I Feel Worthless and Unloved All the Time

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    my parents love to guilt-trip me (i just

    graduated from college) about me being worthless and of no use to them... that i should get a real job. but i'm not ready to get on to adulthood just yet. everything for me changed when i graduated, this was just two months ago. now i've been told i'm of no worth and it breaks...
    GoGoTomago GoGoTomago
    22-25, M
    Jun 20, 2015

    I'm sick of feeling this way,

    there is nothing good about me. I'm a waste of life.
    louisr louisr
    18-21, M
    Feb 13, 2015

    Is There Enough Love?

    I feel unloved because everone in my life has walked away from me. Either through death or moved away. I have 4 relatives and a few real friends. I drive my man crazy with calling him too much and it causes problems, but I am lonely and feel unloved in general so I try to reach...
    buttercups1966 buttercups1966
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2009

    A couple of years ago i was bullied at school

    by someone i thought was my friend, ever since the i have felt like i am the kid that no one cares about.
    pedermn97 pedermn97
    18-21, M
    Apr 14, 2015

    I'm Invisible

    i feel so ignored i'm here but in the same time i'm not i'm like an object , i'm usless worthless , from my childhood until now i didn't change everyone come to me when they don't have no body else , i'm always the odd one , i've got nothing good about me like nothing i'm nothing...
    opentalk opentalk
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2012

    Every relationship I've been in has been

    horrible. I've never even heard the words "I love you" before. I would really like to hear about other people's experiences with this, because I feel so alone and ****** up that it's driving me to suicide, and I really don't want that. Does anyone else feel the way I do? I...
    rosesandrazorblades rosesandrazorblades
    31-35, M
    Oct 16, 2015

    Not only do I feel worthless,

    I AM worthless. I read someone else's post on here about feeling worthless and it reminded me of me. Every time something in my life is going well, I screw it up. It's like I can't be happy because being happy means I'm going to feel terrible after. I don't talk to many people...
    Aberzhulan Aberzhulan
    26-30, M
    Sep 22, 2015

    My Parents Would Not Have Chosen Me For A Child.

    Being the only child of my parents, I always thought I got all their love and attention.  My self esteem is really low.  At first I don't know why and I didn't know I was.  Thought I was normal.  My friends though, they disagree with me.  It might be because they see...
    jollybgood jollybgood
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 10, 2011

    I Can't Change The Fact I Always Feel Worthless

    Even when I'm not on my own or when I'm out with friends or family etc, I feel worthless. Sometimes I get so paranoid that even the public, the ones who don't know me, knows that I am worthless. I guess it's got a lot to do with the fact that people have constantly walked into my...
    JJSapphire JJSapphire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2013

    Im Just A Little Girl.

    everyone knows that feeling. like no matter where you are, youre invisible. people ignore you. for me, thats especially true. i felt so normal, so plain.  nothing ever happened to me. no friends, no invites, no school trouble, no relationships, no moving, no tragedy, nothing...
    soharu soharu
    11 Responses Aug 11, 2010

    People Only Like Me Because They Pity Me For My Shyness And Nerves...

    That's only why all the mums in the daycare like me and I am childlike and immature which is why the kids like me. My co workers like me because I look so young and are therefore *sweet and cute* and again, I am sure they feel sorry for me as well for being so shy and nervous. I...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 17, 2011

    My name, Amanda, literally means "worthy of

    love" but I sure as hell don't feel like I am. I just keep getting rejected by everyone, and no one has a clue how horrible I feel. I'm just so broken.
    classAteam classAteam
    18-21, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    i have always felt unloved,

    unwanted, and even hated. I have never felt loved by anyone. Everyone tells that's its all in my head but its not, it is as real as the earth being round. ever since I was kid I have been mistreated and left out, I have always felt like an outcast and people have always made me...
    marcosj94 marcosj94
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 15, 2014

    I don't think anyone will get what I feel like

    so I keep it bottled up inside.
    theadopted1too theadopted1too
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    You Are All So Strong. Why Am I So Small?

