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I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    I fell in love with my best friend

    and we've been together for over a year now :)
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Yeah, I did it to myself.

    .. We know each other for three years and were not hanging out that much. But this year we connected a lot, and i just fell in love with all he is. He's pretty popular and talks to me about all girls who like him or how he is texting someone... Thus i realised that he still...
    ami123456 ami123456 18-21, F Feb 16

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    The Feeling Was Always Mutual, But Something Unknown Always Stopped Us.

    When I first looked upon her she was sitting on her own huddled on a low bench with her face in a book, she was quite and withdrawn and it was evident to me that she had gone through some form of trauma. People said she was strange but I thought she was an evil angel waiting to...
    LordNothing LordNothing 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I've been hurt deeply,

    physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred for life by boyfriends in the past, I had given up on life and you brought me back, you made me feel things I never in my wildest dreams ever imagined I'd allow myself to feel ever again, I had taken a vow of protection to myself to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 27

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    My Friend At School

    His name is cole and were best friends, however i also love him and want to date him. He likes me more then friends to but we both dont want our relationship to develop to fast so were gonna wait until high school or grade 8
    ShelbyH2001 ShelbyH2001 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I want to feel your warmth on my lips

    til the sun burns away the blue witching hours. I want to feel you in my arms til all has drifted into unconsciousness were I see your face and only your face until the sun disintegrates the sleep from our eyes. We can gaze into sea greens and profound ice eyes upon waking...
    Xingouttheos Xingouttheos 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    Me and this girl have been best friends for about 3 years now. I can even remember the exact day I started to like her. It was at our freshman year homecoming dance, and she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress she wore and her hair curled perfectly. But of course, looks isn...
    redsox44fan redsox44fan 16-17 11 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I feel in love with my best friend Seeing him

    with his girl kills me inside Can't he see I am the only one that understands him He leaves me out I fell for my best friend knowing he will never love me back:(
    ShortLove1 ShortLove1 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    I've kept this to myself for a while now, and I guess I just need to get it out, you know, before it destroys me. I could turn to a friend or a family member but I just can't conjure the courage. So I guess turning to strangers was the next best thing. P.S. If the girl of my...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Ciny, a Lover....a Friend...a Sister

    watching as the shadows dance across your face, movements so mesmerizing it's as if my thoughts leave my heart without a trace staring deep into those dark brown eyes swimming in the pools of mysteries as the winds of healing blow me forward into the horizon being...
    J3didiah J3didiah 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2007

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    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 4 Responses May 13, 2013

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    She is extrodinarily amazing.

    I love her more than anything, but I would never act on these feelings because I know I can never be more than her closets friend. I have always been there for her and always will be, and if acting on these feelings ruins what we have I could never live with it. So I guess you...
    tristonRy tristonRy 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    And It Ruined Everything!!!

    Most people know that the majority of my friends are male but what you don't know is one of the men that I have such emotions for and that I write about most often was my best friend before we were lovers.  We had a great relationship as friends and to this day I still kick...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    I didn't ask for it. Who does?

    I'm a pretty guarded person. I decided to let you in. You're an amazing friend. I wouldn't trade you for the world. I enjoy your company; you makes me laugh; your presence makes me smile; you're always there when I need you; you break me out of my shell. Then months later, I...
    MyWorldMyMind MyWorldMyMind 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    My Bestfriend

    well this may take awhile so if you don't like to read, and you don't care then please just don't read.. well it all started when we were kids I was always the boy who got into a lot of trouble and was beaten by the ones who were my so called parents and friends, so I did'it...
    mosgar13 mosgar13 18-21, M Oct 13, 2013

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii 18-21 23 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    It Happened So Fast!

    I was in college for the first time, orientation weekend. There she was, 5' 4" and an upperclassman. She was in her third year of college and hot hot hot. I was new and only had a few friends. We were introduced on Labor Day Weekend. For several months we laughed, joked, hung out...
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    An update It was long tme ago

    since I wrote here. I will try to make it short. It will never be anything between us since my now ex guy friend got a girlfriend and that he's a distguisting bastard. I saw him yesterday at the train station and he kissed and hugged her, I saw that he saw me. Did he want me to...
    LolitaHazeAintNothingForYou LolitaHazeAintNothingForYou 18-21, F a week ago

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    LIFE

    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    emmairene13 emmairene13 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow 41-45, F 11 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Fate?

