I Find Honesty and Trust Very Important In Any Relationship

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    When in a relationship it should not feel like

    you're playing a game. When you play games, there has to be a loser....remember that
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 4, 2015

    Someone that i loved really hurts me

    that bad..im an honest person so i expect from him the same as he promised me that.. Just recently discovered how he flirts with different women, i broke up with him but he didnt want to leave me, again he promise.. I gave him second chance, i know he's trying to proved to me...
    paytz1971 paytz1971
    41-45
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    am here to meet a loving

    and caring man that ready for a serious relationship
    jenni4love jenni4love
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    If she can't be honest

    and trustworthy then leave her alone. Its very simple if you don't trust her keep walking. She has to be honest, trustworthy, loving, supporting, understanding, and devoted. I will also say that all those go for him too. If you dont have those things your relationship is doom...
    timberland1972 timberland1972
    41-45
    Mar 27, 2015

    my girlfriend is genderfluid.

    i just realised that even if she wanted to become a boy, i don't really care. it doesn't really make a difference in my mind. she is still her (or he, in that case).
    absenceofsound absenceofsound
    16-17, F
    Mar 4, 2015

    100% this to me is the biggest deal with a

    relationship. White liars don't bother me we all tell them but if you start to lie about things then I guess I get slightly paranoid and I always wonder are they being honest? I can't deal with that crap in a relationship tell me the truth no matter what I might think of it at...
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    a few weeks ago I told my wife of nine years

    that we should just be friends. hardest thing I have ever had to do. what hurt the most is her taking off the rings I had Givin her. the next day we talked found out what was both making us unhappy so we're working on trying to change our ways of showing each other how much we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    I find so many couples these days,

    in which the relationship is so unfair.. At least I find it so. One of the partners (lets call it A) is only seeing his/her partner (B) as a fall back option for the needs. A will keep flirting and sleeping around, looking for a 'better deal' who would be ready to stay. Whereas...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    My wife recently told me

    if I was to every cheat on her, she would not leave me. Was that just the raw truth, her being vulnerable or just expressing how much she loves me? I would never cheat but it's comforting to know. I don't think I would be strong enough to admit that to her. would you?
    lonestallion153 lonestallion153
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    Seems impossible to find

    and I am starting to believe we are not much more than animals that are each trying to survive in our particular environments and cultures. When things get tough people quickly forget prior bonds and survival mode dominates their actions. Trust has to be unwavering not just...
    Thomtech54 Thomtech54
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    I find honesty and trust important in a

    relationship but a month before I met my recent boyfriend I was trying to figure things out with my ex that I lost my virginity to. After me and him broke up years ago I had only slept with two other guys so 3 guys total so far but eventually I got tired of waiting for my ex to...
    BrokenGiggles BrokenGiggles
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2015

    My wife of 59 years passed away

    after 4 years in a convalescent hospital . During those years i played mafia wars and computer games . A few months after she was gone I was sitting in front of my computer and I said to my self get a life . So I sat down and joined an online dating group . It was scared as it...
    SkivySenior SkivySenior
    70+, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    After my leg went bad,

    we moved to Winston-Salem, NC for a new job. The guy who interviewed me was the guy I'd be working under and a Staff Sgt in the National Guard. I really liked the guy and he'd promised a raise after my 90 day probation. Cool. And so, like I do, I busted my ***. My brother...
    JamesLamar JamesLamar
    61-65, M
    Sep 18, 2015

    Honesty and trust go hand in hand.

    By being honest with the person your involved with, that is what builds the trust between the two. By always keeping the lines of communication going between the two, being open and honest with each other it is easy to maintain the trust it will always be in place.
    oldiron33 oldiron33
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Feb 2

    Without any honesty and trust,

    there is no relationship.
    Philli8807 Philli8807
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2014

    ok.. i need some advice.

    .. im withthis guy... hes amazing ive been with him two months... hes caring and gentle and we never argue... he looks after me ... he gets on with my family... hes such a great person... we are fantastic lovers... but theres no spark.. no thrill ... i dont know what my problem...
    msfugly msfugly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2015

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    tessaccaa tessaccaa
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    Trust is everything in a relationship,

    without it your whole world can fall apart. Hearts collide continuously and as they do, they search for the one thing that matters most. With it young seeds begin to sprout, beautiful colors of red, yellow, and blue. Filling the universe with a plethora of beauty, happiness...
    nivanvc nivanvc
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014

    Even If It Costs You A Friend

    I believe it is important to be honest in all relationships - whether it is with family, friends, in person or online, it doesn't matter.  I had to unfriend someone because of her verbal behavior.  The sad thing is that it really was my fault for befriending this person in the...
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    ...and in any friendship

    as well.Valuable connections should be crystal clear.
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

    I want people to tell each other the truth.

    This is especially important in relationships. The truth can hurt sometimes, but that's what friends are for. To support one another and understand each other people shouldn't lie. You should strive to be open and honest, as well as a friend who's trusting enough for others to...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2014

    Keep your promises and tell the truth.

    – If you say you’re going to do something, DO IT! If you say you’re going to be somewhere, BE THERE! If you say you feel something, MEAN IT! If you can’t, won’t, and don’t, then DON’T LIE. It’s always better to tell people the truth up front. Don’t play...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 4

    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    Aug 8, 2015

    Without honesty and truth,

    you can't have a relationship. A woman or man that lies to each other slowly erodes a relationship one tiny cut at a time. Likewise, partners that are always suspicious of each other also destroy their relationships. Constantly snooping or accusing your partner isn't going to...
    TheRedTie TheRedTie
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 15

    every relationship looses its novelty

    if trust and honesty us missing.... it's very hurtful when a person u trusted with a blind eye breaks ur trust..... once the trust is broken then no amount of guilt and being sorry can mend things ever
    shaurya26 shaurya26
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    we all hope for trust

    and honesty but it's rare to find these days it's like it's going extinct .. as a woman I would love to find a guy who posses such qualities but it seems highly impossible to meet.,
    naluy naluy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    It's funny how we forget to appreciate the

    small things in life. the bond between two people. the most important memories we never forget. I trust, charish and love my wife till death do us part. I am so happy she is a part of my life, could not do it without you
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 21, 2015

    I'm trusting some one special in my life whom I

    met two days back. Wish our relationship goes on without any disturbance and trust issues. I believe everything about her with my heart and she became my soul with whom I can be with forever. trust and honesty are most important things in any relationship. a small advice to all...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2015

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    DESIREDATINGAGENCY DESIREDATINGAGENCY
    51-55
    Jul 11, 2015

    if you don't have trust with a person,

    ,, you don't have anything with him,,,
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 14
    jayn12 jayn12
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2015

    I'm recently single,

    which isn't a bad thing. My ex fiancé was a completely untrusting person. She was Facebook stalking both her and my exes, so she could comment on how "she's not crazy." Her exes have all apparently told her she was crazy, it wasn't until the end that I would have to agree with...
    Liftofferik Liftofferik
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    just because you are looking

    for someone real it doesn't mean the real genuine people are obligated to be with you. everyone has preferences and they have to actually be attracted to you before you start entertaining the idea of being with them. some people like lighter complexions, others like darker...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
    Jan 17

    Why?

    Sorry to rant, but why is it that people have so much of a difficulty communicating with one another? Especially if the other senses that something is bothering you and asks you directly. Then they respond back saying that nothing is wrong when there really is? People really need...
    JesssicaBehnke JesssicaBehnke
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2012

    Rather than love, than money,

    than faith, give me truth
    alissabd alissabd
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2013

    Question for the ladies (or guys too).

    Would you trust someone whom had slept with another woman during the beginning of your dating relationship? He slept with another woman when we first started dating, but claims that we technically "weren't together" yet. I didn't find out until months later as he told me "he...
    firepetal113 firepetal113
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 11
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 25
    hecticeuphony hecticeuphony
    18-21, M
    Sep 28, 2015

    But when your partner tells you

    that many intoxicated women been flirting with your partner whilst working as a bouncer (which boosted his self-esteem), how to do control that angry emotion.
    CatWomen21 CatWomen21
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 22, 2015

    Without either of these.

    .it's not a healthy relationship. If these two things are missing in the beginning...that's a sure sign to get out before you're in too deep. I've made the mistake of ignoring red flags, then getting hurt in the end because my feelings were so strong at that point, and all I...
    lss0807 lss0807
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

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    Dianecc11 Dianecc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 3, 2015
    ShiLovely ShiLovely
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    I am ridiculously and at times stupidly honest.

    Trust is tricky. I will still hurtle in after you but I expect you to turn round and burn me any second. Sorry I think that. So I will gaze at you suspiciously if you want to be my friend. Because in my experience best friends wait to take husbands. If you want to be...
    grommit3 grommit3
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    My military wife: For over 35 years,

    this had been our life.  So many places visited, so many wonderful memories, met so many amazing people, and made some of the best friends anyone could ask for.   As we wait for orders for our next adventure. (Newer and brighter I hope) Lots of moving... Moving... Moving...
    biffsteele biffsteele
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 9

    Without honesty and trust,

    what is a relationship built on? Sex and mutual interest? For a lot of people that's enough but if you can't trust the person you're giving yourself to body and soul, then what good is any of it in a relationship
    misternobrain misternobrain
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2014

    Honesty and trust are an integral foundation to

    a healthy relationship. Lies just lead to more lies and it becomes toxic. I'd rather be told the painful truth gently than live on the premise of a lie, and I would want a partner who feels the same. Personally, I want my next relationship to be a situation where I can tell...
    65Cadillac 65Cadillac
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    Honesty is the most powerful thing you can have

    in a relationship. Even when the truth makes you feel uncomfortable. Trust is just as important. Without trust your relationship seems to fall apart more day by day. I don't have a lot of trust in both relationships and friendships. I am learning to be able to trust people...
    bayleaves bayleaves
    36-40, F
    Jun 15, 2014

    After dealing with enough bs I just shut down.

    .. Women always think he will change, he won't. Men always think she'll never leave, she will.
    TicToxic TicToxic
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    And I do mean ANY relationship.

    I would rather a friend tells me something straight and honest than lie to me and it winds up making me look like a fool. I like to think I communicate openly enough when I have to so I expect others to extend the same courtesy to me. If someone lies or breaks my trust, it...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2015

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