    when i read your stories and your pains and problems... i have to wonder.. why should people care about me? i just have a simple pain. it makes me feel like i shouldnt even be on here. my pain isnt deep enough to be shared... compared to how you people have been through so much...
    soharu soharu
    3 Responses Aug 17, 2010

    I Feel Like I Can't Go On Anymore

    I usually am the one that my parents and family vent there emotions on whether they be sad, or happy, or troubling emotions. My father is constantly tired from working 15 hours a day and always tells me about the troubles. My mother is constantly tired as well from having to take...
    depthsofthenight depthsofthenight
    6 Responses Aug 13, 2009

    I Hate Myself

    My parents always made me feel excluded. my mom always made me feel ugly. I was an introvert as a child and never made many friends. Now even though i know quite a few people, i have trouble building meaningful relationships. I've been dumped by all my boyfriends but 1 and I...
    PatsyPats PatsyPats
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2012

    Lost And Confused

    Hi.  I am new here and here is my story. I have been with my husband for 8 years.  We have been married 4 years this december.  I was in fairyland bliss.  Had been ever since i met my husband.  They say love is blind and after what happened to me, i...
    deeplydriven deeplydriven
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 24, 2010

    I feel worthless and stupid all the time.

    I'm struggling through total stress where I should be happy. School is a big chunk of it. I'm tired of being judged by people that don't know me, tired of being ignored, tired of people always mad or turning against me. I haven't done anything wrong. I never done wrong in school...
    TheSwitchIsNowOFF TheSwitchIsNowOFF
    16-17, F
    Oct 25, 2015
    Kitry Kitry
    18-21, F
    Oct 21, 2014


    I'm so worthless that I don't have anything to write. I'm so tired.I'm so alone.
    Sewnsew Sewnsew
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Mar 10, 2011

    The older I get, the more apparant this gets.

    I dont deserve to be loved. I only seem to cause others pain. This feeling of loneliness is all I have ever known. And deep down inside, I know my nightmares to be true. I will die all alone and unwanted. I dont deserve love.
    themanoflegends themanoflegends
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    Ok I Am Here To Share Some Love From Above

     Dear Dear EP,,,Lonely and all who feel so unLoved,,,,well I want all of you to know that you all were created in God/Goddess image,,,and they are pure Light and Love,,,and they sent their only son to prove that there was more than what was below,,,,Jesus came to share this...
    maryomaga3 maryomaga3
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    I'm Not Loved

    My own mother told me she didn't love me. She only loves my brother and sister because they turned out She like she wanted. I was different. I want to tell her I don't love her but I know that's a lie. She is the one who gave birth to me. But I'm losing all the respect and love I...
    kisa26 kisa26
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2012

    I am a fifteen year old kid

    who feels unloved. I am the middle of 5 kids and I hate it. I have two older sisters one younger sister and brother. My jounger brother gets called the miracle child by my dad. My twin has no limits to what she can and can't do. Same with my older two sisters. I went out...
    Tertrussel Tertrussel
    Mar 23, 2014

    I Am Worthless Crap

    i havn't done any thing in my life i keep failing every thing i do i failed as a son, as a brother ,as a friend and as a boyfriend, my dad always yelling at me blaming me for every thing and tell me how worthless i am, my friends are avoiding me they are fake friends any way. i...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

    What's The Point In Being Alive

    If no one wants you. Growing up in a family where everyone hates you. Literally! All my life my mother told me that she should've gotten an abortion with me just like she did my brother. I looked for help but everyone I talked to tell me that its not their falt and they can't...
    Kaylan92 Kaylan92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2013


