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I Fell In Love And It's Destroying Me

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    Oh, and I can't forget the fact

    that I literally can't go a single day without him popping into my head. It's horrible. It just really kills me loving him so much and then. *BOOM!!!* reality ***** slaps me in the face and reminds of the fact that I will probably never see or hear from him again. So yeah.... :3...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I like a girl I have absolutely no chance with.

    Sometimes I feel like she might have feelings towards me but as soon as they are there the are gone too. I just graduated high school and she is on her last year of college so yeah I'm a bit intimidated. Anyways she keeps sending me mix signals Wednesday was the second day she...
    Axel4045 Axel4045 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    If you lose what you love,

    you lose a peace of your heart.
    jack3683 jack3683 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It’s hard to wait around

    for something you know might never happen, but it’s even harder to give up when it’s everything you want. When you are in love and you get hurt, it’s like a cut… it will heal, but there will always be a scar.
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F Jul 16

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    Me too., thats why i dont fall in love with

    absolutely NoBody!!!' I have a heart of stone now!!!
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    The Girl.

    'Twas the first day of my freshman year. There was an assembly in the auditorium. It was, of course, boring. So I glanced ahead of me and three rows ahead and a few seats over was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. She was doing something with her hair.. her beautiful hair. I...
    eternalsecrecy eternalsecrecy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2011

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    I fell in love with a beautiful girl

    and what made it worse was that we became such close friends with each other in such a short space of time, because normally with me it takes years for me trust somebody, but her it didn't take long at all. She became pretty much the whole reason for me to fight the severe...
    dstarbuck dstarbuck 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I can't do this anymore.

    I can't feel like this. It hurts me from inside out. I hate everything about everything and it's because of him. Because he's perfect and he doesn't want me.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I'm IN LOVE💜💛❤💖💙 with this kid in

    my home room he sits right behind me he has a gf I just found out my heart in shattered into little picecs
    imnotthatspecia imnotthatspecia 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Falling in love sucks.

    It destroys me every day because I fell in love with the wrong person and don't have the guts to tell them
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F Jul 15

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    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    lucieloo7 lucieloo7 18-21, F May 31

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    I fell in love with a man

    who is twice my age and is married and has 5 kids total. 1 is from a previous marriage, 4 is from the current marriage. I know he sounds like a bad guy already but I still love him no matter what. He is a decent guy that I have all my heart and my respect for him and I can't...
    iloveuox iloveuox 26-30, F Jul 15

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    Really feel like absconding with a loving man

    right now and starting up a new life!!!! I really need a man who would reciprocate my love... Like seriously 💝💝💝💝
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F Jul 20

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    Please don't stand so close to me I'm having

    trouble breathing I'm afraid of what you'll see right now I give you everything I am All my broken heart beats Until I know you'll understand And I will make sure to keep my distance Say, "I love you," when you're not listening And how long can we keep this up, up, up...
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Love is like Football.

    I'm the scrawny wanna be quarterback that's two feet tall and has no hope for making the team, no matter how much I try. Love, in a word, is useless. It's people's way of procreating the species, but that's pretty much all it's useful for. Other people find joy in it, but I don...
    WhiteRiceWithChicken WhiteRiceWithChicken 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Why

    why? what did i do wrong in this world? as far as i am concerned i am a good person with overall good intentions. so why? why? did i have to fall in love with the one person who insists on hurting me every chance he gets? i have never ever felt this way for anyone. always...
    monigoes monigoes 18-21, F Oct 18, 2011

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    There's a girl in my choir class who's just

    so beautiful and I love her personality and her voice and everything about her and it's killing me that she doesn't realize how much I'm trying to be friends with her and it's so irritating I hate it I'm always thinking about her
    Verchiel Verchiel 18-21, T Jul 24

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    From the moment we met I knew I was falling

    for you. I knew i shouldn't have let myself. I knew you could never really feel the same way about me. And that I would/could never of been good enough. But I did and you did. Well I thought you did.. You said you did. You said a lot of things actually.. I was stupid enough to...
    NotWorthSaving NotWorthSaving 31-35, F 21 Responses May 27

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    And she dreamed. She dreamed him say: You are

    the single most beautiful and perplexing thing that has happened to me. There have been others, but none as lovely as you. And maybe it's in the way you say my name and that little smile your lips slowly come to make when you look at me with those brown eyes. And when I reach...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Today was the first day I saw him in over 2

    months. When our eyes met this morning it cut like a knife. After everything that he had done to me, I'm still so in love with him. I sat in class today and my chest and stomach were tied in knots, he was all I thought about. I keep clinging on to the relationship him and I had...
    tibber4lyfe tibber4lyfe 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I fell in Love with my Best friend

    and I can't do anything about it.. He wants to stay friends, and he is suicidal. I need to help him, but he is so depressed, he is not only destroying himself he is destroying me as well. :'(
    audralina09 audralina09 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    No matter how much she's on my mind,

    no matter how much my heart may yearn for her... To go back to her would mean ruin. I have to reverse all of this before the damage is done. For I fear I may not recover...
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 12

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    My Friend Broke Up With Me...

    i had a friend, his name was Jorge Flores. We went together in El Paso high. The first time i saw him was in biology class, i thought he was really cute, he had a boyish face but he looked like he was 20. (its complicated to explain how) he had deep big brown eyes, and a birth...
    wannaelectrodance wannaelectrodance 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    Why do i need to feel this way.

