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I Find Relationships Frustrating

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    Rawr!

    The main reason why I don't care much for dating is because I'm tired of the drama associated with dating.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 21, 2011

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    My Gripe: I Find That Most Human Beings Don't Listen

    Does anybody listen to anybody? Damn it.. this gauls me. Did anyone see the episode of THE SOPRANOS when Tony and  Heche were bitching and moaning about the problems of the their various rackets? Tony whined about something... In response, Heche whined about his biggest...
    mamabell mamabell 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Never Know

    I never know if they are for real or not. I have had so many bad experiences that I almost find it easier to stay out of relationships then to be in them.
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2008

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    Sick and Tired

    I don't know why i get like this but i do, i get involved with people then it all becomes too much for me. I try to be cool but I'm not!. I think too much i go over everything down to fine details. I take everything literally. When I'm in a relationship I'm not myself. I feel...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Goldilocks Where Are You?

    Some have been to hot, some have been to cold.  Some have been to far, some have been to near.  You get the picture, I guess I am waiting for one that is just right.  Now I am wondering if my expectations are to high or unrealistic, but I don't want to settle for...
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    I Choose Oscar Wilde

    I have always felt communicating effectively is if not the hardest, one of the hardest ,  things to do in a relationship. There are so many factors involved: age, sex, language education, status, power, culture, politics, religion, and the fact that the other person...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2008

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    Date Only People You Don't Like

    A friend here told me some advice recently. Only date people you don't like, because when it ends you would be heart broken. I had to think about that for a while and now I fully understand what she was saying. Nothihg last forever and everything eventually ends. Go read my...
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2011

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    I feel like I have to be in a relationship to

    have sex or do anything period. I'm so prude without the title.. But what is this title ? I feel I just use it to avoid judgement.. I find it way more thrilling to not know a guy inside and out and every breath he's ever taken and how that felt for him. I never act on these...
    Trillionbased Trillionbased 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2014

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    Relationships Are the Hardest Thing In Life

    Where to start?  I find relationships, just not with your loved ones, but even with family very difficult. I've had a very strange life.  I had a estranged relationship with my father; he was both physically and verbally abusive.  At the age of 17 it climaxed...
    westend westend 31-35 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Is Chivalry Dead?

    What happened to honesty and fidelity? Where did men who are masculine yet compassionate go? The good women/men get burned so bad that we don't want to reach out anymore. If a good thing comes along we are so wrapped up in our depression that would wouldn't know it if it came up...
    kywildchild kywildchild 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Tylerb17 Tylerb17 16-17, M Mar 26

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    Over Done

    I feel that when if comes to relationships that I over give. I'm the one who thinks about the little things... ex little notes/reminders, flowers, cards, etc. I'm the one that remembers to call, I'm the one that cries over it. Maybe it's that I'm the only one interested in making...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Sep 25, 2007

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    Breastfeeding Is For Babies

    I find relationships frustrating when the mom is too involved. My ex had an issue with his mom acting as if she was the girlfriend. Constantly texting and calling him asking what he was doing that night, who he was going to be with, when he would be back, would he like to go to a...
    maniac00009 maniac00009 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Pretty Panic

    So long story short my boyfriend has VERY attractive girl friends. Though I'm not worried that he likes them or would ever do anything to hurt me, I do worry that he thinks they are prettier than me. I know it shouldn't matter because he's with me and not them. But it does bother...
    MissMuhKel MissMuhKel 22-25, F Aug 16, 2013

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    Man - Woman / Hot + Cold / Mars & Venus

    (( OOps. I started a new forum when I was actually trying to post this story. Oh well, I'm still only a newbie.)) Hello people who feel like I do about frustrating relationships. I'm in a relatively new relationship after 5+ years of self-imposed celibacy... I decided to get...
    mamabell mamabell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    I don't see a problem with it at all. If two people are happy together, that's great. It's not for me, though. I'm sure I could find someone of a different age attractive, but I...
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M 13 hrs ago

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    I've dated women older and younger than myself. I'm currently married to a woman 15 years younger. We have the usual ups and downs all relationships do but age isn't much of a...
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I'm tired once again. I'm finding I am better off by myself. I hate this merry go round relationships send you in. I can guarantee one thing now days, relationships will end. There...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 31-35, F Apr 26

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    There is a reason why I find myself excuses to avoid relationships. Confidence and self-esteem go hand in hand and they are mostly essential for a successful relationship. I...
    Irwenzo Irwenzo 22-25, M May 3

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 22 hrs ago

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    There are plenty of careers in middle management. In my field it is hard to find anyone who hasn’t had a divorce. I was blinded by the income partly because I could provide...
    oconnorleah oconnorleah 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    It's still fresh in my memory when I was a kid, I could imagine living all by myself when I grow up rather than having a family on my own or having a child without a husband. Long...
    Sunset27 Sunset27 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Just the thought of being In a relationship gives me a panic attack. Yes I do want to be in a committed relationship in the long run but what frightens me is getting into a...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 4 Responses May 9

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F a week ago

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    For me, it's not an "I'd like to." but like I Have to. I've been married twice neither of them, would I have ever said even at the time we wed, were my true love. I admit that I...
    chemanewr chemanewr 41-45, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I have no "coloured blood" in me, at all. My ancestry is Scottish, Welsh, British, German, Norwegian... You get the picture. My skin is fair and my eyes are mostly blue. That being...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 2 Responses May 6

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    ive been in five relationships and still in my fifth. the only time i ever seem to be attractive is if im taken. every time someone says they find me attractive my heart stops. why...
    twoinnerwolves twoinnerwolves 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have no preference honestly, I myself find preferences to be a racial tendency that I just don't like. Although I can understand since you can't really help who you find...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello i will share my storry about long distance relationships. P.s sorry my englis is low. i`am in long distance relationships alredy 4 years and we engage. but sometims my men...
    Dzilis Dzilis 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I'm not scared just overly cautious. You just never know. That's the scary part. Disney movie relationships exist in Disney movies. In real life things happen in relationships...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 3 Responses May 8

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    I believe in internet flings but not in substantial relationships because in reality you'd spend your time with this person face to face and sometimes you form amazing online...
    bluemoon93 bluemoon93 18-21, F May 11

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    Because finding my true love is an exquisite form of self destruction, and impossible so bad and I cry.Jk^_^
    GabrielShot GabrielShot 16-17, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I always have bad luck with boys. They all like girls that are popular pretty and skinny. I think I am a pretty cool girl, I love video games(gamer girl) I play football, I am in...
    gamergirl12 gamergirl12 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 26

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    Skin Smooth silk sets you free My hands caressing every sleeve It was a night of passion With eyes staring in between It was glorious satisfaction With love holding hands...
    Ymfas Ymfas 26-30, M 2 Responses May 4

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    It has been quite the journey throughout my life. I have always kept my mind opened to the idea that someday I will meet the girl that will truly make me happy. there have been a...
    Angeldark87 Angeldark87 26-30, M May 4

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    They make me travel today..expediting work.. Looking at the address made me numb..2 hrs drive and it is 3 blocks from the place my ex fiancee used to work..or still working, idk...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 5 Responses May 7

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    Not /scared/ per se, more just... Harsh dislike. Hard to describe. I have this problem where every time someone tells me they like me, I immediately dislike them. I could be as...
    LittleWolf21 LittleWolf21 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    My parents have a really bad relationship. I feel worthless. They had an arranged marriage. Mom is depressed. My dad treats her like crap. And she wants me to go through the same...
    cord3lia cord3lia 16-17, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I wish I could find were I live
    TammyLynn08 TammyLynn08 46-50, F 1 Response May 9

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    They never work out I just got dumped ;-; I'm never gonna find a nice guy
    SpiritOfOrpheus SpiritOfOrpheus 13-15, M 6 Responses May 14

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    I think I'm not ready for a relationship, don't know if I will ever be. Most of the times it's the guy that doesn't love me back, or I don't love him that much. I can't help it. I...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 3 Responses May 14

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    Okay..... So I understand that some people may have had negative experiences with people from a specific racial or ethnic group BUT you're going to generalize all people from that...
    TayRayy TayRayy 18-21, F 6 days ago