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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 23 People

    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    I don't have divorced parents yet, but they are in the middle of doing so. I am 13 and it's so hard for me to watch fight after fight. I just sit there trying my hardest not to...
    Avreyxo Avreyxo 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm really glad to finally have closure, but we're distant, :( I feel like I won't get that amazing friendship back, but as long as I have closure now, I'll still accept that I...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I know it doesn't seem like a big deal. Everyones parents are divorced nowadays right? I live with my mom, and about a thirty second walking distance from the rest of my maternal...
    looloo55 looloo55 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    My parents divorced when I was 3 and my dad left to another country. It's only hitting me now, 12 years later, the feeling of rejection. The feeling of being unwanted. It hurts and...
    kellykolesky kellykolesky 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I the 12 year old good kid growing up suffered a deadly blow that was my parents divorce that I blamed my self on. Got into the wrong groups like druggies and drunks. Damaged me...
    Browness Browness 16-17 6 days ago

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    My family is super big since the divorse. My dad Keith, had one child from a different woman who my mum raised and me and my 2 brothers. And my mum, chelsea married a man with 2...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Now I do. Something recently happened. My little sister and mom keep crying. My dad seems happy about leaving though. I couldn't care less. I'm apathetic I guess or maybe I'm just...
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I contracted q fever while visiting farms looking for a baby goat for my son for Easter in the spring of 2012. I was fatigued and my joints hurt something terrible. When it was...
    myfamilymatters myfamilymatters 36-40 Aug 27

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    Something great happened today!!! We finally found a great home. Im so excited! Its affordable and fully furnished! Weve been living in other peoples homes for so long since we...
    edemylove edemylove 22-25, F Sep 3

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    I had been living on my own since 18, and at 19 I was ready to buy my first car. I had a couple thousand saved, but not quite enough for the car I wanted. My mother told me that my...
    bowlofsurreal bowlofsurreal 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    ShadowWolf190 it's been about 3 or 4 months now and he's made my life 100 times better in every way! I love him so much and I can't wait till the day we meet and have pups of our...
    XxWolfGirlMidnightxX XxWolfGirlMidnightxX 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I was diagnosed just 3 weeks ago and while it is scary to come to terms with, I am glad I finally have a diagnosis and a game plan to feeling better. For years I have felt ill...
    Kariliz Kariliz 46-50, F Aug 26

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    Now the only thing I want from her is her heart in a jar of embalming fluid next to my bed so I can finally have the peace of my soul that she stole
    malakaixanoctu malakaixanoctu 18-21, M Aug 27

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    I can't believe this is an actual "thing". I ran into a few sites today after inputting "back injury" and "itch" after researching my thoracic injury for almost 3.5 years. My...
    WreckedSpine WreckedSpine 46-50 Aug 28

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    It has been two very long weeks since I was told I would need surgery. My fiancee and I found out we were pregnant and quickly scheduled our first baby appointment thinking it...
    cdwinters83 cdwinters83 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    adulatory is the only reason to divorce. every people has problems.maybe they don't show it to the world.you can't find anyone without family problems.only thing is face to every...
    darkblackknight darkblackknight 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend is actually my ex-husband. We got divorced about five months ago, his choice, not mine, although the four-year marriage was stressful for both of us. About two...
    moonkitty3 moonkitty3 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm throwing in the towel getting divorced. There is a silver lining, I'm looking forward to starting fresh
    Akscott69 Akscott69 41-45, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    And b4 I have to field all the obvious remarks about of course they do, blah blah blah. (all uncaring remarks they would be too btw) I will let you this isn't an absolute...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    It comes and goes. Last night, went to bed a little earlier than I have been lately and fell asleep right away. Woke up at 3 am. I was lying there and realized my dogs were barking...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    You know when you get the cue for the right time on some thing? well...i think this is it. this is my cue to divorce my husband. We have been very unhappy with our marriage. From...
    lilacslolita lilacslolita 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sometimes it just gets too hot at night that you feel the need to take off all your clothes for the sake of comfort and actually being able to fall asleep. I finally did it a few...
    VeteranSoulSeeker VeteranSoulSeeker 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    the years have passed on by.I went into a marriage with open arms and great anticipation of happily ever after.What I got was two wonderful children which I raised alone as a...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Aug 24

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    After year & Years of fighting this Year my Parents Are officially separating & Getting a divorce . Living together was All about fighting . They did not have a good understanding...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Aug 29

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    February 2015 and I will be able to file for divorce. We will have been separated for 1 year by then. I can't to wait to sign the divorce papers and finally feel free!
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    My loneliness is starting to take a toll on my body. I never thought I could experience loneliness this deep. Maybe its equivalent to the counterpart of how I felt happiness with...
    Listening2us Listening2us 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    My wife of 3 1/2 years wants a divorce and she is actually going through it. Both of us are in the military and she has been in korea since June while I'm at the state side. The...
    brokenheartedagain44 brokenheartedagain44 41-45, M 10 Responses Sep 8

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    **Update** Ok so this is a late update, but here it goes. I FINALLY got in touch with a great lawyer this past Monday. I went in to talk with him for a while paid my retainer...
    kelkel09 kelkel09 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 13

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    I shared a man with my sister, but not at the same time, there was so much sexual energy between my sister and her boyfriend, we could barely stand it. So we asked her permission...
    JustBeingMeInCA JustBeingMeInCA 41-45, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My twin flame opened me up to spiritual connections. I met him in 2005 when I was 15 but we didn't start communication on a romantic level until I was about 17. Our age gap is so...
    starryxo starryxo 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We could attend any Courtroom in Perth. We may even organize for an experienced lawyer that specialises inside the demanded location of Divorce law to meet you nearby.There exists...
    Peternhj Peternhj 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I have been divorced since December 2010. Separated before that...August 2009. I should have filed for divorce first...but I wanted the marriage to work..so I filed for legal...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I use to value the truth and be proud I held up to telling the truth no matter how hurtful but I have slowly built a web of lies. I am so shameful. I am married to a man and have...
    lilMsOakTree lilMsOakTree 46-50, F Aug 29

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    I need advise on how do I get divorce without hurting my wife and kids.. My wife is good human being .. It's just that nothing happens the way I wanted my married life to go.. It's...
    lovencare lovencare 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So, how to start? I got married 2 years ago last weekend to a nice boy, a good Christian boy, or so I thought, so he led me to believe. Turns out he was lying. About all of it...
    geolbt geolbt 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    My mother has always been a vile and vicous woman. She lives to make everyones life a living hell. When I was a kid my parents would always fight. When I was 9 years old my...
    nexus321 nexus321 22-25, M Aug 27

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    My husband moved out exactly 2 months ago and I found out last week that he has had a girlfriend ever science he moved out!! I was soooooo angry! He doesn't think he is doing...
    kelkel09 kelkel09 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm recently married. My husband and I dated/lived together for 2 1/2 years and then tied the knot on Aug 1 2013. The wedding was beautiful..the honeymoon was fantastic. When we...
    emilylwlr emilylwlr 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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