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I Feelin Used

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11 People

    Just Briefly

    I don't wanna' feel used. I want to deny it.Just because I bought her a car, a bed, a living room set, a couple of diamond rings (she has two hands after all), paid some big debts for her, gave her an HDTV, and she's living under the roof on which I am paying the rent, I shouldn...
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy 70+, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    I Think The Woman Who... Is Wearing Out Her Welcome

    I don't like the way she spends my money without asking or talking about it but really watches my spending. Thirty dollars at a liquor store (I'd like something to drink, too) fifty for somebody's vital records when she doesn't need any vital records, and seventy for something...
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy 70+, M Jun 25, 2010

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    Good Person

    i know i am a good person. i was with a bf that did nothing but lie to me. i don't know why i still love him but i do. i am waiting for this to pass. it just seems so intense to me still. i just found out that everything i thought i knew about him wasn't even true. my friends...
    MyraG MyraG 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    A Sad Fact of Life

    It's happened too often in my past. Almost every relationship that I've been involved in it turns into finding out that they wanted something other than love and commitment from me.  I can honestly say that there have only been two times in my life...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 Aug 17, 2009

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