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I Find Masculinity Calming and Comforting

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    Masculinity

    Something about the strong lines of their bodies: wide shoulders that bear turmoil; solid arms that encircle; broad chests on which to settle, happily, warmly, a tear streaked face; a chest on which to press an earand bask in his sonorous voice.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    Warm Strength....

    guys are so warm and convincing...They can just take you in their arms and make you feel so nice and..... I dont know the word for how it feels.... like a key and a lock.... it just fits so nice and cleanly.... I love my man and all his masculinity....Like laying my head or chin...
    abritishgirl abritishgirl 70+, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    Not All Males Has It

    I found that not all males have that masculinity that is calming an comforting to a woman.I enjoy a charismatic, elegant man that just know how to walk and express himself well in any circumstance.His presence make my heart skip a beat.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2011

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    I Swear I Have Them To My Circle.^^

    I find both masculity and femininity combined in women attractive. Not only an exudes intelligence, in overall attituded by also reflects confidence. My mother who shows this kind of personality has influenced me a lot. I came to admire women with such charm. Though masculinity...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    Beyond Words

    I can be strong, forthright and sassy and quite sharp with you if you cross me.  I can also be bossy too.  But I'm not the nagging type, at least not that I've been told ... but I will get on your case if I'm not happy with something.I'm not submissive ... never have been...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 12 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    I really enjoy the presence of masculinity.

    Whether it be a man or woman. I suppose I seek out masculinity because for the longest time I didn't have any in my life. It brings me comfort to have someone in the same room as me that plays as almost a protector in my life. :)
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F Jan 15

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    Love A Strong Man

    As a woman I am soft and femine and I am proud of the woman that I have become. I respect myself and those around me. I am very aware of who I am and what I need in life to be happy.  I am hopeful for my future and that of my partner and I know that I am loved and that I love. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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