I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii
    26 Responses Jul 21, 2008

    Well I havent fallen in love yet

    but Ive known her for almost half of my life. 18 years is a long time to have a friend of the opposite sex. Weve talked about being together on a few occasions but right now is our opportunity. Were both single and weve been throwing the idea around. Weve even tried to kiss but...
    Heyyou76 Heyyou76
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    He loves me back!! This is quite possibly the

    first relationship I'm giving my all to. I don't remember most of the other ones.
    MrPoolofsouls MrPoolofsouls
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992
    22-25, F
    Jan 14, 2015

    I think I probably have one of the worst

    experience with this. I fell in love with my best friend. I am a girl and she is a girl. We met when I was going through a break up. I was just out of the hospital after attempting suicide and I was still inclined to end my life. A few weeks after, she popped up and said hi...
    Zodane Zodane
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    This is how our relationship goes πŸ˜‚ We still

    got that bit of the best friend stage :3 not the couple that always talks about life, problems, and other serious stuff like we're strangers paired up to love eachother
    Arietis3302 Arietis3302
    13-15, F
    Feb 3, 2016

    Have you ever fallen in love with your best

    friend ?if so, what did you do and how did it go.
    Cielooo Cielooo
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    Way far back in time I had a crush on my friend.

    ...but she was straight as a board. She doesn't really talk to me anymore and she's got a guy now.
    blackcat4656 blackcat4656
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I started work at a shop a year

    and a half ago, and quickly became close with a girl the same age as me.. We grew closer and we flirted non stop. Eventually We fell in love on the beach, there were fireworks, we drank rosΓ© and listened to Lana del rey. I fell for her in every single way possible, she was...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    Im 26 now. We met when i was 13,

    In highschool. We were best friends but there was always a mutual attraction. I was a wimp back then who never made a move simply because i didnt know how. Fast forward to our college years, still best of friends and thick as thieves. We laugh and share each other's company...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 7, 2016

    she was my world, we met in 2nd grade were best

    friends ever sense. she came out as gay in high school I was already openly pansexual and I knew she wasn't straight we had always been on the more touchy feely side with eachother I wasn't like that with anyone of never that comfortable. one day we were laying together on my...
    Alexismarie9314 Alexismarie9314
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    I had confessed to my best friend

    before during high school and I had been rejected. Before we both went off to college, we decided to have one last fun day. We went to the aquarium and ate sushi and had a lot of fun. It's night time and we are sitting on his front porch just talking and hugging since we were...
    Allie543 Allie543
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    I've known my best friend,

    I guess I could call her Amber, from ever since kindergarten. She has been more than a best friend to me always, we've been like soul mates: I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. Sadly, the last few years have been a slight down in our friendship: she...
    sunflowerheaven sunflowerheaven
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    It was a disaster when I first met him.

    He was the first guy to let my tears fall during our first days in second year high school.who would think that from treating him as ENEMY, he became my BEST FRIEND when we turned fourth year students. Most of our classmates witnessed how we've been very close that it came...
    maianne maianne
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2015

    We were friends at first,

    then we became best friends. The line between friendship and romance blurred and we didn't even realize it. He gave me back my smile and I gave him back his. I didn't realize I was missing anything until he found me.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 15, 2016
    ILavIt ILavIt
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2014

    The void I felt as I fell apart was,

    at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I missed you. I missed my family. I knew I messed up somewhere and with what seemed like my last days I thought, "where did I mess up?" Their...
    justderek justderek
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

    Homophobes Beware

    How old was I? Eleven? Twelve I think. He - two years older than I was likely fourteen. He was spending the night. He is like no one else I have ever known. Like a puppy dog at times, with boundless energy, even before he started drinking coffee. He has a sweet openness - a...
    theologian theologian
    18-21, M
    4 Responses May 18, 2011


    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    itsthelittlethings itsthelittlethings
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    Me and this girl have been best friends for about 3 years now. I can even remember the exact day I started to like her. It was at our freshman year homecoming dance, and she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress she wore and her hair curled perfectly. But of course, looks isn...
    redsox44fan redsox44fan
    11 Responses Jun 1, 2009
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    So about 9 months ago I started a new job

    and quickly made friends with another guy who I worked with. I'm a 26yo guy. We share a car to and from work every day and work on the same department and so naturally got to know each other really well. We quickly became good friends and started spending lots of time together...
    confusedlad26 confusedlad26
    26-30, M
    Feb 27, 2016

    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 13, 2013

    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

    I am absolutely in love with my best friend.

