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I Find Negativity To Be Unattractive

Everyone has negative things to say at times. For others it's a lifestyle. 517 People

    It's Easy To Fix!

    Got a problem? Can you do anything about it? If so, do it, shut up and smile! Can't do anything about it? Stop worrying, shut up and smile!
    themeanderthal themeanderthal 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    Do Negative People...

    ....realize they're negative people? I'm not sure they do. I have a friend that none of our other friends really like to be around. I've learned to tolerate her mainly because when she's bitching, I let it go in one ear and out the other. We do have fun and laugh together...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Negativity...

    ... brings me down. I try to be nice to everyone but sometimes I have no choice but to simply avoid those who appear to have never had a positive thought in their lives. I know a guy who never has a good day, never feels good, lives to complain. I can't even tolerate him anymore...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2011

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    Think Negative Gets A Person Nothing

    I know this from experience and being negative about things will always bring people down, but even in situations when a person thinks it couldn't get any worse it might be hard but laugh about it and move on don't let anything worry you because it doesn't change a damn thing and...
    mrasshole mrasshole 51-55, M Mar 27, 2012

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    Lighten Up

    "Everyone has negative things to say at times. For others it's a lifestyle."This statement is SOOO true! Everyone has bad days, even bad months or bad years. Everyone needs to vent. Everyone has moments when they feel cynical and just want to b*tch. But there are some people who...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    We All Know Those People

    Like the Monty Python song says, I "Always look on the bright side of life". There are many people out there though, that see the lemons and not the lemonade. I believe that we train our minds to see what we want to see. Everything is subjective. We all look at the negative...
    zincthink zincthink 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    I Refuse (Story 5)

    I used to be a negative person. I was depressed and no one could bring me up, I kind of liked it that way. My school counselor in Jr. High is the best person I ever knew, I wanted to be like her. I was quiet and had no friends and I liked it that way as well. I sat back and...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F Nov 21, 2012

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    I empathize for problemed people on here.

    But I'm starting to lose hope on finding positive experiences on here.
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F Mar 29

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    The Downer-frowner.

    Now, I'm not a positive person all the time. There are times when i do feel down. When I do feel down, I prefer to be alone. That way I can work stuff out and settle some unresolved negativity. It usually works. So being the not so positive person all the time, I tend to cherish...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2013

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    On Me Or You

    Not that I am attracted to everyone, but still, if you have a partner then you should consider how you look to them. It's gross to be negative and bitchy all the time, nobody wants to be around that except for like minded people I suppose.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    I Never Realized...

    Just how gross negativity is until I noticed how negative I was about myself. I have always been turned off by people who are so negative about themselves because it's usually about things that I never even give any thought to or notice until they say something about it. Which...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Nov 25, 2012

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    You Can Become More Aware Of Negative Self-talk--something That Hides In Plain Sight ...

    Here's an interesting story I read (by Dr. Andrew Jacobs, Winnersunlimited.com; May 21, 2008) while doing my research for this blog. It was about a cyclist who won a medal in the 1984 Olympics. The article said that the cyclist had to battle negative self-talk while he was racing...
    author2 author2 36-40, F Feb 29, 2012

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    I love my boyfriend,

    but I'm so tired of him being negative all the time. I'm a negative person, but I try my best not to portray it onto others because I know it just brings them down with me. He's going through a hard time right now and has been for many years. His family doesn't help him pay for...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Whenever this happens (which may I say is very rarely) I'm like 'really, are you sure?' Because I'm the most socially awkward unattractive specimen you could ever stumble upon.
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    I've always wanted to find the one and then run away where no one can find us so we can get to know each other without social pressure or just pressure. Be free for a while!
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    Elpis2012 Elpis2012 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Nikki623 Nikki623 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I've always looked at myself in the mirror or photos and just thought eww.. I don't understand how some have said they find me attractive. To begin with its only happened like...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Hard to find out good friend ,, ,, ,, ,,
    Younusxkhan Younusxkhan 18-21, M Apr 8

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    April 10. Using Others to Stop Our Pain. Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well-being is not held by another to be given or withheld at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 10

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    April 10. Using Others to Stop Our Pain. Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well-being is not held by another to be given or withheld at...
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    whylife93 whylife93 18-21, F Apr 12

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    dendroica dendroica 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I have read many stories of people who are lonely and then comments who feel the same way. I have found this feeling present in way forms and within all of us. It is an inevitable...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 5 days ago

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    having honest conversations , being friends and knowing a person completely , and also observing what he/she says...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I had thought I had found my one and only! In the end i am divorced and lonely. I have faith that I will find the one I will spend the rest of my days with.
    billyw420 billyw420 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    PureMale PureMale 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    CatrinaL CatrinaL 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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