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I Feelin Used

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    Good Person

    i know i am a good person. i was with a bf that did nothing but lie to me. i don't know why i still love him but i do. i am waiting for this to pass. it just seems so intense to me still. i just found out that everything i thought i knew about him wasn't even true. my friends...
    MyraG MyraG 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    A Sad Fact of Life

    It's happened too often in my past. Almost every relationship that I've been involved in it turns into finding out that they wanted something other than love and commitment from me.  I can honestly say that there have only been two times in my life...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 Aug 17, 2009

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    Just Briefly

    I don't wanna' feel used. I want to deny it.Just because I bought her a car, a bed, a living room set, a couple of diamond rings (she has two hands after all), paid some big debts for her, gave her an HDTV, and she's living under the roof on which I am paying the rent, I shouldn...
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy 70+, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    I Think The Woman Who... Is Wearing Out Her Welcome

    I don't like the way she spends my money without asking or talking about it but really watches my spending. Thirty dollars at a liquor store (I'd like something to drink, too) fifty for somebody's vital records when she doesn't need any vital records, and seventy for something...
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy 70+, M Jun 25, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I just found out that my husband of four months is still in love with his ex girlfriend. It hurts so bad. I am so confused, dejected, disappointed, angry, sad, exhausted. I feel...
    Olyoma Olyoma 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    It threw me to abyss only to feel my demise. I am in no position to negotiate. Falling. Uninformed; Unaware. Chaos surrounds me. Noise. Different tones; I am not able to know...
    Matoy Matoy 18-21, M 1 Response 14 mins ago

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    I have friend that I met through work. He had recently broken up with his girlfriend when he started flirting with me, telling me how much he wanted to spend time with me. I...
    Muse20 Muse20 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    It sounds selfish when you write it down but that isn't the way I intend this to come out. I miss feeling like one of the main priorities in someone else's life rather than just a...
    IllusiveLittleMe IllusiveLittleMe 26-30, F 1 Response 27 mins ago

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    "How many steaks have they been feeding to you this time?" "Oh, don't make me even think about it!". That was the fleeting jokey cross talk my girlfriend and I had, as she came...
    DonnieD80 DonnieD80 31-35, M 5 hrs ago

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    This topic definitely matches. I used to be this really shy kid who would cry once my mom would go out of my sight. I remember I would run out if class in school and go look for...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M Sep 7

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    I just feel broken. Not used. I'd have to be acknowledged to be used. He just walked out and left again. Always going. He always says where to. But never who with or when he'll be...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F Aug 28

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    People all have sad memories? Tranquil night..Mom is watching her iPad .. My neighbor had home refurbished .Looks nice.. I am sitting on the bed..I used to shy in school ,I could...
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    It's been a long stretch again. Feeling so down today. I go from despair to down to a little sad and back to despair. No highs. Just low to lower and back to low. I had some hope...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm over this day.... I hate the sinking feeling... I very rarely have bad days, but today is one of them. Nothing specific it's pretty much just everything today... If it can go...
    Kirstenw23 Kirstenw23 22-25, F 9 mins ago

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    I have a few different feelings that are similar and I can't stand feeling the way I do about it. First, my real family; I miss them all so much but especially my sister and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 31

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I used to be very social, too kind and caring to everyone. I used to smile almost always because no matter what happened, the people that I love and care about were always there...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Silly boy. We don't /love/ each other. There's something, but it isn't love. I used to love you though. I used to love the thought of you smiling and I used to be able to smile...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Aug 31

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    It's been about a year since I cut myself for the last time but I can't help but think about it today because I'm feeling so sad and guilty...i used to scratch the hell out of my...
    MarissaDreams MarissaDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I feel mad at the world and super duper suicidal. Everybody's out to get me and there all gonna hurt me. Nobody gives a sh!t about me. It's becoming unbearable to try and keep...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Maybe I used to accept this pity from others before, it is because I was thirsty for feelings, lonely and needed compassion and love. Nothing changed really, maybe I am even in a...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Sep 2

