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I Fell In Love And It's Destroying Me

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    Why

    why? what did i do wrong in this world? as far as i am concerned i am a good person with overall good intentions. so why? why? did i have to fall in love with the one person who insists on hurting me every chance he gets? i have never ever felt this way for anyone. always...
    monigoes monigoes 18-21, F Oct 18, 2011

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    I can't do this anymore.

    I can't feel like this. It hurts me from inside out. I hate everything about everything and it's because of him. Because he's perfect and he doesn't want me.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Okay, I was in a relationship

    for six years, then I met a guy who changed my whole world. I never cheated on my previous partner, but I emotionally did, when I realized what I was doing I broke up with my partner and pursued this new guy. I have had a bad up bringing, abused and eventually orphaned, this...
    pocketchicken pocketchicken 22-25, F 29 Responses Feb 21

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    I fell in love with this guy 4 years ago.

    He is bisexual but he just doesn't know that. His friendly attitude towards me slowly kills me inside. He is still there and i have nothing else to do but watch him kill me.
    zerofreak zerofreak 18-21, M May 30

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    I fell in love with a man

    who is twice my age and is married and has 5 kids total. 1 is from a previous marriage, 4 is from the current marriage. I know he sounds like a bad guy already but I still love him no matter what. He is a decent guy that I have all my heart and my respect for him and I can't...
    iloveuox iloveuox 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    So a year ago and a few months,

    I started a new job and I met this amazing woman. I started off as a straight woman but I fell for her shortly after I met her. I was scared at first and tried to deny my feelings but the more I denied them, the stronger they got. She and I became friends and talked a lot. We...
    Broadwaygirl17 Broadwaygirl17 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    lucieloo7 lucieloo7 18-21, F May 31

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    I fell in love with a beautiful girl

    and what made it worse was that we became such close friends with each other in such a short space of time, because normally with me it takes years for me trust somebody, but her it didn't take long at all. She became pretty much the whole reason for me to fight the severe...
    dstarbuck dstarbuck 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    People don't know what they have to love

    until they loss it and it's gone forever
    Broken887 Broken887 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When you're in love with someone

    but it will never happen
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    From the moment we met I knew I was falling

    for you. I knew i shouldn't have let myself. I knew you could never really feel the same way about me. And that I would/could never of been good enough. But I did and you did. Well I thought you did.. You said you did. You said a lot of things actually.. I was stupid enough to...
    NotWorthSaving NotWorthSaving 31-35, F 20 Responses May 27

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    Once upon a time I was falling in love,

    now I am falling apart.
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Nicoletqw Nicoletqw 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    It’s hard to wait around

    for something you know might never happen, but it’s even harder to give up when it’s everything you want. When you are in love and you get hurt, it’s like a cut… it will heal, but there will always be a scar.
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F Jul 16

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    While I was with my boyfriend

    after having an argument I had a rebound, even till this day me and my boyfriend are arguing and I feel the need to go back to the rebound to find some sort of comfort because I don't get any security and no listening from my boyfriend. Is it a good idea too?
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I felt like I fell in love with this guy

    but he just broke my heart and it just hurts me cuz I absolutely hate him but still kinda like him and it just kills me to think about him
    azraelX1001 azraelX1001 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    RaspberryTommyCat RaspberryTommyCat 13-15, F Apr 21

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    I fell in love and it the worst.

    I ruin everything with some family members and school and everything. This guy made me do drugs and cut school and now im dropped out of school. he ruin my life and now hes out of it.I still love him till this day we been together for four years.Im stupid for still loving him...
    tatianax3 tatianax3 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    If love is beautiful then

    why is it painful? It's not a virtue I suppose then.
    prajaya123 prajaya123 18-21, M Jul 11

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    Oh, and I can't forget the fact

    that I literally can't go a single day without him popping into my head. It's horrible. It just really kills me loving him so much and then. *BOOM!!!* reality ***** slaps me in the face and reminds of the fact that I will probably never see or hear from him again. So yeah.... :3...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Falling in love sucks.

