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I Find My Husband Frustraating

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    My Husband Wants To Leave His Job And We Can't Afford It.

    Please help.My husband is driving me crazy.  His job is often stressful (by the way, mine is too), and periodically he talks about leaving and going elsewhere, even though he can stay as long as he wants and build on a guaranteed pension.We are both healthy, active baby boomers...
    wanttochange17 wanttochange17 56-60 Jun 16, 2011

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    I Am Hating My Husband Today!!

    I understand what it's like to hate everything your husband does, and to be trapped in a situation you can't get out of. Everytime my husband sneezes, I just want to roll my eyes and tell him to shut up, it's like it's the loudest noise I've ever heard. Sometimes just his...
    cajunspice73 cajunspice73 31-35 3 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Hate It When He Is Sick

    I would rather be home alone with 10 sick kids then to be home alone with one grown man with a cold. The kids I can handle, but one man is enough to make me want to put a gun to my head.
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    He's At It Again

    My husband is at it again.He has this habit of saying"we need to (Fill in blank)" get the car serviced..extra keys made...buy more shampoo..whatever.. any way he means I NEED TO DO WHATEVER it is cuz he doesn't do any of it.He works at his job comes home...
    missemboth missemboth 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Oh boy this morning he is frustrating me with

    his jealousy over something so foolish ugh he is a twit at times :)
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    DRIVES Me Crazy

    My husband is so frustrating.He thinks he is the know all ,end all of everything.It doesn't seem to matter what I say or do he knows more or how to do it better.What is so frustrating is he isn't any smarter or more knowledgable than I am.I have a much higher IQ than he does and...
    missemboth missemboth 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I Married A Child

    I've been married to my husband for over a year now and I love him dearly but I'm starting to see how selfish and self-centered he can be. When we were dating/engaged we could talk for hours but now it seems he does all the talking and I have to do all the listening. He cuts me...
    nayqui nayqui 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Two Can Play That Game

    My husband hates everything I watch on Tv. No matter what I'm watching he has something to say about it. For example he walked in on me watching some movie that just so happened to have homosexual characters in it so he accuses me of secretly being a lesbian and that's why I was...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    My Birthday

    Yesterday was my birthday and my husband invited by card did not ask verbally it read dinner at 7:30 no place so since he was cooking I thought he was trying to romance me boy was I wrong , around 6:50 he came upstairs and said and I quote YOU GOIN OR NOT my sister be here at 7...
    babysocks86 babysocks86 36-40, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have been with my husband since 9th grade. Friends often ask me what's or secret for a long happy relationship. All I can tell them is that my husband is my best friend, we have...
    Blondeblueyegirl Blondeblueyegirl 41-45, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Why do I ALWAYS get put on the back burner?! My husband chooses everything over me and our kids. I'm ******* sick of it. What's love anyway, right??
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 5 days ago

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    My husband is the best. He was made for me. We met in high school but unfortunately did not get together until 25 years later. We married in 2007 in a Celtic ceremony. Each year I...
    robalsean robalsean 41-45, F Aug 8

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    My husband who is 22 year older than me, is the master of the household, and that inclused the right for him to discipline me when he finds it necessary. If he finds that I am...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    This is a story 10 years in the making. 10 years ago, I met the son of my mother's friend. He had a g/f (wife now - and she was there that night) and I had a b/f (husband now...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I have struggled with my husband's disease for at least 25 years of the 36 we've been married. I never realized that I married into this disease, as I was always the kind of...
    Stndingrl Stndingrl 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    About a month after I married my current husband, I discovered many emails, Facebook messages, linkedin messages, and other links to messages to other women. They were very...
    Susanrrhea Susanrrhea 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hello, I'm having the hardest time. I've been married 6 years to my husband. We had this huge wedding that was very emotional and beautiful because of the surprised vowels he gave...
    lonelysoul77 lonelysoul77 36-40, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I'm starting to hate my husband. He is immature and can't communicate. He spends every night glued to his laptop, TV, or cellphone internet. EVERY night. When I try to suggest us...
    trailblazr80 trailblazr80 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    so my husband and I are trying to have our 2nd baby. I had the most real vivid dream ever last night. My childhood centered around my great grandparnets. The partys we had there...
    melly0727 melly0727 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I just lost my husband July 10th 2014 from a massive heart attack. We have been together for 12 years - married for 9. He had heart disease in his family - lost his dad when he...
    margob74 margob74 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    We have been together for 10 years and married for six of them. Have twin, two and a half year olds and a four year old. My husband is a control freak and emotionally abusive. I...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I dated with nearly 10 guys but haven't found my lover. My dating stopped after one or second meeting because sometimes both sides were not interested in each others or sometime...
    katnguyen katnguyen 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    My beloved passed away last June of 2013, we don't have children . He's a clinical Audiologist and I work with him as his secretary, after a good dinner that he cooked for Thanks...
    buddy1436 buddy1436 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Because I grew up in a house full of women and spent most of my childhood in girl's clothes I have something of a female perspective. With my wife I let it out when we shop for...
    becca265 becca265 46-50 Aug 10

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    What more is there to think...he picks at something all the time. My jokes, my clothes, the fact that I can't party like him and our friends, the things I say, the way the house...
    aceventura21 aceventura21 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I hide my tears from the world I hide my body I don't let anyone know how I feel inside! I miss my ex!! I miss talking to him about everything we had real love I can't express!! He...
    Ashawnte Ashawnte 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    2 years into my marriage and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    It’s been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of...
    nuruldeen nuruldeen 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Well...I stayed and I am still in the same boat! Sitting here, he is passed out drunk AGAIN! AS USUAL! WTF is wrong with me? I let him fool me once again. I think I am scared. I...
    ShonieGETYOLIFE1 ShonieGETYOLIFE1 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My favorite movie is The Notebook, and I cry every time I watch it, because it speaks to my heart and makes me want to have a relationship like Allie's and Noah's.... Am I really...
    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    December 2012, both my husband and I were questioned for child abuse after we took our child in for a check up and petechiae and bruises were found, but the Department of Family...
    minilule minilule 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm honestly not the type of person who wants to be alone all the time but I've become somewhat of a hermit lately. My husband is an alcoholic and it seems to keep getting worse...
    nikkib3809 nikkib3809 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I want to find true love. To grow old with someone. A man that will love me now for who I am and always help me strive to be a better person. I have this image of us... I'm washing...
    hopeful027 hopeful027 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago