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I Fight Too Much With My Boyfriend

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    He Nags Me to Death

    Me and my partner fight regularly.  I don't start fights but react to his chronic nagging about my choices and decision to remain on medication long term for my well being.  I try so hard to get it across to him that I have respected every one of his choices and never...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2008

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    Been In A Long Relationship: Stuck And Unsure Of What To Do!!

    Hi guys and gals,I'm really looking for some insight about what your perspective is about my situation and how to better improve or what to do about it. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 8yrs now. We've dated since middle school; however, we were always on and off (we broke up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23, 2012

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    It'S Too Difficult At This Point

    I'm almost six years into this relationship and what I once thought was attributable to our young age has nothing to do with that. Some parts of a person's personality can't be chalked up to teenage immaturity, some parts are just permanent fixtures. We're having a dinner party...
    stanleyKub stanleyKub 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    When It's Good, It's Good, But When It's Bad It's Bad.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. This is my first real, serious relationship with someone. I really care about him, but when we fight it's bad. He always tells me it's my fault and that i'm the one that needs to fix it. But I have trust issues with him. See...
    cherries1234 cherries1234 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    All My Boyfriend and I Do Is Fight.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months of our relationship was so perfect. There was no fighting, no arguing, no getting jealous, no nothing! Now, all we do is fight. Our fights are about the most ridiculious things. Regardless, we always make...
    TiffanyLynn88 TiffanyLynn88 18-21 4 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    My Boyfriend & I Constantly Argue, About Stupid Things.

    Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we love each other, we'd do anything for eachother, we go to the same high school & we see each other every weekend, when we argue its always over in a hour or less. We argue about stupid things & I feel like its my fault, I always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

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    Dragon Vs Dragon

    I love my bf. I'm in my 30's, he in 40's. I dote him as a friend, teacher  and lover. We're both born in dragon year. Perhaps that's why we fight over stupid things like jealousy. I may not be pretty, but I'm happy all the time. That attracts guys' attention. Not good. So I...
    caren caren 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    I Don't Know What To Do.

    Me and my boyfriend fight way to much. At this moment we are'nt together. He thinks our problem is me because i get mad and upset about "stupid" things. I feel I'm too young to be stuck in a relashionship like this. I never get to do what I want It's always us. He...
    krystenperkins krystenperkins 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I Need Help!!

    My boyfriend and i have been arguing. This time, he assumed i wanted to break with him. This argument was my fault cause i didn't tell him about a guy who asked for my number and even called me. I didn't tell my boyfriend this straight away cause we were suppose to spend time...
    letitallout16 letitallout16 18-21 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    Our First Big Fight Ever..

    Last Friday, I had a big fight with D, my boyfriend of 16 months and of 7-years difference. I know some people would call me childish if they're reading my story. Anyway, this fight was indirectly started by me because I was quite mad with him for making too many excuses...
    allysa2610 allysa2610 22-25 Jun 27, 2011

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    I Feel Like It's All My Fault

    I fight with my boyfriend constantly. It's a miracle if we go an entire day without fighting. For the first few months of our 9 month relationship, everything was perfect and amazing. We hit a rough patch somewhere in July, and fought every single day for an entire month. But we...
    darkraindrop darkraindrop 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    i wish i could wake up to him this morning :( one of those days *blowing bangs with bottom lip*
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I started talking to this guy from work. Met him in training class for the job and he was so cute with his approach. He didnt come on strong or anything, it was just right. We sat...
    DirtyDianah DirtyDianah 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Holy shitballs, story of my life
    YoureHighness YoureHighness 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My brain won't turn off. I overthink, especially at night. I have no idea how to not think. Thinking of you... again. The more I think, the more confused I get. I'm fighting to...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Way too much that sometimes i get confused if something really happened in real life or it's just something that i fantasized or imagined. I guess it's also the reason why i get...
    katnis21 katnis21 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think it's not normal... Whenever I have a problem with someone, instead of talking to him/her for solving the problem, I keep arguing in my own head... Even after talking to the...
    Mikala88 Mikala88 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Alwayss havve. So sad. We fight. Bullies. You employed fokerz. You respect bullies. They hurt us. With lame laws And bad meds. And stupid trends. And you...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I live in my head WAY too much. I haven't really gotten much sleep over the past 2 months because my mind won't let me relax. My mind just keeps racing all my stressful thoughts so...
    KeepItSimple98 KeepItSimple98 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    After much consideration based on the people I've met recently I guess that I really do expect too much. Honesty, openness, acceptance, trust, communication, mutual understanding...
    BrandysGood BrandysGood 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Today was amazing...we were laying on the couch watching TV and I felt so happy and peaceful being in his arms. He's the first guy in my life I really trust and can look up to...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F a week ago