    It destroys me every day because I fell in love with the wrong person and don't have the guts to tell them
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F Jul 15

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    There's a girl in my choir class who's just

    so beautiful and I love her personality and her voice and everything about her and it's killing me that she doesn't realize how much I'm trying to be friends with her and it's so irritating I hate it I'm always thinking about her
    Verchiel Verchiel 18-21, T 1 day ago

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    Ii didn't fall in love with him I loved him

    from the very beginning, from the moment we first held hands! It was like fate had just brought us together 😍. It's not like me loving him has destroyed me, but it has destroyed the selfish😡careless😋mean😑 grudge-holding😐 unforgiving 😶lying😏part of me. He has...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My Friend Broke Up With Me...

    i had a friend, his name was Jorge Flores. We went together in El Paso high. The first time i saw him was in biology class, i thought he was really cute, he had a boyish face but he looked like he was 20. (its complicated to explain how) he had deep big brown eyes, and a birth...
    wannaelectrodance wannaelectrodance 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    I've always like a guy

    since I was in 2nd year high school, even though I had a relationship with another guy, I knew that I like him. He's been a good friend to me and he was there when I broke up with my ex. He's the one who comforted me and made me feel special despite of the fact that I feel so...
    officialwanderer officialwanderer 16-17, F May 30

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    I fell in Love with my Best friend

    and I can't do anything about it.. He wants to stay friends, and he is suicidal. I need to help him, but he is so depressed, he is not only destroying himself he is destroying me as well. :'(
    audralina09 audralina09 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Love is destroying me.

    Its ripping my emotions apart and breaking me in half.
    XOasis XOasis 16-17, F May 5

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    Its a truth that I fell in love.

    But I completely lost myself in that. Even I failed in studies. Its a one sided love. But I lost my way in life.
    Jms04 Jms04 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    So I'm kinda scared. Last year,

    or two years Ago- I had this guy, and he was my absolute best friend. We were girl friend and boyfriend. I loved him go the ends of the earth, I would have gladly taken a bullet for him. With all of that, he also made me feel less of myself. He made me doubt myself. He told me I...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    I regret Talking to him Laughing with

    him Joking with him Smiling with him Staring at him Sitting with him Because in the end I got hurt
    BeautyMe101 BeautyMe101 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    About a year ago my best friend got cheated on

    and dumped by her boyfriend, and was left upset and hurt. About a month later, the same thing happened to me, when I des covered my wife was looking for another relationship behind my back. Both me and my friend became extremely close as friends go, and I ended up falling so...
    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M Jul 11

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    Me too., thats why i dont fall in love with

    absolutely NoBody!!!' I have a heart of stone now!!!
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm known for my smile

    and great attitude towards everything, but not this time. I just lost my girlfriend because she was falling for me, strange Hugh? I thought so to. Plus I just found out that she might be in love with her best friend. I'm so confused and heart broken to think straight. I need...
    TruMrWrong TruMrWrong 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    The Girl.

    'Twas the first day of my freshman year. There was an assembly in the auditorium. It was, of course, boring. So I glanced ahead of me and three rows ahead and a few seats over was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. She was doing something with her hair.. her beautiful hair. I...
    eternalsecrecy eternalsecrecy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2011

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    Really feel like absconding with a loving man

    right now and starting up a new life!!!! I really need a man who would reciprocate my love... Like seriously 💝💝💝💝
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure how someone can just leave you

    and tell you they don't have feelings for you anymore, it hurts more than anything because I gave that relationship my everything. I don't know what to do. So tired of getting hurt
    hg14 hg14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Ugh being in love makes me feel like ****!

    Like my insides are twisting and I have no control over what I'm feeling and I hate it!😫
    jinxxypoo134 jinxxypoo134 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    My heart now has a hole shaped

    where you used to be. Falling asleep in your arms and waking up and looking into your eyes. These are the things that are going to kill me. Looking at pictures of us and seeing the way we looked at each other. The worst day of loving someone is the day you lose them.
    Frankie71 Frankie71 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I've been forever in love with this guy

    that lives up the street from me. We used to hangout when I first moved into the neighborhood & naturally he became like an older brother to me. Once all the older kids started middle school we also drifted until I started high school we had this on/off sort of friends thing...
    SammieK SammieK 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I really loved him and

    now it's just falling apart completely. Help?
    skylarsanchez skylarsanchez 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    It's only because I love her

    and can't let go, she still loves me and same do I but her mom doesn't like me and I've spiralled into depression and not a day go's by where I don't think of her :(
    Hotdudez78 Hotdudez78 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 24

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