I Fell In Love With a Married Man

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    i fell in love with a married man

    and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very happy about us, then the next day he distanced himself and then distanced himself some more and then i never saw him again. I don't blame...
    mayamasala mayamasala
    31-35, F
    Mar 26, 2014

    Ok, here goes my story.

    I started working at a restaurant and met this charming, cute guy who happened to be one of my managers. A year passes by and I never really thought of him in a romantic way because I knew he was married and had a child. Then, one day at work I was talking with the other girls...
    ausann ausann
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    Known him for 14 years we had a instant

    attraction and we had sex everytime we seen each other then he left for a year then he found me we met up and we slept together then we dud this for about 6 months ...he went away again and this time while he was gone we talked almost daily and when he was back we have been...
    Apromiseuwanted2keep Apromiseuwanted2keep
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    I'm a fool! I should know better.

    And I even held myself back and kept him away from me in the beginning becoz I knew what was coming yet I still went ahead and fell right into the pit. Something happened, it felt like dipping into a freezing ocean and I'm wide awake now. It's not too late yet. I am running over...
    listening2014 listening2014
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    Why do people act as

    if it is the lover's responsibility to stay away from the married man? Why is she supposed to watch out for the interests of his wife? What is she seen as the marriage breaker? Isn't the man just as responsible? Or is it that people think men are dogs, so they'll hardly ever do...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    1 Response Feb 16, 2014

    I want to have sex with a married man (well,

    possibly genderqueer person). He helped me through a tough situation with legal advice and emotional support. I rented a room in his housed or almost a year, and I found myself feeling more and more excited whenever he was in the room. He's about 20 years older than me, and a...
    teawithharry teawithharry
    22-25, T
    Aug 18, 2014

    Yeah I met him on a dating site he said all the

    right things but I didn't listen to my intuition or paid attention to facts he sent me a picture of him with a wedding ring I thought it was an old picture then he tell me to not text his wife but send me rose emoticons he give mixed messages im still crushing on him though...
    Witchthatwantsfun Witchthatwantsfun
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    If your first reaction to this statement is

    condemnation and judgment, you have obviously never been in love with somebody you shouldn’t be. People like to judge nowadays. And I’m a bad person just because my heart decides to pump blood a lot faster whenever I see the man who is more than twice my age and whose...
    romka romka
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    I met my special friend on the Internet.

    It began with a simple message he sent to me requesting to be friends and email pals. For privacy and discretion I will refer to my special friend in this blog as Billy (not his real name). Now Billy and I met on a pen pal Internet site, this was not a dating site, although I...
    BeautifulButterfly68 BeautifulButterfly68
    46-50, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    Better This Way

    i met him on a website.. I really love to chat with older people. he is an attorney.. an intelligent guy that you will love to talk with.. i know he has kids.. but i continued chatting wih him 'cause he shared a lot of stories. i don't know if it can be considered "love...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue
    18-21, F
    Apr 23, 2010

    I have fallen madly deeply in love with a man

    who has portrayed to be who he is to me, I have since found out he is married 25yrs and he doesn't know I know. I am so in love and I don't know what to do. Yes, I am upset he has lied but perhaps there is a reason.. Maybe it's wishful thinking. We have been dating a year and a...
    simplicityatbest simplicityatbest
    46-50, F
    Nov 19, 2014

    I Fellin Love With A Married Man

    I meant my friend brother, wife and kids bout 5 years ago and since when he came on to me I never meant to fall in love with but I did. Now 4 and a half years later we have a 1 year old daugther together and I love him so much but he goes back and forth between me and his wife...
    darkbeauty28 darkbeauty28
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2011

    Long story short, I'm inlove with a married man,

    who's 32. I'm 17 btw, he has a daughter who's one, his wife is due with their second child in a few months, and me and this man have been secretly together for the past 4-5 months.. It only gets stronger and stronger by the day. I worked with both him and his wife but now I only...
    Princessjaa Princessjaa
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    I did when I was younger,

    thank goodness we didn't do anything.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail
    22-25, M
    Feb 16, 2014

    This morning I am angry.

    Where do they get off bringing us into their world, getting us to fall in love with them and trust them and then just cutting us out like we are nothing. We feel too, we hurt deeply and we are left with a dead relationship that we treasured, a broken heart and pain that seems...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I am in love with a married man

    and it has been going on for about 12 years...I wish we could be together but we cant so make the best of what it is...it sux being the other woman you waiy fir the text or call saying he wants to see you and then when you ste with him and you have to say bye it hurts more than...
    Apromiseuwanted2keep Apromiseuwanted2keep
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    This is a long story

    so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start so the thought of getting involved with him NEVER crossed my mind, not even a little bit. We became fast friends and...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    I know this looks really bad,

    but please don't judge me. I was 17 when I started working as a waitress in a restaurant in my hometown. One day, as I was about to leave work and enter my car, I met this dreamy looking guy, who was answering his phone outside the restaurant. I looked at him and he smiled at...
    ironwoman45 ironwoman45
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    I began working with this guy who

    when we met we instantly clicked. Although he was 10 years older than me, age didn't matter. Our relationship started out very innocent and then one drunk night out together changed everything. This guy was my everything. I could tell him anything and it was as if he understood...
    emarie225 emarie225
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    Why Does It Hurt?

    I met a wonderful man and from the beginning we both knew what we were doing was wrong. I was married and so was he. My marriage ended and he still is married. His wife found out that he had an affair but thinks it was only once. We've been together for 9 months. The sex is...
    alygryl79 alygryl79
    1 Response Nov 29, 2010

    Are You In Love With A Married Man

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    sozethekitten sozethekitten
    Jan 17, 2012

    He was a co worker and my best friend

    after my divorce our relationship developed in to some thing much more we both tryed to hide our emotions but his wife dicoverd before we admit to each other out true feelings .and that forced us to reveal our love . he sayes he wants to be with me but feels responsible for...
    cryingsilently cryingsilently
    Mar 1, 2015

    I Fell In Love With A Married Man

    I didn't intend to fall for him. He was my doctor. He was also a married family man and oh so handsome! His voice was like melted chocolate and his hands were gentle and sure. I was in so much pain and I could see that it hurt him to see me hurt so badly. He was sensitive...
    wannacry wannacry
    Aug 30, 2011
    msJacobs msJacobs
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13
    26-30, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    Beyond Enamored

    I fell in love with my best friend, it's a recent thing. He is the single most wonderful person I have ever met and I hate myself for loving him so much. I didn't mean for any of this to happen and shouldn't be posting on here, I just need to know there is someone out there who...
    AdorablyBroken AdorablyBroken
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2011

    At the time I did not know he was married.

    It had been seven months of happiness. In the beginning, we would text and call each other all day long. Our first date was two weeks after we met and red flags should have went off then as I look back because the date lasted two hours. We were having a good time until he told...
    LoveGoRound LoveGoRound
    31-35, F
    Sep 23, 2014

    It's Been 5 Year

    I saw him at the night club  and fall in love with him and then I found out he was married with three kids,whom he love more than anyone else!!!I would never want him to leave his family  for me as I know he would never be 100% happy but on the other hand I wish i could have...
    justa99 justa99
    1 Response Feb 4, 2011

    I once fell in love w a married guy & had a new

    born baby. He promised me he was going to get divorced & it was going to fix his situation & still be able to be a father to his son. Every time I think back it hurts. How could I possibly be so stupid & believe everything he ever said. He lived in a different state than me & I...
    Giselle1231 Giselle1231
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015
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