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I Find Bdsm Fascinating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 460 People

    Gateway

    As I write this I am listening to Strangers on a Train by Lovage, over and over again because that is something I like to do.  I went to my first BDSM club this evening.  It was surprisingly not as brutal as I was expecting and I found the people to be...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2009

    Want To Learn And Try More

    I have recently been introduced to this lifestyle ad find myself quite excited by it. I've been needing something more for sometime now and am very interested in trying something new. am looking for people to help me find my way and give me more information.
    blueflutterbies blueflutterbies
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    Such a Wide Variety of Activies!

    There is something for just about everyone in BDSM. From bedroom play to 24/7 there is something to do. For people into pain. For people who doesn't like pain. Sensual sensations to humiliation play. Theres something for open minded people.
    sissyslavejamie sissyslavejamie
    51-55, T
    Jun 18, 2008

    Absolutely

    Its always been something I've found fascinating, the dynamic, the connection between those involved in 'scene', the lifestyle and the 'freedom' within to truly be yourself.....I have no experience, but I find myself drawn to erotic literature that has leanings and elements of...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    Nov 8, 2011

    Bdsm Can Be Healing

     Before my marriage I was introduced to the world of D/s somewhat. I was fascinated. Not by pain, or the SM part of BDSM, but the bondage and discipline. Fascinated is an understatement. Enthralled. Mesmorized. I dabbled.  It's a dichotomy how something like being...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 18, 2009

    Truly Fascinating

    It's got so many wonderfully wild levels, a world of delicious desires and darkest dreams, fascinating is not really the word, it's hypnotic, a presence which fills my mind and conjures up images and ideas which create a sense of emotional fulfillment the usual suspects of more...
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 22, 2010

    Dom And Proud Of It

    I've been actively involved in the lifestyle since 1990 or so. Before then, I always like to be in control of a sitation. I had a natural need to protect those who seemed lost in life. I found it interesting to see how people would react to  even a simple change in timbre to...
    Leatherheart Leatherheart
    36-40, M
    Jan 30, 2010

    I've Had A Love/hate Relationship With This Since I Was Around Nine-years-old.

    I've tried to learn as much as I can about BDSM, but I just agree with it during sexual encounters only. That's how I roll. I first saw a semi-hardcore vampire *****, which depicted BDSM activities in it. I truly believe that movie piqued my interest in the practice.  ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 30, 2010

    Just A Fan...(for Now)

    I fantasize about bdsm a lot. I haven't even lost my virginity yet. When I do, my first time will have to be vanilla. It'd be too much too soon to take on an alternative sex life off the bat. Afterward, it's on to trying new things: role-playing, choking, spitting, fishhook...
    LSD8 LSD8
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2011

    Truly Fascinating And Rewarding Journey

    Well this is not really one expereince but just my thoughts I got introduced to the concept may be 15 years back, but realised that I did live the life unknowingly in the sub concious for a few years before too,....... When I did realise what it formally was,in one of the yahoo...
    heehoo1 heehoo1
    46-50, M
    Oct 2, 2011

    Absolutely riveting! :) And I could lie back

    and let a man (or men) do weird things to me all day - purely in the interests of research, naturally! 0;)
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2014

    Crucified Or Hanging

    Wow how intresting. Wat a turn on Well i done lots of self bondage especially suspension hanging from wrists etc. I dont know but i think it would be crazy to be crucified or hanged by wrists exposed to people and helpless. Im straight so nuthin *** related i never done that...
    watsreallygood watsreallygood
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2011

    Just Fell Into the Groove One Day

        I hadn't given it much thought until my study-mate & I decided to include the topic in a research paper on "alternate life/love styles". I soon learned that she was active in a local BDSM club. She encouraged me to join - or at least check it out...
    david94015 david94015
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 2, 2009

    It's About Love, Not About Hate

    I've been into erotic restraint all my life, though I rarely got to do it. The idea of a woman bound or tied up was always intensely exciting for me, and a few lovers let me try it and tie them up. It was terrific. But I never thought I was a dom, or into BDSM. To me, that...
    Ecstatician Ecstatician
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

    Submission

    Submission. That's me. Coupled with bondage - That's me even more.I am not sure how much Sadism I can take as I am not a Masochist. but iI do so want to serve Mistress P
    MPsslavetommy MPsslavetommy
    70+, M
    Nov 16, 2010

    Crucified For Your Pleasure

      (an updated version of an earlier post) I enter your chamber, nervous but excited. I plan to submit myself totally to you in the hope you can fulfill my ultimate desire. For so long I have dreamed – nay fantasised – about being suspended on high &ndash...
    badboris badboris
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Nov 16, 2010

    My Lifestyle Entry - Where I Am Today

    I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for more than 5 years.  I knew nothing about it until a former coworker (female submissive) introduced me to it.  I learned quickly that I was a natural Dominant.  I learned of various styles of play through...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 5, 2009

    A Desire To Be 'crucified'

    I have had a fixation with crucifixion since I was young. The thought of hanging totally helpless from a cross has always got me feeling hot under the collar, especially if I am crucified in front of an audience there to enjoy my suffering and to add to my torment. I love the...
    badboris badboris
    41-45, M
    11 Responses Nov 13, 2010
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