    . I hate it so much
    aisel04 aisel04 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    When you're in love with someone

    but it will never happen
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Ii didn't fall in love with him I loved him

    from the very beginning, from the moment we first held hands! It was like fate had just brought us together 😍. It's not like me loving him has destroyed me, but it has destroyed the selfish😡careless😋mean😑 grudge-holding😐 unforgiving 😶lying😏part of me. He has...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Its a truth that I fell in love.

    But I completely lost myself in that. Even I failed in studies. Its a one sided love. But I lost my way in life.
    Jms04 Jms04 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I fell in love with this guy 4 years ago.

    He is bisexual but he just doesn't know that. His friendly attitude towards me slowly kills me inside. He is still there and i have nothing else to do but watch him kill me.
    zerofreak zerofreak 18-21, M May 30

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    theatregeek13 theatregeek13 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I’ve fallen head over heels

    for her and can’t let her go. Oh, how I wish I could wrench my heart out of my chest so I don’t have to feel this deeply & thus get so easily hurt.
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 16

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    RaspberryTommyCat RaspberryTommyCat 13-15, F Apr 21

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    This might sound crazy

    and just a cliche teen, considering my age, that supposively I cannot love for I'm too young and I don't know what love is. If that's the case then, when is the right time to love? I honestly think I fell in love, it just felt more than liking someone, it felt real. It was...
    lportra24 lportra24 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I've always like a guy

    since I was in 2nd year high school, even though I had a relationship with another guy, I knew that I like him. He's been a good friend to me and he was there when I broke up with my ex. He's the one who comforted me and made me feel special despite of the fact that I feel so...
    officialwanderer officialwanderer 16-17, F May 30

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    I woke up feeling heavy hearted I'm going back

    to where I started The morning rain The morning rain Now though I wish that you were near The same old road that brought me here Is calling me home Is calling me home I wish I could lay down beside you When the day is done And wake up to your face against the morning sun But...
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 6

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    love is like a baby it's nice

    and cute but it's hard work
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I tried to be everything

    for you. I came back so many times to only put up with the same stuff. I didn't want to just cut you off. I love you, but I don't deserve all this you put me through. I just want you to know, I'll never forget you.❤️
    jess31114 jess31114 18-21, F Aug 11

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    People don't know what they have to love

    until they loss it and it's gone forever
    Broken887 Broken887 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    It's so hard to not love someone

    who you have shared so much intimacy with. It's crazy. My mind is saying no but my heart won't let go
    KeeWee812 KeeWee812 22-25, F Aug 9

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    Ugh being in love makes me feel like ****!

    Like my insides are twisting and I have no control over what I'm feeling and I hate it!😫
    jinxxypoo134 jinxxypoo134 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I was recently in a relationship.

    He says things to bring me down and makes me feel guilty for breaking up with him. But then he says things like "I miss you" and I'm just sick and tired of him trying to get me back but then making me feel like the worst person on earth. I've been depressed lately but I know I...
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    My heart now has a hole shaped

    where you used to be. Falling asleep in your arms and waking up and looking into your eyes. These are the things that are going to kill me. Looking at pictures of us and seeing the way we looked at each other. The worst day of loving someone is the day you lose them.
    Frankie71 Frankie71 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm not sure how someone can just leave you

    and tell you they don't have feelings for you anymore, it hurts more than anything because I gave that relationship my everything. I don't know what to do. So tired of getting hurt
    hg14 hg14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I feel like I'm breaking apart inside,

    I've held my sorrows and pains in so long that it almost hurts now as I brutally let myself go of all the pain you caused in me. My emotions can't stand the sight of you. It hurts, it ******* hurts so much!! I ACTUALLY get to feel again, this immense pain, what once was loving...
    Lifelover38 Lifelover38 18-21, M Jul 27

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    I fell in love with a friend.

    It was the last think I would've ever expected. It was hard because of the distance (about 12 hrs away by car). He made me feel things I didn't even know were possible. He gave me hope & confidence. He wrote me the most beautiful things. He was in love with my mind (so he said...
    LeoLioness8 LeoLioness8 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 9

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    Okay, I was in a relationship

    for six years, then I met a guy who changed my whole world. I never cheated on my previous partner, but I emotionally did, when I realized what I was doing I broke up with my partner and pursued this new guy. I have had a bad up bringing, abused and eventually orphaned, this...
    pocketchicken pocketchicken 22-25, F 34 Responses Feb 21

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