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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 23 People

    I Miss My Children - I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    I've been married for 8 years, I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    Am I Blessed? - I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Got My Papers Yesterday - I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Well Thats Done...moving On - July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I Am My Own Person! - I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    The past several months have been the most intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Just Beginning The Process - Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today! - My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce??? - We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    My parents got divorced a few years ago and I want them to be happy, but it's not easy to watch my parents date other people. Recently my mom started seeing a man who had a 19 year...
    lesliemonster lesliemonster 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    As a child, I remember witnessing the separation of my parents, not sure how old I was, too small to have seen that. There was a big fight, brutal, stabbing and yelling going and I...
    MarioPm MarioPm 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Three days after my birthday I found out my parents were separating. It looked like things were going on the right track..... I couldn't have been more wrong. I found the divorce...
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    My parents are divorced and I live with my mom and my older brother. My mom obviously loves my brother more and he gets whatever he wants but if I ask for anything she screams at...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    98% of the time, my parents splitting is a good thing. But sometimes it's bad. My dad has a really bad temper and has harmed my brothers and my mom. I don't know why he hasn't...
    emily39 emily39 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm having really bad family problems and I have no where to turn.. I can't deal with my parents and who they're with anymore I don't know what to do. it's like I have no parents...
    giannaxo giannaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My parents never got married but they did date as teenagers but my dad was a player bad lived with my now step mother And dated more than one chick at a time my mom got tired of...
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Well no not happy at all my dad went to prison my mom moved on again had her last child my dad got of prison and got back with my step mom I think that if my mom wanted him back he...
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F Apr 6

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    My whole childhood all I can remember is the abusive relationship between my parents. My dad didn't have a drinking problem but had a bad temper when he did. He broke my mams arms...
    MelC97 MelC97 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I looked out of the window, The darkness outside has now become my life. I thought of happier times when we used to play, laugh and talk as one. Oh, how I miss those days. Another...
    vit1234 vit1234 13-15, M Apr 8

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    Iife without father is much harder with living with a mom . I sometimes think he's here but as I look around he's not it hits me so hard I become so depressed..
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    After being a child bride at 15 and my father was 17, she felt she had enough of his childish crap after 10 years of hell. My mother said the only good thing in that marriage and...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Hello, I am thirty five years old, and I have a huge issue. I happen to be attracted to young guys. Now, I don't mean like little twelve year olds...but like fifteen and up. It's...
    OldWoman9 OldWoman9 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can't take much more anymore. I have divorced parents.. I get bullied at home where I am now, told I'm stupid, worthless and a bunch of other stuff. I clean the whole house...
    idkEP idkEP 13-15, F Mar 30

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    All my life I learned nothing, nothing but to hate myself and to serrate myself from others I'm worthless I have a sad and missable future of being alone and working alone when I...
    ZE13 ZE13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    My daughter has smas and is being cured by tilting upside down at a 45% angle on her back with arms over her head.She was looking at a surgical feeding tube after two years of...
    racheldunkley racheldunkley 41-45, F Apr 6

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    There are so many times I wish I could find that right girl. Whenever I hear from people close to me say they have finally have a b/f or g/f, it seems like I am the one that is...
    Barefooter25 Barefooter25 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    2014 with MIL so far, At the start of the year, MIL is now calling relatives and friends a lot with messages about not being alive much longer. End of January she is now doing...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Hello. My name is Channyn and here are 10 things that I've learned about myself since I've been diagnosed with Endometriosis that I would like to share with other Endo-sufferers...
    MrsHess MrsHess 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi, I am 17 years old and I have been dealing with HS for 4-5 years now. I was only diagnosed last month though because I was afraid and ashamed to tell anyone about it, including...
    ab019 ab019 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    I'm 23 and I've been married 10 months to the man I've been dating since I was 15. We've been together for 7 years. What makes this situation so hard is that there is nothing...
    Gingerness7 Gingerness7 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is a little harder then I thought.... A few years ago when I first joined this site I made the mistake of doing what I usually do in the real world...which is pretend like...
    xXxsilvermistxXx xXxsilvermistxXx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Well I finally got help with my depression that was contributed by my abusive cheating husband. I was alone, depressed, withdrawn, and suicidal. But as I got the time to hurt, I...
    2young4marriage 2young4marriage 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I've never been one to put much stock into signs.. My sister in law tends to say things like, "Oh, we were just talking about that, and look! It must be a sign, you should do it...
    hourbyhour163 hourbyhour163 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Well as some of you may know I'm in a sexless and loveless marriage . I sat down and wrote my husband a letter about 3 weeks ago telling him that I wasn't happy and wanted out of...
    nothingrite nothingrite 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I met J two years ago while I was living in VA. He was at the very beginning of a divorce after a 15 year marriage. Ironically his drinking was not the reason they were divorcing...
    MilitaryMomX3 MilitaryMomX3 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 30 and recently divorced. My ex was verbally, emotionally and somewhat physically abusive. At the same time, he was my best friend. We were together for 10 years and married...
    sdp11983 sdp11983 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I knew they were going to get a divorce sooner or later. It was obvious by all their bickering, so when they finally split, it seemed natural. I thought I was alright with it all...
    HawaiianPunchz HawaiianPunchz 16-17, F Mar 18

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    when i was little i got eczema. i was able to overcome it during high school but it was replace by constantly having boils. again i overcome this problem however because of wearing...
    cltv624 cltv624 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    After 5 years of marriage my wife left me. We had a rough relationship from the get-go and still opted to get married. Once married my wife changed, sexually, emotionally and...
    robmartin23 robmartin23 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    This is the first time seeing a blog-type program that welcomes this topic of discussion. After reading a few of the experience posts, I thought I'd also enjoy posting mine. I was...
    WhosThatTallGuy WhosThatTallGuy 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I signed the final divorce papers this morning with her. I went over it in detail and made sure she understood. We signed everything together as the kids watched television at...
    flibsley flibsley 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    When I was 6 years old my stepdad and my mom were having really bad relationship problems and they decided to get a divorce.. So one night he decided to come to out house (drunk...
    meaghan334 meaghan334 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Before I was born, my parents distanced themselves from my extended family. When I was really young, my mother divorced my father. Growing up, I moved from city to city. I never...
    normanperkins normanperkins 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been with my partner 2.5 years. Our first year together was a good one, he lived in his home and I lived in mine. He seemed so different from all the guys I had dated before...
    painfultime painfultime 31-35 2 Responses Mar 26

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    He Allowed It All-After my father's arrest conflict broke out between his mother and my mother. My mother wanted a divorce&to return to America with us kids. My grandmother wanted...
    2ndGenPuppet 2ndGenPuppet 18-21, F Mar 27

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    The only thing I had to hold onto when he left me for someone else... was the thought, that one day, he would realize that he will never find anyone better than me. Maybe someone...
    TypicalPisces TypicalPisces 31-35, F Mar 31

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    After a long night I finally broke thru the sadness of this divorce. I am worth more than to be treated like dirt. I have flaws and thats the way it is. Ask me in PM what I spent...
    40hornysingle 40hornysingle 41-45, M Apr 3

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    Why I had to get divorced I married my husband over 20 years ago. We have children, some in college, some at home. He is a military man, proud and honorable. He is also very...
    lizziegirl10 lizziegirl10 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    After being married for many years, I found out my wife ( my ex now as we are divorced for about ten years now) had been cheating on me with a guy who purported to be my best...
    ExperienceDan ExperienceDan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22