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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 22 People

    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 33 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2014

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    So my parents are divorced and I can say for sure that's one of the best things that has ever happened in my family. Right now they act like best friends - go to cinema together...
    dahilia dahilia 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My parents divorced when I was 11 years old. I cant believe its been two decades since then. My father has remarried and my mother hasnt. It was extremely difficult for about 8-10...
    Xhaxabrel Xhaxabrel 26-30, M Feb 17

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    My parents were divorced when I was a child.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M a week ago

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    my parrents didn't not because they love each other they dont, but they respect each other and feel responsible, my father is a faithful man a real Man loyal to his wife. I'm...
    Iamdusk Iamdusk 36-40, M Feb 21

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    I left my husband over a year ago. I have yet to file for divorce because I fear his wrath(he is emotionally abusive). He uses our kids as weapons against me and for this reason...
    bcali bcali 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    The Bane of My Existence-Instead of happy memories of "Daddy Daughter" outings and feelings of adoration I have memories of daily confrontations and feelings of general unease. He...
    MimsatheQuiet MimsatheQuiet 18-21, F Feb 11

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    I finally have a boyfriend!! He's sweet and he's caring and he's funny and he makes me feel so happy whenever I talk to him
    JoeyFire JoeyFire 16-17, M 9 Responses Feb 19

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    I finally have a snapchat ...I just got a new phone and it's great.....add me its angel_hino1122
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Its been a while since i posted a topic here on EP. I was a long time member of EP although i left EP sometime ago and just recently came back again. I can say that EP has helped...
    happysha17 happysha17 36-40, F 9 hrs ago

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    Had to rescue my STBX again tonight. She drained her battery and needed a jump start in some remote location. It seems likely she left her headlights on because she left her car...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    At what point did you decide that enough is enough? At what point did you KNOW at your core that the answer to your struggle is getting a divorce? How will I know? Thank you!
    BonneNouvelle BonneNouvelle 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    ...where I have lived in a sexless marriage for 38 years. I spent most of our early marriage, before children, sleeping in our spare bedroom. When we DID have sex, every year and a...
    midagehippie midagehippie 56-60 1 Response Feb 16

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    This dream happened awhile ago it was like a dream come true :/...at the start :( I woke up in my dream and I was finally a girl I was so happy I went to school soon after putting...
    lovepink73 lovepink73 16-17, T 5 hrs ago

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    is there any woman who is going to get divorced,,,, I don't know how things go in such a pace and get me to this extreme point,,,,
    lostutoo lostutoo 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    The cost of attorney's is more than I have.We sleep in different rooms,the mind games she plays,she is not interested n sex.thIs isbe cominf awful.
    bedrock70 bedrock70 41-45, M 14 hrs ago

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    Just a year and a half. It took forever for me to move toward divorce, but I finally did. It was very hard. I have a senior in high school who will soon be leaving for college. Now...
    Irv15000 Irv15000 66-70, T Feb 5

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    I joined EP to figure out what was wrong with my marriage. Two months later, after a lot of agonizing and worry about how a divorce would impact my husband and family, everything...
    jkm52 jkm52 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    On my grind again since I can't make enough money with my first job, that I needed a second job. Unfortunately it's 3rd shift. Tired yet hopeful things finally turn for the better...
    SelfishShellfish SelfishShellfish 36-40, F Feb 18

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    I have known for 3 yrs that I have Hashimoto's but I believe I have had it for 25 yrs. It started during my 2nd pregnancy. My Dr over the years kept treating the symptoms with...
    physio56 physio56 56-60, F 13 hrs ago

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    You tell me you love me and swear that it's true... You tell me all the things I wanted and needed to hear... You talked about our future, what we would do, how in love with...
    jbnichole jbnichole 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have had it! I have had enough! Come on, call me! ******* give me a ring and let me rip into you you ******* coward! No money, no nothing, she's got your balls in her pocket! Too...
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm in shock. Don't know whether to be happy or scared. I told my bf about the HPV thing. Even though I'm in the clear, I wanted to tell him because I care too much about him...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am from India. India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Feb 4

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    my story PART 1: (its a LONGGGGG book so be prepared) I don't remember a lot of when I was really little just bits and pieces. my mom and dad divorced when I was 3. we lived in...
    HisLove2010 HisLove2010 22-25, F Feb 6

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    Do I deserve any of this? I think he believes I deserve everything thats coming to me. After finally reaching my try harder/walk away threshold, I filed for divorce. We both...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have the most bizarre dreams sometimes. The recent dream I had was about my boyfriend and my boyfriend's best friend which is my roommate and my old best friend. In my dream my...
    katychatty katychatty 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Peter Maatouk is a highly experienced and knowledgeable solicitor and barrister based in Sydney, and he is admitted in the Supreme Court of NSW and the High Court of Australia. He...
    marleend marleend 26-30, F Feb 11

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    Well, to anyone who has followed my stories before, you know that I was in a bad marriage.... and I finally left!!!! About a month ago, I just told him I couldn't do it anymore and...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Another painful night of talking. He finally said he's ready to let me go. He said he'll move out this weekend. It feels like this is what I've been working towards for the past 6...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 50 Responses Feb 5

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    I have been married for 20 years and my husband has had several affairs, and this last one have been hard. I don't know if he is in love with her because he keeps going back to her...
    Cindimart Cindimart 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Divorce proceedings have started Background story: Living in the UK Having moved out of the matrimonial home (which is my house, btw) and moved into a rented accommodation within...
    mihamix mihamix 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    Saturday (yes, Valentine's Day) will be one year that my now ex wife reached out via Facebook to an old boyfriend. That started her affair which became the last step towards our...
    nofoot75 nofoot75 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    My heart finally said Enough is enough 💔
    Lilyanne4 Lilyanne4 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hello. I am a 23 year old male, and this is my story that I want people to know. It all began back in my old home. My parents were great and wonderful parents to the eyes of the...
    familymaynotbeforever91 familymaynotbeforever91 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am two-thirds of the way through my divorce and I can honestly say that I have never been happier; I wouldn’t trade where I am in my life now for one moment from my past. My...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My parents divorced when I was 12, I am 20 now. I will be 21 in July. People are always so shocked when I tell them I'm the child of divorced parents even if it was nearly 10yrs...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 a week ago

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