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    My ex bf made me go through depression.. I loved him, but he just used me all along. He was still in love with his ex gf. After timed passed, I began to forget him.. My heart...
    EmmaParsons EmmaParsons 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F Aug 26

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    We stopped like I guess talking if we even were because he thinks that not being able to come over and see eachother a lot is a problem I mean yeah it's a problem but I told him...
    samanthac99 samanthac99 13-15, F Aug 31

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    It all started in 7th grade when I was introduced to K2/Synthetic Marijuana(there were a few other drugs I tried using but this is about the synthetic). I used to like the way it...
    SnakTaco SnakTaco 13-15, M Sep 4

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    We'll, I don't really "like pain" i just don't care.. I have a REEEAAALLLY high pain tolerance.. Like.., I broke my Nose one time and it was gushing blood out and I just laughed...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I've been feeling pretty good today. This past week has been pretty good I haven't drank in exactly one week. I've had a bad habit of drinking but I talked it through with some...
    rjschuler rjschuler 18-21, M Sep 2

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    They say two wrongs are never right, but nothing's final A thousand thoughts, a million fears and I still smile When you run too fast to never see the colors of every memory Slow...
    foundstar foundstar 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I've been fighting a relapse recently. Sometimes when I'm in the car I think about it, when I'm driving. I remember how I used to wake up early and get in my car and sit in my car...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F Aug 21

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    "Don't act like an angel, you fallen again. You're no super hero, I found in the end. So lie to me once again and tell me everything will be alright. Lie to me once again and ask...
    ginawexler ginawexler 13-15, F Aug 25

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    I used to say I was sorry when I felt guilt or shame. Then I asked whose rules I had broken, who had put me in the wrong. Then I asked by what right or authority they had made...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm a little bit lost, I used to know who I was, what I stood for but, what defined me and what made me proud of me. Now life is confusing and I'm feeling identity-less. I think I...
    MyNameWasAlreadyTaken MyNameWasAlreadyTaken 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    The Used has helped me through some pretty rough times. They were the band I would listen to when I was feeling depressed or angry.... Which was almost all the time. I'm A Fake is...
    NegativePulse NegativePulse 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    How can I go from being so sensitive to being emotionally numb? I am the person who used to be worried about each test at school and every tiny thing in the world. But now. It's...
    bar206 bar206 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    In the last several years I have become afraid of almost everything. I never used to be afraid of anything. I am somewhat disgusted with myself for being afraid because it allows...
    lost762 lost762 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My wife and I are separating after twenty years. Its my idea, she does not want to and she is devastated. I love her very much and its tearing me apart inside and I'm having...
    mohoganyred mohoganyred 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I have been married for 10 years, together for 14. My husband and I have two children together. Almost our entire relationship he has worked two jobs, almost never home and even...
    dragonflydreams dragonflydreams 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Who am I? Whom am I trying to be? Why can't I face them normally? Do I really have to be like this? T_T ^ I ask myself such questions often when I look at myself in the mirror...
    Wannabebrave Wannabebrave 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Sometimes I want to cry in class because of this. I used to be so loud and fun and now I feel so depressed. I hate going to a new hs because you're getting ignored. Sure there are...
    alyssagrey14 alyssagrey14 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't have time for it anymore. Being used and abused for having it is not worth it. I love feeling nothing. It's the only way to get by in this world.
    Iyaniaya Iyaniaya 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate being like this , I used to be so happy and now I just feel like **** all the time, I hate myself, I just hope no one else hates me.
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    When I was 13 my parents got me a phone and I have had it ever since ( I am 16 years old now) and the first case I put on it was a cat case. And over the years I have collected...
    TardisBlue135 TardisBlue135 13-15, F Aug 21

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    I used to be happy. A child with zero cares and 100 reasons to love life, but now 10 years later I cannot think of a single one. I used to think i was pretty, until they started...
    darknesssweetnesssadness darknesssweetnesssadness 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    It's a scary feeling, it's like you don't know who you are anymore and you don't know what to do next.
    Findingmylittleself Findingmylittleself 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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