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I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

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    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could

    please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many times and I took his virginity 2 years ago. After he fell in love with me and I had feelings for him but I wasn't sure if it would work...
    mzgirl mzgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    three months ago we moved to the next level.

    . i hate the sentimentality that's arousing, which btw caused alot of pain in the *** as i expected, but, what can i do? I love her...
    khaledalqadyy khaledalqadyy 22-25 May 8

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    My Friend At School

    His name is cole and were best friends, however i also love him and want to date him. He likes me more then friends to but we both dont want our relationship to develop to fast so were gonna wait until high school or grade 8
    ShelbyH2001 ShelbyH2001 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    Me and this girl have been best friends for about 3 years now. I can even remember the exact day I started to like her. It was at our freshman year homecoming dance, and she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress she wore and her hair curled perfectly. But of course, looks isn...
    redsox44fan redsox44fan 16-17 11 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    The Feeling Was Always Mutual, But Something Unknown Always Stopped Us.

    When I first looked upon her she was sitting on her own huddled on a low bench with her face in a book, she was quite and withdrawn and it was evident to me that she had gone through some form of trauma. People said she was strange but I thought she was an evil angel waiting to...
    LordNothing LordNothing 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    so i im in like emm casual long distance

    relatinship with someone but i feel like im getting too into him. i become so insecure and afraid that i would lose him. and few days ago i cant contact him,when i msg him on fb he said his phone is broken, but i didnt believe him i thought he changed his number and dont wanna...
    thepesut thepesut 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I Wanted to Tell U

    i try to tell you but you dont see. i saw the glint in your eye unpredictable and unexpected! the way you asked me what is it made me want to tell you the truth but you'd hate me for it it would be awkward for us both as the friendship would feel obligated the darkness...
    jaded5sapphire jaded5sapphire 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2007

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    It was easier to communicate

    when we were dating. Now, not so much. She always has a problem with me. Well it seems that way.
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Oh well...it happens

    so fast...and when you least expect it that friend becomes your reason to live ...you start to think about that person all day long... and do everything while wondering what is that person doing or thinking about haha... this love thing is confusing...but it's good
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    The other night I overheard my boyfriend of

    almost a year discussing getting an engagement ring with a friend. We've been best friends for five years now and our relationship has been the most amazing and natural thing I've ever experienced. He's wonderful!
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    We met four years ago

    and he had just started dating my best friend at the time. We hit it off over both of us liking our coffee light and sweet with French vanilla. I told him that night that if he ever hurt her, I would kill him. As the months went on we got really close. I could talk to him about...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F Jun 17, 2014

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    Question! if you secretly fell in love with

    your best friend would you stay best friends and if so, why?
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Worth a Try.

    Really, I don't know why I'm doing this.  Maybe it's because I really have no one else to talk to about it.  I guess resorting to random people isn't really a good idea, but hey, it's worth a try.   I've been friends with her for about three years now.  We...
    JetWii JetWii 18-21 24 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    Pssst

    You're the one, who always laughed the loudest. I am the one who would follow. You're the one who liked my stupid jokes, even when my punchlines made no sense, you still laughed. We could have an entire conversation with just one word being used, really. You always knew where...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    My best friend and I met on Facebook last year

    in September. I saw her as one of my suggested friends, so I added her and after I did that I messaged her. I just told her how I thought she was pretty and I'm in search of a new best friend. We went on to talking every single day not missing a beat, she would message me every...
    honestdezzy honestdezzy 22-25, F Apr 7

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    It Happened So Fast!

    I was in college for the first time, orientation weekend. There she was, 5' 4" and an upperclassman. She was in her third year of college and hot hot hot. I was new and only had a few friends. We were introduced on Labor Day Weekend. For several months we laughed, joked, hung out...
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    my heart was completely shattered

    and were no longer friends :'(
    jessie03 jessie03 13-15 Apr 27

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    I fell in love with my best friend.

    Just the other day we had a talk about how we were both questioning our sexuality. It took a lot for me not to just kiss her dight then and there. I just told her that I almost asked yo kiss her during that conversation and she said she was surprised, but she didn't feel the...
    BeYou321 BeYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I've known my best friend,

    I guess I could call her Amber, from ever since kindergarten. She has been more than a best friend to me always, we've been like soul mates: I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. Sadly, the last few years have been a slight down in our friendship: she...
    sunflowerheaven sunflowerheaven 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    Too Much For Me To Handle

    I have heard about heart brake, have seen it happening around me. I have been with guys before and have gone through break ups, yet what I have felt back then never even came close to what I feel today. I am in pain; my heart has been ripped out and stacked to a wall. Before...
    bakkaonna bakkaonna 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    i have been trying to better my life over these

    past 3 years and i really have been trying. i have gotten rid of those who dont care for me and i have surrounded myself with good people. i met my best friend a couple years ago and she has made my life into something unexpected. i try to be there for her but i cant do that...
    eagi eagi 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I met Amy when I reported

    for duty in Albany Ga at the Marine base. She in my opinion was the All American Girl.. Blonde hair Blue eyes about 5'7" weighed about 110 lbs dripping wet. We became good friends and she helped me thru a couple of heart break situations. I grew to adore her! Then one day she...
    ChessiSometimes72 ChessiSometimes72 51-55, M 4 Responses May 11

