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I Feel Worthless and Unloved All the Time

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    Today

    Especially today. I just feel like my life is in the toilet, and I really have no one to reach out to. I'm used to depending on myself for everything I need, and for the past year I haven't been able to. It's erroding my self-esteem even further, and sometimes I just find myself...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    What's The Point In Being Alive

    If no one wants you. Growing up in a family where everyone hates you. Literally! All my life my mother told me that she should've gotten an abortion with me just like she did my brother. I looked for help but everyone I talked to tell me that its not their falt and they can't...
    Kaylan92 Kaylan92 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    I Know It.

    I don't feel this, I know it to be a fact.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 23, 2010

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    Am I Crazy Or What

    I feel worthless too! I just wish to finish highschool n go tO college n never see chicago ever again n to become somebody famous my family is ******* useless n I always had to fight n school cuz somebody either got on my last ******* nerves or somebody talked about how my hair...
    BrandiLovely BrandiLovely 16-17, F May 27, 2012

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    My Parents Would Not Have Chosen Me For A Child.

    Being the only child of my parents, I always thought I got all their love and attention.  My self esteem is really low.  At first I don't know why and I didn't know I was.  Thought I was normal.  My friends though, they disagree with me.  It might be because they see...
    jollybgood jollybgood 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    Me

    I'm so worthless that I don't have anything to write. I'm so tired.I'm so alone.
    Sewnsew Sewnsew 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    Worthless And Alone

    i do have friends but while i suffer they are always laughing. my parents don't support me. my friends really only care about boys. i'm always alone. my parents are here but they don't seem to notice me. my best friends are always joking around with me. i took a deppression test...
    worthlessz worthlessz 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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    Is There Enough Love?

    I feel unloved because everone in my life has walked away from me. Either through death or moved away. I have 4 relatives and a few real friends. I drive my man crazy with calling him too much and it causes problems, but I am lonely and feel unloved in general so I try to reach...
    buttercups1966 buttercups1966 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    i have always felt unloved,

    unwanted, and even hated. I have never felt loved by anyone. Everyone tells that's its all in my head but its not, it is as real as the earth being round. ever since I was kid I have been mistreated and left out, I have always felt like an outcast and people have always made me...
    marcosj94 marcosj94 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I Am Worthless Crap

    i havn't done any thing in my life i keep failing every thing i do i failed as a son, as a brother ,as a friend and as a boyfriend, my dad always yelling at me blaming me for every thing and tell me how worthless i am, my friends are avoiding me they are fake friends any way. i...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    Lost And Confused

    Hi.  I am new here and here is my story. I have been with my husband for 8 years.  We have been married 4 years this december.  I was in fairyland bliss.  Had been ever since i met my husband.  They say love is blind and after what happened to me, i...
    deeplydriven deeplydriven 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    I Hate Myself

    My parents always made me feel excluded. my mom always made me feel ugly. I was an introvert as a child and never made many friends. Now even though i know quite a few people, i have trouble building meaningful relationships. I've been dumped by all my boyfriends but 1 and I...
    PatsyPats PatsyPats 22-25 4 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    I Can't Change The Fact I Always Feel Worthless

    Even when I'm not on my own or when I'm out with friends or family etc, I feel worthless. Sometimes I get so paranoid that even the public, the ones who don't know me, knows that I am worthless. I guess it's got a lot to do with the fact that people have constantly walked into my...
    JJSapphire JJSapphire 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    I Can'T Take It Anymore!

    the question that always goes on in my head is "why was i born?..." i don't feel needed at all. i to reach put to people but they just push me away. I feel so lonely. i hate it! i need someone to tell me its ok. My own family hates me. Those who i call friends, don't feel like...
    kisa26 kisa26 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    I am a fifteen year old kid

    who feels unloved. I am the middle of 5 kids and I hate it. I have two older sisters one younger sister and brother. My jounger brother gets called the miracle child by my dad. My twin has no limits to what she can and can't do. Same with my older two sisters. I went out...
    Tertrussel Tertrussel 13-15 Mar 23

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    Ok I Am Here To Share Some Love From Above

     Dear Dear EP,,,Lonely and all who feel so unLoved,,,,well I want all of you to know that you all were created in God/Goddess image,,,and they are pure Light and Love,,,and they sent their only son to prove that there was more than what was below,,,,Jesus came to share this...
    maryomaga3 maryomaga3 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    I Feel Like Liquid Snake

         Since I was a little girl, about three, iv'e been abused by my family. My former stepfather was schizophrenic and would beat me with a limb from a rose bush while my baby brother laughed. My mother never knew this, but she'd soon play a part in my abuse. He...
    xxxxmiseryxxxx xxxxmiseryxxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    I'm Tired Of This Feeling.

