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I Fight Too Much With My Boyfriend

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    Our First Big Fight Ever..

    Last Friday, I had a big fight with D, my boyfriend of 16 months and of 7-years difference. I know some people would call me childish if they're reading my story. Anyway, this fight was indirectly started by me because I was quite mad with him for making too many excuses...
    allysa2610 allysa2610 22-25 Jun 27, 2011

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    All My Boyfriend and I Do Is Fight.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months of our relationship was so perfect. There was no fighting, no arguing, no getting jealous, no nothing! Now, all we do is fight. Our fights are about the most ridiculious things. Regardless, we always make...
    TiffanyLynn88 TiffanyLynn88 18-21 4 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    He Nags Me to Death

    Me and my partner fight regularly.  I don't start fights but react to his chronic nagging about my choices and decision to remain on medication long term for my well being.  I try so hard to get it across to him that I have respected every one of his choices and never...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2008

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    I Don't Know What To Do.

    Me and my boyfriend fight way to much. At this moment we are'nt together. He thinks our problem is me because i get mad and upset about "stupid" things. I feel I'm too young to be stuck in a relashionship like this. I never get to do what I want It's always us. He...
    krystenperkins krystenperkins 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Dragon Vs Dragon

    I love my bf. I'm in my 30's, he in 40's. I dote him as a friend, teacher  and lover. We're both born in dragon year. Perhaps that's why we fight over stupid things like jealousy. I may not be pretty, but I'm happy all the time. That attracts guys' attention. Not good. So I...
    caren caren 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    Been In A Long Relationship: Stuck And Unsure Of What To Do!!

    Hi guys and gals,I'm really looking for some insight about what your perspective is about my situation and how to better improve or what to do about it. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 8yrs now. We've dated since middle school; however, we were always on and off (we broke up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23, 2012

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    It'S Too Difficult At This Point

    I'm almost six years into this relationship and what I once thought was attributable to our young age has nothing to do with that. Some parts of a person's personality can't be chalked up to teenage immaturity, some parts are just permanent fixtures. We're having a dinner party...
    stanleyKub stanleyKub 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    I Need Help!!

    My boyfriend and i have been arguing. This time, he assumed i wanted to break with him. This argument was my fault cause i didn't tell him about a guy who asked for my number and even called me. I didn't tell my boyfriend this straight away cause we were suppose to spend time...
    letitallout16 letitallout16 18-21 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    When It's Good, It's Good, But When It's Bad It's Bad.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. This is my first real, serious relationship with someone. I really care about him, but when we fight it's bad. He always tells me it's my fault and that i'm the one that needs to fix it. But I have trust issues with him. See...
    cherries1234 cherries1234 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    My Boyfriend & I Constantly Argue, About Stupid Things.

    Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we love each other, we'd do anything for eachother, we go to the same high school & we see each other every weekend, when we argue its always over in a hour or less. We argue about stupid things & I feel like its my fault, I always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

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    I Feel Like It's All My Fault

    I fight with my boyfriend constantly. It's a miracle if we go an entire day without fighting. For the first few months of our 9 month relationship, everything was perfect and amazing. We hit a rough patch somewhere in July, and fought every single day for an entire month. But we...
    darkraindrop darkraindrop 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    My wife and I fight often. I hate confrontation and she seems to love it. We recently fought about her children. We fought for days and recently made up. Frankly I was just tired...
    brianpast40 brianpast40 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think bout how I use to be and how I am now and I think I liked how I use to be more. But like I like how I am now to, sometimes I feel myself drifting back to my older was or...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F Jan 5

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    Putting it bluntly, love sucks. It hurts way too much. It is painful. Beyond anything that a person should ever have to deal with. I was in love once. Even though I was 19, it was...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    So...I'm lying now on my bed with all the things I need to pack into my suitcase all over my room. I'm stressing out. I hate packing. And in the midst of my stressing-out, I manage...
    littlemisslight littlemisslight 26-30, F Jan 20

