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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 24 People

    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 36-40, F 39 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Do any of you (those with borderline) find you feel like you have to be in a relationship?? You're always on the prowl for one? For me I'm this way big time. If I sense a...
    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Which takes a stronger person to do? 1.Stay married to someone who betrayed you, try to accept it and move on? 2. Get a divorce and start new, away from all the past hauntings of...
    iwillneverheal iwillneverheal 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    3 times this year. I have 2 happily married sisters. And 3 times in my dream they were planing for a divorce, I tried to prevent and told them the consequences but they insisted...
    defiantmisfit defiantmisfit 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    couldn't pick a proper group but damn I am pissed at my mum. she keeps saying that I am acting like my dad though I hate him just because I said a few words like him. come on man...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My parents divorced this year. Part of me is like, "Thank God!" and the other part is like "Oh, Why me?" My mom blames it on Dad, and Dad blames it on mom. They'd argue to the...
    validice validice 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Mom blamed it on me. Dad blamed it on mom. About a year later I'm glad its all worked out well for the both of them. Mom lives in the Caribbean, Dad lives with his girlfriend in...
    BrookeSandhurst BrookeSandhurst 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We have been married for 20 years and have a 10 y.o. together. We have been through many things together, like any couple I guess. In our marriage I am the one who leads and he is...
    Miranam8 Miranam8 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was raised in a home where my dad treated my mum like filth which led to me being with a controlling physically and mentally abusive man. I remember the one time I asked my dad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My ex as I like to call him even though we are still married just can't get enough of making me miserable. He assaulted me, then pulled a gun on the cops. All I wanted was to...
    nurselife88 nurselife88 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was arrested and charged with a DUI last March, and this has the most arduous and stressful event in my life since my divorce back on 2005. I was driving at night on my rural...
    agentnumber6 agentnumber6 41-45, M a week ago

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    what is your plan after your divorce?
    sadwife82 sadwife82 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    I think I'm going to start.. Tales of the Newly Divorced Girl... Things I'm figuring out to do on my own.. Lol.. OK, so here's the deal: he always did the lawn work. I never...
    mg75 mg75 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm in the middle of a separation with my wife of ten years im a recovering alcoholic and have been sober for a year and a half.i also cheated on her rite out of rehab and finally...
    truedad truedad 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I don't really have any other place to process this, so I'll just do it here. This has got to be the craziest Rollercoaster of emotions I've ever experienced. When we finally...
    mg75 mg75 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Guess I'll be leaving now. I'm so happy I finally have them off.
    GvibesG GvibesG 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Has any of you feel sad even you are the one wants the divorce? I see the house where the children grew up and they still are young. My decision is going to change their lives...
    lostfoundusa lostfoundusa 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I am finally now divorced. I feel the biggest relief off of my shoulders that I haven't felt in months. I'm never speaking to my ex spouse ever again, and that knowledge makes me...
    Cadiaaya Cadiaaya 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    Finally think I have mustered the courage to set boundaries with my emotionally abusive STBX. Tired of him still having control over me even though I left almost 2 years ago.
    bcali bcali 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    ok so i finally have his ait schedule down packed. we get to talk everyday. he has to leave his phone in his room because it's not allowed in class. so we usually exchange...
    cupofteeee cupofteeee 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Today has been a whirlwind and I feel emotionally drained, but thankful to have this day behind me. My husband's lawyer was supposed to have discovery items to my lawyer ten days...
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    They divorced when I was 15. It sucked because in the middle of the school year, I had to move out of our nice 3-bedroom house to a small studio with just my mom. My brother was...
    hiddenkitty hiddenkitty 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I'm in love and it's the best damn feeling ever. Not only is she exactly my type, very pretty and has a great personality, but I know she wants me as much as I want her. Knowing...
    JaySmith9999 JaySmith9999 16-17, M Aug 18

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    I feel very happy to share my great and wonderful testimony with everyone on this site..: I was married for 7years to my wife and all of a sudden, another man came into the picture...
    AndreThompson1963 AndreThompson1963 51-55, M Aug 18

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    Has anyone gone through a DivorceCare support group program? In the bulletin at church yesterday there was a notice that my church was going to offer it in September. I'm seriously...
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    My husband is a psychopath. He has no remorse or accountability for his actions. He had numerous affairs, lied and deceived me from the day we married. His family knew what he was...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F Aug 16