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I Fight Too Much With My Boyfriend

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    I Feel Like It's All My Fault

    I fight with my boyfriend constantly. It's a miracle if we go an entire day without fighting. For the first few months of our 9 month relationship, everything was perfect and amazing. We hit a rough patch somewhere in July, and fought every single day for an entire month. But we...
    darkraindrop darkraindrop 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    All My Boyfriend and I Do Is Fight.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months of our relationship was so perfect. There was no fighting, no arguing, no getting jealous, no nothing! Now, all we do is fight. Our fights are about the most ridiculious things. Regardless, we always make...
    TiffanyLynn88 TiffanyLynn88 18-21 4 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    When It's Good, It's Good, But When It's Bad It's Bad.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. This is my first real, serious relationship with someone. I really care about him, but when we fight it's bad. He always tells me it's my fault and that i'm the one that needs to fix it. But I have trust issues with him. See...
    cherries1234 cherries1234 26-30, F Jan 19, 2010

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    Our First Big Fight Ever..

    Last Friday, I had a big fight with D, my boyfriend of 16 months and of 7-years difference. I know some people would call me childish if they're reading my story. Anyway, this fight was indirectly started by me because I was quite mad with him for making too many excuses...
    allysa2610 allysa2610 22-25 Jun 27, 2011

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    Dragon Vs Dragon

    I love my bf. I'm in my 30's, he in 40's. I dote him as a friend, teacher  and lover. We're both born in dragon year. Perhaps that's why we fight over stupid things like jealousy. I may not be pretty, but I'm happy all the time. That attracts guys' attention. Not good. So I...
    caren caren 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    I Don't Know What To Do.

    Me and my boyfriend fight way to much. At this moment we are'nt together. He thinks our problem is me because i get mad and upset about "stupid" things. I feel I'm too young to be stuck in a relashionship like this. I never get to do what I want It's always us. He...
    krystenperkins krystenperkins 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    It'S Too Difficult At This Point

    I'm almost six years into this relationship and what I once thought was attributable to our young age has nothing to do with that. Some parts of a person's personality can't be chalked up to teenage immaturity, some parts are just permanent fixtures. We're having a dinner party...
    stanleyKub stanleyKub 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    He Nags Me to Death

    Me and my partner fight regularly.  I don't start fights but react to his chronic nagging about my choices and decision to remain on medication long term for my well being.  I try so hard to get it across to him that I have respected every one of his choices and never...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2008

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    Been In A Long Relationship: Stuck And Unsure Of What To Do!!

    Hi guys and gals,I'm really looking for some insight about what your perspective is about my situation and how to better improve or what to do about it. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 8yrs now. We've dated since middle school; however, we were always on and off (we broke up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23, 2012

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    My Boyfriend & I Constantly Argue, About Stupid Things.

    Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we love each other, we'd do anything for eachother, we go to the same high school & we see each other every weekend, when we argue its always over in a hour or less. We argue about stupid things & I feel like its my fault, I always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

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    I Need Help!!

    My boyfriend and i have been arguing. This time, he assumed i wanted to break with him. This argument was my fault cause i didn't tell him about a guy who asked for my number and even called me. I didn't tell my boyfriend this straight away cause we were suppose to spend time...
    letitallout16 letitallout16 18-21 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    One of the things I ponder on too much is that like isn't it crazy that there is a possibility of of us actually being crazy. Like we think we have a family and a nice house and we...
    Unicornwhisperer03 Unicornwhisperer03 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I get stuck in this rut and think over and over that I will never be as gorgeous/beautiful/hot/sexy/thin as oh, let's say a billion other women who are much much more attractive...
    chelseeuh chelseeuh 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've posted this before, a long time ago. I've struggled with a certain aspect of my personality a lot this year. It's going to be challenged again, to a greater extent, pretty...
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    Sometimes I get sad about everything all at once. Only cause I over think to much lol. It sucks too cause I have insomnia so my mind likes to think about everything that's not good...
    oHDaily oHDaily 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My dog has been having problems and in extremely afraid. He has Lyme, the vets gave us meds to give home for 30 days. They said that he should be fine within a few days. But he's...
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    Waste Way Too Much Time On the Internet
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 21

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    Sleeping is never something that comes easy to me. Even as a child my mind was too full of unwanted thoughts. This last year has made sleep almost impossible. I have too much to...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    My heart hurts. I can't sleep. My eating... is weird. I don't eat as much as I did or if I eat at all.... I also seem to gorge myself on food too. I don't get it. It's both. How...
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 21

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    And it's much too quiet in here. I wanna disappear. I'm hearing myself thinking too clear.
    MissUxx MissUxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Pain changed me. Made me harder. Fear made me braver. Heart breaks made me wiser. Food made me fatter. Friends made my life more fun. Enemies taught me not to give up. Rivals...
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    Sometimes, I feel like I think way too much for my own good. I wish I could be one of those people that just goes with the flow without worrying about unnecessary things. I wish...
    fatlover339 fatlover339 18-21, M Jun 18

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    Yes, :/ I do this WAYYYY too oftern. It leads to destructive results especially with bipolar and anxiety. I'm getting treatment soon but I do this, get my hopes way up too high.
    OKPunk OKPunk 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    Ive admitted to myself i dont want random hookups anymore.. Ive wanted something real once i knew i Was in love with you but i guess karma had its way with me and now you dont care...
    canabina canabina 18-21, F Jun 17

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    My Rock.......It's not when, if, where or how I will fall..., its the rock beneath me that holds still thru it all.The raging seas throws waves higher over ones vessel where it...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Jun 17

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    My friend told me I say sorry way too much and my response to that was "I know, sorry!"
    silence3412 silence3412 16-17, F Jun 16

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    I have experienced almost everything in life going into my 30's. Love, hate, lust, loss, fights, war, travels - you name it, everything. All in my mind.
    radin101 radin101 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 16

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    too much of anything is too much.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Which is the case on most days Especially those days where I read through your notes Not addressed to any one person in particular I can leave that up to my imagination as I dress...
    ImagineThat101 ImagineThat101 26-30, F Jun 15

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    Sometimes everything just becomes too much and it's sad because that 'sometimes' is becoming all the time. It shouldn't be this way should it? Everyday, almost every second I...
    savvymustdie savvymustdie 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    Bryce Mitchell is a guy I meet online two years ago on "tagged". He was hopeless romantic .I was 19 going on 20 and he was 22. We shared the same Birthday June 24. I remember...
    BooBugg BooBugg 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    yet sometimes not enough. I care too much and yet not enough, I have been told. I speak too often and more often, I know, I don't say enough. I try too hard and know I should have...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 14

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    yet sometimes not enough. I care too much and yet not enough, I have been told. I speak too often and more often, I know, not enough. I try too hard and know I should have tried a...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    yet sometimes not enough. I care too much and yet not enough, I have been told. I speak too often and more often, I know, not enough. I try too hard and know I should have tried a...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M Jun 14

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    And sometimes not enough. I care too much and yet not enough, I have been told. I speak too often and more often, I know, not enough. I try too hard and know I should have tried a...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M Jun 14

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    And sometimes not enough. I care too much and yet not enough, I have been told. I speak too often and more often, I know, not enough. I try too hard and know I should have tried a...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M Jun 14

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