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I Fell Out of Love With My Husband

And Will Always Care For Him 300 People

    I Think I Married Him Too Soon...

    I think I married my husband too soon...my husband and I met about 4 years ago and dated long distance (opposite sides of the country) before we got engaged. Our entire dating, engagement and a year of our marriage was spent long distance due to our jobs of being in the...
    babyblu babyblu 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2009

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    Gradually

    I fell out of love with my husband so gradually that I didn't even realize it til I was parked outside a hotel about to meet a man I met on the internet. The fact that I could actually go through with the affair led me to the very sad realization that the love I had for my...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    How long do I try to fall back in love?

    How long do I wait? We are in counseling. I told him last week I was having doubts. I think it went in one ear and out the other. We went on another date last night, snuggled on the couch afterwards and watched a movie. It was nice...comfortable...safe... I cling to the "safe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 2

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    I'm not sure what I feel.

    He's been cheating, though I guess now he's stopped... Unsure. But I just feel Kind of numb to the whole thing, I say "I love you" and I show it, but not sure I really feel that anymore. I really want to feel that but just don't think I truly do at this point.
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    How Do I Go On..

    I first met my husband when I was in 7th grade and he was a sophomore in HS. I fell for him the moment we became friends. Our older brothers were the best of friends (and still are) so it was easy for us to become very involved and attached to one another's family. My senior year...
    LadyEmm LadyEmm 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    My Soul Is Lost

     Each day I feel a little peace of me is being ******** away. I am feeling less and less of myself. I am not happy. People looking in will think I have the ideal life. The handsome hubby, two beautiful kids and the nice home. However, I wake up every day unhappy and...
    SoulUnsettled SoulUnsettled 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    Backseat Again

    When I first met my husband, we both worked for a big pizza chain. We eventually got to know one another and become friends. I finally got the courage up to ask him out (with a little help from Smirnoff) and our first date was on Christmas Day. Within 2 weeks, I had moved in with...
    Aphrodite8183 Aphrodite8183 26-30 Feb 25, 2012

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    I Wish I Never Got Married

    I got married when I was 21. I knew this was young, but thought it was ok because I was more mature than most of my friends. I was much more responsible than most 21 year olds, but I still hadn’t experienced much of life. My husband was 26 at the time and quite mature. I think...
    Lolalola1231 Lolalola1231 22-25 1 Response May 1, 2012

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    I Wish

    I were in love with my husband. but I have'nt been for many years now. When you say you love someone  there are many who don't realize that Loving someone and being in love are two big differences.  Because sure I love my husband - but I don't love him with a...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    He Can't Give Me Any More

    We've been married 23 years.  He literally swept me off my feet and I fell head over heels in love with him.  He was the sweetest, most romantic person I had ever met.  Then we got married and he changed that very night.  He didn't want to have sex with me...
    sixtieschic sixtieschic 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    Cancer

    I fell out of love with my husband of 3 years, Everything was going great, till I got breast cancer, He was very supportive and took time off of his work to be with me, I had to take a year off of my work just to get better from the cancer. I'm fine now, I'm back full time at...
    Parsley17 Parsley17 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 19

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    What To Do What To Do

    ok so things between me and my husband are just going downhill. i am not even sure if i still love him. i feel like he dont care to live life. EVERYTHING always ends up being my fault no matter what. i want him to go and have told him 2 but he wont. we share no common interest he...
    amanda803 amanda803 22-25, F 1 Response May 3, 2012

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    Lost the Spark

    Married for 13 years, although it's as if the last 5 or 6 didn't count. We're currently seeing a therapist twice a month. My husband professes to love me. He is making sincere efforts in therapy, but the change is slow and something I have to monitor in order to feel it...
    acaciabloom acaciabloom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Finally!

    After a very long and rough weekend the cards have finally been laid out on the table. After all the years of abuse I have suffered through I finally snapped and laid it out for my husband. I have not been happy in years and I can't take no more. He has been told that I will...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Fell Out Of Love

    ive been married for 16 years fort the last 2yrs ive been very unhappy i feel guilty for not loving a wonderful guy im always in a bad mood when hes home its got to a point i dont like to have sex with him or kiss him i recently cheated n got caught but he forgave me cuz he says...
    suzi74 suzi74 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    Im Falling Out Of Love With A Great Man And I Don't Know Why

    I don't know what went wrong but all I want to do is run away not just from him tho from every one i want out of the us as far as i can go i have been merryed for 1 year and I'm so unhappy he's a great guy but every time he says I love you I want to cry I'm just not attracted to...
    Nimus Nimus 26-30 Jul 17, 2012

