I Find It Hard To Stay Positive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 461 People

    everything in my life has become ****** up.

    I almost went crazy. OK I actually did. battling depression anxiety and rage from the unjust system. I will fight to the death of I have to.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 31, 2015

    I feel like everyone wants me around,

    but no one wants me... I've been staying at a friends house and doing everything for everyone.. I really like his sister and I've been treating her like a queen, but I'm stuck in the friend zone. And now if I stop being so nice I'll just seem like I turned into an ******* and...
    steviehunt steviehunt
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    It Is Hard To Stay Positive

    when i get yelled at for doing positive things today for example i washed the blankets, i thought they were dirty and dusty and filled with cat hair and yet i get yelled at for doing it :( i give up
    MoonLight30 MoonLight30
    26-30, F
    Aug 7, 2010

    Nothing Seems To Ever Go The Way I Plan It

    It seems to happen more often than not I want something for so bad and I plan for it and then somthing comes up and I can't everybody is like keep a positive attitude things will work themselves out. I just want to scream WHEN!!!!! Ugg it's annoying
    CountryBaby22 CountryBaby22
    26-30, F
    Jun 2, 2013

    Stay Neutral, If Not Positive.

    You don't have to be brimming with sunshine and rainbows, but don't associate with negative judgments and thoughts. They're going to exist unless you're constantly satisfied with your life (and who is?), so just take any negative thoughts and neutralize them rather than trying to...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 29, 2012

    One way to fly ! is to accept every thing

    what ever that comes in our way. When there are no hard feelings or soft feelings attached to the actions, it is very easy to handle the results with ease. Handling results with ease will keep one self in calm and let us stay positive for ever. Every thing happens for a reason...
    nissan124 nissan124
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014


    I'm a negative person by nature...not sure why that is or where it started. Have always looked at the glass as half empty, expected the worse from anyone or anything, have always thought about the worst case scenario. If something can go wrong, it will...those kinds of thoughts...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2012

    I made a commitment to myself to use the law of

    attraction for 31 days.. In my commitment I included writing at least one positive affirmation before I go to bed, visualising daily about something positive and not focusing on negative thoughts, but shifting my focus at something else when this happens. It's day #9 and things...
    sparkydream sparkydream
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    When life constantly gets me down,

    it's hard to not be full of anger, resentment, bitterness etc. I try and 'get on with it' but I don't have a great poker face so it's probably obvious I'm massively unhappy, even if I don't actually say it. I do generally admire people who don't let life get them down, but I'm...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 9, 2014

    Having A Strange Few Days.

    WOW, its been a insane back and forth few days. Im angry, im happy, im angry, im happy, i love you, i hate you, talk to me, don't you dare talk to me. I just can't stay happy the last few days. Feeling a bit lost, and unnoticed. Stupid I am sure, but I suppose me being a woman, I...
    Gene86 Gene86
    26-30, F
    Feb 26, 2012

    I Totally Agree. I Had Knee Surgery And I Am Progressing Nicely! But Its Hard To Be Positive

    Everyone says hey you're doing better etc etc. But seriously my parents dont make it easy on me. You would think even with a knee injury I would get a little sympathy. Nope not possible. I can't help it that I am over emotional. Pain killers have that side affect but i stopped...
    MoonLight30 MoonLight30
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 22, 2010

    Anther Day Anther.. Aww Whats The Point

    My life is full of nothing but disappointment at this point. As If the city I live in isn't bad enough, I'm also trying to accept myself. I can't seem to find enjoyment in things anymore. In my mind I'm the worst person out of the people I know. The reason I feel this way is I...
    flexswag flexswag
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2011

    Taking Control!

    I have had a great couple of days. And it has brought me out of a semi bad state of mind. While things are still drab in most ways health wise, I have the most wonderful people in my life to lean on. My parents really are there when I need them, even from 5 hours away, my husband...
    Gene86 Gene86
    26-30, F
    Jan 29, 2012

    For me it's really the positive part.

    See, when I look at myself, I gotta say that optimism is one of my most strongest qualities, but that is a whole world away from positivity. I can be optimistic about the dumbest things but when it comes to thinking positively, it's one of those things that I sometimes shut out...
    spark16 spark16
    26-30, M
    Jun 25, 2015

    Anything Can Bring Me Down.

    Lately, I've always been in a bad mood. I can't look forward to things, and I don't want to be happy. It's like I'm addicted to being upset and negative. Any little thing or memory can make me upset, and cause me to go under. I hate that. I don't know why I like to do it. And I...
    Hopeless0Nerd Hopeless0Nerd
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2010

    My head is a complete chaos.

    Nothing seems to make sense anymore. And it causes me to overthink everything and to push people away. I can't concentrate on anything longer than 20 seconds. Sometimes I wish I couldn't think. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a memory. But I do and that's what makes it worse...
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx
    22-25, F
    Jun 26, 2015

    So i quit smoking, this is the 4th day clean,

    apart from 2 smokes, EP i just wanna ***** about how hard it is and accept that theres nothing i can do, thx for listening
    everycolour101 everycolour101
    22-25, M
    Mar 7, 2015

    Need Help Being More Positive...

    Most days I would definitely say I'm positive. And when I'm positive, I am VERY positive. Like "I love everyone, I want to hug them all, and make them smile!" My moods are typically extreme. Like very happy and positive or very sad and negative. That's due to mental illness but...
    itsBece itsBece
    26-30, M
    Sep 8, 2013

    Again I made a stupid mistake.

    I give up. I'm never gonna be able to do something right.
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    im not terribly good at it.

    I think of positive things but the thoughts dissolve like ashes in the rain. i found treasure but its not mine to keep. the brightest gem is one i have to see go elsewhere. i wish this lie called life would end.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    It's hard when no matter how hard you try

    something goes wrong or you just can't get the break you need
    ahshara ahshara
    61-65, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    Sometimes I need to be reminded

    that I mean something to someone, not just because I forget that someone cares, but because it's hard to trust when someone says something when everyone has done the opposite.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 26, 2015

    I wish to get over all this pain inside my heart

    and soul and especially those people who come into my life care about me I open my heart and tell everything then one day they hit me so strong and go go so far away then suddenly come back to wake up the pain in me....wna stop feeling wnt the pain out :'( I'm exhausted nd dyn
    emmadarko emmadarko
    22-25, F
    Jun 26, 2015

    when I am surrounded by this pa Elias Alis

    serial killer hole, name*Hope love God** this disgusted rusputin deserved to burn alive in a open fire..the hell fire should pour down on her. tottaly. the shame visa skunk.. medical billing insurance scum spit on your face hopelovegod. thoooooh!!
    proudmuslimwoman proudmuslimwoman
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    One Thing After Another!!!

    especially the past 10 years or so, i have found it really difficult to stay positive about myself and the direction that my life is going, cos it always seems that no matter how hard i try to change my life, to make a better life for myself, and to move on from the past, there...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    10 Responses Jun 22, 2010

    Not Just Hard...

    ...but right now nearly impossible. Negative emotions feed on themselves and one the feeding frenzy starts, it takes SO much to stop it. Right now I'm being picked apart piece by piece.
    Tuva Tuva
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2010
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