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    Is it bad that I care too much about people who are in my life, or have been in my life?
    JonnySlackMallon JonnySlackMallon 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    You know you work too much when you ask for a day off and your boss asks, "are you okay??" 😝
    Recklessdesires Recklessdesires 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I was yours and you were mine I lost you to something that I couldn't fight Suppose that I was there that night Suppose I ripped my heart out and gave it all to you Would you...
    aaronsevenseven aaronsevenseven 13-15, M Jul 22

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    Why do I seem to put my heart into a woman who I love and care for so much in my life but I have never seen her only talked to her on the phone or through text messages and I feel...
    readytofeelwanted readytofeelwanted 41-45, M Jul 21

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    I think to much when I don't do anything.... so I do as much as I can do so that I don't think much
    OGeee OGeee 22-25, M Jul 21

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    I'm staying with my aunt and uncle, cousins and brother in a hotel room. The air conditioning is making the room really cold, and the TV is on. I can't sleep with noise...but I'm...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    That horrid moment when you think you talk too much and then send an essay for a text message. Aaaahhhhh!!!
    Xtinabytch Xtinabytch 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Well I guess I'm just going to use this topic as a venting tool so here it goes why is that it's so dam hard to meet friends and women I have tried difficult avenues to do this and...
    readytofeelwanted readytofeelwanted 41-45, M Jul 18

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    I really do, and I may be a hypocrite to be saying this, but here it goes... Why do we so willingly agree to be ruled by our devices? What good will they do us in the end...
    Icrossmyheart Icrossmyheart 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    You know what the funny part is? My paranoia often makes my fears come true. If I ask if I'm annoying you, evacuate the premises IMMEDIATELY. My fear of annoying you will...
    ladhes ladhes 18-21, M Jul 17

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    I'd rather have someone teach me why something went wrong and then get it right next time instead of already understanding why it went wrong but can't do anything about it because...
    SkyBeaST SkyBeaST 18-21, M Jul 17

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    I feel like I care about people too much, and wanting them to stay in my life. I work with amazing people, and although I've only known them for 2 1/2 months, one of them are going...
    Tommokia Tommokia 18-21, F Jul 17

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    So here I am, another sleepless night with too much on my brain. Am I right where I belong? Do I deserve more? Better? Less? Worse? What is waiting for me if I leave the only life...
    DisappearIntoSilence DisappearIntoSilence 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Over and over I wonder things about you. I wonder why you betrayed me to others Do you realize that I had ample opportunity to expose you ? Why do you suddenly remember so much...
    laughingtiger laughingtiger 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    When my boyfriend try's to talk about our relationship I always take it the wrong way and think about it to much and then end up getting mad at him but then later regretting it and...
    dancerfaye1999 dancerfaye1999 16-17, F Jul 14

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    he hasnt texted me all day. lately the messages have been delayed and short. last night he told me he went to the movies with a friend then went to a friend's house to watch the...
    xboo15 xboo15 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Well as I lay in my bed and alone with my thoughts I can't help but think of the things that have happened to me this last week it's been a pretty bad one for me a women who I love...
    readytofeelwanted readytofeelwanted 41-45, M Jul 12

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    every time something slightly triggering happens i burst into tears. Just typing this is making my eyes well up. i cry sometimes at things that are cute or sweet, but i cry a lot...
    Kosul Kosul 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I think way too much...to the point of anxiety. I really love this site. I think it's a great way to express yourself and find other like minded individuals and share your...
    marcielagox marcielagox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    My sister and I just had an opportunity to try to get our relationship back on track and put aside petty, old hurts. At least that was on my mind. She was less than welcoming and...
    karriesue53 karriesue53 61-65, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Its 5am cali time and ive pretty much been awake all night...why u ask?...i have no idea...so many thoughts running through my head..thoughts of love,lust,friendship.family..the...
    hunnylv hunnylv 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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