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I Find Negativity To Be Unattractive

Everyone has negative things to say at times. For others it's a lifestyle. 599 People

    Think Negative Gets A Person Nothing

    I know this from experience and being negative about things will always bring people down, but even in situations when a person thinks it couldn't get any worse it might be hard but laugh about it and move on don't let anything worry you because it doesn't change a damn thing and...
    mrasshole mrasshole 51-55, M Mar 27, 2012

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    You Can Become More Aware Of Negative Self-talk--something That Hides In Plain Sight ...

    Here's an interesting story I read (by Dr. Andrew Jacobs, Winnersunlimited.com; May 21, 2008) while doing my research for this blog. It was about a cyclist who won a medal in the 1984 Olympics. The article said that the cyclist had to battle negative self-talk while he was racing...
    author2 author2 36-40, F Feb 29, 2012

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    I'm so tired of people

    who whine that they don't have friends, lovers, true relationships and refuse to understand how such constant negativity impacts how people see them. Now I'm not clueless entirely, I know people will have bad days. Weeks as well, sometimes years. But please don't be surprised...
    TheNerdYouLove TheNerdYouLove 31-35, F 1 Response May 6, 2014

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    The Downer-frowner.

    Now, I'm not a positive person all the time. There are times when i do feel down. When I do feel down, I prefer to be alone. That way I can work stuff out and settle some unresolved negativity. It usually works. So being the not so positive person all the time, I tend to cherish...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2013

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    Me too. But i knew all my life only negativity.

    Thats why im so negative. I was a victim of bullying.
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 1 Response Dec 10, 2014

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    The alternative to being saccharine all the

    time is to be real with yourself and with others, and surround yourself with people who do the same, and thereby be able to express compassion for yourself and for others. Life is negative. And for some, it is especially and severely negative to the point of utterly...
    Ajushi Ajushi 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    I empathize for problemed people on here.

    But I'm starting to lose hope on finding positive experiences on here.
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2014

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    "Energy flows where your attention goes.

    " and what you put your attention on is just going to increase and accelerate as time goes on. Get as far away from that negativity crap as you can ,, Stop giving your power away.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 12

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    We All Know Those People

    Like the Monty Python song says, I "Always look on the bright side of life". There are many people out there though, that see the lemons and not the lemonade. I believe that we train our minds to see what we want to see. Everything is subjective. We all look at the negative...
    zincthink zincthink 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    I love my boyfriend,

    but I'm so tired of him being negative all the time. I'm a negative person, but I try my best not to portray it onto others because I know it just brings them down with me. He's going through a hard time right now and has been for many years. His family doesn't help him pay for...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F Mar 2, 2014

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    On Me Or You

    Not that I am attracted to everyone, but still, if you have a partner then you should consider how you look to them. It's gross to be negative and bitchy all the time, nobody wants to be around that except for like minded people I suppose.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    I Never Realized...

    Just how gross negativity is until I noticed how negative I was about myself. I have always been turned off by people who are so negative about themselves because it's usually about things that I never even give any thought to or notice until they say something about it. Which...
    explainit2me explainit2me 26-30, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Negativity...

    ... brings me down. I try to be nice to everyone but sometimes I have no choice but to simply avoid those who appear to have never had a positive thought in their lives. I know a guy who never has a good day, never feels good, lives to complain. I can't even tolerate him anymore...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2011

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    The most unattractive thing to me I think is

    insecurity or self pity. I can't stand someone who is so lost in negative thoughts and too stubborn to even listen to anyone else, the kind of person who is self destructive or implosive. Don't bottle up your emotions, it's not healthy. I know this because I was the same way a...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2014

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    Do Negative People...

    ....realize they're negative people? I'm not sure they do. I have a friend that none of our other friends really like to be around. I've learned to tolerate her mainly because when she's bitching, I let it go in one ear and out the other. We do have fun and laugh together...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Lighten Up

    "Everyone has negative things to say at times. For others it's a lifestyle."This statement is SOOO true! Everyone has bad days, even bad months or bad years. Everyone needs to vent. Everyone has moments when they feel cynical and just want to b*tch. But there are some people who...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    I think that it is best to express negative

    feelings aloud to get them out of our system before they poison us from the inside out.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It's Easy To Fix!

