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I Finally Have My Divorce

Tell me about the battle you went through to get the divorce you wanted 22 People

    The 2 Year and 8 Month Journey Ended Today!

    My divorce has been long and pretty awful. Hateful words, uncontrollable anger, outrage, hurt and despicable behavior have brought us to here....September 30Th, 2009. I was not a perfect wife. I will be the first to admit that. But I also was not treated well either. It is just...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 33 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Am I Blessed?

    I am in the process of divorce from a 20 year marriage. The fact is that it essentially ended 16 years ago.He had gotten very cold and even when I looked at him he would say leave me alone. I never treated him so cold. I repeatedly tried to at least show him warmth. I am a very...
    srill srill 36-40, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Just Beginning The Process

    Here I am after 38 years of marriage finding out that I am getting a divorce.  The house is going up to sell. I hope it does because I do not know how I will make the payments. I have paid the other bills and he paided the house payment. The good thing is I have a job. ...
    starshine13 starshine13 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Well Thats Done...moving On

    July 25th my husband called from Spain and told me not to come back. We had been stationed in Spain for 3months when my grandmother got sick and I hopped a Space A flight home. So I just did what he asked. We officially filed papers on Feb 26th and I got my final papers today...
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    Got My Papers Yesterday

    I was married for almost 12 years to a man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Three years ago, I got saved, and changed a lot. My husband hated the changes in me...he wanted his old sinning party wife back. lol In May, he gave me a choice between him and...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    I've been married for 8 years,

    I have not been the perfect husband. over the years, I have look for help to change. It looks every problem we have is always my fault ,at the end of each fight , my overreactions put me like the bad guy in the relationship. I always have to ask for forgiveness. deep inside, I...
    hlezama hlezama 36-40, M Dec 27, 2013

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    Remarried The Same Day As Divorce???

    We got Married in 2003, Split up in 2005, and FINALLY got divorced in 2010. Am I the only one who's ex got remarried the same day they got divorced? LOL Just wonderin if this is normal or not haha. She's great, really nice and my son loves her to death. I have no problem with him...
    jem4984 jem4984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I Am My Own Person!

    I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found  the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close...
    floridapenpal floridapenpal 51-55 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    The past several months have been the most

    intense transitional time of my life... I was not prepared for the wrath of my ex. He has been a master of sociopathic behavior. However, on December 26 at 9:45 a.m., the judge granted the divorce. I have lost so much this year... my oldest and closest friends... the...
    SoniaGrace SoniaGrace 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2014

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    I Miss My Children

    I never thought I would be divorced after 15 years of marriage. I waited until 31 to get married in the hope that it would last the rest of my life. I loved her enough to continue despite the mental illness, which seemed to be manageable as long as I made enough money to...
    michigan1964 michigan1964 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Both have been divorced again and remarried again. I think that's part of the reason I have approached my marriage and family the way I have -- even during the times I questioned...
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    My parents just recently got a divorce and i feel like my whole life has been torn apart. Before they split up, my dad lost his job, and we were in really bad debt, my Mom took me...
    kaylynx kaylynx 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    For the first time since the divorce instead of calling it home, I called it Dad's house because it is not really home to me anymore. But as soon as I said it, it felt weird.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    So now that my parents have been apart for what... a couple of days? Anyway, my dad is now dating people. He's out right now. It's 10:36 as I write this, and he's not back yet. "Oh...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 2 Responses May 13

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    I have a lot of issues and if I'm being honest I think living with me father rather then my mother would actually be better for me. How do I tell her that I want to move away?
    BlairGarnet BlairGarnet 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I talked with my brother about our feelings due to my dad 'going out' with girls. He just thought it was fine, and genuinely seemed okay about it. Am I weird to feel so betrayed by...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response May 19

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    Just like you, I have grown up with divorced parents since I was three years old. I have been lucky to come out the other side 20 years later currently completing my Psychology...
    PsychNowResearch PsychNowResearch 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I recently fell out with a Long term friend of mine because of many reasons, she was very controlling and always liked to be centre of attention. Since moving to college I have...
    Charlottemol Charlottemol 16-17, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I finally have my first crush. It is on a boy I became friends with this year. Early on in the year he didn't really have many friends, but I thought that he was really nice and...
    MyFriendPug MyFriendPug 13-15, F Apr 27