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    Changes

    Where do I begin...two years ago, I reconnected with a childhood love...and we clicked. I had been divorced from my sons father for about a year and a half....was single and loving it! My new beau and I decided we had nothing to lose and decided we would get married...we wanted...
    mama70707 mama70707 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2013

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    Waiting For the Miracle to Come?

    well at this point in my life, i'm just exhausted exhausted and tired of trying to help my hubby understand what i need in this 18 year relationship these 16 years of marriage have just been one long slog, no romance, no communication, no fun, no one to one activities that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Confuse And Slipping Away

    I've married for almost 5 years now. I am currently away from my husband, working in a different country. I met my husband when I was broken hearted. I was just on the process of moving from my last relationship that took 5 years. I don't know how did it happen but I guess he...
    confuseandlonely confuseandlonely 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    He Loves Me, But I Am Not In Love With Hubby

     I have known my hubby since we both teenagers. We have been married for 11 years and known each other for 20.  During the cost of our relationship,  it was rough and I broke it off a couple of times. Then he pursued me and pursued me so I got back with him. Then...
    SoulUnsettled SoulUnsettled 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I Feel Very Horrible

    I want to first say that my husband takes very good care of me and my children that I had from a previous relationship and our child we have together financially but nothing else. I fear that I want too much but I don't think love, spontaneity, passion etc is too much to ask for...
    Tmeason Tmeason 31-35 May 28, 2012

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    Marriage Is Not What I Thought It Would Be.

    I got married when I was 25, that's 10 years ago. I have two beautiful boys. That has been the most fruitful outcome of my marriage. Infact I believe for anyone who get kids out of marriage that's one thing they rarely regret about. When you devote this much time and energy it...
    uzma007 uzma007 31-35 3 Responses May 12, 2012

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    He Treats Me Like I Am A Plague

    I am only 18 and we got married so young because, to be honest, I wanted to feel loved and I didn't want to be left. He was a real sweet Guy. We ended up homeless for a month and we grew closer. Idk I think it was because we had something to right for. We slept on the streets...
    Isobellachloe Isobellachloe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    How Does This Happen?

    I met my husband in highschool, he was a senior and I was a junior. For him it was love at first sight... for me it took a little longer, but I fell and I fell hard. 13 years later and 4 beautiful children here I am. No longer in love with him. How can this happen? Let...
    ericalee4 ericalee4 31-35, F 22 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    And I Divorced Him

    I just couldn't handle his controlling and lazy behavior any more. I couldn't do anything yet he could. It was maddening. I could go on and on but I don't want to bore you and complain. I'm much happier without him.
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    A Little Confused Right Now

    Not sure how to determine what I want to do all I know is I don't want to feel this way. My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 4. I was 18 when I found out iwas pregnant with our son , and we were on the brink of breaking up after beIng together for a year...
    Oneofthoselives Oneofthoselives 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I Love My Husband But I Am No Longer In Love With Him

    I am sad. He is a good man. Loving, caring, great job, great father... I dont know what to do. For the last years I have been pretty much his slave. I do everything around the house. I have asked for help time and time again. It slowly has been eating away at me. No matter how...
    amystarhenry amystarhenry 31-35 5 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I Feel Like A Horrible Person...

    My husband and I were married when I was 21 and he was 34. We knew eachother about 2 years, but had only been dating for 7 months. We eloped. Shortly after, my mom, who was my best friend, passed away. He was there for me, and was very supportive. We tried for a while to have a...
    ElleBelle13 ElleBelle13 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    Been married for 23 years together 28. Met a man at who works at a store close to home very nice man we hit it off he's unhappy in his marriage I am too. Husband found out a coupleof weeks ago about my friend that I've kept hiddenfrom everyone for the past 2 years. I still care...
    sassysills sassysills 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    A Not So Long Time Ago...8 Years, And 3 Children Ago

    When I was young, Just fifteen years old, I met my now husband, at the time we were simply friends, it never even once crossed my mind that I'd ever date him, let alone marry him. We were like best friends, I could go to him for anything and talk to him about anything. I had a...
    nelliebum nelliebum 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Married 9 years, been together 15.

    The past six months have been so confusing. My co workers wife unexpectedly left him after 17 years of marriage. I reached out as a friend, taking him out for drinks, listening to his stories, comforting and encouraging him in a dark time in his life. Husband became insanely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 10

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    I Fell Out Of Love With My Husband.....

