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I Find a Friend With Benefits

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 268 People

    In The Market For A FWB

    It's a way to satisfy ones sexual needs without the entanglement of any type of commitment.   Be there for him when he is in need and visa versa. Friends with benefits would be great! There would be no clinginess, no drama, or the obligation to buy gifts. You could have...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    9 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    Share Information

    Well, I am a 55 yo male. I l Live in Central VA in the U.S. I'm married, bisexual, 6'1" 200#, brown hair, blue eyes. Anyone from this area that want's a friends with benefits relationship, write me.  
    WantingHerToTry WantingHerToTry
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2008


    I've just celebrated a birthday. Looking and feeling better than I have in years. The only thing missing is having my sexual needs met. My single friends and I discuss this subject much. I've become open since finding more acceptance with my body since losing weight. I've always...
    yogababy yogababy
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Sep 17, 2012


    I found EP through google search and I am glad I did. I'm 20, currently living in northern california and I would like to have a fwb. Someone to have some fun with from time to time and talk to. I'm about 5' 7, asian, semi athletic build. I'm not picky with age and we'll...
    jchng408 jchng408
    18-21, M
    Jan 4, 2010

    Spicy Desire, Physically Powerful Hunger...

    I have a strong desire, a thirst and a physically powerful hunger for intimacy with an s.e.x.u’ally mature man, while both of us on the outcome of e.c.s.t.a.s.y and submit ourselves to a 12 hour nonstop love making... Where are you sweet? Each caress I put on my sweet skin...
    HedoZen HedoZen
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

    Friend With Benefits, Is It Worth It?

    I have been in a fwb relationship for over three years. For the first two years things were cool, he and I had an unspoken arrangement. Whenever he called, I answered (not smart on my part). The more we got together, the more we talked, and chilled out I started to like him...
    blueblaze blueblaze
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2010

    And The "benefits" Don't Have To Be Sex

    I want a lot of warmth, tenderness,hugs. cuddles, etc. I'm over 70, a straight male with prostate problems and diabetes and only one testicle. So I'm not a good candidate for intercourse. But my appetite for human interaction has not lessened. I need to be touched Early on in my...
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy
    70+, M
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    Nj Area Searching....

    I've been interested in finding a FB or Friend with Benefits for some time. I live here in the Central Jersey Area and tend to have more than the usual adventurous side. Recently I have been on a schedule that gives me more free time than usual so I am looking for someone who has...
    41-45, M
    Sep 29, 2010

    Looking For One.

    That's all I'm really looking for because like so many people I don't want to get hurt. Never been in a relationship, but I know what they can do to a person having seen several failed relationships,one marriage in which neither person wants to be anywhere near the other one, and...
    William271 William271
    22-25, M
    Oct 4, 2010

    Despite What Some Say

    I'm sure it is possible. It can be just another aspect of friendship. If you have other interests in common, what's wrong with having sex in common two. I really want to find at least two friends with benefits. One male and one female. And I don't want them for just sex. I want...
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    Apr 8, 2012

    Trying To Find Fwb In The Longview Tx Area.

    Ever since I moved to Longview I've tried to find some friends with benefits.I'm looking for women and I would like for them to be someone to actually hang out with as well If you want a picture of me myself All you got to do is ask I will oblige but only give them to requests...
    Xeven Xeven
    31-35, M
    Jun 20, 2012

    Hi There...

    24 year old male from Boston Ma, Looking for someone early 20's to early 30's for casual fun. So, message me, and let's take it from there....
    OneLonelyDude OneLonelyDude
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Nov 3, 2009

    Is This Really Possible

    It makes sense to me to have a few friends of this type to help a person get through some tough times between relationships. I live in Westchester, New York if anyone is nearby. It  would be great to meet and have new and open friends.
    mantnns mantnns
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2011

    Nice Benefits

    I would most assuredly like to find a friend with benefits, those said benefits being sexual, but also just a fun loving woman. I live in Iowa, and would prefer someone who lives close by, but that isn't carved in granite. Any takers out there?
    IanMatthew IanMatthew
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2010

    Girl Needs Girlfriend With Benefits

    I need a girl friend to talk and hang out with, but share some benefits
    kkayhalv kkayhalv
    Sep 8, 2009

    In Atlanta There Doesn't Seem To Be Any Women

    who want this too... I am trying to find married women who are sexually deprived so that we might bring mutual pleasure to each other. SO far it's been almost impossible finding anyone. I am a very giving lover... and well I would hope to find someone who is also very giving...
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2010

    I Wish There Was Such A Thing!

    I've tried and tried to be a FWB, but great sex is only really very good unless some emotional commitment is made.  I can't believe I just typed that, because all my sexual life, I walked away from entanglements and scoffed at those who wanted "more than FWB" status. ...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Jun 5, 2010


    And please be as brutally honest as possible, but do you think my handle/screenname is too off putting and could affect any chance of success(s)?
    OneLonelyDude OneLonelyDude
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    I Believe This Is Possible

    Lately, I've been thinking that you could truly have FWB relationship. This doesn't mean that there isn't an emotional commitment but it does mean that both people truly know what they want and where the line in the sand is. The first step is understanding yourself. That's...
    samlee69 samlee69
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2011

    Oral Friend Needed

    BGKY97 BGKY97
    41-45, M
    Jan 28, 2010

    I Need A Friend With Benifets

    am looking for a friend with benefits in central michigan,am serious about it am 53 and could be your good friend
    hwp8000 hwp8000
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2009

    Need A Friend With Benefits In Nc

    I have been married for 26 yrs. I love my wife very much. In the last 4 yrs she has had no desire for sex. I need sex alot and I will do anything to please a woman. I would love to find a woman that would have sex  with me at any time. And I would be on call as well. If this...
    rickdouglas rickdouglas
    Sep 28, 2010
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