    Especially today. I just feel like my life is in the toilet, and I really have no one to reach out to. I'm used to depending on myself for everything I need, and for the past year I haven't been able to. It's erroding my self-esteem even further, and sometimes I just find myself...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    This morning I woke up with only 10 min to get

    ready and I told my mom she had to drive me to school bc that's not enough time. She keeps yelling at me. AND her work is on the same street as my school like I don't see what the problem is but she always gets mad at me for stupid things like this. But then she gets along...
    IAmMeg17 IAmMeg17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    I felt very unloved. I tried to help people

    after all this years, and I end up alone, hurt and being bullied. After 2 yrs, the bullying stop because I had already graduated from school and those bullies didn't see me anymore. I viewed people as selglfish, ungrateful that nomatter how much you love them, they keep on...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    I hate that I'm always the one left out,

    of things. Ever since I moved and lost all my friends, I've been left out of everything. High school sucked, I tried to get to know ppl and make new friends, but every time that happened, they either had to move or they ended up going with a different group and leave me. The...
    Aoiberry Aoiberry
    22-25, M
    Oct 21, 2014

    I Want Someone Who I Love To Love Me Back For Once.

    Or even like me, just want to talk to me, just to be my friend would be amazing. Through any electronic medium, I dont care. I don't have a family that supports me, I can't make friends outside the internet..this is it. I ******* want to die when everyone I try to reach out to...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

    I feel like I never amount to my family's

    expectations. My mom is in love with my sister, always favoring her. I'm treated like the **** on the bottom of your shoe. Just not my mom assigned me all these chores I have to do every week out of no where, and what does my sister have to do? NOTHING. Also I'd like to add that...
    IAmMeg17 IAmMeg17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I am a children that is 15 years old.

    and yes a lot of you just thinking what the f*** are you doing here. i just need to share my thought with someone or my head will blow up for real. So i have a poor life but not for poorness my family doesnt give a s*** about me. and i dont have any person to call him/her...
    Mehmet432 Mehmet432
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    I Can'T Take It Anymore!

    the question that always goes on in my head is "why was i born?..." i don't feel needed at all. i to reach put to people but they just push me away. I feel so lonely. i hate it! i need someone to tell me its ok. My own family hates me. Those who i call friends, don't feel like...
    kisa26 kisa26
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    My deep rooted feelings

    and fears of being unloved derive from my father not liking the small things that I found utterly amazing... I never realised but It started with..." Dad doesn't like the things I do" ... This was the foundation.... A strong foundation on which I could build... And I did...
    godlovesorphans1 godlovesorphans1
    22-25, M
    Jun 5, 2014

    I Feel Like Liquid Snake

         Since I was a little girl, about three, iv'e been abused by my family. My former stepfather was schizophrenic and would beat me with a limb from a rose bush while my baby brother laughed. My mother never knew this, but she'd soon play a part in my abuse. He...
    xxxxmiseryxxxx xxxxmiseryxxxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2010

    I Am Worthless

    I am worthless, I want to die but something tells me that life is somewat a virtue.
    watzit2u watzit2u
    13-15, M
    1 Response Sep 15, 2009

    Am I Crazy Or What

    I feel worthless too! I just wish to finish highschool n go tO college n never see chicago ever again n to become somebody famous my family is ******* useless n I always had to fight n school cuz somebody either got on my last ******* nerves or somebody talked about how my hair...
    BrandiLovely BrandiLovely
    18-21, F
    May 27, 2012

    I'm Tired Of This Feeling.

    I'm sick and tired of feeling useless. My friends care but I don't think they really mean it. I'm home everyday wishing someone would call me to hang out, but they never do. Same old excuses. "I don't like talking on the phone." or "I'm too lazy." Seriously if you really are my...
    Rainbowxxbutterflyxx Rainbowxxbutterflyxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2011

    I constantly feel unloved

    and worthless, people will tell me they love me and that I mean a lot to them or something like that and I just have a really hard time believing them, I wish nobody would love me because I don't love myself.
    phoenixrko phoenixrko
    18-21, F
    Dec 29, 2013


    My life just ssoms a joke to my family.i am 44 years of age and most of ky life i ave seemed.to gone.from one bad relationship to an otheri live in a house whjch is.not even mine with 2 daughthers.and grandsons. i share with my ex husband.he makes me feel like everything is ky...
    alisonhin alisonhin
    1 Response Jan 16, 2013
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