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    Homophobes Beware

    How old was I? Eleven? Twelve I think. He - two years older than I was likely fourteen. He was spending the night. He is like no one else I have ever known. Like a puppy dog at times, with boundless energy, even before he started drinking coffee. He has a sweet openness - a...
    theologian theologian 18-21, M 6 Responses May 18, 2011

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    I was kind of disappointed in my boyfriend

    for not inviting me to play soccer with him and a group of friends after he expressed that he missed me but made no effort to see me. I decided to express that to him and he apologized and I continued to express how I felt because I wanted I get out what I had to say and be done...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I knew my best friend in Belgium from

    when we were little girls. But when we were teenagers I started to love her. She did too and we had sex but I did not like the feeling. Then she started to like boys and we did not feel like friends so we stopped talking. I miss her love and her friendship.
    Aureillenne Aureillenne 18-21, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I Fell In Love With My Best Friend

    I've kept this to myself for a while now, and I guess I just need to get it out, you know, before it destroys me. I could turn to a friend or a family member but I just can't conjure the courage. So I guess turning to strangers was the next best thing. P.S. If the girl of my...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Piece Of Advice Though....

    Dont.THe break up sucks in more ways than one. cause you lose your best friend too...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 4 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Best friend and I Moving in together ?

    friend and I are contemplating moving together, I'm in Florida she's in Kentucky. She has already started looking because her lease is up at her previous place. I told her u would help look, in which I did, but when I did look she told me the prices online are not updated and...
    meceemayne meceemayne 22-25, F 2 Responses May 3

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    It was the best thing

    that ever.happened to me and i wouldn't change it for the world!
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    my biggest mistake ever.

    falling in love for that stupid person.
    SabiDarrio SabiDarrio 18-21, F Mar 30

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    They say falling in love is a choice.

    That we need to choose to fall in love with someone everyday if we want the relationship to work. But the problem is, it's not just a choice you make. It's a choice that both of you have to make, both have to agree on. to agree on to love one another. But what happens if the...
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F a week ago

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    You got scared. I know you.

    I know you're scared. When you get scared you run because you don't want to get hurt again. I'm the same way. Sorry back to my story. Our story. Maybe because I was on night shift. Maybe it was because I washed laundry for a living. Maybe because I had my license but no wheels...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 17 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Ruined A Perfectly Good Friendship - Live And Learn

    Knew this girl when I was in my early 20's (we met when I was 20 she 18). We went out about a half a dozen times over three-ish years. We talked on the phone periodically about life, work, family nonsense, etc. Gradually we built up our talk frequency to about three or four...
    oobiedoobie oobiedoobie 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    when I was 14 years I have a guy friends.

    His so weirdow.in many aspects.His an emo.I always makes him laugh that's why her girlfriend is jealous over me.Thats when I started to back off. It hurts alot.Until now I can't forget the time we spent through each day.I miss him,but the question is does he miss me? right now I...
    Emety Emety 18-21, F Apr 22

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was,

    at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I missed you. I missed my family. I knew I messed up somewhere and with what seemed like my last days I thought, "where did I mess up?" Their...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    I too fell in love with my best friend.

    I'm 17 and she's 13. I know everybody thinks age is a difference but with us it isn't. i've been friends with her for maybe eight months. I don't think I realized I was in love with her till I broke up with my girlfriend in February. One night we were having a movie night. And...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F Apr 11

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    When I was living far away from home in a place

    I hated, and felt entirely isolated, I became good friends with someone whom I felt just "got" me. I didn't have to explain, she just understood. I don't know if it was because I was lonely and she was there, and gave me the time and attention I needed, or if I really did fall...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I was cuddling with my boyfriend tonight

    and he said "I love you so much. Thank you for making me feel wanted and needed, you are the only one who makes me feel that" his parents love him but his older brother is not as much of a sensitive guy as he is and his parents I guess assume he is like his brother when he isn't...
    soccer4life777 soccer4life777 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My Husband, My Best Friend...

    I met my husband when I was 19, he was 26. I met him through a guy I was sleeping with (ironic I know). The guy I was sleeping with wanted to "test" me, and see if I would cheat on him. He brought his friend down to meet me; his mistake! We ended up staying up the entire night...
    Invisible2unow Invisible2unow 41-45, F 11 Responses May 16, 2011

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    LIFE

    Growing up I had a best friend named matt. we were practically neighbors and spent all of our time together. I loved him so much and I always knew he felt the same we just never said it. we didn't need to. when I got to the 9th grade I moved away. our friendship just seemed...
    itsthelittlethings itsthelittlethings 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F Jan 14

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    My best friend has been my boyfriend

    for the past 3 years. He is the sweetest person ever. I have an incurable illness, and so when we first started going out, he made up this story about how I'm a fallen angel, and I lost my wings, and that he'll try to find them for me, and when he does, I'll be cured. He's the...
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    We met on our first day at secondary school.

    We became good friends over time. I even went to her wedding! I never told her how I felt. She always seemed to have somebody else in mind when it came to love. But that's ok. I would rather have had her as a friend than nothing. After I got together with my then wife. She didnt...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Apr 23

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    I mean even tho he is older

    than me I just I have a connection with him lol I wanna be where he is and cuddle and play footsie etc. I just can't believe I met someone so great lol ❤️😍💋😘👌😉😏💍💕
    crazywolf5683 crazywolf5683 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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