    Got a problem? Can you do anything about it? If so, do it, shut up and smile! Can't do anything about it? Stop worrying, shut up and smile!
    themeanderthal themeanderthal 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    organizedmadness organizedmadness 41-45, F Apr 26

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    I feel I will never find love ,I'm only 16 but and I don't think I'm unattractive in any way sure I got quirks like I'm skinny or I have small lips but I feel that he's not going...
    LolaKamfao1998 LolaKamfao1998 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 29

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    What makes you attractive? But beauty is not the only thing that makes people attractive. There are many people out there with slightly better than average looks who are a magnet...
    birdsrestingonabranch birdsrestingonabranch 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I'm still young, only twenty one but I do want to find myself and not to be so lost like my alcoholic brother or my confused mother. I surrounded by misguided unhappy people that...
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F Apr 26

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    This made me wonder... Am I looking for something? When you whittle away all the frilly wishes and dreams, am I looking for something?? Well...happiness I suppose. Aren't we all...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 5 Responses May 8

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    I would like to stay positive and believe finding my true love means just that! Finding! And being a sojourner, loving adventure... Why don't I enjoy this quest as much as I would...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    Utilized vehicles come as a part of different styles and measurements. There are numerous sorts of vehicles that can be purchased in the business nowadays. Clients are...
    absone absone 22-25, F May 7

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    Well I am going to say it is rather impossible to create a check list of things I am looking for and just go out and find a woman like that. The problem with doing such a thing is...
    Whatdreamsarelost Whatdreamsarelost 31-35, M 5 Responses May 10

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    This doesn't mean I endorse their actions, and I'm probably one of the most peaceful and violence adverse people you will ever meet, but for some reason I just find people that...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F May 13

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    We all want true, honest, and real friends on here. It is just hard to find as it is not only about someone you can trust, but someone you can talk to about common intetests or...
    Destroyedandgone Destroyedandgone 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Sometimes you have to find out for yourself. Sometimes you need to be told. Sometimes you never find the answer.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 25

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    we will never find ourselves, only in bits in pieces... and I say this because as we age we gain knowledge and wisdom which helps us find out more about ourselves..
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 26

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    Some people find peace in music I find peace in nature
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I thought I had found true love but now that it's over, I'm not sure if I even know what true love is. I'm in no hurry to find love again but I hope it finds me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I want to fall in love. I want to find that someone that makes me happy and cares about me. Who won't just use me for things they need then leave and come back when they need...
    XxSaveMeyxX XxSaveMeyxX 16-17, F 1 Response May 9

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    I'm trying to find my faith in society again as well as faith in my self , but faith is a difficult thing to find.
    AngelofFear AngelofFear 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When people say they met online and they had fallen in love.. I really love it.. I am trying to find true love who is out there.. Who wants true love.. Hope I find some one..
    naveekool naveekool 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I cant seem to find anyone. No one even likes me. Its really annoying
    XenoJJames XenoJJames 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Hey! So if you like Feederism and that such, there's this new site that's really nice, and filled with tons of people into feederism, they're all super nice. This place is called...
    QueenJayde16 QueenJayde16 18-21, F Apr 24

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    I am going through a lot right now. Trying to figure out who I am, what I believe, how to express myself, how to be comfortable in my own skin, & how to do all that without...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 25

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    hey im gay but not obvious pls no hate. i think im a lost soul trying to find my better half, i havent been in a romantic relationship for 21 years, yeah im single since birth. i...
    BuenRoed BuenRoed 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I am trying to find myself, & men keep getting in the way. I'm to blame just as much as any of them. And some have been nothing but a friend. But I'm only talking to women today...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    Moreso within myself then maybe i can appreciate my on and off partner's love. Some say having children changes you but i feel like that will make a complex situation worse...
    Lolitta2014 Lolitta2014 26-30, F Apr 26