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I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    I fell in love with my best friend

    as well, she knows how I feel but it will never work, getting passed her is the hardest thing but it will be best for the both of us.
    KarmaMuch KarmaMuch 18-21, M Feb 18

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    I post under this title a lot

    because it's been one of the most insane, fast paced, wonderful, breathtaking experiences of my life. My best friend/boyfriend and I have only been together for a month and a half but we're more in love than I ever thought possible. It might be because we've been friends for so...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    I think he feels the same way

    but we both dance around the issue.. Fear is a terrible thing!
    VanTraveller VanTraveller 51-55, F Feb 20

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    Homophobes Beware

    How old was I? Eleven? Twelve I think. He - two years older than I was likely fourteen. He was spending the night. He is like no one else I have ever known. Like a puppy dog at times, with boundless energy, even before he started drinking coffee. He has a sweet openness - a...
    theologian theologian 18-21, M 6 Responses May 18, 2011

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    I never thought I could feel this way about

    anyone... It's crazy. How it all went down is what kind of breaks my heart. We'd flirt all the time, stay up late texting, make flirty/sexual jokes and even talk about how we should date a few times. But, when I finally came out and fully admitted how I feel, he pushed me away...
    skinnylittlebitch2 skinnylittlebitch2 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I was cuddling with my boyfriend tonight

    and he said "I love you so much. Thank you for making me feel wanted and needed, you are the only one who makes me feel that" his parents love him but his older brother is not as much of a sensitive guy as he is and his parents I guess assume he is like his brother when he isn't...
    soccer4life777 soccer4life777 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I too fell in love with my best friend.

    I'm 17 and she's 13. I know everybody thinks age is a difference but with us it isn't. i've been friends with her for maybe eight months. I don't think I realized I was in love with her till I broke up with my girlfriend in February. One night we were having a movie night. And...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F a week ago

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    How We Met

    I met him last year in French class our teacher was gone for a while and we had a sub so she assigned a project that we had to do on France and the daffy it was due me and him forgot but we were still strangers at this he was playing with his tongue piercing I was bored when he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    "Slowly" My best friend Austin has been one of

    my biggest supporters ever since met. We bonded right off the bat with our love for the same music, our passions in what we love to do, and our mutual respect for our differences. But at the time he and I became pals, I was dating Chris so of course, I focused on my boyfriend...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    I edited this a little bit,

    I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in love with my best friend who was a girl. (Thats when i found out i was bi) I could talk to her about anything, no secret was...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    I met my bf and best friend 5 years ago

    and I didn't know I loved him we're now planning our wedding ain't that crazy
    tequila16 tequila16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    my biggest mistake ever.

    falling in love for that stupid person.
    SabiDarrio SabiDarrio 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I didn't ask for it. Who does?

    I'm a pretty guarded person. I decided to let you in. You're an amazing friend. I wouldn't trade you for the world. I enjoy your company; you makes me laugh; your presence makes me smile; you're always there when I need you; you break me out of my shell. Then months later, I...
    MyWorldMyMind MyWorldMyMind 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

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    We were 13 when we first met;

    and although I thought that I didn't love him then, I realize now that all those moments of thinking, "Oh, he'd love this", or times that I saw something and wished he was there... those were moments of love. And now he is with my best friend, and they're in love, and I'll never...
    EmmaWhite101 EmmaWhite101 18-21, F Jan 25

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    We met online and quickly became rl besties.

    He didn't tell me he had a gf until after I fell for him. I enjoy his company very much, but it hurts to hang out at the same time.
    kagekoneko kagekoneko 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    LIFE

    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    itsthelittlethings itsthelittlethings 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    We met four years ago

    and he had just started dating my best friend at the time. We hit it off over both of us liking our coffee light and sweet with French vanilla. I told him that night that if he ever hurt her, I would kill him. As the months went on we got really close. I could talk to him about...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F Jun 17, 2014

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    I Think I Love Him (:

    HI! :D I have a friend. Let's just call him...Spongebob. :) So, me and Spongebob were friends for about two years now. But this past year, I feel that him and me just have a lot more fun and we connected a lot more lately and blahblahblah! :) But lately, i've been thinking...
    Plink0 Plink0 13-15, F 14 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Fallen Love, Forgotten Life I swore to myself

    that I'd never love you. You shouldn't fall in love with your best friend. But that's not the kind of love I fell into. I miss never talking, but just walking, and hugging. I miss that night we spent outside in your yard till 2 am. I miss the night you kissed me goodnight..that...
    smile44me smile44me 16-17, F Feb 18

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    I didn't want to fall in love with him!