    I met this great guy the summer I went into seventh grade. He was going into eighth, and was friends with a girl I knew from his same grade. She introduced us, and we became friends pretty quickly. We would hang out everyday, with a big group of our other friends. We always...
    xxcindylu2 xxcindylu2 16-17 2 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire 16-18, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    So I told her that I was in love with her (we

    had some drinks, but I told her) and it went way better than expected. ive always found her attractive and sweet and caring and just an all around lovely person. apparently she feels the same back and it made me very happy to hear it. I love her very very much, im scared though...
    ThrillOfTheHunt ThrillOfTheHunt 22-25 1 Response Feb 28

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    Pssst

    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    I Still Love Him

    He was my first friend I ever had. The first day I started school he started and we became friends when he gave me a yellow crayon which is my favourite colour and from there we became inseperable. We were in every single class together,group activities and I mean there was no...
    VaiinChick VaiinChick 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    We're not exactly best friends,

    but we are very good friends. I've liked him since the beginning of the school year. We would flirt with eachother all the time. He did it for fun. I was serious. He is honestly, a stereotypical highschool manwhore. But that never kept me from liking him. He told me that he...
    Kittenfire Kittenfire 16-17, F Apr 12

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    When I was in college,

    I remember one rainy night very well. I had fallen in love with my best friend and something terrible had happened to her, and I told her she could stay in my house until I could send her back to her family. She said she could not stay, and left for her apartment. I was heart...
    DavidMetis DavidMetis 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I Think I Love Him (:

    HI! :D I have a friend. Let's just call him...Spongebob. :) So, me and Spongebob were friends for about two years now. But this past year, I feel that him and me just have a lot more fun and we connected a lot more lately and blahblahblah! :) But lately, i've been thinking...
    Plink0 Plink0 13-15, F 13 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Before joining college I had a breakup with my

    3 years old gf. I joined college hoping I would get over her but my entire first year I have wasted in her thoughts. During summer break I befriended a girl in my class and immediately we became best friends. Once college reopened we went out couple of times for dinner & movies...
    hymnz hymnz 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same

    subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we'd make a good couple—we certainly never got intimate in any way, and I can probably count the number of times we've ever even hugged on the...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Ruined A Perfectly Good Friendship - Live And Learn

    Knew this girl when I was in my early 20's (we met when I was 20 she 18). We went out about a half a dozen times over three-ish years. We talked on the phone periodically about life, work, family nonsense, etc. Gradually we built up our talk frequency to about three or four...
    oobiedoobie oobiedoobie 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I'm in love with my best friend

    and it crushes me when she finds another guy that's not me
    peachicus peachicus 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    ​know i am very young,

    but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning difference so ever since kindergarten we went to this teacher, just us two. well after 12 years of being friends i realized i had...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I fell in love with him.

    ....... But he has a gf</3 and In really happy for them tho
    arodposey98 arodposey98 13-15, F Mar 26

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    *hugs* I don't think I luv LUV Hector -_- He

    knows about this, so I am sure he is letting it all go to his Turd Shaped Head >_
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Mar 8

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    But it's ok she doesn't like me like that

    but I still have a need to protect her if she ever came crying to me saying someone hurt her my advice run and don't stop because I'll be on your ***
    nana33017 nana33017 13-15, F a week ago

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    About 2 months in to my freshman year in high

    school, I met this girl in an extracurricular activity (we'll call her gummy) called Rock band. She looked kinda gothic and had a weird taste in music, she wore her hair in front of her face. But one day I caught a glimpse of her face and saw that she had these huge beautiful...
    FriendzoneEscapee FriendzoneEscapee 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I have recently Fallin in love with my best

    friend. He is everything I could ever ask for. He makes me feel special and perfect. I think I want to spend the rest of my life with him... It's been almost a year now, and I couldn't ask for a better relationship
    xxNoexcuseformexx xxNoexcuseformexx 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I've known him forever,

    but I've never thought I would fall for him. Let's call him bob. Bob used to talk to me everyday, and sending me a hundred texts, and I thought he was irritating, and that he maybe had a little crush on me. Our conversations got fewer and fewer. And I started missing his little...
    JustAnotherHopeless JustAnotherHopeless 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I have known him since the 6th grade

    and currently we are in 11th grade. We did it for about 2 weeks in 6th grade (We didn't kiss or anything. It was just that awkward time period) and I broke it off with him because he would get jealous easily. Later the next year, we became friends again and it was as if we had...
    AccidentlyInLove AccidentlyInLove 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I am a person who believes in keeping promises,

    never lying, and always being there for people when they need me. No matter what. I have a guy "bestfriend" that betrayed all of that. We met at the beginning of the year, and instantly got a long and talked everyday. I started to have feelings for him. He flirted...
    lostinsocietyexpectations lostinsocietyexpectations 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    How We Met

    I met him last year in French class our teacher was gone for a while and we had a sub so she assigned a project that we had to do on France and the daffy it was due me and him forgot but we were still strangers at this he was playing with his tongue piercing I was bored when he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    I fell in love like I fall asleep.

