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I Fight Too Much With My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47 People

    It'S Too Difficult At This Point

    I'm almost six years into this relationship and what I once thought was attributable to our young age has nothing to do with that. Some parts of a person's personality can't be chalked up to teenage immaturity, some parts are just permanent fixtures. We're having a dinner party...
    stanleyKub stanleyKub 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Do.

    Me and my boyfriend fight way to much. At this moment we are'nt together. He thinks our problem is me because i get mad and upset about "stupid" things. I feel I'm too young to be stuck in a relashionship like this. I never get to do what I want It's always us. He...
    krystenperkins krystenperkins 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Been In A Long Relationship: Stuck And Unsure Of What To Do!!

    Hi guys and gals,I'm really looking for some insight about what your perspective is about my situation and how to better improve or what to do about it. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 8yrs now. We've dated since middle school; however, we were always on and off (we broke up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23, 2012

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    All My Boyfriend and I Do Is Fight.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months of our relationship was so perfect. There was no fighting, no arguing, no getting jealous, no nothing! Now, all we do is fight. Our fights are about the most ridiculious things. Regardless, we always make...
    TiffanyLynn88 TiffanyLynn88 18-21 4 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    He Nags Me to Death

    Me and my partner fight regularly.  I don't start fights but react to his chronic nagging about my choices and decision to remain on medication long term for my well being.  I try so hard to get it across to him that I have respected every one of his choices and never...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2008

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    Our First Big Fight Ever..

    Last Friday, I had a big fight with D, my boyfriend of 16 months and of 7-years difference. I know some people would call me childish if they're reading my story. Anyway, this fight was indirectly started by me because I was quite mad with him for making too many excuses...
    allysa2610 allysa2610 22-25 Jun 27, 2011

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    My Boyfriend & I Constantly Argue, About Stupid Things.

    Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we love each other, we'd do anything for eachother, we go to the same high school & we see each other every weekend, when we argue its always over in a hour or less. We argue about stupid things & I feel like its my fault, I always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

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    Dragon Vs Dragon

    I love my bf. I'm in my 30's, he in 40's. I dote him as a friend, teacher  and lover. We're both born in dragon year. Perhaps that's why we fight over stupid things like jealousy. I may not be pretty, but I'm happy all the time. That attracts guys' attention. Not good. So I...
    caren caren 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    I Feel Like It's All My Fault

    I fight with my boyfriend constantly. It's a miracle if we go an entire day without fighting. For the first few months of our 9 month relationship, everything was perfect and amazing. We hit a rough patch somewhere in July, and fought every single day for an entire month. But we...
    darkraindrop darkraindrop 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    I Need Help!!

    My boyfriend and i have been arguing. This time, he assumed i wanted to break with him. This argument was my fault cause i didn't tell him about a guy who asked for my number and even called me. I didn't tell my boyfriend this straight away cause we were suppose to spend time...
    letitallout16 letitallout16 18-21 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    When It's Good, It's Good, But When It's Bad It's Bad.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. This is my first real, serious relationship with someone. I really care about him, but when we fight it's bad. He always tells me it's my fault and that i'm the one that needs to fix it. But I have trust issues with him. See...
    cherries1234 cherries1234 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    Talking or texting.. I seriously need a filter or at least know what I'm saying before it actually comes out.. So many ragrets
    trrrrrrouble trrrrrrouble 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel like I'm doing this because I don't want to be alone. I care for him when he's sick. I appreciate the little things he does and the big...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I don't know anymore. I find that there's always so much going on with me that I seem to neglect, all because I care more about others well-being than my own. "Are you okay?" seems...
    alexis3000 alexis3000 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Particularly people who think a "proper" adoption cost should be $50 at maximum. Wtf? To a drug dealer, or a better-off animal fighting person, that amount is like shopping at...
    DarkFireMoon DarkFireMoon 18-21, F Dec 3

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    My boyfriend is 57 years old, and I'm 35. I'm worried about missing out on life experiences because he's been there done that already. I also know I have no idea what the future...
    phoebe1163 phoebe1163 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Generator. Tools. Lovers. Mechanic for free. Parts for free. Address. Gasoline. An extra generator. More toys. Buckets. Wait thats a toy. Shovels...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 18

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    I worry too much and too easy. Yet, I always tell my friends and other people here that worries are a waste of energy. I *am* aware though it's a waste of energy, but still... The...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F Dec 3

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    Every time when I'm in school, I get too many headaches when my teachers give me some hard question that I can't figure. Don't get me wrong, I'm a straight A student, but sometimes...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like the human mind is both a beautiful blessing and a chaotic curse. I believe it can be the most dangerous thing in the world. That's why solitary confinement is such a...
    lphan lphan 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 30