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    Don't want to wait for maybe another chance meeting, what if this is it? What if this is a choice we have to make, a choice to risk it all for a chance to jump and fly or to be...
    2 Responses May 10

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    Today's the day. I am meeting with my attorney to talk about settlement then we are going to meet my husband and his attorney for the settlement meeting. My husband still has his...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Ok, so my wife found my ep account last fall and since then things have been terrible. The scrutiny she put me through didn't end. I had contacts and friends and so much deleted...
    lmtnmn lmtnmn 31-35, M 5 hrs ago

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    It was towards the end of last summer when the most amazing thing happened to me. Of course I know the exact day. It was Aug 3. I had been on my own for some time- Feb of 2012 to...
    Sugasug Sugasug 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    so finally all doubts have been cleared and it is proved again,,, that some people have their ego, stubbornness is much larger than anything else,,, hahaha,,, and mistake , if it...
    mdbest4u mdbest4u 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    so finally all doubts have been cleared and it is proved again,,, that some people have their ego, stubbornness is much larger than anything else,,, hahaha,,, and mistake , if it...
    mdbest4u mdbest4u 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I finally got the courage to go and get my belly pierced today! It didn't even hurt ((which was a complete surprise)) the one major factor stopping me from getting it done was all...
    deathnotefreak deathnotefreak 18-21, F 1 Response 54 mins ago

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    My husband has put the bare minimum into our marriage since we took the vows. I decided I wanted a divorce because I finally feel nothing. I don't feel like there is anything worth...
    cosmicburst cosmicburst 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So finally we are getting a divorce. I found out he cheated 4 years ago while I was pregnant after having gone through a year of infertility treatments to have our child and the...
    jazzybelle53 jazzybelle53 36-40, F 7 Responses May 7

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    Here we are less than two weeks from the divorce. We have a settlement conference next Wednesday. He says we have they set just in case we need it because our attorneys are...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Back in the early 1990s after my wife filed for a divorce and kicked me out I started dating a couple of women. Then my ex wife started coming over and getting laid sometimes. I...
    pinetreeguy pinetreeguy 66-70, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It is midnight, Monday May 4, 2015 and I am now officially divorced. The day that I have waited for has finally arrived, and I have to say, I feel extremely relived that the...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses May 4

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    alright, well. no one wants to hear about this in real life, so I'm sure no wants to hear it here either. I kind of want to get what happened at Brynn Marr (mental hospital) and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 27

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    My husband and I are in the process of getting a divorce through mediation. I am the one who asked for the divorce. Every since our wedding two years ago, our marriage steadily...
    Alili2124 Alili2124 26-30, F 3 Responses May 13

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    He agreed to move out for an extended time. Finally. God please make it stick.
    stufy stufy 46-50 1 Response 4 days ago

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    omg ! I can't stop crying rightnow...I finally sign the paper...its a horrible feelings. I feel so weak ..but its for the better..
    sadwife82 sadwife82 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Actually got divorced 3.5 years ago and still struggling with it. She completely surprised me with the divorce. And she has made my life unbearable hell since then. She's taken me...
    dawalace dawalace 51-55, M 3 Responses May 13

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    date of birth May 3, 2013 date of death March 11, 2015 even though it was a short life my marriage has ended. I seem to be doing ok. I didn't think I'd let anyone back in or...
    06cumminsgirl 06cumminsgirl 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    I always feel so embarrassed about it. I married two different people, both of whom I knew I shouldn't be marrying. I just felt like I was in too deep to get out of it. My first...
    smc92079 smc92079 31-35, F May 16

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    I can see my divorce papers from where I'm at rightnow...its really difficult for me to sign it..I feel sick on my stomach..I feel numbness on my hands when I attempt to sign it...
    sadwife82 sadwife82 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My husband and I talked again tonight. He doesn't know what he wants yet. I told him obviously he wants the divorce, so I'll see him tomorrow. Honestly, I want us, but I'm sick...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My father was very abusive when I was growing up. He never physically abused me, but he physically abused my brothers. He was also emotionally abusive with them as well as my...
    Mickkeyy Mickkeyy 18-21, F 3 Responses May 2

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    I was married to a marine and he was a great guy from beginning until all hell broke loose . I was married for 3 years . I was abused, mentally and physically, more twards the end...
    backw00dsbarbie88 backw00dsbarbie88 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3

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