughts and in sick of it. My mom doesn't care about me-she'd rather take the side of my abusive so called siblings and risk me being sexually abused by them again. My boyfriend is never around...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Its A Sucky Feeling To Have!

    I have felt very unwanted a lot throughout my lifetime. Its a feeling that I think I will pretty much always have to deal with because due to some events from my past. I am trying to cope with the feelings, and try to push them aside, and realize that I am wanted, btu when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    So I didn't eat again today.

    It's hard to eat when the only person in your life looks at you and talks to you like you the most annoying thing on earth. I just wish I could stop being me. I hate myself because he hates me. There's no good use of me anymore.
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I Feel Unwanted All The Time...

    Everytime I find a person that wants to be friends with me it doesnt last long. Its like after they spend time with me they see how dumb i am. See i have dislexia and im not smart. I know this, and i hate this. the school system failed me. they didnt push me to be more. every...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    I GUESS I AM NOTHING TO ONE TO ONE :/ LIKE MY

    UNCLE SAID EVERY ONE FOR THEN SELFS AINT NOBODY HELPING NO ONE.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 13, 2014

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    I've felt completely unwanted

    and unimportant for most of my life. I've just always felt like I was disposable, like if I wasn't here things would be better for my family because all in all I'm just a huge disappointment... I've had one boyfriend... All the rest of the guys I've started talking to have...
    MarissaRachelle MarissaRachelle 18-21, F Jun 26, 2014

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    Okay here is my story I knew I should have came here from the start. I have been in a good relationship so far. But lately its been hell, he doesn't hold my hand or kiss me anymore...
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    you think they are best friends.but they don't love you back..is so sad. i thought she was very good friend.i thought we were... but the reality is different. i feel like i am so...
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    I'm in love with this guy who I'm pretty sure only wants me for sex. I want my first time to be with someone I've been dating for a while and I've told him that I like him, but he...
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    I fell for this guy who unintentionally led me on for a few months... And now I'm just left with these pieces that I have to glue back together and it sucks. It hurts the most when...
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    I am adopted. And even though I've known this since i was 12 years old (I'm 24 now), I still feel unwanted. My adoptive family loves me, and they support me. But somehow, I can't...
    cth2os cth2os 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Nobody is talking to me, I feel like I'm just eating their pizza n taking up space on their couch... I feel so lonely and unwanted by EVERYONE
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F Jan 23

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    My facebook inbox is full of people trying to contact me, the only message that Was from a person I wanted says they don't use facebook much, a blow off basically, so I'm their...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    So here I am in this situation. I'm a bit all over the place right now. Like I feel like screaming and crying and laughing at the same time but hopefully this too shall pass. I try...
    Khaleesi18 Khaleesi18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I also feel alone..I battle insecurity everyday. I don't want this to come off as a sob story or a pity party, but I truly feel ugly and unwanted. I am not socially awkward at all...
    cparfait cparfait 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    People are strange when you're a stranger Faces look ugly when you're alone Women seem wicked when you're unwanted Streets are uneven when you're down When you're strange...
    RatxInxAxCage RatxInxAxCage 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I feel like any guy that is interested in me is only interested in me for sex and when they find someone better they move on. I always feel like someone's backup plan never a first...
    cklein245 cklein245 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    My emotions have always been hidden behind logic. in 2012 I was drawn to a church, where my emotions broke down the logic barrier. since that day, my emotions control me. When I...
    jarae jarae 26-30 Jan 9

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    I keep sabotaging my chances and trapping myself in unwanted situations.
    Yleng Yleng 26-30, F Jan 17

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    I feel worse then usual today. It makes me so frustrated I just feel like not eating but I suck at controlling myself around food so I know that won't happen. It makes me feel so...
    kkam34 kkam34 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I love the feel of a feather ran slowly up and down the soles of both feet at the same time. It feels so good. Im very ticklish on my feet and the feather lets me experience the...
    ronaldleaper ronaldleaper 51-55, M 15 hrs ago

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    I don't know if this website makes me feel better or worse. So many sad and troubled people in here, just like me (or much worse). I kind of lose hope of feeling better. This is a...
    booky1234 booky1234 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    And I hate it. I'm not sure if I'm pissed off, depressed, happy, disgusted... I think I'm alone. Completely alone. I don't know who I am. I have no identity. None. Absolutely no...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have this ideal world in my imagination which never resembles anything in this world. I constantly long to live in my imaginary world. The real world is nowhere close to my ideal...
    johnyxrox johnyxrox 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    Hi. I'm Laurel I'm ten years old, and I'm in 5th grade. I feel like no one loves me. I have very few friends and I never really see them. Even my mom does not love me. Everybody...
    Laurel99 Laurel99 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So empty, unfeeling. I could not feel a single emotion, it comes and goes. Everytime I try to grasp it it slips out of my hand like fine sand. I constant reached out, to feel even...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    At this time, this state I do feel my life is like a big mess and ****. There are nothing work well past. I just don't know what else to do, so that it could be a little or even a...
    meandmythought meandmythought 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My fathers side of the family has not contacted me since i was twelve. That's been 8 years. 8 years still fresh. I miss certain members so much that it hurts me beyond any other...
    dropitnow52 dropitnow52 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    I feel very weird... When im hungry, i want to eat, but as long as my stomach is growling, it makes me feel fuller lol
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    I absolutely love the feeling of the sun warming up my cool body when I am outside swimming and sunbathing in California. The warmth feels so good and I just love it. However...
    dianefisher dianefisher 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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