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I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    I edited this a little bit,

    I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in love with my best friend who was a girl. (Thats when i found out i was bi) I could talk to her about anything, no secret was...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    His name is Andrew. He's not the best looking

    guy out there, but I've known him for 10 years so far. I realized that I loved him over summer (June of 2014, this year) I would sneak out and go to his house from midnight to five in the morning. We had done that for a few weeks and one day we were all messing around talking...
    AutumnKitty AutumnKitty 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    So me and this guy used to be best friends in

    elementary school, we'd always hang out during recess and he was just a great guy. But then middle school came along and we went our separate ways, we've never seen each other ever since. But about a few months ago, he was riding his bike as I was walking down the street. He...
    annakaz annakaz 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    And It Ruined Everything!!!

    Most people know that the majority of my friends are male but what you don't know is one of the men that I have such emotions for and that I write about most often was my best friend before we were lovers.  We had a great relationship as friends and to this day I still kick...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Ruined A Perfectly Good Friendship - Live And Learn

    Knew this girl when I was in my early 20's (we met when I was 20 she 18). We went out about a half a dozen times over three-ish years. We talked on the phone periodically about life, work, family nonsense, etc. Gradually we built up our talk frequency to about three or four...
    oobiedoobie oobiedoobie 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    You got scared. I know you.

    I know you're scared. When you get scared you run because you don't want to get hurt again. I'm the same way. Sorry back to my story. Our story. Maybe because I was on night shift. Maybe it was because I washed laundry for a living. Maybe because I had my license but no wheels...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 17 Responses Jun 29

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    Sometimes I feel like cupid.

    Capable of making two people fall in love with each other but not able to make someone fall in love me. Everyday I ask myself, is true love worth the wait? Because I've been waiting for so long, I've loved too many people but failed. They say true love hurts. Everything hurts...
    ImWithJesus ImWithJesus 22-25, F Jul 28

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii 18-21 24 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    I mean even tho he is older

    than me I just I have a connection with him lol I wanna be where he is and cuddle and play footsie etc. I just can't believe I met someone so great lol β€οΈπŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ˜˜πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜‰πŸ˜πŸ’πŸ’•
    crazywolf5683 crazywolf5683 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my

    good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with since we were like toddlers, basically my whole life. 4 years ago he moved about 400 miles away with his mom. We kept in touch and remained friends...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'd be at work and I'd get dizzy.

    I began throwing up driving down the road. I couldn't think straight. I was told that sometimes I'd go into work and I'd be yellow. I was afraid to tell you. I'd go to the doctors and the tests would come back clean. I thought I was going crazy. My muscles felt like their was...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Unanswered Prayers

    I fell in love with her the second I saw her. She was tall, lanky, pale, with cropped dark hair and a contagious smile. She worked at the bookstore I frequented daily on my breaks at work. Our first conversation was about a book I pretended I needed as a gift. It was all just so...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    BrooklynBall BrooklynBall 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I guess it was during the party

    when I fell in love with Alice. She was my best friend since Kindergarten, so I never really had a crush on her. But last week, a friend invited our entire high school choir class to come and have an awesome party. There were lots of great foods and games. Finally, we decided to...
    cosmicdragon cosmicdragon 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He is exactly like I would like to be.

    He is taller and he has something in his eyes and in his brain that I don’t have. I believe that he is handsome and well mannered, that is very charming and charismatic. We have been known each other for almost 10 years now. We both have a girl-friend and we do similar lives...
    nereo nereo 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    Me and this girl have been best friends for about 3 years now. I can even remember the exact day I started to like her. It was at our freshman year homecoming dance, and she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress she wore and her hair curled perfectly. But of course, looks isn...
    redsox44fan redsox44fan 16-17 11 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire 16-18, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    I met a guy at work and we started talking

    about common interests, some time passed when we stopped talking, however, after some time passed we started talking and hanging out. I found myself confiding in him and telling him things that I never tell anyone, and before I knew it, I fell in love with someone that became my...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F Aug 20

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    She's the most amazing girl I've met

    so far, and I tell her that every day. But the thing is, she's taken by a sad excuse of a boyfriend. He treats her like crap, yet, she lets him. It kills me to see her with him. This is..herπŸ’•
    KalEl06 KalEl06 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    So.. I went out with this boy a few years back.

    We argued all the time and it resulted in him breaking up with me.. I was broken and had already had a previous experience of depression... His best mate, James, called me, I had never spoken to him before however he insured me he was there for me and he helped me through it. A...
    H0pe123 H0pe123 13-15, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Pssst

    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    First post. Hmm. Well,

    when I was young I had a friend from England. She stayed in... where I am... for 2 years and then went back for 2 years. When she returned as soon as I saw her I realised feelings had changed (for me) from tight friends to more adult(?) feelings. Being the shy guy that I am I...
    Punterer Punterer 16-17, M Aug 29

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    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Yep. A girl two grades below me in highschool.

    We were best pals for like a year but I screwed everything up with I said I wanted to date her. We got into several arguments and now we haven't talked in over a year... Crap.
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I Think I Love Him (:

    HI! :D I have a friend. Let's just call him...Spongebob. :) So, me and Spongebob were friends for about two years now. But this past year, I feel that him and me just have a lot more fun and we connected a lot more lately and blahblahblah! :) But lately, i've been thinking...
    Plink0 Plink0 13-15, F 14 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I'm in love with my best friend what should I

    do we are the best of friends and I don't know what to do !?
    AaronDelaluz AaronDelaluz 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 2

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    It Happened So Fast!

