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I Find My Husband Frustraating

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    Hate It When He Is Sick

    I would rather be home alone with 10 sick kids then to be home alone with one grown man with a cold. The kids I can handle, but one man is enough to make me want to put a gun to my head.
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    My Birthday

    Yesterday was my birthday and my husband invited by card did not ask verbally it read dinner at 7:30 no place so since he was cooking I thought he was trying to romance me boy was I wrong , around 6:50 he came upstairs and said and I quote YOU GOIN OR NOT my sister be here at 7...
    babysocks86 babysocks86 36-40, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    Oh boy this morning he is frustrating me with

    his jealousy over something so foolish ugh he is a twit at times :)
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Two Can Play That Game

    My husband hates everything I watch on Tv. No matter what I'm watching he has something to say about it. For example he walked in on me watching some movie that just so happened to have homosexual characters in it so he accuses me of secretly being a lesbian and that's why I was...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    My Husband Wants To Leave His Job And We Can't Afford It.

    Please help.My husband is driving me crazy.  His job is often stressful (by the way, mine is too), and periodically he talks about leaving and going elsewhere, even though he can stay as long as he wants and build on a guaranteed pension.We are both healthy, active baby boomers...
    wanttochange17 wanttochange17 56-60 Jun 16, 2011

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    DRIVES Me Crazy

    My husband is so frustrating.He thinks he is the know all ,end all of everything.It doesn't seem to matter what I say or do he knows more or how to do it better.What is so frustrating is he isn't any smarter or more knowledgable than I am.I have a much higher IQ than he does and...
    missemboth missemboth 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I Married A Child

    I've been married to my husband for over a year now and I love him dearly but I'm starting to see how selfish and self-centered he can be. When we were dating/engaged we could talk for hours but now it seems he does all the talking and I have to do all the listening. He cuts me...
    nayqui nayqui 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    He's At It Again

    My husband is at it again.He has this habit of saying"we need to (Fill in blank)" get the car serviced..extra keys made...buy more shampoo..whatever.. any way he means I NEED TO DO WHATEVER it is cuz he doesn't do any of it.He works at his job comes home...
    missemboth missemboth 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    I Am Hating My Husband Today!!

    I understand what it's like to hate everything your husband does, and to be trapped in a situation you can't get out of. Everytime my husband sneezes, I just want to roll my eyes and tell him to shut up, it's like it's the loudest noise I've ever heard. Sometimes just his...
    cajunspice73 cajunspice73 31-35 3 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    My husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer (stage 4), 18 months ago. It has been so hard to watch the love of my life slowly dying over these past months. He is fighting for his...
    Catnipp Catnipp 46-50, F 9 hrs ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful man last night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I just...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses 39 mins ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful man last night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I just...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 34 mins ago

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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I would love to know more about my past lives. I had one spontaneous remembrance of a past life, and it happened not that long ago. I had been cleaning my microwave and was really...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    I read all of the stories and I can relate to them my husband was the sort of man that women adore beautiful in everyway but he is a functioning alcoholic .So I did it I left my...
    sunshineonarainyday sunshineonarainyday 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    It's hard to find someone to trust but when I do I can't shut up
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    My husband is 17 years older than me. I feel guilty for leaving him, since I am 50 now and I know he needs someone to care for him. He is not ill, but has some health issues like...
    nnaymar nnaymar 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I do not know what the right things to do and say are. My husband has a close relative who is dying, expected to die within a week. He went to be with this relative. My husband and...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Last night my husband told me he was going to the gym for a couple of hours. This was at about 9 pm. Come 11:55pm I text him to find out if he was done so he could stop for milk...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Okay, I need to get this is off my chest. My husband never tries to see things from my perspective. Every time he upsets me he never takes me seriously and here is the most...
    jrlegg jrlegg 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate my husband. I pay for everything . Food. Electricity. Water. Health insurance. Doctor bills. Dentist bills. Car insurance . House insurance . Clothes for kids. Any and all...
    ohiogirl789 ohiogirl789 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I am married for 21 years. I have a total of 3 daughters. the last one is from my husband. I have looked for years to find my oldest daughters dad. 5 months ago we found him. I...
    christi1258 christi1258 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    For me it's not really about finding "the one". I just wonder when he is going to appear and how I'm going to know. Two different times I've fallen into the illusion of thinking I...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    How do I find out my husband is gay without asking him?
    pacattack06 pacattack06 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    July 9. Overspending and Underspending. "I used to beat my husband to death with my credit card. It made me feel like I had some control, some way to get even with him...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 9

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    July 9. Overspending and Underspending. "I used to beat my husband to death with my credit card. It made me feel like I had some control, some way to get even with him...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 9

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    Dear future husband, I need for you to express your love to other people about me like that. When they ask me about my future wife, I always tell them that her eyes are the only...
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm divorcing my husband of 8 years and ending a 12-years relationship. I met him back in university he's from Europe and I'm from Asia. This is going to be long... After uni I...
    lastfeather lastfeather 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    so my husband and I are trying to have our 2nd baby. I had the most real vivid dream ever last night. My childhood centered around my great grandparnets. The partys we had there...
    melly0727 melly0727 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't even know where to begin. First of all me and my husband have 21 grandchildren and he is only partial to a few of them...the rest he is indifferent but to this one...
    LavondaCausey LavondaCausey 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Once again I find myself awake and feeling alone in bed tonight. He is not interested in me....won't touch me not even when I touch him or put my arms around him. He only kisses me...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I can't stand being apart from him, mostly when we are away from home. Him being at work doesn't bother me if I'm in the comfort of my own home. I don't particularly like going to...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband is such a jerk .I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My mother-in-law recently became incapacitated. She is elderly and was just hospitalized. I spent three days with my husband and other family members at the hospital. I get along...
    kt65 kt65 46-50 1 Response Jul 7

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    (when my hubby impregnated the daughter of our neighbor, my world collapsed) Betrayal is very hard to handle in the beginning especially if you think that the last person who will...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 10 Responses Jun 28

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    My name is Ryan, i love in a sexless marrage. If you havent guessed I'm gay and been arried for ruffly 5 months now and I have had sex just a gathering of 5 times since Feb 28th...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2