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I Fight Too Much With My Boyfriend

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    I Feel Like It's All My Fault

    I fight with my boyfriend constantly. It's a miracle if we go an entire day without fighting. For the first few months of our 9 month relationship, everything was perfect and amazing. We hit a rough patch somewhere in July, and fought every single day for an entire month. But we...
    darkraindrop darkraindrop 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Been In A Long Relationship: Stuck And Unsure Of What To Do!!

    Hi guys and gals,I'm really looking for some insight about what your perspective is about my situation and how to better improve or what to do about it. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 8yrs now. We've dated since middle school; however, we were always on and off (we broke up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23, 2012

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    All My Boyfriend and I Do Is Fight.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months of our relationship was so perfect. There was no fighting, no arguing, no getting jealous, no nothing! Now, all we do is fight. Our fights are about the most ridiculious things. Regardless, we always make...
    TiffanyLynn88 TiffanyLynn88 18-21 4 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    He Nags Me to Death

    Me and my partner fight regularly.  I don't start fights but react to his chronic nagging about my choices and decision to remain on medication long term for my well being.  I try so hard to get it across to him that I have respected every one of his choices and never...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2008

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    Dragon Vs Dragon

    I love my bf. I'm in my 30's, he in 40's. I dote him as a friend, teacher  and lover. We're both born in dragon year. Perhaps that's why we fight over stupid things like jealousy. I may not be pretty, but I'm happy all the time. That attracts guys' attention. Not good. So I...
    caren caren 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    I Need Help!!

    My boyfriend and i have been arguing. This time, he assumed i wanted to break with him. This argument was my fault cause i didn't tell him about a guy who asked for my number and even called me. I didn't tell my boyfriend this straight away cause we were suppose to spend time...
    letitallout16 letitallout16 18-21 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    My Boyfriend & I Constantly Argue, About Stupid Things.

    Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we love each other, we'd do anything for eachother, we go to the same high school & we see each other every weekend, when we argue its always over in a hour or less. We argue about stupid things & I feel like its my fault, I always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

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    When It's Good, It's Good, But When It's Bad It's Bad.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. This is my first real, serious relationship with someone. I really care about him, but when we fight it's bad. He always tells me it's my fault and that i'm the one that needs to fix it. But I have trust issues with him. See...
    cherries1234 cherries1234 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    Our First Big Fight Ever..

    Last Friday, I had a big fight with D, my boyfriend of 16 months and of 7-years difference. I know some people would call me childish if they're reading my story. Anyway, this fight was indirectly started by me because I was quite mad with him for making too many excuses...
    allysa2610 allysa2610 22-25 Jun 27, 2011

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    It'S Too Difficult At This Point

    I'm almost six years into this relationship and what I once thought was attributable to our young age has nothing to do with that. Some parts of a person's personality can't be chalked up to teenage immaturity, some parts are just permanent fixtures. We're having a dinner party...
    stanleyKub stanleyKub 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Do.

    Me and my boyfriend fight way to much. At this moment we are'nt together. He thinks our problem is me because i get mad and upset about "stupid" things. I feel I'm too young to be stuck in a relashionship like this. I never get to do what I want It's always us. He...
    krystenperkins krystenperkins 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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