    I was in college for the first time, orientation weekend. There she was, 5' 4" and an upperclassman. She was in her third year of college and hot hot hot. I was new and only had a few friends. We were introduced on Labor Day Weekend. For several months we laughed, joked, hung out...
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    So basically met him in 5 th grade liked him

    for 2 years noticed in grade 6 and he liked one of my bestfriends and she didn't like him she hated that he liked her because apparently he should like me.?? But idk and everyone wants us together anyway! In grade 6 he noticed he liked me but then he didn't apparently? And Then...
    Hornyashell78 Hornyashell78 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 4 Responses May 13, 2013

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    I didn't ask for it. Who does?

    I'm a pretty guarded person. I decided to let you in. You're an amazing friend. I wouldn't trade you for the world. I enjoy your company; you makes me laugh; your presence makes me smile; you're always there when I need you; you break me out of my shell. Then months later, I...
    MyWorldMyMind MyWorldMyMind 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    We met four years ago

    and he had just started dating my best friend at the time. We hit it off over both of us liking our coffee light and sweet with French vanilla. I told him that night that if he ever hurt her, I would kill him. As the months went on we got really close. I could talk to him about...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F Jun 17

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    I had a so called "best friend" named Henry.

    .. Well, as far as I know, "best friends" don't kiss (nose, forehead, cheek) or cuddle... We practically slept in the same bed... (Nothing sexual). At first it was just a little "crush", then after god knows how long I realized I loved him. I was to scared to tell him for the old...
    Elizabethhope Elizabethhope 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I've done this three times in my life.

    But have never acted upon it. I know people say you shouldn't because it alters the basis for your relationship. But it's a strange notion that you might love this person with all your heart. Yet know that if you become bf/gf. That it's possible you might lose a friend too!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    How We Met

    I met him last year in French class our teacher was gone for a while and we had a sub so she assigned a project that we had to do on France and the daffy it was due me and him forgot but we were still strangers at this he was playing with his tongue piercing I was bored when he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I did. Then I moved to another place

    and never got to see him again. :(
    wherehorizonsmeet wherehorizonsmeet 16-17, F Aug 5

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    I've kept this to myself for a while now, and I guess I just need to get it out, you know, before it destroys me. I could turn to a friend or a family member but I just can't conjure the courage. So I guess turning to strangers was the next best thing. P.S. If the girl of my...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Homophobes Beware

    How old was I? Eleven? Twelve I think. He - two years older than I was likely fourteen. He was spending the night. He is like no one else I have ever known. Like a puppy dog at times, with boundless energy, even before he started drinking coffee. He has a sweet openness - a...
    theologian theologian 18-21, M 6 Responses May 18, 2011

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    I was introduced to him years back

    and we always just got along so well. We would talk for hours and hours and help eachother when we were in need. We also had almost everything in common (music, hobbies and personality) one day I felt myself falling for him and I wondered if he felt the same way. Turns out he...
    Unicornwarrior724 Unicornwarrior724 16-17, F Aug 27

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    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow 41-45, F 11 Responses May 16, 2011

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    For story purposes, we'll just call him,

    uh, "my broski" (I only call him that when we text) :3 This is gonna be long, but it'll be good... Once mid-November comes, I will have known my broski for two years. I don't think that you HAVE to know a person for 5 or 10 years to be/have them become your best friend. My...
    SeitheSaiyan SeitheSaiyan 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend zoey

    peppermin (pretty sure that's her last name... Could never say it as a little kid so I don't know...) and I presume the only picture she has (if she hasn't dumped it) is the picture she has of my where she is kissing my cheek and in just standing there like "wut".... But I...
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    This is a long one, but I really need to vent,

    so stick with me, alright? :) When my first girlfriend was using me to replace her sweetheart who killed himself, my best friend was dating her brother (who was an abusive person). Long story short, things with my girlfriend fell apart because my alcohol abuse. I couldn't handle...
    coastin coastin 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was,

    at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I missed you. I missed my family. I knew I messed up somewhere and with what seemed like my last days I thought, "where did I mess up?" Their...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Definition of a best friend; The person you

    can't be mad at for even an hour because you have something important to tell them... Well if that important thing you need to tell her/him is the 3 most powerful words in the whole world, can you still tell her/him that? You know what I mean right? That 3 words are "I Love You...
    vpeigextori vpeigextori 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    .. I feel like my heart is breaking all over

    again.. Today is her birthday... and..I wanted to give her her birthday present.. since i've worked so hard on it... we were a couple for 4 years.. she broke up with me 4 months ago.. and.. now has a new boyfriend.. .... well i went to the store and bought both cat and dog food...
    KittyOlivia KittyOlivia 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Teenage Love Affair

    My story starts back when I was only 13 years old. My mother, a year after having a nervous breakdown, decided she didn't want to be with my father anymore...so she packed her bags and moved my 2 older brothers and her to another state. I was devestated. It was just me and ...
    Wisdomess Wisdomess 22-25 7 Responses May 15, 2010

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    I post under this title a lot

    because it's been one of the most insane, fast paced, wonderful, breathtaking experiences of my life. My best friend/boyfriend and I have only been together for a month and a half but we're more in love than I ever thought possible. It might be because we've been friends for so...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    her name is Ava, we had been friends

    for years. and it'll be 10 months in a matter if days. because she fell in love with me too
    MrFoe MrFoe 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I have fell in love with my best friend.

    He's my world my everything.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 24

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    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham 18-21, F Jul 30

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    LIFE

    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    itsthelittlethings itsthelittlethings 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    My Friend At School

    His name is cole and were best friends, however i also love him and want to date him. He likes me more then friends to but we both dont want our relationship to develop to fast so were gonna wait until high school or grade 8
    ShelbyH2001 ShelbyH2001 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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