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I Feel Victimized

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    My brother, sister in law,

    my boyfriend and me has been playing poker for almost everyday for a week. We played on small stakes. A dollar, at most 5. Although I didn't win for the first days, I did won in the past 3 days and my SIL lost almost on average every night. We all did advise her to slow down...
    instantfi instantfi 22-25, F Feb 7

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    I Know How You Feel ...

    Here's a great article ... http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/features/n_9932/ I've been where you are.  My advice ... directly confront this man and say exactly what needs to be said. "Stop talking to me like that."  The definition of sexual harrassment is in...
    livingandlearning livingandlearning 31-35, F Aug 28, 2007

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    I Know How You Feel ...

    Here's a great article ... http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/features/n_9932/ I've been where you are.  My advice ... directly confront this man and say exactly what needs to be said. "Stop talking to me like that."  The definition of sexual harrassment is in...
    livingandlearning livingandlearning 31-35, F Aug 28, 2007

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    So my girlfriend, friend,

    and I went to get food after school. Well her brother and another friend soon followed (her brother doesn't let me alone with her). As we were paying he told her their mom was there to get them, so my friend, girlfriend, and I started walking but her brother was like "no, you...
    Justlivinglife16 Justlivinglife16 16-17, F Dec 15, 2013

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    Unfortunate Victim

    A lot of the time I feel like this is true especially seeing as half of the people I have had to put up with either can't take a hint or they don't even realize that what they are doing is wrong. Seriously...it's gotten to the point that they've documented everything I say and...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Aug 25, 2013

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