I Fell In Love With My Cousin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 483 People

    There's A Two Mile Line Between Lovers And Cousins.. But I Wear Glasses So...

    I've read quite a few stories about people falling in love with their cousins, & other relatives. Unfortunately while their stories are just as taboo as mine, I can't seem to relate. The cousin I fell in love with wasn't a cousin I saw once in blue moon or only on holidays, or a...
    Cl0ser Cl0ser
    18-21
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    I really feel silly right now

    but it's been a few days since I decided to cut ties with my own cousin. I decided to stop talking to him because I've never felt like this about anyone before. That feeling where your heartbeat has this burning desire just to be with that person. My cousin is always so physical...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2014

    July 8, 2015 I tried my best

    that this relationship wouldn't have any issues. And i try it to be a healthy relationship. As before after January, i would always think about a story that would tell you to keep you entertained and happy. And bit by bit you became my world. There's no single day that i did...
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    Jan 27

    Good day everyone! Umm,

    so today I'm going to put forward some of my experiences with my cousin. To be frank I wasn't that close to anyone of my family. just a formal relationship, excluding my closest relations like my mom's sisters,brothers etc. I have a good no. of second cousins ( sons of my mom's...
    myloveunknown myloveunknown
    18-21, F
    Jan 4, 2015

    Has anyone married their cousin?

    How is it? Did your family and friends come? Are their children involved?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Sep 15, 2015

    It was always a lingering attraction between me

    and him, he is almost 6 years older than me, he technically saw me grow up and turn into a woman. One night we were drinking and just in a flash we happened to start kissing and one thing led to another, we made passionate and crazy love. The best id ever had, we have a lot of...
    bentley77 bentley77
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    Many young women today are a bit tired of the

    usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger WomenOlder Men Dating . Are you a man looking for a younger woman, or a woman seeking an older man? Everyone has their preferences in relationships...
    celinecc11 celinecc11
    26-30, F
    Feb 2, 2015

    Love, Time And Loss

    I have kept this inside for so long and I need to tell someone, anyone that is willing to listen. It all happened exactly a year ago, when we went to visit my father's family during winter break, you see as we live very far away we only get to see my father's family once every...
    LostLoveJ LostLoveJ
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 27, 2012

    he's older then me in 6.

    8 years.. I love him so much and everytime someone's saying his name/talking about him, im smiling and getting kind of "butterflies".. I also looking on messages and conversations that we had and I always smile like it's my first time reading this.. When I look into his eyes he...
    hilash hilash
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    When do you stop being hopeful

    that the relationship would work?
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    Just skip to the last paragraph

    if you don't want to get the whole feels of to my story. It all started when my cousin and I met at a family party when we were younger, about 5-10 years of age. When I saw her, I was always shy to talk to her but as we started to see each other more frequently at family...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    I am soon to be married to my cousin

    but I don't know if it is right I love him and he loves me but we worry about being excepted..... any thoughts?
    shauniehawk shauniehawk
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    I am confused as hell about how i feel toward

    my cousin.She is married with two grown children.The kids are my nieces and nephews.I remember when we first met,we became very close instantly.She is a sweetheart who always make me laugh and giggle.I always want to be around her when i visited her.I always follow her around...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 15, 2015
    mdeuliss mdeuliss
    16-17, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    I read so many stories,

    about this kind of love. It seems that 70% of the time, it's the men who run away. Why is that?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    Any first cousins who made it through

    and got married? Please tell me your story.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Life Of Regret

    I'm a guy from England, and my cousin was from asia. 3 years ago, I visited, and instantly felt a connection with her. As the days went by we grew closer, and started spending a lot of time together . We held hands, chatted and would always be smiling around each other. The first...
    oli789 oli789
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    So both of our families went camping the other

    day. Turns out even until now I still seem to have feelings for her and she does as well. She asked if we seemed obvious that we like each other in front of our family but I don't think so. We're so paranoid someone might find out. Anyways, the best part of this camping trip...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 21, 2014

    Me and my cousin don't always get along.

    We are the same age and everything, but im a month older. Everytime we start talking in public we always end up fighting, but when were are alone its completely diferent. We get along better. A couple of weeks ago we had and aunt getting married. Everybody was making sure...
    songlyric songlyric
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2015

    So we started telling people close to us,

    that we are together. Some found out in a way we didn't want and the situation got handled wrong. My question is if your family starts shouting threats can you actually fault your partner and threaten to leave them if anything happens?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Aug 6, 2015

    Forbidden Love?

    My 1st cousin and I are the same age. He is 2 months older than I am. We were always close and had a special bond. In our teens our relationship went further and became sexual. It seemed so natural and the love we had for each other was intense. We drifted apart and then lost...
    MummaBear MummaBear
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jul 15, 2012

    it was long time back ,

    when i did not know about love,relationships etc.one of my cousin used to visit us in summers and i remember how i got attracted towards him. now we are all grown up ,but somewhere i still like him,but stop as its considered wrong
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    The last time he was here was 6 months ago.

    I waited so long for his next visit. I think about it everyday. 2 weeks ago he broke up with me. Now that he had arrived in my country, i don't know if i should see or talk to him. He is with family for vacation, few hours drive from here.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015

    I'm not too sure I I should

    or not. I want. I NEED to share this story with someone. I'm so desperate I'm turning to the internet for god sakes. Just to know there are people out there that are warm hearted and won't judge me. Can I get some advise? To share my story or not to share it. Shall I or shall I...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    Everyday I check if you're online multiple

    times a day. I'm seriously obsessed with you. I miss you . I don't know why you had to leave me . I don't know why you overreact when I express myself . I didn't realise you were so sensitive to the things I say. I have a chemistry towards you that I can't explain . Are you...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 9, 2014

    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom

    and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad wanted me to be apart of their family so we made amends and I started building relationships with all my aunts, uncles, and cousins on his...
    Italy21 Italy21
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    well I did. still do.

    just wished we could fix things again. I miss him. :'(
    pumpkinn pumpkinn
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2015

    I fell in love with her

    and I couldn't feel anymore blessed :)
    mateo213 mateo213
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    I guess it the same topic again.

    ... It's probably getting annoying now. I don't want to be with him. But I do.....? Seeing him happy makes me happy. As it always has. It's nearly 2 years and I still feel the same. I've gotten the closure I've been looking for when he visited but yet, I'm still wondering what...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories
    18-21, F
    Mar 2, 2015

    Comments From Others ((sigh))

    I am in a relationship w my 3rd cousin twice removed. We live together now with my 4 kids from previous marriage... now that my ex knows about my relationship with my 3rd cousin (possibly) ... he is telling everyone and anyone about us and says we are SICK and twisted..that now...
    weezer weezer
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2008
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    Who had been in love to their cousin,

    didn't work out, look back, is it ridiculous?
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    In this situation you are asking someone to

    risk more than they ever would with another person. It could be anywhere from losing friends or family to losing an opportunity for potential careers or opportunities. If someone is willing to take that chance with you, then you shouldn't treat them like they are another hook up...
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Apr 14

    June 25,2015 I used to deny my feelings before

    because our situation is different. But the feeling screams inside of me and i had to control it from blurting it out to everyone. I learned more than a year ago that in life we have categories. We meet people and we categorize our relationships to them. I like calling this...
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 27

    I want to be the princess

    and the queen...
    savie21 savie21
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2015

    I used to step on her dress on purpose just to

    have it fall to the ground and that I could see her panties.
    ErikAlpha20 ErikAlpha20
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    I've been in love with my female 1st cousin ever

    since we were children. In fact at one point as children we both believed that we would marry each other when we got older but we just never got together.  This is probably one of the reasons why I've never really pursued other potential girlfriends as I believed or rather...
    KIKO787 KIKO787
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 9, 2015

    I really am hoping this is my last post on this

    topic... To continue off from my previous post, today I just dropped off his family to the airport. This vacation was the hardest three weeks I've ever experienced in my life. The first time I saw him after the nine months of being separated I expected a smile or maybe even a...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    I am 34 years old. We are third cousins.

    We met when I was 15 and the attraction and bond was instant. It took us two years to have an actual conversation about how much in love we were. We had separate partners at the time and it was like we didn't even care. They didn't even matter when we were together. Nothing did...
    pepsicolalove pepsicolalove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 14

    i think its very normal

    and much more common than people think , as we grow up together ,know each other and then develop feelingsfor each other,and at times even share the bed.but then whats the big deal......
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Never Ending Love

    i've already posted my story on another group but my wording going to be better. well hear we go i fell in love with my cousin many many years ago when we wear just little kids. my family was going back and forth to the coast we both live in WA, state i was going to doctors over...
    steve207 steve207
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2010

    I fell completely in love with him every detail

    about him attracts me to him to even hear his voice makes me so happy but I don't know if he feels the same it's almost like we are living a double life sometimes like one day we act like cousins then the next we are doing sexual things and taking dirty an all that I dint know...
    oilchick1488 oilchick1488
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    I kinda did. My first love was my cousins

    cousin. It felt wrong at first because I called his dad uncle since I was little. And even now I say uncle. We met at our cousins house on Christmas in 1990. And we went through so much. We kept it quiet but our parents ended up finding out since I was 14 and he was 15 so we...
    beramos7075 beramos7075
    36-40, F
    Feb 26, 2014

    So we have broken up cause he wants to be with

    his daughter 24/7. The problem is he is trying to make me out to be the bad guy. He will call or text an act like it's my fault we aren't together. I have done everything he wanted. He didn't want me calling or texting or giving his baby mom any reason to think he even thinks...
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Mar 25

    I'm in love with my cousin.

    Things haven't gone as I thought they would. But I'm grateful I have someone like her In my life. I know in a few months, things will get better. I see the light at the end of the tunnel but it's far. I'm going to hold on, I know I can make it. She's the love of my life. I don't...
    mateo213 mateo213
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2014

    I don't know how to get over her at all.

    I feel it's wrong for me to have such feeling for her knowing she is married and not gonna fall for me at all. Sigh...Now we are world apart and i miss her so much everyday. :( I don't know how to deal with the feeling. The confusion is making me very sad and depressed. :( :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2015
    mmhatp1 mmhatp1
    22-25, M
    Mar 10

    So this all started in the summer

    when I found my cousin after 18 years. Him and I are both 30, and I had always got along with him when we were kids. When i saw him again after so long, it felt like my world stopped..yes, he's gorgeous beyond anything I've ever seen, but he is just an amazing person all around...
    Itssotaboo Itssotaboo
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    It's been a year. I feel disgusted with myself

    but then I keep trying to defend myself saying "you can't control your emotions. It's not your fault on who you end up being attracted to"... But then I feel like it's just an excuse for trying to get out of it. I'm in love with my cousin. The first time we met was when we were...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    i was always led to believe they were our

    cousins but in fact they were my mums friends kids we always called her auntie anyway we went to stay with them for the weekend and had to top and tail with the boys we were misbehaving sexually and giggling to loud causing his dad to come in he used to use a horse whip...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014

    I finally gave this wonderful guy

    that I've known for years a chance. Everything was Great at first then things became Perfect! He knew I was the one and I knew he was the one. After months of dating and loving, we found out we are 4th cousins. All this time I knew this guy, I never knew he was my cousin. He...
    A0038 A0038
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 10, 2014
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