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    I spend far, far too much time on EP. A lot of the time I'm not actually doing anything here, just refreshing the page in between youtube videos. :p I was going to take a break...
    Friability Friability 18-21 Dec 4

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    "It's better to say too much then never to say what you need to say again." But... "Knowing nothing is better than knowing at all."
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F Nov 18

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    I can fall so hard for someone, even my friends but when they disappoint me it hurts. I think im a good friend but I just can't see why they don't care to call more often or why...
    BlueStar21 BlueStar21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I care way too much about everything. I always wonder what someone thinks of me and if I made them mad or what have you. I need to stop. I've been told so many times that the key...
    taylormorgan2113 taylormorgan2113 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I always did share too much, just to figure out that people judge you even before you finish sharing..
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    Waaaaay too much! For unnecessary reasons sometimes.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Nov 20

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    I think too much....To that extent that I make myself depressed nd start crying...its the stories in my head that has made me sad...because reality didn't turn out that way( not...
    SecondChancesDoHappen SecondChancesDoHappen 18-21 Nov 22

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    I keep telling myself to stop caring anymore but still, every time someone says something that might be offensive about me, or someone tells me that I've been talked and gossiped...
    The1996 The1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I've never brought into the 'I don't care what people think of me', more often than not, I smell bullshit when people say it. There's nothing wrong with caring about it, just not...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 23

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    According to the CDC 5+ drinks in one night is too much. 15 drinks a week is heavy drinking. By that definition I have been an alcoholic for a very long time.
    usmcdonkey usmcdonkey 26-30, M Dec 3

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    I just got told I over analyze things by my step dad, my friends used to tell me not to think about it too much...
    dksl14 dksl14 18-21, M Dec 4

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    I think i think too much !
    Asemeto Asemeto 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I think too much. I always worry about things I shouldn't. I never stop and think "why is this my problem again?". I over-analyze and over-think everything. When I make a decision...
    curiousitykills57 curiousitykills57 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 5

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    I've always been someone who overthinks, since childhood. I wonder about the 'what ifs' way too much and things consume my mind. The worst bit - they are very rarely positive and...
    IBleedBlue IBleedBlue 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    I think too much time on EP makes me foggy. There are a bunch of things I want to write stories about and I've been staring at the screen for the last two hours waiting for that...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response Dec 8

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    I spend too much time thinking about bad things... I overthink every possible situation, and Always end up finding a way it could possibly go wrong. Therefore, I waste a lot of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 10

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    Seems like every time I try to post, it reveals some aspect of myself I do not want to share. I think I am afraid to share too much and recognize things that I do not like about...
    crimm crimm 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sooo... I am afraid I'm drinking too much to numb the pain from a chronic health problem.
    JD3108 JD3108 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Yeah too much ******* water. I was up at 4 to go to the freaking toilet. True story.
    DeathIsPartDinosaur DeathIsPartDinosaur 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I do not like when I pour too much energy into people instead of making my own life better. I do this and have done this all my life . I feel like God wants me to do this but the...
    Howtobeme Howtobeme 51-55, F Nov 20

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    I AM HURTING...I PUT THIS PICTURE UP TO SHOW HOW MUCH I LOVE MYSELF... I LOVE MYSELF AND I JUST CAN'T GET ENOUGH... I JUST CAN'T GET ENOUGH... I'M ALWAYS SUFFERING, I NEVER HAVE...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just last Saturday night, I spent most of the night talking to someone as I was traveling 3 hours away from home. This man stayed with me on the phone till I arrived the scene.It...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I was just a kid when 2 live crew was telling them girls to do what they do... I was only 12 when I held my first sawed off... tucked in my jacket to prove I wun't soft... Said I...
    heysmellthis heysmellthis 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the WISDOM to know the difference. God please be patient with me as I...
    cyclone80 cyclone80 31-35, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I think maybe I learned how to be afraid when I was really little. Afraid of my dad coming home. Afraid of the big kids on the playground. Afraid that I wouldn't ever have a lot of...
    cyclone80 cyclone80 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Another bad day with my boyfriend.... I know boyfriend problem or small things like I should be worrying in other stuff. But he's just a big part of my life now... I want...
    thebeautifuldisaster13 thebeautifuldisaster13 18-21, F Nov 19

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    You build me up and then I fall apart. I met a man here of whom until now I can't forget. We've only talked every night for a month and then stopped because of some reason. It...