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I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    It was my second year of varsity,

    and I had committed myself to my studies and eventually making it into med school.Until he came along.An adorable curly boy wonder who would turn my mind and my world upside down.Before I met him, if you told me about "soul mates" and "the one" I would have scoffed in your faces...
    Tshifi Tshifi 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    We met four years ago

    and he had just started dating my best friend at the time. We hit it off over both of us liking our coffee light and sweet with French vanilla. I told him that night that if he ever hurt her, I would kill him. As the months went on we got really close. I could talk to him about...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F Jun 17, 2014

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    Pssst

    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    How We Met

    I met him last year in French class our teacher was gone for a while and we had a sub so she assigned a project that we had to do on France and the daffy it was due me and him forgot but we were still strangers at this he was playing with his tongue piercing I was bored when he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I understand that I will face scorn

    and disgust if I were to confront it. I am scared, worried. I cut my hair short and kept it jaw length, but straight and boyish, I wore jackets, trousers, anything to hide my not-much figure. It is an urge, to act like...we are some sort of 'couple' since we are both females. I...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    My Friend At School

    His name is cole and were best friends, however i also love him and want to date him. He likes me more then friends to but we both dont want our relationship to develop to fast so were gonna wait until high school or grade 8
    ShelbyH2001 ShelbyH2001 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    "Slowly" My best friend Austin has been one of

    my biggest supporters ever since met. We bonded right off the bat with our love for the same music, our passions in what we love to do, and our mutual respect for our differences. But at the time he and I became pals, I was dating Chris so of course, I focused on my boyfriend...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    Me and this girl have been best friends for about 3 years now. I can even remember the exact day I started to like her. It was at our freshman year homecoming dance, and she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress she wore and her hair curled perfectly. But of course, looks isn...
    redsox44fan redsox44fan 16-17 11 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I didn't want to fall in love with him!

    But every time we would talk it was like he wanted me to... I tried so hard not to but I just couldn't help myself, with his blue eyes and red hair... He was the only thing I could think about.... He was consuming my life!! I felt that if I was going to love him he should know...
    Charg96 Charg96 18-21, F Feb 20

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    I fell in love with my gay best friend.

    We met at work and became very close because of some common friends. He was the guy who makes me laugh and was always there for me. The teasing from officemates intensified as days went by. He just went with it and sending me mixed signals making everything worse. I finally fell...
    ste327 ste327 22-25, F Feb 21

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    I think he feels the same way

    but we both dance around the issue.. Fear is a terrible thing!
    VanTraveller VanTraveller 51-55, F Feb 20

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    I didn't ask for it. Who does?

    I'm a pretty guarded person. I decided to let you in. You're an amazing friend. I wouldn't trade you for the world. I enjoy your company; you makes me laugh; your presence makes me smile; you're always there when I need you; you break me out of my shell. Then months later, I...
    MyWorldMyMind MyWorldMyMind 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

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    Fallen Love, Forgotten Life I swore to myself

    that I'd never love you. You shouldn't fall in love with your best friend. But that's not the kind of love I fell into. I miss never talking, but just walking, and hugging. I miss that night we spent outside in your yard till 2 am. I miss the night you kissed me goodnight..that...
    smile44me smile44me 16-17, F Feb 18

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    Fell and falling in deeper.

    I recently discovered an interest in my best friend and the flame for him is growing larger and brighter by the day. We met during the 8th grade and he had moved away before Freshman year but he would come up often for prolonged visits and we would just chill. It was until after...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I never thought I could feel this way about

    anyone... It's crazy. How it all went down is what kind of breaks my heart. We'd flirt all the time, stay up late texting, make flirty/sexual jokes and even talk about how we should date a few times. But, when I finally came out and fully admitted how I feel, he pushed me away...
    skinnylittlebitch2 skinnylittlebitch2 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Not my best friend, but a very close friend I

    tell her everything she's the only one who knows about me self harming and things. She doesn't hang around with me at school but she used to now she has others friends. I'm at a friends birthday party (movie night) we are watching a movie I'm not that interested in it I can't...
    JustTilly JustTilly 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    We met online and quickly became rl besties.

    He didn't tell me he had a gf until after I fell for him. I enjoy his company very much, but it hurts to hang out at the same time.
    kagekoneko kagekoneko 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I fell inlove with him His smile

    and everything. I told him that i like him and he told me "i love you as my bestfriend" but what makes me crazy is the way he treats me. And also sometimes he gets so jealous when i am hanging out with other boys. I dont understand him 😔 not a bit
    goldreyowl goldreyowl 16-17, F Feb 15

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    I fell in love with my best friend

    as well, she knows how I feel but it will never work, getting passed her is the hardest thing but it will be best for the both of us.
    KarmaMuch KarmaMuch 18-21, M Feb 18

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    The most memorable people in life will be the

    friends who loved you when you weren't very loveable xx
    Magdawoo Magdawoo 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii 18-21 24 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    You got scared. I know you.

