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I Fell In Love With a Sociopath

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    So Here'S My Story - Your olive skin and deep blue eyes stared down at me. You looked like an angel, with a small look of plea. Your auburn-gold halo framed your small face, As you...
    lolidek lolidek 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    The Hurt Won't Go Away From The Things He Did To Me. - So many things happened while I was with my ex that i don't know which words or situations within the relationship are the...
    sweetness23 sweetness23 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    How Can You Hurt When You Can't Love. - Wow I don't know where to start, other than it is such a relief to be able to share this with other people who may understand I'm not...
    Elizahrose Elizahrose 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    My Husband Showing Signs That He May Be A Sociopath - My husband has always been somewhat of a compulsive liar, but ever since his return from deployment it has spiraled out of...
    confusedwife5505 confusedwife5505 26-30 2 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Proud Of Being A "victum" To My Socio/npd Ex. - She read all my FB posts about how unhappy I was in my marriage.  I used to wear my heart on my sleeve.  (Perfect...
    NCPheonix NCPheonix 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Your Gonna Catch A Cold From The Ice Inside Your Soul - I fell in love in a whirlwind romance we met 3 months later we were living together 3 months later we were married. We were...
    Vivnessa Vivnessa 31-35 3 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    3 Months After. The Way To Recovery. Expect The Bumps. - Hi Everybody. I was in here two months ago. Before that I had sat on the floor crying for a month straight, lost 10 pounds...
    VirgoLove VirgoLove 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    I Believe He Is A Sociopath - I believe that my boyfriend is a sociopath and I can't do anything about it. I can't make him leave my home because he is on the lease and I can't...
    melissarippy melissarippy 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    Charlie - I am one of Charlie's Devils and while most people feel he is evil incarnate he really has not ever been anything but, a hero and supreme deity to me!!! Sure he is...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    The Bond Of Music - I believe I could be in real trouble here. This person is a mastermind and has blown my mind. He and I had a connection to music and all I can say is I have...
    Glycerine50 Glycerine50 46-50 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    My Ex Sociopath. - I saw signs my ex was a sociopath. I fell in love with him away. He got meaner n more irresponsible as months passed. everything is for him. I mentioned what I...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Strangers - I hate hate hate when I get overwhelmed with emotion and I can't stop thinking about him. It's when I go check the social networks and go google crazy and I usually...
    redpill2013 redpill2013 26-30 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Side Effects - I think dealing with the fact that I was so deceived is the hardest, now that the relationship is over. It's hard. I don't go a day without thinking about him, even...
    redpill2013 redpill2013 26-30 5 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Difficult Feelings - About a year ago I came across a post on here writen by an ex, he came clean about being a Sociopath and I was shocked and a bit frightened.... it still...
    scornfulbitch scornfulbitch 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2012

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    Does Sociopath Equal Serial Killer? - No. A sociopath doesn't have to kill anyone to be a sociopath. They can simply ruin lives, destroy dreams, leaving wreckage in their wake as...
    Hestian Hestian 46-50, F 15 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    I Didn'T Know - I had no idea what a sociopath was until yesterday.. Having met what I though was a really caring and understanding person, it soon fell to piece and I tried to get...
    Solmichela Solmichela 36-40, F Mar 25, 2013

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    My First Love... - i sometimes try to tell myself i did not love him. in a way i didn't. i loved the image he created for me. i was 12 and he was 15. i got picked on alot and he...
    avagwen420 avagwen420 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2009

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    Lesson Learned - My sociopath is the first man I fell in lobe with after getting out of a 18 year marriage. It was all excitement and fun. It was the best sex I ever had. It all...
    shellbell8 shellbell8 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    I Am Drowning In My Sorrows. - I knew it was happening, but I didn't want to believe it. I fell for it hook, line & sinker. I only have myself to blame. I read the story "Does...
    Alicianeedshelp Alicianeedshelp 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    My Best Friend.... - We've been friends for almost 9 years, and still to this day, I don't regret having him in my life. I care deeply for him, unconditionally. We've had our bad...
    CassandraG CassandraG 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    My husband is a sociopath and I accept him. The problem with people now a days is they judge! They are people just like you and me, but people are quick to dismiss them and treat...
    AngelicaMarie79 AngelicaMarie79 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Falling In Love With A Sociopath - I had a friend of almost 20 years. I fell in love with her 10 years ago. She has 3 beautiful girls and I feel bad for them. I finally had the...
    Akqj10flush Akqj10flush 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Ten Ways To Spot A Sociopath (aka Con-artist) On Your First Date - WHAT MAKES A SOCIOPATH? There are people in the world who don't care about love, and who feel no remorse, empathy...
    MaxineR MaxineR 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    Dangers Of Getting Set Up On A Blind Date - Just because someone you trust is setting you up on a blind date, don’t assume that it’s safe! Even the most well intentioned friend...
    MaxineR MaxineR 36-40, F Apr 20, 2012

