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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 23 People

    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    I don't remember a time when parents were together. I don't even know what a functioning family is like. I guess I have TV to show me, right? My parents divorced when I was four...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    The emotional drainage is endless. Again, my mom asked about my plans for college. I don't blame her. She has to plan for her own life after I'm gone. I'm just always reluctant to...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F Oct 15

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    I am not part of this forum but I would appreciate any input others may have. I would like to ask people of divorced parents if there was ever a time in your parents marriage that...
    lilymn lilymn 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Hello EP peeps! My own parents are divorced. I have other family members who have been divorce and friends too. So, I have witnessed many family breakups. For these reasons have...
    Mayah09 Mayah09 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The good thing about having divorced parents who dont talk to each other is you can say you're going to the others house but rly go anywhere
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    The lies don't stop. I don't get it. Ever since I was a child my mother would repeat to me all the things that went down during the divorce. She'd tell me such nasty things, that...
    mishandle mishandle 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    My parents divorced when I was 3, I always heard that my dad was getting work done in Cape Verde. I found out last night when I asked my mom when my father was coming back :|
    TheAmazingLucaMan TheAmazingLucaMan 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    My parents have been divorced for about 5 years. I'm okay with it because when they were together they argued a lot, and now they seem to be happier. My dad has a girl friend. She...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Having to choose between my mother and father for every damn holiday! It makes me so upset and makes them even more when I "choose" the other. I hate this :/
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I cant deny magic happening every day. Last Saturday I was sitting on the tarrace in the October afternoon sun. Was writing words like these: I am ready to say i have become...
    redribbonbook redribbonbook 46-50 Oct 14

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    I finally have access to my Steam account again, man that was a long month without it. I had to go out to buy a router just to bypass the dorm's crappy security. Now I just need to...
    Zer0Sniper Zer0Sniper 22-25, M Sep 27

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    I met this guy about a month ago at school. We've been best friends ever since:) But then I realized I could no longer feel emotion. I felt nothing when we kissed. I just felt...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F Sep 28

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    When did I start growing up? Is it when I lost my child-like curiosity? When I stopped looking at a flower and admire its beauty? When the only books I read now are deemed...
    sasunaruizlove sasunaruizlove 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Last Saturday I finished a Contiki Tour around Europe. We visited the Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Italy, Switzerland and France. I never thought I would see Europe by going on a...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I'm in hospital trying to figure out whether I have BPD or what the heck is going on with me. What's been going on with me since I was a kid. I'm so grateful for this site to have...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I FINALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! She is called Charlotte and is amazing! ILY Lottie <3
    secretly1honest secretly1honest 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I had a the same boyfriend since I was 14 and I kept it from my parents lest they punish me. Well, we've been dating for 5 years and I finally have introduced him to my family...
    SophiaTaylor123 SophiaTaylor123 18-21, F a week ago

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    I've got ADD! I just recently found out about it. when I was in the 8th grade I started noticing that I might have something wrong but now I'm a senior in high school & I finally...
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm awake again. I would say "I had a weird dream and it woke me up", but being pregnant means ALL my dreams are weird. It's the nature of the beast. So here I sit, fixated on the...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Human beings aren't immortal ,how human relationships can be?Finding love,marriage are as common as breakups and divorces!Sorrow comes when we are unable to accept it!The inability...
    liza1996 liza1996 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    This is what I wanted but I'm so sad right now....I miss my family....this last week has been so hard....I have cried all week long and I can't seem to stop it....I feel like I...
    luvhimtoo luvhimtoo 36-40, F 3 Responses 38 mins ago

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    Hands Off My Babies!-After my children and I escaped my ex husband in January 2001 after 12 years of marriage and I filed for a divorce within the United States,he filed the Hague...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F Oct 7

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    I am getting a divorce. I’ve waited a very long time to say those words. And even though I’m scared, at the same time I’m relieved that this is coming to an end. I don’t...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have worked in this café for 2 years. I laid an eye on him on first sight. He is quiet, friendly looking and mysterious. He came to the coffee shop everyday for a coffee, but no...
    seraphurn seraphurn 22-25 2 hrs ago

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    My latest bout with Grover’s Disease came from being very sick. I thought it was a flu or cold. But it only lasted 1-2 days and simply vanished. What I was “bugged” by was...
    rpayton805 rpayton805 61-65, M 4 hrs ago

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    My parents got divorced when I was 13. They thought I was old enough to handle it and I was. The divorce was fine but then my dad got remarried literally a month later. One month...
    zeemonsterxx zeemonsterxx 18-21, F Oct 16

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    I am in the middle of a rough divorce. This is not like the other times I have lost at love. I was married to someone else when my wife and I met and she was engaged. Long story...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My heartbeat longs to match yours. I cannot wait for the day when our two souls finally converge and commence in pure bliss. The moment I've been longing for my whole life, I can...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I was married to an abusive piece of **** for six years but I finally escaped two years ago. I still get scared sometimes of him coming back and finding me
    VanValentina VanValentina 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    It started in June, well in reality it started before that. My husband and I had to put our first dog down, one that was very very much mine. He was sick and it was for the best...
    bellfalls bellfalls 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    My mom and dad got divorced when I was 15. It was a really ugly, messy divorce and I went through a time of deep depression because of it. A year later, after only knowing her for...
    lola023 lola023 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Here's a story for you, There's a girl who struggling everyday. Her whole life was full of issues. She was born. & her mother had no idea who her father was. & grew up without...
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Approximately1 month ago, my partner while crying on our deck told me she had strong feelings for her boss and was moving in with her and packed and left. We were together for a...
    purpleocity purpleocity 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Im done finally living a false reality. I never thought i would get over my wife, i truly loved her until i realized she was a fake person. Im glad it is done now for good. I have...
    mckinney9801 mckinney9801 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    HI ALL IM NEW HERE I LIVE IN SA I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS NOW AND I HAVE MY WIFE I JUST CANT SEEM TO GET HER TO DIVORCE ME.SHE NAGS ALL THE TIME IS VERY SELFISH.I HATE HER...
    RICKZ1ZN RICKZ1ZN 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I apologize for those who have had divorce for good reasons but I hate divorce with a passion. I have quite a few family members who have been through this. It makes me sad to see...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have really been stalled out emotionally since the end of June when I finished my graduate degree. I had no free time prior to that to really entertain my thought patterns, that...
    ironandcoffee ironandcoffee 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wasn't married so i can't get divorced but i wanted to share my story here because we were so close as married and we broke up. and i feel like we got divorced. it is really...
    aunur aunur 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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