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I Female Led Relationships

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    Flr Moves To Cuckold

    I have been in Female Led Relationship for over two years now. It has transformed into cuckold, since she Does make the rules and this is one of the rules, she can date. I think this is about her exercising her power. I like to see her exercise her rules.
    mlees123 mlees123
    56-60, M
    1 Response Dec 4, 2011


    My name is Brian and im in the beginning of a female led relationship.. this is something I have longed for all my life.. im 39 and just got married to a very special girl.. We been together for a long time.. She is very understanding.. about a week ago I broke down for the...
    bgott bgott
    36-40, M
    2 Responses May 21, 2012

    At Last!

    It is so good to finally be in an honest to goodness FLR. And I'm equally happy to have found this little group that shares that interest. Bless you all and best of luck in your relationships (present and/or future). QC
    CdeQueen CdeQueen
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2009

    One Day In The Not-too-distant Future

    I have come to believe one day, in the not-too-distant future, a significant number of males will prefer being happy in relationships led by females. I believe this for a variety of reasons, including my life experience.Some of these men will like the FLR simply because they are...
    girlfancier girlfancier
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

    I Love It When She Turns Me Down

    I don't usually initiate intimate relations because I can get mad and pout when she rejects my advances:( Lately I have been really good at submissively accepting her turn downs! Keeping my ego in check and putting my selfish desires away so she can sleep or watch tv ! I am so...
    tonyecho tonyecho
    41-45, M
    Feb 5, 2013

    Women-the Superior Sex

    WOMEN –THE SUPERIOR SEX Ever since the beginning of time or rather ever since the time of EVE and adam, we have seen and experienced that man has always tried to influence the WOMAN. He has tried to lead Her to believe that just because he has a **** and balls, he is the...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 26, 2013

    She's the Best

    I've been part of one for the last 7 years, and they have been the best years of my life.  Like a lot of these kinds of relationships, I started out as the dominant one but over time we both fell into roles that suited each of us better.  I'm pretty much her ***** now...
    mstabitha mstabitha
    26-30, T
    1 Response Jun 27, 2009

    I Female Led Relationship

    My wife Mistress L and i have been living in a Femdom relationship for 15 years. We had been friends years ago, but had gone our seperate ways. I had just ended a 12 year old marriage, and she was also single and out of a 10 year relationship We were re-united at a festival and...
    slavetoby slavetoby
    56-60, M
    6 Responses Aug 30, 2010

    Women Now Are Top Bread Winners In Over 40% Of All Households!

    A newspaper article yesterday stated that FEMALES now are the top bread winners in over 40 percent of all households!! The number is expected to continue to rise!!  Eventually FEMALES WILL CONTROL ALL, AS THEY SHOULD!!slave john
    submale2serveFEMALE submale2serveFEMALE
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 30, 2013

    A Wandering Sub

    i call my self a wandering sub as i am into female led relationship and strongly believe in the matriarchy but have not found any one whom i can serve as SHE pleases. You can understand my dilemma. I live in a closed society where such inclinations are a taboo. I am certain that...
    hazir hazir
    46-50, M
    Jul 9, 2013

    My First Time

    I was introduced to Female Led Relationships over 20 years ago by a Woman who worked for the same company I did, but in a different, nearby city. I was sent to Her office to manage a project She was working on. The project lasted for a number of months, and we spent a lot of time...
    npat33 npat33
    51-55, M
    Oct 21, 2012

    Rookie Seeking Advice

    We've been married half our lives now. We both grew up in very conservative Christian homes. We entered marriage with the traditional idea that the husband was to be the head of the household, and the wife was to submit. Our hearts were in the right place, and we've always dealy...
    chdoctor chdoctor
    2 Responses May 25, 2009

    My Female Led Relationship Story.

