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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 22 People

    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 33 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2014

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    Facebook!! :P I literally made you two days ago at 19 years of age! And all my friends are saying I have finally seen light... Hehe. I didn't make you all those years ago, because...
    23kk23 23kk23 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It was a busy morning. Awake early, and had things to do. Took a nap late afternoon. Now what? There are many activities going on in my new location, but I'm not ready to get...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    No I don't think I want. I am positively sure about it. After 13 years of marriage, of which the most part in silent pain, I am beginning to feel I am drowning and I can't take it...
    andy7rs andy7rs 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Okay... This is embarrassing. Here's a funny story for you guys. So about two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were doing it upstairs in his room- quietly. His parents always knock...
    Daisygirl08 Daisygirl08 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I jut started my first year at university and I got into a relationship with a guy for 6 months and he abused me throughout. Emotionally, physically and sexually. He broke my...
    Experience780 Experience780 18-21, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I look on here and am deeply saddened by the number of people who want to kill themselves. Many at such a young age, when they have not even begun to live their lives. They get in...
    GraceIsMine GraceIsMine 66-70, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Finally, after a year and a half. I have cut my hair and shaved my beard. Feels good.
    SimplyAtheist SimplyAtheist 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    Hi, Im Emily nice to meet you! I made this profile to express my feelings about my diorced parents. Feel free to share your story with me in message! i will post my story soon- xo...
    mylifeinabox1989 mylifeinabox1989 13-15, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My eldest is 11 years old and I have had to bathe my kids in rooibos tea cos anything would set off their skin. After years of trying everythign from the dermatologists, old...
    Ohanaloves Ohanaloves 36-40, F 18 hrs ago

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    I'll probably regret writing this as well. I regret a lot of things I've done. While I regret putting myself in this currently uncomfortable position, I'm learning to accept who I...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm new to this but I've never gotten over my experience and I thought maybe sharing it would help. I don't even care if no one takes the time to read my story, honestly. I am...
    daisyparker daisyparker 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was still legally a child. I guess I could have claimed neglect. My ***-hole step mom decided it (everytime she got paid) would be okay for her to buy "cute shoes" instead of...
    mstenorsaxplayer mstenorsaxplayer 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm 29 we got married in 2011 we have a son almost 3. My husband didn't want me sexually ever since I gave birth to my son I soon got to find out he had erectile issues we tried...
    Bubblysumu Bubblysumu 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For those of you with divorced parents that had a low conflict relationship but were completely unhappy.... Do you think things would have been better had they stuck it out?
    Apple182 Apple182 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For some time now, my husband has been playing me as a fool by cheating on me. He has been finally caught when I hired a PI. I received his thorough investigative report three...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 21 and my parents recently divorced last year when I was 20. They were married for 25 years before my dad pulled the idiot card one night. He got drunk and accused my mom of...
    gymcheer1218 gymcheer1218 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm attracted to my best friend. As it turns out, her boyfriend IS staying locally for college, at least for now. I'm not gonna say I'm kinda upset and disappointed, but I'm kinda...
    sassycastiel sassycastiel 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am going through a divorce after 15 years of....a sick marriage with two young kids age 7 and 3. There has been a lot of emotional/psychological abuse, control issues, and...
    betweenrockandhardplace betweenrockandhardplace 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Strange day today. Started with a huge argument over signing the divorce papers. He had already agreed to sign and suddenly had a problem with paying the kids health insurance...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    I have been struggling with dermatillomania for the past six years. I always thought something was wrong with me. I was the only onein my family to do it and no one could...
    liquideyeliner liquideyeliner 16-17, F Jun 22

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    I think once you have been married for 20+ years, you expect that the relationship is going to make it, even if it isn't perfect. I met my ex when I was 20 in FL, we were both...
    RJWLAW48 RJWLAW48 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    Its Fathers day here in America and the roads and stores here are fairly quiet. Just like Mothers day, everyone is out celebrating Fathers day with their father, grandfather or...
    spackle spackle 41-45 Jun 21

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    Hi to all the beautiful people with Mild Cp. You guys are special and I know how to feels to have Mild Cp. I have it on my left side. I also have a shunt because of the fluid that...
    taurusboi23 taurusboi23 22-25, M Jun 21

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    Just a little background..... My divorce should be final within a month. My soon to be ex and I have been separated for almost 3 years, 2 of those we have lived in separate states...
    MyKidsAreMyWorld MyKidsAreMyWorld 36-40, F Jun 21

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    I am a male who's married to a wife that has been physically and verbally abusive to me over the years. Somehow the latest round of argument led to the "D" word (again). I tried...
    DeepVoice999 DeepVoice999 41-45, M Jun 20

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    This is the first part of my story that leads to the divorce that I'm currently going through.The first time my husband and I went through a separation was March 2013. At that time...
    TheNewClassic82 TheNewClassic82 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    As a teen, I had ridiculously heavy menstrual cycles, so, at the suggestion of my doctor, I began taking birth control pills, and continued taking them until I was 25 and married...
    roswartz roswartz 31-35, F Jun 20

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    He is an absolutely terrible person. Why didn't I see this years ago?? He has taken everything away from us, house, money, and now he is trying to take my car. He has left us...
    SunAgain SunAgain 31-35, F Jun 19

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    My parents have been divorced for over 10 years. I don't understand why they still fight with one another and put me in the middle. I should've just went to visit my father instead...
    BornInTheWrongEra72 BornInTheWrongEra72 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19

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