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I Feel Very Unwanted

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    Sad But True!!!

    One thing that I knew up until recently was that I was sincerely loved and wanted.  It is true that you can have it all in one moment and lose it all in the next. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Nobody likes me, I'm use to

    that by now that's why I spend so much times with guns, there reliable when you need them, will always be at your side, your primary doesn't care if you have a backup, your backup doesn't care if you have a primary, your handgun will stay with you even when your out of amo, and...
    ghost123098 ghost123098 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Nobodys Girl

    How very sad to be over forty, completely single, with no real prospects on the radar screen.  I was very shy growing up, so I've never even had a real boy-friend.  Not really.  I was a "one of the guys" kinda girl.  More...
    NobodysGirl NobodysGirl 41-45 12 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    I Am Unwanted By The One Thing I Want Most

    I think the title says it well. I am head-over-heels for him. We have known each other since were 11. We were in such deep love. I know this because I felt it with my whole being. But today... He said he was done with me. He has done many horrible things towards me, yet I STILL...
    deathcab4cutie deathcab4cutie 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Its A Sucky Feeling To Have!

    I have felt very unwanted a lot throughout my lifetime. Its a feeling that I think I will pretty much always have to deal with because due to some events from my past. I am trying to cope with the feelings, and try to push them aside, and realize that I am wanted, btu when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    All The Time!

    I'm sure I'm not alone when I say this. But I feel very unwanted all the time. Either I'm not good enough or something, I always feel vibes from others that I'm not wanted. Whatever.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Whyy Can'tt Youu Justt Tell Mee What Youu Feel,

    Becausee Howw Youu Actt Is Confusinq Mee...
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I Feel Unwanted All The Time...

    Everytime I find a person that wants to be friends with me it doesnt last long. Its like after they spend time with me they see how dumb i am. See i have dislexia and im not smart. I know this, and i hate this. the school system failed me. they didnt push me to be more. every...
    ttlisaof2 ttlisaof2 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I Always Wanted To Kill My Classmates.

    My story. http://youtu.be/2_YTIOvzY2g -Big Mike. BigMikeRadioProgram.com
    TheBMRP TheBMRP 26-30, M Jan 27, 2012

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I've felt completely unwanted

    and unimportant for most of my life. I've just always felt like I was disposable, like if I wasn't here things would be better for my family because all in all I'm just a huge disappointment... I've had one boyfriend... All the rest of the guys I've started talking to have...
    MarissaRachelle MarissaRachelle 18-21, F Jun 26

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    No one ever understands me.

    No one tries to. In always the one who has to compromise myself, my feelings and my thoughts and in sick of it. My mom doesn't care about me-she'd rather take the side of my abusive so called siblings and risk me being sexually abused by them again. My boyfriend is never around...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I Feel Like Noone Wants Me

    I dont understand why I havent found a girlfriend yet its been nine years and every year gets even harder to keep trying.But some part of me just think it would be best to just give up.Today I woke up better than ever but still feeling unwanted I actually commiting myself to a...
    angelus1988 angelus1988 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Last year in november i was at one party

    and saw one guy, a friend from friends. I find him attractive. I saw him only 2 times so far in one year. At the party last november i tried to dance with him and as we said "bye" i touched his hand carefully. Then i didnt saw him anymore. Yesterday was a day where he supposed...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response May 25

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    I GUESS I AM NOTHING TO ONE TO ONE :/ LIKE MY

    UNCLE SAID EVERY ONE FOR THEN SELFS AINT NOBODY HELPING NO ONE.
    Manny570 Manny570 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 13

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    It's not because I'm single it's just i feel so unwanted I don't want to feel like this and I dot know why I do feel like this, I'm so lost, but I have found that when I'm laying...
    gabichal gabichal 13-15, F Aug 26

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    I'm sitting with my two oldest friends. I brought Malibu coconut rum, because they wanted it, but I'm the only one drinking it and I'm getting really bad vibes and an awful gut...
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    I said I was lonely. I said, I wish we could talk. I opened my heart, made myself vulnerable. U came home at 2:30 in the morning to flop on the couch and sleep. I spent my night in...
    SummerChristmas SummerChristmas 36-40, F Aug 31

