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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 24 People

    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 36-40, F 39 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Horray it's good to know there are other people like me..... I have been trying to find something like this for a long time and it wasn't until yesterday my friend said are you on...
    Rhi4 Rhi4 31-35, F 14 mins ago

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    I haven't been sleeping lately and the last week has been especially ruthless. I toss and turn all night and nothing seems to soothe me. My mind won't stop wandering and spinning...
    pinkcloudsandbrokenhearts pinkcloudsandbrokenhearts 26-30, F 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    Well my parents are divorced and they have been since I was about six years old. They would yell and scream at each other outside our aprament at the time then my dad just left...
    Clarajay Clarajay 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I finally gave into this account. I've had to get rid of several of Jessy's accounts but she just makes new ones. I understand her wanting her own space. this time I just took our...
    JessygotaBooBoo JessygotaBooBoo 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    The last year and a half have been a daily struggle. I've been separated from my wife for nearly a year now. She's moved on with her new boyfriend. We were only married in Jan 2014...
    IsaacfromSC IsaacfromSC 26-30, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I haven't had a good friend in almost 10 years. I just want someone to talk to and go out for lunch with and just hang out with. I'm not easy to get along with because I'm quiet...
    ACWK226 ACWK226 22-25, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Ok so it's only Feb but I've been away from here and people have been worried so want to update you. Im ok now but I was cheating lots over Xmas and my bf finally found out. He is...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 12 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Now my best friend's wife is asking for a divorce. She is like horrible to him. Broke every door in his house. I don't know why he and I picked such abusive women. If I ever...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    It's been two weeks since he walked out of the house. Two weeks since I have been a single mom... although if you ask people who are close to me I have been a single mom for much...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 15 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've become angry again. The past two days I've been battling with my resentment toward him and what he did to me. I'm mad that after everything is said and done, I'm the one that...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I finally got the opportunity to fulfill a long time dream of mine, which was to get a home where both my girls would have their own rooms. I moved a month before my daughter...
    unbrokenground unbrokenground 36-40, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Today, I finally mustered up the courage to tell my crush that I liked her. (Yes, my crush is a she.) Since I only get to see her in my fourth period class, I thought I had plenty...
    SimplyConfusedd SimplyConfusedd 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I realize now that I am grieving. Not so much my wife or my marriage but missing my kids. Dumb things like finding someone didn't close the cereal bag. Silverware on the floor...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Woo hoo!! Didn't think it was going to be done today, but it finally is! I am free of the abuse!!
    EarnMe EarnMe 41-45, F 16 Responses 1 day ago

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    After thinking I was just tired and stressed from moving and selling my previous home and turning completely yellow (eyes and skin), I went to the doctor. I was hospitalized after...
    Zomar323 Zomar323 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Recently, one of the women that I used to date made false accusations towards me and tried to “bait” me to engage in an argument. To be honest, I was reckless with the way I...
    mikeeshoe mikeeshoe 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    The Martian Sol 2-9-16 Where to begin? Last night was rather interesting to say the least. You could say I was a bit down. It started with me coming home to unpack what...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Today, I was diagnosed with Duane Syndrome. After 17 long years of wandering what's wrong with me, and why my eyes are so different from other peoples', I finally have closure. I...
    katiebug7 katiebug7 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    When I was little, about 5 years old, me, my dad and my mom went to France with my aunt and her children. Not Paris, just the south of France. We were camping there and we were...
    6tallperson5 6tallperson5 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    Divorce is hard. Missing your kids is by far the hardest. Even the constant sibling fighting is hard. I'm learning to live with the loneliness. The quietness of the night. I...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I kinda hate admitting this? idk why. I've always said my parents divorce never affected me..well cause it didn't ? at the time. i mean when they separated of course i cried before...
    SailorMarz SailorMarz 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I never thought that it would happen. Especially not like this. I never thought of my family to become a divorced family. It was during my senior year of high school. Just last...
    YoSavvyGirl YoSavvyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey I know what it's like to have parents who have divorced I know that everybody feels like a moment of sadness would take all the troubles a way I also know that children blame...
    chadlawless chadlawless 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    My dad is a ****, that's all.
    Suspect00 Suspect00 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate my parents divorce. It ******* me off for nearly 16 years now. But gotta accept it. I live with my mum in Queensland while my dad in Victoria, which it my home, where I born...
    brittafritta brittafritta 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    that is an understatement on my part. i have no relationship with him...sure ive tried over the years. and i guess he has too a point. i am the oldest of 4 kids plus the only...
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My mom and dad are divorced and both have remarried. I live with my mom and stepdad while my younger brother lives with our dad and stepmom. I don't really like being separated...
    tiffany101402 tiffany101402 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Divorce is over on the 16 February, my wife imposed celibacy from day one,unless she was in the mood,about once every 3 years, she wouldn't work and help me support the house,it...
    deg1965 deg1965 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    I just realised that the divorce letter I sent a few days ago had no stamp. In that haste to get to the post box and being in tears, I wasn't thinking so clearly. How silly. Now I...
    majesticsea majesticsea 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Tonight I came across this great site on how to save your marriage. Link: http://www.marriagebuilders.com//graphic/mbi8111_quit.html And as I am sitting here reading along, all I...
    neptunemoon neptunemoon 41-45, F Jan 31

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    they have been divorce for 18 years. enjoy them while they are together because one day they'll leave each other. you don't realize what you have till it's all gone. i barely even...
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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