    But every time we would talk it was like he wanted me to... I tried so hard not to but I just couldn't help myself, with his blue eyes and red hair... He was the only thing I could think about.... He was consuming my life!! I felt that if I was going to love him he should know...
    Charg96 Charg96 18-21, F Feb 20

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    My Friend At School

    His name is cole and were best friends, however i also love him and want to date him. He likes me more then friends to but we both dont want our relationship to develop to fast so were gonna wait until high school or grade 8
    ShelbyH2001 ShelbyH2001 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow 41-45, F 11 Responses May 16, 2011

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    My best friend has been my boyfriend

    for the past 3 years. He is the sweetest person ever. I have an incurable illness, and so when we first started going out, he made up this story about how I'm a fallen angel, and I lost my wings, and that he'll try to find them for me, and when he does, I'll be cured. He's the...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Question! if you secretly fell in love with

    your best friend would you stay best friends and if so, why?
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F Feb 25

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    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was,

    at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I missed you. I missed my family. I knew I messed up somewhere and with what seemed like my last days I thought, "where did I mess up?" Their...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    :( I have started to develop feelings

    for my best friend in the beginning of December.. We have been such close friends for around 6 months... Anyway, when I developed feelings, I thought that I was going crazy! I mean, I've never had feelings for a girl but there was something about her... that made me care deeply...
    whateverlife12 whateverlife12 16-17, F Jan 30

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    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F Jan 14

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    It was easier to communicate

    when we were dating. Now, not so much. She always has a problem with me. Well it seems that way.
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F Apr 2

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    My best friend and I met on Facebook last year

    in September. I saw her as one of my suggested friends, so I added her and after I did that I messaged her. I just told her how I thought she was pretty and I'm in search of a new best friend. We went on to talking every single day not missing a beat, she would message me every...
    honestdezzy honestdezzy 22-25, F Apr 7

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    The most memorable people in life will be the

    friends who loved you when you weren't very loveable xx
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I fell deeply in love with my best friend.

    I told her & she said she also liked me but I liked her more then she liked me. I gave up on her because she started talking to another guy & she changed 😞
    MyGfIsSoCute MyGfIsSoCute 13-15, M Feb 18

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    I'd be at work and I'd get dizzy.

    I began throwing up driving down the road. I couldn't think straight. I was told that sometimes I'd go into work and I'd be yellow. I was afraid to tell you. I'd go to the doctors and the tests would come back clean. I thought I was going crazy. My muscles felt like their was...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    I fell inlove with him His smile

    and everything. I told him that i like him and he told me "i love you as my bestfriend" but what makes me crazy is the way he treats me. And also sometimes he gets so jealous when i am hanging out with other boys. I dont understand him 😔 not a bit
    goldreyowl goldreyowl 16-17, F Feb 15

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    You got scared. I know you.

    I know you're scared. When you get scared you run because you don't want to get hurt again. I'm the same way. Sorry back to my story. Our story. Maybe because I was on night shift. Maybe it was because I washed laundry for a living. Maybe because I had my license but no wheels...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Pssst

    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 5 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii 18-21 24 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    First we were strangers,

    then became friends.. Got closer and closer , then I realized that I've developed feelings .. He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy .. :) couple days later , he tells me he likes me too. I told him a dark secret of mine , and he responds " I won't ever leave U and stick by...
    ASA15 ASA15 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    When I was living far away from home in a place

    I hated, and felt entirely isolated, I became good friends with someone whom I felt just "got" me. I didn't have to explain, she just understood. I don't know if it was because I was lonely and she was there, and gave me the time and attention I needed, or if I really did fall...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    All the fuel is there

    for an amazing fire yet I guard it against all sparks. I leave it up to her to set our world a blaze I've been burned once to many times by my own feelings.
    CaptPetemoss CaptPetemoss 46-50, M Feb 25

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other several chances and we both need to fix ourselves and as long as we do that we'll stay together. The one thing my boyfriend has asked me...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I fell in love with my best friend.

    Just the other day we had a talk about how we were both questioning our sexuality. It took a lot for me not to just kiss her dight then and there. I just told her that I almost asked yo kiss her during that conversation and she said she was surprised, but she didn't feel the...