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    I really do feel like this cos even my close friends don't want talk to me all that much all I want is some one or a friend I can talk to about any thin and every thin with nothing...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't even know why I try any more. I'll always be the second choice or the person on the outside. I just wish it didn't hurt as much.
    aelizabeth3300 aelizabeth3300 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    When you realize he could have just about any girl he wants, and your probably not even in his "top 100" All you want is to give up, but you don't. You still tell him happy...
    CookE114 CookE114 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Sometimes I just want to disappear and see if anyone miss me
    jafrin jafrin 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    Idk like I was talking to my boyfriend we were eating and I just felt like he wanted me to shut up. Cause when I was quiet he was looking around and would talk or comment on...
    msmendiola122 msmendiola122 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    hi everyone am new here i am keen to know more of myself in the sense thati know i am different from most i always sense how people feel if they happy or unhappy i sense where am...
    DoroBucci22 DoroBucci22 22-25, F Sep 6

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    A lie I tell myself:I'll forget I loved you a someday. Because the memory will become faint. And the feelings will dissipate. And the thought of you won't make me hurt anymore.And...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Sometimes it feels as though there is a disconnect between my outward voice and my inside voice. Maybe because words could never describe certain things and even though you can try...
    wanderquietly wanderquietly 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I just feel like I'm a waste of everyone's time and that no one wants to give me a chance to show that I can love. Unconditionally.
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Unwanted. I try to do everything i can and my bf tells me i am unworth it. I feel like not being around.
    Paw12 Paw12 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a friend that had a huge crush on me in 8th grade. We used to walk together with some of his friends. Two months before the last day if school he began acting weird. It was...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm done. I can't feel anything anymore. I can't feel pain, I can't feel anger I can't feel love! "Love"? That's what caused this. If you tell me you "love me" I would doubt it. I...
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I suffer from bouts of depression. Some people have bad things happen to them. They have reasons to be sad. I don't, and it makes me feel incapable of handling my own problems, of...
    Kurokagi Kurokagi 18-21 1 hr ago

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    me and my best friend always fight.and i dont know this time is going to end our relationship or not.Like it's just a little thing,i dont care who is wrong but i was apolozied to...
    bettyjea bettyjea 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It's so annoying. I made all these new friends, so now it's even worse. I feel like nobody even cares about what I'm saying, and like they find me annoying. I hate feeling this way...
    angeliqueth angeliqueth 16-17, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    I've always been a very open, honest, and straightforward person. But I'm starting to realize that that actually creeps guys out, even though they SAY they like honest chicks who...
    GoddessAirmid GoddessAirmid 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Music makes me feel extremely happy sometimes. It speaks for me.
    Pearls666 Pearls666 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I feel so ******* wortless all the time :'(
    IrwinsScars IrwinsScars 13-15, F 59 mins ago

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    my family are nice people don't get me wrong. I love them and they do love me. I just don't feel like I can be myself around them. Granted to an extent, I think people will have...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Did you ever meet someone and feel a strong connection to them without even really knowing them? Like they just "get" you and you feel like you know them and feel empathy towards...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 21

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    I don't why. I teach Zumba dancing for free and I don't charge anything but I feel defeated. I want to help my parents more financially and I feel like I'm working for nothing and...
    genejanexx genejanexx 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I'm feeling really upset right now. I feel like I'm just an object to men. Someone they can just come back to if they want to get laid or something.. I genuinely want to be more...
    moonilluminatedroom moonilluminatedroom 18-21, F Aug 27

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    Pretty much all of the time. I am grateful enough and appreciate that i have all my family and i have no problems with them and i also am grateful that they love and accept who i...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    For the past two weeks, I don’t think I’ve dreamed once-or if I have, I don’t remember it. That probably doesn’t seem all that significant… Except for me. It’s made...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I’ve not been feeling happy in my life for a while now, I feel almost trapped and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been married for 4 years and I’ve got a 2 ½ year old son...
    northwestjames northwestjames 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    So having unrequited love fore someone you have known for a few months is bad or even a year or two. Though knowing someone your whole life and having unrequited love for them is...
    BDMW15 BDMW15 16-17, M Aug 30

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    I have a few different feelings that are similar and I can't stand feeling the way I do about it. First, my real family; I miss them all so much but especially my sister and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 31

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    You see, this may sound stupid because I'm very young but I feel like if I don't say this I will keep thinking it over and over and just get more stressed. I am fourteen and I...
    ValeriyaIvanov ValeriyaIvanov 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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