    She is this amazing and beautiful woman who is so strong and smart. She makes me feel like I could conquer the world but if I didn't feel like it that day she would let me stay in bed snuggled up next to her under the covers. The thing is though I have loved her for a little bit...
    toastymarshmallow toastymarshmallow
    Jan 22, 2016

    We met four years ago

    and he had just started dating my best friend at the time. We hit it off over both of us liking our coffee light and sweet with French vanilla. I told him that night that if he ever hurt her, I would kill him. As the months went on we got really close. I could talk to him about...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise
    22-25, F
    Jun 17, 2014

    Well, here goes nothing.

    ...... I am married with 3 beautiful children to a wonderful, accepting, and caring man....... but there is a catch..... I have been best friends with a female for 11 years, she knows me better than I know myself, and I'm in love with her. I've expressed how I feel probably way...
    mrsinlovewithmiss mrsinlovewithmiss
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    -When you try to prove someone

    who loves you for who you are, wrong ;-;
    Arietis3302 Arietis3302
    13-15, F
    Feb 2, 2016
    sydneyallison17 sydneyallison17
    18-21, F
    Jan 24, 2016

    And we are getting married!

    Today we went to price out his and his groomsman ' suits. It made it feel more real. I couldn't be more happier! He is my other half. I couldn't imagine not marrying him:)
    xxyoungxx17 xxyoungxx17
    22-25, F
    Apr 14, 2016

    We've been friends and secretly in love

    since high school. After 20 years we talked about our feelings that never changed. Problem is we are both married w/kids now. Love hurts 😒.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 18, 2016

    You got scared. I know you.

    I know you're scared. When you get scared you run because you don't want to get hurt again. I'm the same way. Sorry back to my story. Our story. Maybe because I was on night shift. Maybe it was because I washed laundry for a living. Maybe because I had my license but no wheels...
    justderek justderek
    26-30, M
    16 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    The Feeling Was Always Mutual, But Something Unknown Always Stopped Us.

    When I first looked upon her she was sitting on her own huddled on a low bench with her face in a book, she was quite and withdrawn and it was evident to me that she had gone through some form of trauma. People said she was strange but I thought she was an evil angel waiting to...
    LordNothing LordNothing
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    I fell in love with my friend on Facebook,

    We became friends on November 26,2013 As time passed our friendship turned into LOVE The sad part of this story is that he lives in Cuba, his name is Juan Daniel ,We talk on the phone when possible,I travel to Cuba whenever i can take off from work. We love each other very much...
    rosielovesjuandaniel rosielovesjuandaniel
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    Ruined A Perfectly Good Friendship - Live And Learn

    Knew this girl when I was in my early 20's (we met when I was 20 she 18). We went out about a half a dozen times over three-ish years. We talked on the phone periodically about life, work, family nonsense, etc. Gradually we built up our talk frequency to about three or four...
    oobiedoobie oobiedoobie
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2013

    I moved schools a few years ago,

    and while waiting in the library to sign myself up, I saw a person walk by the library windows and I just couldn't take my eyes off of her. Her style, I think, caught my eye most. She was wearing a red plaid skirt and a jacket. I didnt see yoo much else, but she really stood out...
    JWW51190 JWW51190
    22-25, M
    Jan 7, 2016

    I'm currently in a relationship with him

    and it's the best thing ever. ❀️❀️ make sure you find the right one
    miarosas miarosas
    16-17, F
    Dec 5, 2015

    It Happened So Fast!

    I was in college for the first time, orientation weekend. There she was, 5' 4" and an upperclassman. She was in her third year of college and hot hot hot. I was new and only had a few friends. We were introduced on Labor Day Weekend. For several months we laughed, joked, hung out...
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    I Think I Love Him (:

    HI! :D I have a friend. Let's just call him...Spongebob. :) So, me and Spongebob were friends for about two years now. But this past year, I feel that him and me just have a lot more fun and we connected a lot more lately and blahblahblah! :) But lately, i've been thinking...
    Plink0 Plink0
    13-15, F
    14 Responses Jan 23, 2013

    Teenage Love Affair

    My story starts back when I was only 13 years old. My mother, a year after having a nervous breakdown, decided she didn't want to be with my father anymore...so she packed her bags and moved my 2 older brothers and her to another state. I was devestated. It was just me and ...
    Wisdomess Wisdomess
    9 Responses May 15, 2010

    There was a day when i met a boy

    and we quickly became friends. He was so different than any other boy i've met. 4 months after we became friends he told me that he has a crush on me and i was pretty confused, i wasn't sure if i feel the same way to him. But we just kept being friends normally, but after 3...
    Imscaredofme Imscaredofme
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    It only took a day to fall in love with you.

    Actually it took much less. I fell for you in an instant. The moment came and passed but the feeling I felt when I fell for you remains and will remain forever. Your heart, so full of love and compassion. Loving me me with all your heart making mine beat faster and faster and...
    HerTrueKing HerTrueKing
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    And it was the worst experience of my life.

    I had this friend who I had known on and off for a few years now. We had been hanging out more often lately and I started realizing I was falling for him. Hard. One day in May, while hanging out with another friend of ours, he kissed me. I was confused, but I didn't let that...
    unknownlittleme unknownlittleme
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2016

    He was there when times were rough.

    We hit it off. We dated for a short period of time. And I fell even harder for him. Then one day he decided he just wanted to be friends because he valued our friendship so much more and the relationship would have ruined it all. I still love him and it's so hard to just be...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    So in case some ppl were wondering me And my

    best friend or should I say ex best friend are now just friends but I feel like he doesn't want to be friends. Me and another friend feel like he's gay but he's too afraid to be his true self so he has to hide his true self. Idk why some ppl are sooooooo fake af. So now I'm...
    ThatWeirdGayKid ThatWeirdGayKid
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 21, 2016

    The Depressing part is.

    this best friend and i will never meet its an online friendship :/
    KieranF KieranF
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2016

    Question! if you secretly fell in love with

    your best friend would you stay best friends and if so, why?
    Nannyxd Nannyxd
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    When I was living far away from home in a place

    I hated, and felt entirely isolated, I became good friends with someone whom I felt just "got" me. I didn't have to explain, she just understood. I don't know if it was because I was lonely and she was there, and gave me the time and attention I needed, or if I really did fall...
    notthis78 notthis78
    36-40, F
    Apr 5, 2015

    I met a girl in middle school,

    and she was the only person who I could really trust. We grew really close, and I actually thought we were dating for a little while when I reached freshman year and she reached eighth grade.. But.. The reason I say, "I thought" Is because she's always telling me how afraid she...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat
    16-17, T
    Apr 22, 2015

    My best friend has been my boyfriend

    for the past 3 years. He is the sweetest person ever. I have an incurable illness, and so when we first started going out, he made up this story about how I'm a fallen angel, and I lost my wings, and that he'll try to find them for me, and when he does, I'll be cured. He's the...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2015

    When I was about 10, I met this guy who's

    around my age. years have passed, I still can't believe that this guy is my best friend. We have the same likes, we go to the same school and our parents are also best friends. We adventure together, we do crazy stuff together, we even sleep together. We don't care about what...
    stracrossedvagabond stracrossedvagabond
    22-25, F
    Apr 9, 2016


    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    DreamChariot DreamChariot
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2012

    I mean even tho he is older

    than me I just I have a connection with him lol I wanna be where he is and cuddle and play footsie etc. I just can't believe I met someone so great lol β€οΈπŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ˜˜πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜‰πŸ˜πŸ’πŸ’•
    crazywolf5683 crazywolf5683
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2012
    whatonmars whatonmars
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    But I can't be friends with somebody I truly

    love. It hurts too much. I drift away, fade into the darkness, fade into the mists of her mind, become a vague memory, and then all at once she never hears from me again. I never call her, when she call me I'm "to busy to talk". I'd rather be apart from her and content, then be...
    thetamedbeast thetamedbeast
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2016

    I'm 17 years old and I struggle with anxiet,

    although to my friends I appear confident, I hide my true feelings with 'great banter'. I digress, when I joined sixth form I made a new group of friends, one of them being the girl I fell in love with. She was everything I had ever wanted in my life but I'm the type of Person...
    Jaffaj Jaffaj
    18-21, M
    Apr 18, 2016

    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow
    41-45, F
    10 Responses May 16, 2011

    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in

    years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends. Now, I became friends with him in 9th grade and we are now in 11th. I've told this boy things that I haven't told my best friends of eight...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2016
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