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I Find Cyber Sex Dull

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    After 1st Few Times - it just gets tedious+dull+repartition of any kind in sex gets wearing after a whileso you find yourself reaching for the next taboo tryin to reach greater...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F 12 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    Not So For Me. - In the last year, or so, the BEST sex I have had has been cybersex.Β  It's almost the ONLY sex I've had in a year or more.Β  I don't know what this says about me...
    BrainiumCranium BrainiumCranium 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Snore, Snooze...dull - I find cyber sex very dull.I have tried it and found it very lacking in excitment, it's frustrating and tedious.I will not engage in any more cyber...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Sep 18, 2011

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    Please don't get it twisted. I don't reply back to messages at all unless you interest me. I'm not on here for sex at all matter of fact I don't know how men can stay on here all...
    ThisAsianLovesYou ThisAsianLovesYou 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am not here for sex or online dating. Real sex is thousand times better so why would I want to indulge in something so low with a random man? IF I WANT SEX AND BF I PREFER IT...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Between alexvigillove and I Block Delete alexvigillove alexvigillove Jul 12, 2013 (HIS NUMBER) so plz text me ill be your best friend NinjaKitteh1999 Me Jul 12, 2013 um i can't...
    NinjaKitteh1999 NinjaKitteh1999 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Hey babe Hey baby Hey sexy Hi What's up? Really? Not sure if cyb3er is the goal from the above messages, but messaging me for the first time and that's all you say makes me...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't wanna see your privates, I don't wanna talk gross to you, I don't wanna do anything but talk to you. Talk to me like a normal person, because if you try to talk like that...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F Mar 17

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    I am not and not looking for ************ object Is that clear enough
    snowhitelady snowhitelady 31-35, F Mar 20

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    I really wanna post an experience here but it won't work! It just says: "Banned keyword detected." What do I do??
    GSSB GSSB 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    My experience can be read as a comment on this because for some reason it didn't work to post it as an experience. So read the comment : )
    GSSB GSSB 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    This made me mad. I didn't even get his second message until I read the first one. Between hockeyfan9 and I BlockDelete hockeyfan9 1 hr ago Hi Reese. I'd love for you to add me...
    ReeseThompson0424 ReeseThompson0424 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Those of you who read my stories on a regular basis know that I do not shy away from sensitive topics. So here I go with another one. The statement "I am a sexy man" will come...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 31-35, M Apr 5

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    Why is it so hard to find a sexy little thing for my husband and myself?
    KitKat8118 KitKat8118 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    having honest conversations , being friends and knowing a person completely , and also observing what he/she says...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    NO ladies I will not cyber with you...I'm tired of all the requests for me to ca you when you are all tucked into bed as give your drops of warm conversation interspersed with...
    windynight54321 windynight54321 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    A text message I sent my girlfriend ... I think I'm going crazy watching how you are with your phone and your constant need for a connection with the online world, it's an...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just read the story on the caretaker from NeedingtoVent (thank you NTV), and it really hit me hard. In my journey I am recognizing my failings to be far greater than I thought...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I love that I found this app and people out there in sexless marriages. My husband has a ****/************ addiction which he sees a therapist for on a weekly basis but I just don...
    dmb8927 dmb8927 36-40, F 7 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I dreamed about you last night. We had sex. I don't remember much. It must have been dull.
    PansProtege PansProtege 70+ 1 Response Mar 29

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    Any girls who like sexxting im up for thatπŸ’¦πŸ’¦πŸ’§πŸ’§πŸ”₯πŸ‘…
    carlos19cv carlos19cv 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Thank you to everyone who took the time to respond to my post yesterday. I was overwhelmed by the friendship and advice that you guys gave. As I think about the situation I am in...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Haircut cyber role -play? Anyone?
    hairadviceandsuggestions hairadviceandsuggestions 26-30, F Mar 17

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    I have been cyber bullied before
    lee521 lee521 13-15, F Mar 31

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    like a female cyber love interest.....can anyone one tickle my fancy
    BicurMe BicurMe 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I fell on ice in November 2013 and ever since then my knee has had a dull pain on the right side of my kneecap. It is weak and hurts more when I walk up and down stairs. It also...
    username1230 username1230 13-15, F Apr 2

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    anyone want to share my cyber head shave fantasy?
    nemo69dory nemo69dory 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey ladies! I'm looking for a women for NSA in the Houston area. Attached or not. I love to dominate and please! I like to cyber and text as well.
    houstonguy02 houstonguy02 31-35, M Mar 18

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    I met this guy on EP we exchanged emails. He was from another country Egypt . He was on his 50's at first he was looking for Internet sex but I told him no. He admired that, then...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F Mar 23

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    Well Me too :) not cyber s#x but more like exchanging experiences with women. Perfectly fit to experience project :)
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I like to think I've found him. We talk every day, he makes me smile. My heart quickens when I think of him. When he says good morning, my heart melts for him. He's got the...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been in a relationship for 20 yrs and over the last few years the sex has all but completely stopped . I couldn't even tell you the last time we had sex it's been that long. I...
    ozbiker65 ozbiker65 46-50, M 8 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Im more curious about this because i have a friend who told me she only gets sex about once every few months. Ive seen a lot of recommendations about counseling, but i haven't...
    Tanya30 Tanya30 31-35, F 9 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I think about sex a lot,what it's going to be like (my first time) will it hurt,will it fit in...& who it'll be with hmmm...I wonder I don't consistently talk about sex but it's a...
    nameselle0o nameselle0o 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been married for 8 years. The sex was just alright in the first couple of years and then basically dwindled off into never ever land. I thought I could accept her lack of...
    ll2live ll2live 41-45 8 Responses Apr 7

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    I am feeling this strong sexual affection towards my cousin and I wondered if someone could give me advise
    lumperjack18 lumperjack18 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    I am in the mood all the time. I have sex w my bf everyday. Then I broadcast myself playing w toys on this website. I get off 5-10 times a day. Hundreds of men watch my online...
    confused20somethingfemale confused20somethingfemale 26-30, F 16 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I have ADHD and RADS. So I find it difficult to know what I'm doing is right or wrong. My ADHD makes me loose focus and my RADS makes me fix problems my way.
    602rea 602rea 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    I went to one of her fashion shows and I got invited backstage to meet her. When I got there I saw her she was wearing a bikini, anyway I said hi and she said hi back, I kept...
    Ladiesman93 Ladiesman93 22-25, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm a guy who dosent just want sex I want a story to go with it
    Mitch99 Mitch99 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have never been a one-night stand sort of person. Those leave me feeling empty and hollow. For me, there must be some sort of attraction or connection, be it physical, mental...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    This might sound crazy to some people, but I am really attracted to sexy, petite white women. Age doesn't matter, although I'm partial to the ages of 23 - 33 and 44 - 55, but like...
    FLBoy069 FLBoy069 41-45, M 48 mins ago

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    Hi, i would like to find a couple who is interested in helping me convince my wife to join in on couples play and swinging. I know that she would enjoy it, and has an extremely...
    Eha8584 Eha8584 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I am a married man who is married to a wonderful woman. However she has recently told me that she wants nothing to do with sex ever again. It has been over 15 months since we have...
    Hingeman Hingeman 26-30, M 25 Responses 1 day ago

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    "The Dummies Guide To Ending A Sexless Marriage" or "How I Learned Not To Give Up Emotional and Physical Intimacy" by CherishMe2 Step 1: Acknowledge that the lack of emotional...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    As I escape the expecteds and unsayable, I find myself closer and closer to the real me. I find less and care less about hiding what many in my life would find unacceptable. I...
    lucyyinthesky lucyyinthesky 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    A Discovery of Self....When I first started coming to this website I had a typical everything was okay bar the sex attitude. I still wanted to divorce but I didn't want to hurt my...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    Thoughts on counter-refusing, or "why would I do to my SO what has hurt me so much?" This was posted elsewhere, but I thought I would post it here. The practice of a HL...
    stayinghereforreal stayinghereforreal 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm still in a relationship (2 years) and me and my bf would literally spend days in bed and would only really get out to eat something to have more energy. I loved it and is one...
    Monstersinmyhead Monstersinmyhead 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago