I Find It Hard to Be Myself Around People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 213 People

    A Little Bird Around Hyenas

      I'm not a big public speaker, I don't like the attention, I'm kinda like "the behind the camera person". I'm very selective, I don't get along with just anybody. When I have a bad connection with someone I don't try to go further...which can happen a lot of time...
    tiyan tiyan
    26-30, F
    Dec 29, 2009

    The Many Me

    I am a perfectionist when it comes to work i am given. If i put my head into anyhting i can do that thing perfectly and creatively. I am friendly and social and people like. I  surprise people with my unpredictable stuff and crazy things i do like i will make a funky colour...
    rocketlioness rocketlioness
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2012

    For A Lot Of Reasons

    Mostly because I am an empath, sometimes I can feel really strongly what others feel. And if someone is fighting, depressed, or pissed off, it can affect me. Also because people tend to be nosy at the exact moment I don't want them to be. That really gets on my nerves...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 18, 2009

    I'm Sometimes Over-sensitive

    I am sometimes over-sensitive to others' reactions to me. When I am, I let those reactions affect me to the extent that I feel as though I need to change myself. I also find confrontation energy-draining and pointless, so when faced with an adverse response from someone towards...
    nsfw nsfw
    36-40, M
    Feb 22, 2012

    Break Up Is So Tough

    i was in a relationship with a guy for last 2 years. He was my first kiss and i thought that may be he is the one. He was hte first one to know my dark side and how i really am from inside(emotionally and spiritually). i was always there for him even especially at his down-fall...
    rocketlioness rocketlioness
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

    I Don't Know Who I Am

    I don't know how to be myself around other people. Whenever I am in a group surrounding I find myself trying to be what other people expect me to be. I don't know how to act and sometimes I try to hard to "fit it". Over my life I've had to overcome a numerous amount of things...
    LonersNook LonersNook
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2012


    i can't say that im fake or anything but when im in a crowd what ill do is adapt and conform to the atmosphere or personality or mood in the group so ill feel more at ease and dont feel like some outcast.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 25, 2012

    I Want Someone To Love.

    I feel so loney. I have no one to love. I would be the best girlfriend ever if someone gave me a chance. I am a nice girl, and will treat my boyfriend the best. I used to date, no it's like I can't get someone to save my life, and it's very depressing. I feel like I am incomplete...
    Michaela171819 Michaela171819
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2012

    Trying To

    I have read a book called Risking by David Viscott in order to gain some more confidence in myself being around others. I can relate to quite a bit that is in the book, but still do not have a significant amount ot courage. I still feel like I should be someone else in order to...
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 7, 2012

    When I'm in society I always "play a

    characters" I really hard for me to be myself around others.
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    Especially At Times Like These

    Heads up this is me feeling extremely emotionally whacked out at the moment. This is my incoherent rambling that is an attempt to get rid of the stupidness that is the emotion that I'm hooked on at the moment. You have been warned. This makes no particular sense, it's just a...
    Khilaren Khilaren
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    I don't exactly care about opinions

    but at the same time I don't like to show my true self to people because it gives them something to work with, a weakness to attack you with in arguments, let someone in and they'll take advantage I guess
    maddieXxx maddieXxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    I've always had a difficult time being myself,

    like my crazy fun self around others. Especially people I first meet because I'm always trying to make a good impression and I feel like the way I am won't be good enough for them. That's a lot of the reason why I prefer having a long distance relationship because I can be...
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright
    16-17, F
    Aug 13, 2014

    I feel boring alot of times,

    I am a plain Jane 21 year old. I used to go out an do wild things but I became a mother an I changed for the better. I hardly remember what having girlfriends around to talk too is like. I am comfortable with being a homebody but being around other makes me really tense up! I...
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2014

    I am a young boy who feels different from

    others. During 6th grade, I had these "friends". I fell like they thought I was helpless. They used to make jokes, but it felt like they were directed torwards me. I could that they would talk bad about me. I remember that my "friend" said that my head looks deformed. It's all...
    Karlthesheep2002 Karlthesheep2002
    16-17, M
    Jul 3, 2014
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