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    Well as you may know I sleep too much. I still sleep too much maybe not up to 14 hours any more yeah! But still much. So I'm going to try to set a goal to decrease my sleep...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I'm really fed up right now. I'm missing someone who I thought wanted to see me as much I do him but now I'm not so sure. He's lacking communication and ignoring questions. Well...
    marsbar38 marsbar38 31-35, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I have ADHD but most of the time it isnt things around me that distract me, its my thoughts. I have these thoughts that lead to others and others creating this weird web of kind of...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    this is my problem right now and pretty much every night.. I have too much on my mind and I can't sleep and it sucks...
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I have the tendency to think too much. It always gets me into trouble. I wind up taking on too many things.
    SKDel SKDel 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I have started thinking too much about my relationship. He is not very romantic or he is not a person who would make feel special..he doesn't even talk to me much but all these...
    kk2326 kk2326 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    Or maybe it's not enough. I forget. But is there really such a thing as thinking too much? Is that even possible? Is that anything like "asking too many questions" because I...
    browneyedgurl13 browneyedgurl13 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    I think that life is full of pros and cons with literally every aspect. With that, thinking too much can't be any different. Obviously, it is good to think things through, and do...
    scottishboyo scottishboyo 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I've found there to be two situations where this applies; the first is when I sit and think, analyse and evaluate situations and then work myself up to the point where I no longer...
    Reapixx Reapixx 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I don't understand people...I don't understand myself...I try to make sense of things and then I only confuse myself more. I think more than I should and recall things I should not...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I do as well, I feel like if I keep thinking too much at night, I can't fall asleep, but I don't want to think, I just want to sleep
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I smoke way too much even more when I'm stressed . I smoke about 2 packs a day .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M Jan 2

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    I wouldn't say too much....but a lot lol
    iridesca iridesca 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Far too much. I should spend my time doing more productive things. Work, for example.
    lostluxray lostluxray 70+ 1 Response Jan 4

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    Maybe I should have let him take me. Should have let him fool me, take me away from here but I guess running away wouldn't solve it all. I think he knew that I would never choose...
    ShakenButNotBroken ShakenButNotBroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I sleep too much! I hate that I'm not a go getter no more. I'm experienced, degreed intelligent but all I want to do is shut out the world because of fear of rejection. I sleep 12...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    People see me as this quiet person. I am quiet but only to people that I'm not conformable with. So once I'm used to someone (I get used to people online quicker than in real life...
    rcmh171822 rcmh171822 18-21, F Jan 5

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    i think its wonderful if we could find someone who could actually listen to us and share their thoughts with us. i am a married lady who marry with the intention of sharing every...
    wanderess wanderess 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    IF I HAD "TIME MACHINE"..........MY GOD!!! THAT WOULD BE SO COOL.............FIRST OF ALL I WOULD SHAKE HANDS WITH DINOSAURS.....MOCK THEM AND RUN......AND WOULD GO IN FUTURE TO...
    noahryan noahryan 18-21, M 6 Responses Jan 7

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    I can't lie. For one, I'm a bad liar. And when I do lie, and it's a big one, I hold a guilty conscious over my head and I can't get over it for a while. This is why I don't lie...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Way way too much! Often late at night. Often at my most tired. So frustrating:(
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 10

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    Dont you sometimes think that you overthink things.If you dont get me let me give you an example how ridiculous it is to think about thinking too much right :) Well anyway i think...
    thehman731 thehman731 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    i think too much holy ****
    callmesavxo callmesavxo 18-21, F Jan 17

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    I think too much of nonsense things. I'm just wasting my time on that stuff. I just want to be motivated, but i don't know how to start with it.
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F Jan 19

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    I think too much to a point i cant sleep like right now...its 3.40am and i cant sleep...i think about the past alot and all the negative things ive done and what i couldve done...
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M Jan 19

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    Sigh... I know why I think too much! Lol. It's because the once a month thing. (−_−;)
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    (to be honest) i care way too much about those people i am going to meet again. how do they think about me if i did something stupidly awkward i will rather die than see there...
    brooke2001 brooke2001 13-15, F Jan 21

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    He gives me many reasons to just leave him..he tells me it's not gonna work out but when he asks to chill I still say yes. When he calls me late at night because he needs someone...
    annaycarbonneau annaycarbonneau 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who experiences this, but at some point, everyone thinks too much. We fantasise and overthink to the point where we create tremendous amount of...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 24 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't care too much for money....money can't buy me LOVE....
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    Four meals a day, with lots of snacking in between, a few beers with friends, and lots of sweets for dessert afterward... that's not too much, is it?
    AFewMoreBites AFewMoreBites 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    i probably swear too much. oh ******* well
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 13 Responses