I Fell In Love With Someone That Didn't Love Me Back

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    During Vet school, I had a classmate

    who was actually engaged to be married. He was one of the most liked guys in our class, and of course he was cute. All of the girls were a little smitten, probably because he was off limits. He had been with his fiance/girlfriend for many years. During Clinics, we had a few...
    DocMcSizzle DocMcSizzle
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    I know this is gonna sound like one of those

    absolutely ridiculous love stories but hear me out please..This guy who I consider one of my best friends we dated for a year & a half now are talking again & taking it steady & have been for awhile now But now he won't txt or call & we barely even talk anymore because we both...
    cocososowowo cocososowowo
    18-21, F
    Sep 4, 2015

    ya, this is harsh. the emotional struggle of

    giving everything without expecticting nothing is terribly hard. in your mind its ok but deep inside you want the person you love to love you back. the moment i knew that there is really nothing. i was in pain cant sleep, cant work, barely eat. it was a recurring feeling. my...
    irijat irijat
    26-30, M
    Nov 23, 2015

    I don't really know which group should i post ?

    Since i am in love and cursed and she loved me back but too late ! I was 19 young and stupid spoiled by all these teenage girls arround me, i was the bad boy ! One day my friend challenged me to go and ask out a girl that he pointed out by his finger ! I had a girlfriend at that...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 31, 2015

    Chloe or Maddy. One's a straight college

    student, one's a Mormon, married, and my teacher. Pick one
    deleted deleted
    Oct 22, 2015

    Its okay ... Its just a phase.

    I won't even remember his name probably few years later. Hope he will someone else soon and never bothers me again ... I could have blocked and deleted him again like I did many times but I m sick of this childish game now. I will just be cold and let him know again I really...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    He was my best friend growing up.

    We smiled. We laughed. We cried. I can still remember our first kiss under the moonlit sky on that hot and humid summer night. We were walking and holding hands when he suddenly stopped, looked me in my eyes, leaned down, and kissed me. It was the moment I had been waiting for...
    OverwhelmedinFL OverwhelmedinFL
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    My bestfriend. She had hickeys on her neck

    today from a guy she wont tell us about. I am a girl in LIKE with a girl. I dknt believe in love
    deleted deleted
    Apr 15, 2016


    Hi, my name is Lilli. Most people I know, tend to call me Ghost. I have many problems, none to which I can compare to anyone who is starving, without a family, or any other horrible situation... but all nonetheless devastating. I have had four people (of which I loved more than...
    Jan 30, 2013
    linguslvr linguslvr
    56-60, M
    Mar 21, 2016

    An old friend messaged me on Facebook one day,

    we begin flirting, sexting, & eventually ended up sleeping together. A few times. After seeing each other, I would try to stay in contact, letting him know that I was interested. The more we seen each other the more my feelings grew. He was in a band & they were playing at a bar...
    xxihateyouxx xxihateyouxx
    22-25, F
    Apr 12, 2015

    I was his first girlfriend.

    But, I found out he was only using me to get his bestfriend jealous... To win her heart. Now they are getting Married this year after 8 years of being together. What an *******.
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    Why do I keep letting you in.

    I don't even know what I see in you. Like seriously.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 9, 2015

    This guy, i think i fell in love with him over

    the course of 2 years 'cause we've been through so much together... he just didn't love me the same. I never thought i would cry over a guy so soon...
    eAngeliqueXX eAngeliqueXX
    16-17, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    I fell hard and fast.

    Maybe that should have been the first sign. In the beginning the love was seemingly reciprocated but fizzled for him after a few months. This was a blow to my ego and made me feel pretty badly. But in retrospect, I'd rather find out right away than years from now. Moral of the...
    JadedUnicorn JadedUnicorn
    31-35, F
    Nov 23, 2015

    He didn't love me like I loved him .

    ..but he still calls me every morning , he didn't love me like I loved him but he's like a kid winning in tears ...he didn't love me like I loved him because his ex is still my opponent . I will be crazy if I let another woman take my pride ! Because I know she has as much power...
    imparadise imparadise
    22-25, F
    Jul 3, 2014

    There's this guy, that I just can't seem to get

    over, even though we've never dated. He was one of the first few people I came out to, but we eventually lost contact until January of this year (2016). I'd know that I had never been able to get him out of my mind for long, however, I didn't know that my feelings for him were...
    xxxMeeThreexxx xxxMeeThreexxx
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2016

    Fastforward 2 years later,

    I'm engaged to a wonderful guy and I'm ready for my happily ever after. So why did I just hear you tell me that you made a mistake and that the feeling had been there all along and is still very much there.
    nicoleACA nicoleACA
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    You never loved me at the start like you told

    me. You show me different. I have shown you I loved you more than I could tell you. Now I know where I stand with you and I can't believe I am no longer in love with you.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 29, 2015

    The guy I fell in love with claimed to love me,

    said so many things that made me feel wanted and I believed his words. I ignored every sign that he didn't, anything that doubted that he did was easily thrown over my shoulder as a small obstacle to overcome that would only make our love stronger--deeper. Unfortunately, he...
    xxxMeeThreexxx xxxMeeThreexxx
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    Hi Everyone, I am 26 year old guy.

    I don't drink & smoke. I like girls but never had girlfriend. I am bit shy person. There is one girl in my office. For me she is the most beautiful girl in entire world. She is just like me, shy & conservative. She sits just front of my desk. I love her very much. I try to...
    RonnieN RonnieN
    26-30, M
    Mar 15, 2016

    I Lost The One Who Was Mine.

    Long story short. This girl that I've known for four years and dated for 2 1/2 wants nothing to do with me. Four years ago I went to my friends birthday party. I noticed this girl who arrived late. She was wearing PJ's because she was baking cookies for the troops. She at first...
    Jared511 Jared511
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

    Married for three years

    and the marriage has been hard on me. He has cheated on me off and on even before the marriage. And I didn't leave due to becoming prego with our first. After that stay up till now. I didn't want my two beautiful boys to grow up in a broken home. But I finally threw in the towel...
    washio2005 washio2005
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    I made myself vulnerable this last 2 years

    like ve never been my entire life.I lusted,I love things I saw,I experienced,I grew
    deleted deleted
    Sep 25, 2015

    I wish I could stop loving him

    but I don't know how.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    How do you get over a situation like this?

    ? I fell in love with someone who didn't honestly love me back. But he always said he meant it until the last time he got mad at you and called you a hoe, stupid, and a piece of money. Then I broke up with him. How am I supposed to get over this?
    cutemonkey cutemonkey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    I got used. It does not feel good.

    Why am I always taking the high road, and being a nice person when people constantly treat me like crap?
    kimosaade kimosaade
    36-40, M
    Aug 9, 2015

    The Most Beautiful Girl I've Ever Seen

    I had just graduated middle school, swearing I'd never return to that wretched place, I was informed my sister's play was being performed there....I was upset to say the least. It was intermission, my uncle whom taught in a neighboring city found one of his students attending...
    ItNeverEnteredMyMind ItNeverEnteredMyMind
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2008
    aliadele aliadele
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    I'm still piecing this together

    because it didn't happen very long ago. Basically I met this girl about a year and a half ago at a chill party I was invited to and she opened the door. I can still remember the smile she gave me when she opened the door. From then on I had crushes on her here and there but it...
    alexfrombarnies alexfrombarnies
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2014

    I think it was love. well whatever it was it

    wasn't reciprocated. it hurts. and it hurts more to see him loving someone else
    Jose020 Jose020
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    And it hurts so much.

    I love having her in my life as much as I hate it. Knowing she will never be mine tears me apart. But I want to always be there for her. As long as I contribute positively to her life, I'll be there. I'm just so, so tired of hurting.
    anonymous5011 anonymous5011
    22-25, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    Let's call him "Michael".

    This is a potentially long story, since I don't openly talk about this experience to my friends. I hope someone reads all of it, though. Michael and I had the same course in college. Long before I got know him, I already saw him in the hallways or in the cafeteria, the likes...
    noirswan noirswan
    22-25, F
    Oct 24, 2015

    I fell in love with my best friend.

    . I visit him often but its hard to hide feelings you know. How do I do this?
    deleted deleted
    Nov 22, 2015

    Happens every time I let myself feel.

    lol. I wonder why we like the 'wrong' people
    deleted deleted
    Mar 15, 2016

    the truth is i am still in love with him

    and he is out living life while i am stuck at home and he probably wont text or call until next week and if he call he will hang up in my face and wont call back!! What else is there to do?
    ijoyce ijoyce
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2015
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