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    Sociopathic Soldier - This past year, I moved to Germany to be closer to my mother and her side of the family, I was 18 and ready to take on anything coming at me. My dad had been...
    Purpleheart94 Purpleheart94 18-21, F Mar 4, 2013

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    His eyes pierce me. His smile his voice... His touch when he wasn't playing a game. I know he had to love me.... During the middle of the night on more the one occasion he would...
    frozenFire6767 frozenFire6767 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    So Confused!!! - I met a guy about 3 mths ago, things seemed to b going really well he told me he wanted to take things slow as he usually rushes into relationships which i was...
    sjcs1986 sjcs1986 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I Have A Child With A Sociopath - I met this man, the most charming man u can ever imagine. He looked like a well established man, a great father in the future, a family man, a...
    dreamlovegirl dreamlovegirl 22-25 May 8, 2011

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    She's Insane...but I Love Her... - Based on what I've read, I love a sociopath...this woman seems to have no conscience, and fits the usual sociopath profile in many ways.But...
    clopter clopter 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    One Sociopath Stood Above The Rest - It's been a long, long time but the boy who I believed was my first love I am beginning to think may have been a sociopath.  It's so hard for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 4, 2011

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    I Would Be Lying If I Said I Wasn't Afraid Of What Might Happen Next. - I have known him since we where 15yrs old so about 23yrs, I had his son at 17 and he went to prison for...
    reyoflight526 reyoflight526 36-40 Aug 21, 2013

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    Help Me. - Me and my boyfriend just broke up and I want to get him back. i know this probably sounds stupid but i honestly love him and im commited into helping him find that...
    josey18 josey18 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2010

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    I'm Left Broken And Confused... - When I first started telling my friends and family about what this man I was in love with was doing and saying to me, they would jokingly say...
    Cutie817 Cutie817 31-35 5 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    The man I have been seeing for the past three years has all the traits of a sociopath except two--He never proclaimed he loved me--not once. He did tell me things in the...
    SASB42010 SASB42010 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    My Sneaky Scorpio Sociopath - I don't deserve sympathy because I brought this on myself but I was well and truly sucked in by a sociopath. At first he seemed like the most genuine...
    AnotherBondiBlonde1 AnotherBondiBlonde1 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Charming Artist - For 2 years we have been together and for 2 years i have been trying to get away from him. But each time i am a bit recovered from what he has done to me, when i...
    dinapien dinapien 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Kittychanel - Stop joining these crazy groups and not leaving a crazy story to explain ... I see it in my feed and am compelled to investigate .... Then I read horrifying...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    The Physical Stress Without Doubt Will Make You Very Ill! - I was with my ex for around 18 months and in that time I found myself very stressed and sick with migranes, which i'd...
    sweetness23 sweetness23 36-40, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Residuals Of Him... - My story here today is a very small part of a very long story, but many of you will understand the way these things go... My problem is the residuals... I...
    SeekingUnknowns SeekingUnknowns 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    But He Seemed Like Such A Nice Guy! - I think the hard thing to do when in the midst of a sociopath's control is to gain perspective. There were many things that weren't right...
    Lambiepieface Lambiepieface 51-55, F 9 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    Every Sign Was There - It has taken me nearly two years since the end of my relationship to realise he was indeed a sociopath. We met, he lied about a previous relationship being...
    loudn loudn 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    I don't really know how to say this. I fell in love with my teacher. Well I guess I haven't fallen in love, more like a stupid crush on a teacher which I'm sure I'll get over it...
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    So here's how it went, I met him over the summer, he had a girl and it broke my heart.. I talked to him as a Bestfriend. Little did I know we were in the same class, I sat behind...
    Hesthebae Hesthebae 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I fell in love with my best friends boyfriend, then she found out and I fell in love with her too.
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    Okay, so first off she's a guidance counseler. I was a new student at the school and I was adjusting and she was always asking how I was doing and trying to get to know me. I...
    MANCHESTERUNITEDLYFE MANCHESTERUNITEDLYFE 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I fell in love with him........ But he has a gf</3 and In really happy for them tho
    arodposey98 arodposey98 13-15, F Mar 26

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I met someone online before and fell in love with him. But we decided a year later it would never work. I don't talk to him anymore and I miss him a lot but I know this is the way...
    thatgirlem thatgirlem 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    I fell, in love with him through a friend. We both kinda knew that we were meant to be. God just have him to me. I'm happily engaged and I love him so much. <3
    Darkflowers Darkflowers 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 30