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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 23 People

    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I don't remember a time when parents were together. I don't even know what a functioning family is like. I guess I have TV to show me, right? My parents divorced when I was four...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    The emotional drainage is endless. Again, my mom asked about my plans for college. I don't blame her. She has to plan for her own life after I'm gone. I'm just always reluctant to...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Hello EP peeps! My own parents are divorced. I have other family members who have been divorce and friends too. So, I have witnessed many family breakups. For these reasons have...
    Mayah09 Mayah09 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The good thing about having divorced parents who dont talk to each other is you can say you're going to the others house but rly go anywhere
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    The lies don't stop. I don't get it. Ever since I was a child my mother would repeat to me all the things that went down during the divorce. She'd tell me such nasty things, that...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Now I do. Something recently happened. My little sister and mom keep crying. My dad seems happy about leaving though. I couldn't care less. I'm apathetic I guess or maybe I'm just...
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Having to choose between my mother and father for every damn holiday! It makes me so upset and makes them even more when I "choose" the other. I hate this :/
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cant deny magic happening every day. Last Saturday I was sitting on the tarrace in the October afternoon sun. Was writing words like these: I am ready to say i have become...
    redribbonbook redribbonbook 46-50 6 days ago

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    I finally have access to my Steam account again, man that was a long month without it. I had to go out to buy a router just to bypass the dorm's crappy security. Now I just need to...
    Zer0Sniper Zer0Sniper 22-25, M Sep 27

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    I met this guy about a month ago at school. We've been best friends ever since:) But then I realized I could no longer feel emotion. I felt nothing when we kissed. I just felt...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F Sep 28

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    When did I start growing up? Is it when I lost my child-like curiosity? When I stopped looking at a flower and admire its beauty? When the only books I read now are deemed...
    sasunaruizlove sasunaruizlove 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Last Saturday I finished a Contiki Tour around Europe. We visited the Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Italy, Switzerland and France. I never thought I would see Europe by going on a...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F Oct 4

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    I'm in hospital trying to figure out whether I have BPD or what the heck is going on with me. What's been going on with me since I was a kid. I'm so grateful for this site to have...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I FINALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! She is called Charlotte and is amazing! ILY Lottie <3
    secretly1honest secretly1honest 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I had a the same boyfriend since I was 14 and I kept it from my parents lest they punish me. Well, we've been dating for 5 years and I finally have introduced him to my family...
    SophiaTaylor123 SophiaTaylor123 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    HI ALL IM NEW HERE I LIVE IN SA I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS NOW AND I HAVE MY WIFE I JUST CANT SEEM TO GET HER TO DIVORCE ME.SHE NAGS ALL THE TIME IS VERY SELFISH.I HATE HER...
    RICKZ1ZN RICKZ1ZN 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    When you break the vows of marriage, you have lied before God, you have before all the company of Heaven. Make a marriage takes steadfast devotion. Divorce may be legal in the...
    Nigel1224 Nigel1224 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My dad's an ***, simple as that, but I'm the only one in my family of four that wants him out of the picture. He's been a nightmare for years and I only realized that he is what...
    Jules725 Jules725 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    You know when you get the cue for the right time on some thing? well...i think this is it. this is my cue to divorce my husband. We have been very unhappy with our marriage. From...
    lilacslolita lilacslolita 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Hands Off My Babies!-After my children and I escaped my ex husband in January 2001 after 12 years of marriage and I filed for a divorce within the United States,he filed the Hague...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F Oct 7

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    My first boyfriend was an Indian and I'm a Filipino. I'm also his first girlfriend. We've met in an online game. He messaged me first. Then, we talked all day and night. Don't...
    MissRMR MissRMR 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am not sure what to make of this: I married the second guy I ever dated, I was getting older and wanted a family. I knew I didn't love him but we had fun times. I ultimately...
    NJChica NJChica 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really think I've given up. I've literally thrown my hands in the air and said to HE LL with it. I begged, I pleaded , I've worried myself sick, and I've cried enough to fill an...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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    Since starting my own business 2 months ago, my anxiety has calmed down so much and I'm shocked what I've been able to do! It's also helped with my depression and I don't self harm...
    SecretGirl14 SecretGirl14 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    One time at end of seventh grade I went on a field trip to the zoo. When I got off the bus, without a reason, a blonde chick slapped me I was in shock for I had never been slapped...
    weakling7 weakling7 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    My parents got divorced when I was 13. They thought I was old enough to handle it and I was. The divorce was fine but then my dad got remarried literally a month later. One month...
    zeemonsterxx zeemonsterxx 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Imagine you want to get a divorce because you are in an abusive relationship or because your partner cheats or treats you badly.You can imagine that? Good imagine now you are not...
    Krist0f Krist0f 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    I was married to an abusive piece of **** for six years but I finally escaped two years ago. I still get scared sometimes of him coming back and finding me
    VanValentina VanValentina 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Update #13 The last month or so has been a bit of a wild ride at times. I've been out of the house for a month now and I probably would have done it sooner if I really knew how...
    IU74 IU74 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 21

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    It started in June, well in reality it started before that. My husband and I had to put our first dog down, one that was very very much mine. He was sick and it was for the best...
    bellfalls bellfalls 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    My mom and dad got divorced when I was 15. It was a really ugly, messy divorce and I went through a time of deep depression because of it. A year later, after only knowing her for...
    lola023 lola023 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Here's a story for you, There's a girl who struggling everyday. Her whole life was full of issues. She was born. & her mother had no idea who her father was. & grew up without...
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Approximately1 month ago, my partner while crying on our deck told me she had strong feelings for her boss and was moving in with her and packed and left. We were together for a...
    purpleocity purpleocity 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Im done finally living a false reality. I never thought i would get over my wife, i truly loved her until i realized she was a fake person. Im glad it is done now for good. I have...
    mckinney9801 mckinney9801 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    STBX is back in town after 2 weeks away spent with his gF. This is going to be a difficult week. The realty of our divorce is setting in for him and he's realizing that he does not...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 22

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    My boyfriend is actually my ex-husband. We got divorced about five months ago, his choice, not mine, although the four-year marriage was stressful for both of us. About two...
    moonkitty3 moonkitty3 41-45, F Sep 23

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    I wasn't married so i can't get divorced but i wanted to share my story here because we were so close as married and we broke up. and i feel like we got divorced. it is really...
    aunur aunur 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    How to survive a divorce by MrHeartaFire 1)talk to God by begging, pleading , wailing, crying,swearing, yelling, getting mad 2)get same said God to hold you still like a crying...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 30

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