    Hi. I'm a 46 year old woman. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married for 10. I can say that my husband has never been a man of romance nor compliments. He is a good man, does everything for me. Helps me when ever I need it, however that being said I am missing that...
    TammyW65 TammyW65 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Only Roommates, No Passion, No Emotional Intamcy, Why Did We Fall Out Of Love

    My husband and I have been together for 15 years married for 9. About seven years ago the passion and intamicy started to fade. I tried to bring it up and it only made him withdraw into himself further. I accepted that it was going to be that way an maaged for a a couple of years...
    arya15 arya15 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    I Am So Confused

    I have 3 babies ( ages 1, 2, 4).... I have a brand new home built only 3 years ago... I have a husband who says he loves me... yet I am unhappy. I look around and I have the perfect life. The perfect little family, with the perfectly gorgeous house, with the perfect neighbors...
    jbdance21 jbdance21 26-30 7 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    It Killed Him

    Wow...I always thought it was just me that fell out of love.  But it isn't.  I've been married for 18 years, but together for 25 years.  We started off young, maybe too young.  I knew I wasn't "in love" a long time ago.  Over the years I strayed...
    ualflygal ualflygal 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Another Saturday Night And I Am Sitting In The Bedroom Alone Again Crying

    Today was supposed to be a special day because we made plans to go out to dinner for my hubby and my dad's birthdays.  Dad's is Tuesday and he will be 79 and Thursday is hubby's and he will be 59.  So we went to a nice little sit down restaurant.  There was 13 of us all...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 10 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Caused My Wife to Fall Out of Love With Me.

    We have been together for 18 years and produced two great kids. I work in commerce and my wife in the health profession but for most of our marriage (11 yrs) she has been at home or working part time only. I have been the sole breadwinner and thought my role was to work as hard...
    Atomicbelly Atomicbelly 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 6, 2007

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    I Don't Know If I'm The Problem..

    My husband was my first boyfriend, first everything, he is three years older than me but was way more experienced. I fell in love with his way of words and attention. As time went by in our relationship I got pregnant and moved in with him. We were both so young. I left...
    Vpnessa Vpnessa 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    Stuck

    I'm not married yet. But it feels like I am. We have been together 5 and a half years, since I was 18. So all of my adult life. We have a 2 year old son. We don't often have sex, the thought of it makes me tired. I love him, but I'm not attracked to him anymore. And to be honest...
    AmarnaSun AmarnaSun 22-25, F 2 Responses May 24, 2012

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    Same Ol' Pattern

    first dont judge me for what i was. i have so many dramas in my though and one of those are getting in love with another married man. i was inloved with a married guy long time ago up to the present. i have had a miscarriage each time.and that breaks my heart. the guy i was with...
    2ndbest 2ndbest 31-35 Oct 13, 2013

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    I Want To Fall Out Of Love With Him

    my husband and i are married for 10 years now.. 4 years ago we both decided for him to quit his GOOD PAYING JOB in exchange of him studying further.. he graduated and passed the exams all the time while it's me working for our finances. 2 nights ago we had a huge arguement...
    charity22 charity22 26-30 3 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    I Fell In Love With My Baby, And Out Of Love With My Husband

    I feel so sad some days....not the baby blues...I am so happy and in love with my 11 month old, but because I feel the love I once had for my husband leaving.  It's the little things I guess.  I mean, he is an amazing father.  Very attentive, loving, doting.  He loves our son...
    swimmergirl4 swimmergirl4 31-35 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    My husband and I had a horrible marrige over the last 5 years ( he cheated constantly, I enabled it) until he finally went too far one day and I snapped, and threatend to leave. He finally responded to that , but at that point I was ( still am) broken beyond repair. I still went...
    Oneofthoselives Oneofthoselives 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Taken For Granted ..

    I know my husband going on to 18 years, we've dealt with a lot, but the one thing that's never changed is him and how he goes about his day to day life, and mostly never making time for me. This was fine while we dated almost 12 yrs before getting engaged, then we got married and...
    MadAsHell07 MadAsHell07 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Everyone Else Understand But Why Doesn't He

    After all these years and everything that has happened, why doesn't he understand why I don't love him anymore? Why is it that no matter how I explain it,I'm the one who is wrong. Why am I the bad guy? I wish I knew how to tell him how I feel about this other guy now. I guess the...
    nelliebum nelliebum 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2013

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    Boyfriend...jekyl And Hyde

    I dont know where to begin really.. so i will try and give the short version... lol Basically ive gotten sick of not being able to rely on my partner... yeah sure every man has some faults we could over look... u know the unimportant trivial stuff... but ive come to realise...
    CullenMagic CullenMagic 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Im Not In Love With Him Anymore

    My husband and I have been together for almost four years now and have only been married for four months. Before we were married we fought just about constantly but wed come to some kind of conclusion and then things began to get worse, he would always yell and gripe at me for no...
    curiouscat92 curiouscat92 18-21, F Nov 6, 2012

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    How Do You Know You've Fallen Out Of Love?

    Sometimes I think I might still love him. how do you know whether you really do or dont???
    jenni4582 jenni4582 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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