    ..slowly and then all at once... He is the most amazing man I'll ever have the privilege of knowing.
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Koniichiiwa Lovelies-Chans ^_^ Aishiiteimasu

    Sekushiidesune ^_- And that is as far as my extent knowledge for Japanese go for now ^_^ Hey Maignon means 'Cute' in French... Je suis Maignon :{D Mouhahahaha ^_^ Hector: Even in another language you are as narcissistic as always -_-' Me *hugs onto Hector*: Would you want me...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Mar 8

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    I fell in love with my best friend

    but he didn't feel the same way I do. He's into another girl and it hurts me so much. I feel so useless and ugly right now. I don't know what to do
    Glo59 Glo59 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Unanswered Prayers

    I fell in love with her the second I saw her. She was tall, lanky, pale, with cropped dark hair and a contagious smile. She worked at the bookstore I frequented daily on my breaks at work. Our first conversation was about a book I pretended I needed as a gift. It was all just so...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    MannedOrbRex MannedOrbRex 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Teenage Love Affair

    My story starts back when I was only 13 years old. My mother, a year after having a nervous breakdown, decided she didn't want to be with my father anymore...so she packed her bags and moved my 2 older brothers and her to another state. I was devestated. It was just me and ...
    Wisdomess Wisdomess 22-25 5 Responses May 15, 2010

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    So here's how it went,

    I met him over the summer, he had a girl and it broke my heart.. I talked to him as a Bestfriend. Little did I know we were in the same class, I sat behind him most of the year. We became Bestfriends, I always had feelings for him and I never lost them.. I know he didn't like me...
    Hesthebae Hesthebae 13-15, F Mar 23

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    Connor and I became best friends not long

    after my break-up from my two year relationship. He was there for me in a way that no one else was. He'd comfort me and give me compliments. He fed my ego but wasn't a creep about it. He wanted to spend time with me and didn't push for intimacy. I began to develop feelings for...
    ArianaChaCha ArianaChaCha 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    It was a random encounter

    that turned out to be fate. I met this very pretty going girl, she had big beautiful cat eyes that changed color and a gorgeous smile that would brighten the worded mood in seconds. I said "hi, how are you doing today? " to her, not even knowing if she would even acknowledge...
    BearyRAWR BearyRAWR 22-25, M Mar 16

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    Spanish Class<333

    We Had Fourth Period Spanish,Mrs.Alvarez Together.I Was Coming Into Class,When You Passed Me A Note.I Was A Little Shocked Because It Seemed Kinda Weird Coming From You.I Mean We Would Flirt And Goof Off In Class,But The Way He Looked When He Gave It To Me Sent Bolts Through My...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response May 1, 2012

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    He is exactly like I would like to be.

    He is taller and he has something in his eyes and in his brain that I don’t have. I believe that he is handsome and well mannered, that is very charming and charismatic. We have been known each other for almost 10 years now. We both have a girl-friend and we do similar lives...
    nereo nereo 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I've known him since I was 13 years old,

    and I never really thought about being I a relationship with him, or anyone really. We were constantly talking for about a year before we decided to become a couple. We were inseparable. We were together for 2 years. I was there for him when he lost his mom. When he needed a...
    ThreeYearsBroken ThreeYearsBroken 13-15, F Feb 18

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    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I fell in love with my best friend!

    !! I first met her when I was only eleven and told her my feeling about a year later. And we began dating a couple days later. Sometimes life has it's advantages!
    KenjiTsukiShinobu KenjiTsukiShinobu 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    I had a so called "best friend" named Henry.

    .. Well, as far as I know, "best friends" don't kiss (nose, forehead, cheek) or cuddle... We practically slept in the same bed... (Nothing sexual). At first it was just a little "crush", then after god knows how long I realized I loved him. I was to scared to tell him for the old...
    Elizabethhope Elizabethhope 18-21, F Feb 9