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I Finally Told Off My Mother In-law

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    One day my husband took his mom to a doctor's appointment. When he took her back home, to his sister's house where she had been living for six months, most of her belongings were...
    Lumps1love Lumps1love 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I am a very open person, and you usually have to literally be trying to get on my bad side in order to do it... My Mother-in-Law manages it spectacularly. I have never met such a...
    gladmadhatter gladmadhatter 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have the mother in law from hell! Thankfully we do not have contact with her! I can't stand her. It was years of hell dealing with her and having to listen to her constant...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    My mother in law is something serious. I cannot tell if she is truly nuts or .. just crazy jealous, clingy, selfish, and extremely rude... Well first of all before I met her my...
    dayrinp dayrinp 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    (Bf mother not really mother-in-law) I have only been dating my bf for a year but I do want to be with him forever. His immediate family has found out that I HATE HATE HATE his...
    carebare124 carebare124 18-21 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My despise my mother in law experience is bit of a backwards situation, in no way is she mean to me or is she that "evil" woman most wives complain of - in fact she is the complete...
    mittengirl mittengirl 26-30, F Mar 28

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    My mother in law is the most miserable pesto I have ever met. The hardest part is we live with her for the time being. She will live with us for another 2 years while she and her...
    jrobinson81 jrobinson81 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to **** my mother in law...
    Superdriver77 Superdriver77 36-40 Mar 23

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    I absolutely hate living with my mother in law!!! My husband is stuck on living with her because she is a widow and doesn't want to leave her alone... Ever. It is driving me crazy...
    balshi balshi 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I do, I hate my mother in law. The feelings are mutual. She hates me ofcourse has from the get go. I could dismiss the fact that she hates me as I do return the gesture and frankly...
    Happiegurl Happiegurl 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I feel like deep inside no matter how hard I work to be a wife my mother in law secretly thinks its not good enough, she dont eat what I cook but everybody and everyone loves my...
    asianlove77 asianlove77 26-30, F Mar 28

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    My wife spends all her time with her like they are married. There is nothing wrong with my mother in law. She has always been pampered and my wife takes it hook line and sinker...
    beachesr beachesr 36-40, M Apr 9

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    Why do these things happen, I mean why do we end up "hating" our mils? It may sound weird, but we are to blame a great deal. We let it happen. This does not remove the guilt of our...
    stellera stellera 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hmmm, where to start. According to my husbands mother. Everything is my fault. And she says I am taking away all her happiness. How did I do that? I really don't know. According...
    MacieLynn MacieLynn 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    My mil and fil just moved about 45 minutes away from us. Before they lived about 5 or 6 hours away. Before they moved my fil answered the phone when I called to talk to mil one day...
    Jpgirlie Jpgirlie 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Today I have comfort-ate roughly my own body weight in chocolate and now feel very sick, thanks to a MIL induced fight with my BF. She affects his mood so badly, to the point...
    MyBackTeethAreSick MyBackTeethAreSick 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    So my husbands parents have always been weird to me. One because they are not happy together and didn't even really raise my husband and they are rude and clingy. So even before we...
    mad4maddie mad4maddie 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    2014 with MIL so far, At the start of the year, MIL is now calling relatives and friends a lot with messages about not being alive much longer. End of January she is now doing...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I am here to vent. If you read this, I thank you. I will get right down to it. I hate my mil. I have been married for 5 years. I have a son by someone else. A ex boyfriend from...
    jammin02 jammin02 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    My boyfriend's mother "thinks" she hates me. I write "thinks" because I suspect it is not me she hates. She has hated every women her son has been with. She has been the cause of...
    pipadm pipadm 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    She insists I did not hug her when she came to visit about a month and a half ago. I remember this specifically because I thought, "do I have to hug her? If I don't, she'll make a...
    greencoffeecup greencoffeecup 26-30, F Apr 3

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    My first impression of her was a when she dropped my step daughter off at our apartment and asked me whether he and I share a room , she stated that my step daughter said she doesn...
    HisAngelof222 HisAngelof222 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Reading all the stories here I know my MIL is not the worst around but boy she can be annoying... and I'm only 1 month into my marriage. She is nice but her endless, unsolicited on...
    honestlymem honestlymem 26-30 1 Response Apr 3

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    My husband and I went on holiday for two weeks. It was lovely, and we both had a really good time. However, the second we landed on home ground, his mother starts calling my...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    My Year 2013 with MIL FILs death meant that we saw MIL a lot now all of a sudden, which was a change as usually I go near her maybe three times a year. In January of 2013My...
    AwayFromHer AwayFromHer 36-40 Mar 29

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    why cant my mil realize that once she married off her son she has to let go??? she just called my husbands dr to get his results from test that he took. I CAN TAKE CARE OF HIM. HE...
    bluma bluma 22-25, F Mar 26

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    I wanted to take a moment to reflect on a common theme I see on this forum and I have lived it myself. #1 – We find the person we want to spend our life with #2 – Things go...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 6 Responses Mar 28

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    The relationship with my MIL has always been ok. She's been nice, but 'cool'. To me, she's socially awkward and often unaware of rude comments. ANYWAY- I just had a baby a few...
    SmellyPug17 SmellyPug17 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I have been married to my husband for 10 years and together for 13. Before we married, I thought my MIL was like the mother I never had. (My mother past away when I was a young...
    adreanasmom adreanasmom 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    well like i said i do try but yeah she always find anyway to be negative about my parenting when i am actually doing a good job at it. even the smallest things like for example...
    Benae Benae 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Help! I have to go visit with my MIL this weekend and I am dreading it. My MIL was great at first when we first got together and even for a few months after we were married about...
    geolbt geolbt 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I really need to vent about my MIL's latest personal insult. I'm currently 29 weeks with our first, and my hubby's grandma recently came to visit my MIL. We went out to breakfast...
    melb7svn melb7svn 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have absolutely selfish in laws my husband was adopted by his aunt as his mother was married into the same family as her older sister. My mother in laws sister was not in...
    vitzc vitzc 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    It all started when I started dating my now husband about 15years ago. My sister in law didn't want her brother with anyone unless she had say in who it was. Well when she didn't...
    laidbackgirl laidbackgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my...
    pakkman pakkman 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    So sister in law and her family just arrived from Jamaica and our house is already a mess! Our daughter will be sleeping with us . Two of sister in law's kid are staying at my son...
    Curlyhairsheila Curlyhairsheila 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    She asked my wife if she could sit on my lap in the car one day. I got hard and poking her in her couche and she told my wife and mother in law. They thought it was funny.
    rbowm031 rbowm031 31-35 4 days ago

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    Hey everyone! So I need someone to talk to. Here we go..... I can't stand my good for nothing sister in law. My husband is away in Afghanistan and I moved in with his family...
    mariekassie12 mariekassie12 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    What to do? My in-laws are ruining my marriage. Long story short, I didn't find out how toxic and dysfunctional they were until my daughter was 6 months old. While my husband...
    KaceyKosher KaceyKosher 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    I believe my in laws have hated me from day one! My brother in law started it all with rumors he spread before I even met my mother and father in law. Now it streams from my father...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My family and I are victims of police misconduct. I have file a formal complaint with local, state, federal agencies, and to anyone that is willing to listen and has yet to get a...
    justice318 justice318 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    My SIL is a lying crazy ***** that has come between my husband and I too many times. Yes I even once returned the wedding ring because she is crazy and he allows it. I have never...
    sweetie383 sweetie383 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I really hate spending time with my husbands mother and sister . They come across as very superficial, and I literally feel exhausted from trying to make conversations with them...
    Ajbean Ajbean 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I have got married 6 months back . My husband mostly talks abt his father who doesn't help me or my husband either physically or financially he has rented house in his native , he...
    vidh vidh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    He's without a doubt one of the most hated people in my life! One night before I was married i was in the shower washing my body as u do! The door opened and I thought it was my...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    To people that don't really know her--my SIL is an absolute delight! That's probably why she doesn't have very many friends...beside the point. My hubs and I have been married...
    karmacatcher87 karmacatcher87 26-30, F Apr 1

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    I hate my sister in law because as long as I've been with my boyfriend, she is sick and sits at home. At first, she had some rare tropical disease and for 2 years she sat at home...
    PancakesLover PancakesLover 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    both my evil sister in laws covered my car door handles in red dye which I am deathly allergic to when I was 4 months pregnant. I ended up in the ER and stayed in the hospital for...
    michelle31083 michelle31083 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    When I got pregnant at 17 my then boyfriend forced to live in their house which was a hell cause his father is an alcoholic dickhead. I've tried many times to leave my husband but...
    alivia25 alivia25 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My in laws hate me yet they don't know me. They blame me for everything my husband does or doesn't do that they don't like. I've been with my husband 5 years yet I don't think I've...