    I know you're scared. When you get scared you run because you don't want to get hurt again. I'm the same way. Sorry back to my story. Our story. Maybe because I was on night shift. Maybe it was because I washed laundry for a living. Maybe because I had my license but no wheels...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    :( I have started to develop feelings

    for my best friend in the beginning of December.. We have been such close friends for around 6 months... Anyway, when I developed feelings, I thought that I was going crazy! I mean, I've never had feelings for a girl but there was something about her... that made me care deeply...
    whateverlife12 whateverlife12 16-17, F Jan 30

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    I mean even tho he is older

    than me I just I have a connection with him lol I wanna be where he is and cuddle and play footsie etc. I just can't believe I met someone so great lol ❤️😍💋😘👌😉😏💍💕
    crazywolf5683 crazywolf5683 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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    Well, there are some things I can't say here,

    due to the fact that it would give some people my name or the name of my friend, but this is what happened. First of all, I'm an oddity at my high school, I spend a majority of my time reading and writing research notations, or emailing, calling, and texting people...
    Alvinus Alvinus 16-17, M Jan 7

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    I post under this title a lot

    because it's been one of the most insane, fast paced, wonderful, breathtaking experiences of my life. My best friend/boyfriend and I have only been together for a month and a half but we're more in love than I ever thought possible. It might be because we've been friends for so...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I fell in love with my best friend about 3

    years ago. We've been together for 2 years on Jan. 1. But right now we are on a break. I'm terrified that this is it for us. Even though we had so many plans for the future. I honestly wanted to marry this girl. She is my whole world. We are so close she knows every thing about...
    christin13 christin13 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I met my bf and best friend 5 years ago

    and I didn't know I loved him we're now planning our wedding ain't that crazy
    tequila16 tequila16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    First we were strangers,

    then became friends.. Got closer and closer , then I realized that I've developed feelings .. He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy .. :) couple days later , he tells me he likes me too. I told him a dark secret of mine , and he responds " I won't ever leave U and stick by...
    ASA15 ASA15 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 5 Responses May 13, 2013

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was,

    at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I missed you. I missed my family. I knew I messed up somewhere and with what seemed like my last days I thought, "where did I mess up?" Their...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    I fell in love with my friend on Facebook,

    We became friends on November 26,2013 As time passed our friendship turned into LOVE The sad part of this story is that he lives in Cuba, his name is Juan Daniel ,We talk on the phone when possible,I travel to Cuba whenever i can take off from work. We love each other very much...
    rosielovesjuandaniel rosielovesjuandaniel 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    My freshman year of high school I met this

    really cool girl in my theater class and we became best friends. She had silver hair, piercings, and always winged her eyeliner really big, which were all qualities I admired. To me, she was the coolest and most interesting person I had ever met. She opened me up to more things...
    nighttimemytime nighttimemytime 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I fell deeply in love with my best friend.

    I told her & she said she also liked me but I liked her more then she liked me. I gave up on her because she started talking to another guy & she changed 😞
    MyGfIsSoCute MyGfIsSoCute 13-15, M Feb 18

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    I Think I Love Him (:

    HI! :D I have a friend. Let's just call him...Spongebob. :) So, me and Spongebob were friends for about two years now. But this past year, I feel that him and me just have a lot more fun and we connected a lot more lately and blahblahblah! :) But lately, i've been thinking...
    Plink0 Plink0 13-15, F 14 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I'm currently in love with my best friend.

    He's been super close to me since sixth grade, and we've just clicked. Recently, over the past summer, we got really intimate, and we ended up exploring and experimenting with each other. He broke things off physically and dated a girl for two weeks; things didn't work out and...
    TalkingKat TalkingKat 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It Happened So Fast!

    I was in college for the first time, orientation weekend. There she was, 5' 4" and an upperclassman. She was in her third year of college and hot hot hot. I was new and only had a few friends. We were introduced on Labor Day Weekend. For several months we laughed, joked, hung out...
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow 41-45, F 11 Responses May 16, 2011

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    LIFE

    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    itsthelittlethings itsthelittlethings 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire 16-18, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other several chances and we both need to fix ourselves and as long as we do that we'll stay together. The one thing my boyfriend has asked me...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    we've been friends for over a year,

    everything was going great , we've had our ups and downs but in the end we always work everything out but then suddenly i dont know where did all our stupid feelings came out of nowhere but that just lasted for 2 weeks and we had to stop because it was pointless we had no future...
    tinna20 tinna20 18-21, F Jan 7

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    When I was 13, I fell in love with my best

    friend, Joshua...its been almost four years now and i still have the same feelings for him. It peculiar, how we met...he stepped on my toe during an after-school daycare I attended because my parents worked till late...I hated him, and he hated me. For the next year, we bothered...
    liz1999 liz1999 31-35 Jan 2

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    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I'd be at work and I'd get dizzy.

    I began throwing up driving down the road. I couldn't think straight. I was told that sometimes I'd go into work and I'd be yellow. I was afraid to tell you. I'd go to the doctors and the tests would come back clean. I thought I was going crazy. My muscles felt like their was...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses