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I Find It Difficult to Forget My Past and Move

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    Thanks Mom

    my past was and still is hell.my mom could not find love in any of her relationships,so she crawled into my bed when i was very young.since this kind of abuse is hidden more than others i had no choice but to suppress.after she died i thought it would be better.my life has gone...
    riverside riverside 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2008

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    A Life of Living Hell

         I used to be a typical tomboy who loved school and hanging out with her friends. I loved my home back in Wyoming and never wanted to leave. All that changed when my dad decided to pack up everything we owned and move us to Missouri. We lived in a park for...
    robsangel2008 robsangel2008 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Can't Forget

    I can still remember the blood and tears my father caused. I can't forget feeling powerless as he harmed my older brothers. I still dream of blood and hear his screams in my head. I look over my shoulders, I can't relax. Sleep is something I rarely get. I will always feel like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 8, 2012

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    Why Can't I Let Go

    I have been been abused physically and mentally for all of my childhood and most of my adult life. I have managed to walk away form all of this relatively unscathed. I have been trying to move on with my life since my son's death but it is like living a travesty of life. Other...
    syntechnik syntechnik 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    My Boyfriend's Past

    ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. we get along pretty well and everything's good. but before i met him of course we both had a past. i told him all about mine which is no  big deal because i didnt do much. he told me he didnt do anything with...
    cisforcasey cisforcasey 18-21 1 Response May 5, 2010

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    I Cant Let Go Of My Past Hurts And Failures

    i managed to finish my primary education successfully.....i managed to perform very well and go to a top school in my home...when i reached thea in my high school i developed depression in my second year...i felt like everybody hated me.....i felt likeĀ  i did not belong thea...
    bonnke bonnke 22-25 Sep 8, 2011

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    Thanks Mom

    my past was and still is hell.my mom could not find love in any of her relationships,so she crawled into my bed when i was very young.since this kind of abuse is hidden more than others i had no choice but to suppress.after she died i thought it would be better.my life has gone...
    riverside riverside 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Have You Ever Had A Feeling You Cant Ever Forget

    I have this feeling that I am trapped in my past an can't escape it ever. I'm happy in my new relatioship but for some reason I always look back at my past relatioships an. Compare it to my new one. I'm tired of this feeling its so depressing an annoying that it makes me not ever...
    forgetmenot08 forgetmenot08 16-17, F Jul 9, 2013

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    I'm A Different Person Now

    and that's what Jesus keeps trying ot remind me of.  I constantly lift my past up to Him and He takes it, and then I keep taking it back.  Remembering things is one thing, but I keep trying to relive them in my imagination which surfaces in my personality.  I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 11, 2009

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    I Keep Looking Over My Shouler. . .

    I have had a several people in my past ex-boyfriend and ex-friend who treated me liek crap when we were together whether it being a relationship or just hanging out. I had one ex-boyfriend who abused me verbal and wanted me to hurt myself physically and then when I broke up with...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F Sep 17, 2010

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    Therpist

    my therpist saids that i should letgo and move on from my past but ican,t i allways remmber that i was sexually asusted and that brothers me cause i can,t forget what happened to me i try to read alot sow the past woun,t brother me as munch but then it creeps up on me again...
    barribi barribi 22-25, F Oct 19, 2012

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    I Am Much Better, Though...

    I used to obsess and over-analyze my past to pieces. I'm not really sure what changed it or when, but it was just a colossal waste of time, effort, and energy. I love being able to be more present in the here-and-now. Thoughts of my past come and go, and I will go thru phases of...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    It Hurts

    I do not understand why I still struggle with my past. I realize I end up screwing my present over the hurtings of the past. I don't like carrying this burden in my heart which makes me break down once in a while. Its a mixed feeling of feeling sorry for myself, bitterness,regret...
    Iikya Iikya 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    I Use To But Not Anymore

    For years my past was stuck in my head like a scratch record that I could not stop. Now is happening and I am moving on with my life. I am not saying that the path that I have to travel is without risks but I will do my best.
    jc2009 jc2009 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    My Future Move

    I spend the day packing , i want to be out of this place by christmas, i have been here for a year, i can't believe at my age i'm moving around, i been in my last home for 35 years, i moved here for my son, he wanted to be by a school where it was easy to go back inforth , so...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Jun 16, 2013

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    We often go about life forgetting some simple truths that lets us know that our life is important and we need to value it to make it worthwhile. So here is a reminder.. There is...
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    I've had a difficult time forgetting about my past its a dark place that haunts and bothers me to this day. I've had many problems with being adopted I would cry for hours on end...
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    I don't mean to be difficult, I really don't. It just kind of happens sometimes and I can't go back and change it.. I always avoid questions, even the pointless ones, but I just...
    SwimmingDarkness SwimmingDarkness 16-17, F 23 hrs ago

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    I think everyone In their life has done some things they aren't proud of but that doesn't mean you should live in the past. Living in the past is a bad thing to do. It's in the...
    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M Jul 8

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    Long story short: I cheated on my ex and he dumped me. Now I can't get him out of my head. I don't know why cheated, I keep trying to find a reason but when I find one I feel like...
    Ren10 Ren10 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I am 20 years old and I met a guy who is 7 years older then me. As time went on we grew close and I unexpectedly fell in love with him. He told me from the beginning he wasn't able...
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    Note to future self: Matt, leave the past where it is. You may never forget what happened, but some of the other people are trying very hard to forget and you should let them...
    MattsShadow MattsShadow 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My past was full of dramas and still is but I try and forget about what happens. Even though I get beaten up by words everyday I try and forget about the hurt that I am receiving...
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    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 6

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    I think we all have an idealist idea about "the perfect relationships". I've had several long term relationships in the past, some long distant relationships. I find trust and...
    jetetter jetetter 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I've just moved into year 11 and on a new timetable. The problem is that a lot of my subject teachers have changed from last year and It's kind of upsetting me.. I may sound a bit...
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    In my youth I used to hang onto emotions much longer but these day if I'm angry, I drop it really fast. I forgive everyone very easily and don't hold grudges. My biggest problem I...
    Duskmoon Duskmoon 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I am really considering moving out of the city I live in. It's time for a change, cliche at it's best I know, but it really is time. So, with that being said I wanna know who on...
    nutterpnutbutter nutterpnutbutter 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I won't lie. I really wish I never existed. Being a mistake baby, I regret my existence, growing up in broken families, growing up stunting illnesses, being left behind and...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 14

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    CandleDancer39 CandleDancer39 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I would love to know more about my past lives. I had one spontaneous remembrance of a past life, and it happened not that long ago. I had been cleaning my microwave and was really...
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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Everybody thinks I'm good. I may be. They begin trusting and chatting more. It gets a bit uneasy for me. I don't know why. I act so fake because I have to. I manipulate people so...
    alkaem alkaem 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    My memory is weird sometimes. Only for certain people it remembers important dates like birthdays, wedding anniversaries (my parents), and I've learned to put up so many alarms on...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jul 12

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    I moved because i lived in a city for 19 years never met my brother that my mother abandoned decided that it was unfair that i had such a good life while he had to live everyday...
    mairaauroracx mairaauroracx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    PrincessFromDarkKingdom PrincessFromDarkKingdom 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It's hard for me to forget the past, Idk why and I'm really too obsessed with it :(
    randomsleepinggirl randomsleepinggirl 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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