    When I was 24 I started dating a 36 year old woman–or I should say she started dating me. Up to that point I had several girlfriends my age and I was used to getting my way sexually. I wasn’t abusive of course; I just didn’t know any better because that’s...
    Jim2316 Jim2316
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2010

    How We Have Moved Towards A Wife-led Marriage

    My Wife has taken on the dominant role to a large extent, but it's taken a few years to get to where we are. It's not something that can be hurried. Try baby steps and there will be a better chance of your Wife accepting these changes in your routine. I do all the housework...
    huggy01 huggy01
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2012

    Pipe Dreams.....

    My love for female authority started decades ago during the cold war when my father was gone most of the time, as he was an army radar tech. Based at one of the many Nike nuclear missile sites established around the Washington, D.C. area at that time.  Before starting school...
    leachera leachera
    51-55, T
    3 Responses Jun 5, 2010

    What To Do When Your Man Asks For A Female Led Relationship

    It's certainly not for everyone, but if Female Led Relationships are of interest, you may enjoy a book I discovered. I came across it today Amazon.OverviewThis book is intended to be used as a companion guide to: A Man's Guide to Introducing His Wife, Partner or Girlfriend to a...
    girlfancier girlfancier
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

    My Own Little Matriarchy

    I believe strongly in matriarchy and Female superiority. To me it seems so obvious that the female as the birth giving sex is meant to also be the ruling and primary sex. Males are childish all life and from the first day of puberty on directed mostly by their sexual feelings...
    karenmarietopp karenmarietopp
    41-45, F
    19 Responses Feb 19, 2011

    Is Female Led Relationships Real Or Not?

    I got to put my 2 cents into the pot. but i got to tell you, I have been researching a lot about this type of relationship, either you find a women who (you already married and she is into being kinky and open-minded and ready to experiment) or you find a Pro-dom or find your...
    ssubslv4u ssubslv4u
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2010


    I am in a FLR with Stephanie a 40yr old Asian. I am a 56yr old white man. We started 10yrs ago when she was my supervisor at work. Even then she was very strict & demanding, always telling me to improve my work performance. She also liked to talk about how much trouble men...
    Marmarus Marmarus
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    The woman i currently serve requires

    that i ********** on command as a demonstration of my submission. She is a Female Supremacist and believes that any time i experience an ****** that she and/or other females must be present to supervise. Even though i willingly submit and accept my position, this is extremely...
    njmaleds njmaleds
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Seeking A Female Led Relationship

    Im a relatively attractive, Black male, 51, in okay shape. Professional and respected in my chosen profession. I absolutely adore women and make no secret in my belief that women are smarter and better suited to lead within a monogamous relationship. Ive attempted to steer women...
    cultured cultured
    Jan 19, 2012

    Going Shopping

    Yet another adventure with your Naked Butler and M’Lady. A little introduction: We are a monogamous couple, I am the submissive husband, my wife is the dominant wife. I am a strong, macho, Naked Butler who loves to take care of My Lady while dressed in nothing but a leather...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 10, 2011

    I Must Obey.

    I am writing this story with a very sore bottom. My wife just finished giving me a spanking for misbehaving and back talking her. This is just one way she teaches me how to behave. Some of her other methods are in my other stories. A couple of days ago my wife called me into...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2012

    especially if the female leading the

    relationship is a woman who seduced the wife and displaced the husband as the head of the family. That would be divine.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    26-30, M
    Nov 10, 2015

    I wish my wife would admit

    that this turns her on.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I Want To Please, Serve, And Worship Her!

    She is extremely traditional and a little from a sexually sheltered background. Approaching her about my feelings is months if not a year away. between now and then I have things I need to work on to make sure then when I approach her I can be the man that serves her needs best...
    tonyecho tonyecho
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 6, 2012

    The Restaurant

    I pull up in front of the restaurant feeling heavy. Ahead of me waits humiliation and submission: an emotional beating. I’ve seen it coming all week and now I know the moment has arrived. It is sitting patiently for me just inside—waiting to tear me down. My palms are...
    dynamiccouple dynamiccouple
    Nov 6, 2013

    My Story

    i am 12 years in a FLR. Mistress and i have had varying levels of dominance and submission throughout. There is an eb and flow that pleases her but which is always, beneath the surface, and on numerous occassions above that honors her. Ironically we added a MTF maid to our...
    rikigrl rikigrl
    Apr 14, 2012

    We Are Getting There

    i came across flr a year ago . i had a detailed conversation with my wife after about three months. i showed her the sites and my research. first she did nor respond but after a while she told she  did not think it was a bad idea after all. she became bit more aggressive and...
    69218server 69218server
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 14, 2013

    She Is A Natural

    I have only made very subtle hints about the intensity of my desire to worship, submit to, and serve her. Cute jokes and encouragement are the current plan of action. Yesterday we had an organic FLR moment. I was at work texting her. I was also texting a friend about going out...
    tonyecho tonyecho
    41-45, M
    Jan 6, 2013

    My Sons, Daughters And My Mother

    Dear Mothers and Feminists , I want to write to you my story to encourage and enlighten you as to our way of living a loving and decent life, and how that way could help the world in these terribly difficult times as we move into the future in the coming decades...
    ConnieDes ConnieDes
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2012

    Reinventing Our Marrisge

    My husband and I met and married later in life, I in my thirties and he 10 years my senior--things were great. Very traditional, but I knew something was missing. I have always imagined a having a female led marriage, I did not have that language nor the understanding to...
    MsDommee MsDommee
    41-45, F
    5 Responses May 30, 2013

    Love, Honour And Obey Part 1

    I don't know if it was part of her master plan, or whether it was simply a germ of an idea that, over time, has evolved into a lifestyle. It is certainly a lifestyle that has turned the traditional male/female roles upside down. She controls the money; I do the laundry; she...
    factotum53 factotum53
    51-55, M
    10 Responses Feb 24, 2010

    Love, Honour And Obey - Part 2

    For the next few months I found myself adjusting to our new lifestyle. I have always loved my wife dearly, but now I found that I was falling ever more deeply in love with her. It is not something that I could rationalize, or explain. I guess love is strange, or at least it can...
    factotum53 factotum53
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Feb 24, 2010


    My wife and I started fooling around with casual cross dressing several years ago.  It was exciting but casual.  One day around two years ago we were having an argument about something stupid, as ususal.  I came down into the TV room and she was sitting on the...
    wamjam wamjam
    5 Responses Jun 12, 2009

    Want To Be In Aflr

    I would like to find a woman that will lead the the relationship.
    urssd urssd
    46-50, M
    Apr 17, 2011

    Finally Where I Want to Be...

    It has taken some years of patients but I am finally where I want to be in life. A little background on me and how I got to where I am at present time. For the longest time I was always in the Dominate role in life and although I can be Dominate it never made me feel complete. I...
    plugnplaymt plugnplaymt
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2009

    Mistress's Poly Family

    i am my Mistress's sissy cuckolded husband. She runs the household. i am Her wife and housemaid. She also owns two masculine submissives who each have their own roles within Her family. One is Her lover and the other Her pet. One lives with U/us the other doesn't. W/we are all...
    sissyslavejamie sissyslavejamie
    51-55, T
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2009

    When we go out, I am required to hand my wallet

    to my wife and I only get it back once we return home. At the restaurant, she picks the food for both of us and orders for me. Waiters are sometimes confused, but by the end of the meal, the check is always brought to her.
    publicpersona9356 publicpersona9356
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    Roleplaying Fantasy:world Ruled By Female Lers!

    Here's a scenario I've had fun thinking about and want to share. As a male lee this is my fantasy world. Premise:Thought of several possible ways this could happen but it matters little as to how. But the bottomline is basically the gene for ticklishness has been discovered...
    tomsaywer tomsaywer
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 10, 2011

    My Personal Experience

    I am a polish guy around 38 years old and live in London with a Chinese girl. We both met 10 years ago,she is younger then me about 28.She was 18 when I met her. I had recently divorced then when I first met her. She was working as a waitress at a chinese restuarant where I went...
    sarowski sarowski
    5 Responses Feb 21, 2011
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