    I'm sick and tired of feeling useless. My friends care but I don't think they really mean it. I'm home everyday wishing someone would call me to hang out, but they never do. Same old excuses. "I don't like talking on the phone." or "I'm too lazy." Seriously if you really are my...
    Rainbowxxbutterflyxx Rainbowxxbutterflyxx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    I went thruh years of loneliness,

    cos nobody wanted to be friends with me. There wasnt a reason why, i guess they took me for a loser. This pain in my heart as i felt like everyone avoid me at school and work and girls go out of my way and i sit in the cellar of the school at lunch break, like a freak? I cant...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    I'm Invisible

    i feel so ignored i'm here but in the same time i'm not i'm like an object , i'm usless worthless , from my childhood until now i didn't change everyone come to me when they don't have no body else , i'm always the odd one , i've got nothing good about me like nothing i'm nothing...
    opentalk opentalk 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I Feel Like I Can't Go On Anymore

    I usually am the one that my parents and family vent there emotions on whether they be sad, or happy, or troubling emotions. My father is constantly tired from working 15 hours a day and always tells me about the troubles. My mother is constantly tired as well from having to take...
    depthsofthenight depthsofthenight 16-17 6 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    I Want Someone Who I Love To Love Me Back For Once.

    Or even like me, just want to talk to me, just to be my friend would be amazing. Through any electronic medium, I dont care. I don't have a family that supports me, I can't make friends outside the internet..this is it. I ******* want to die when everyone I try to reach out to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    You Are All So Strong. Why Am I So Small?

    when i read your stories and your pains and problems... i have to wonder.. why should people care about me? i just have a simple pain. it makes me feel like i shouldnt even be on here. my pain isnt deep enough to be shared... compared to how you people have been through so much...
    soharu soharu 16 3 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    My family says all the wrong things.

    When I'm finally in a good mood, they tell me to shut up cause they don't wanna be bothered by me. But when I'm upset then they act concerned, but only for a couple seconds, then they go on with their lives. I just had a conversation with my dad and he asked what I was doing and...
    dessertqueen dessertqueen 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I Am Worthless

    I am worthless, I want to die but something tells me that life is somewat a virtue.
    watzit2u watzit2u 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2009

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    Im Just A Little Girl.

    everyone knows that feeling. like no matter where you are, youre invisible. people ignore you. for me, thats especially true. i felt so normal, so plain.  nothing ever happened to me. no friends, no invites, no school trouble, no relationships, no moving, no tragedy, nothing...
    soharu soharu 16 11 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    My deep rooted feelings

    and fears of being unloved derive from my father not liking the small things that I found utterly amazing... I never realised but It started with..." Dad doesn't like the things I do" ... This was the foundation.... A strong foundation on which I could build... And I did...
    godlovesorphans1 godlovesorphans1 18-21, M Jun 5

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    Ali

    My life just ssoms a joke to my family.i am 44 years of age and most of ky life i ave seemed.to gone.from one bad relationship to an otheri live in a house whjch is.not even mine with 2 daughthers.and grandsons. i share with my ex husband.he makes me feel like everything is ky...
    alisonhin alisonhin 41-45 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    I constantly feel unloved

    and worthless, people will tell me they love me and that I mean a lot to them or something like that and I just have a really hard time believing them, I wish nobody would love me because I don't love myself.
    phoenixrko phoenixrko 13-15, F Dec 29, 2013

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    I Feel Like Liquid Snake

         Since I was a little girl, about three, iv'e been abused by my family. My former stepfather was schizophrenic and would beat me with a limb from a rose bush while my baby brother laughed. My mother never knew this, but she'd soon play a part in my abuse. He...
    xxxxmiseryxxxx xxxxmiseryxxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    I'm Not Loved

    My own mother told me she didn't love me. She only loves my brother and sister because they turned out She like she wanted. I was different. I want to tell her I don't love her but I know that's a lie. She is the one who gave birth to me. But I'm losing all the respect and love I...
    kisa26 kisa26 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    People Only Like Me Because They Pity Me For My Shyness And Nerves...

    That's only why all the mums in the daycare like me and I am childlike and immature which is why the kids like me. My co workers like me because I look so young and are therefore *sweet and cute* and again, I am sure they feel sorry for me as well for being so shy and nervous. I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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