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I Flirt Without Knowing It

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    I love to flirt but i've gotta a boyfriend

    and sometimes i flirt with his friends and he's really pissed off because of it and i don't know if he's gonna dump me heeelp
    luciagomezdelaserna luciagomezdelaserna 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    Honestly im just being nice to people

    and i guess it comes across as flirtasious... Oh well.
    Pingu113 Pingu113 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    Some dude was checking me out

    while I was loading my laundry into the washing machine. This happened at a Laundromat obviously. At first I thought he was a punk looking for trouble. I didn't want trouble. He jumped on and sat on the machine next to mine. I ignored him but from my peripheral vision I could...
    teenotes teenotes 22-25, M 1 Response May 20

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    I guess I am guilty of flirting without

    realizing it because every time I go out guys always ask me for my phone number
    Taumilynn Taumilynn 36-40 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    I do, I worked at a nursing home once

    and I would accidentally flirt with the old ladies there and subsequently some of them fell in love with me and things just got awkward so I left.
    passion4writing passion4writing 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    I'm just nice to a guy,

    and next thing you know they're in love with me o.o
    xcrownlessx xcrownlessx 16-17, F 10 Responses Jun 9

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    you sure it's not you boys (men) misreading my

    signals? I am a happily married women but it doesn't stop me being friends with other men, being nice to the average person I meet. My smiling at a guy before has been interpreted as flirting, looking at a guy flirting, talking to a guy flirting, telling a joke flirting. So I...
    loreto789 loreto789 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    Is it considered more flirty

    if a guy puts his hands (consensually) on a girl's leg if she's wearing a skirt then if she's wearing jeans? Is it acceptable to do it in public if it's a skirt?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 8

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    I just like to complement people.

    Like, "HEY YOU! YOU HAVE A NICE BUTT!" And so on. I didn't realize complimenting people was actually flirting >.>
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T Mar 24

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    I used to be really shy

    when I was younger & would never have done this. As I have gotten older, gotten divorced, etc., I sometimes find myself talking to guys in a flirty way. Even when I don't mean to. My sons have asked me "why are you flirting with that guy?" LOL Now THAT'S awkward! Guys don't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    It happens all the time!

    Even with people I don't think are attractive. It just rolls off my tongue.
    jessi3reynolds jessi3reynolds 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    lauren2500 lauren2500 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Flirt?

    I never ever intend to flirt,maybe it's just that I'm trying to be so nice to the person, that it seems like I'm flirting??? :D Huh, come-on, is being so nice, a flirt??? :p I'm in between the two borders, I am nice and sometimes I guess I just take one step out!!! :p And...
    sunshineIcy sunshineIcy 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    All The Time

    Actually that's not true .. or it is .. i do it so much now i don't even realize it .. lol It's just nice to put a smile on the other person's face that it becomes addictive .. but i also know not to force it .. it's no fun when it is forced ... it's a lot easier to flirt...
    pokerboy pokerboy 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Kindness is so rare now

    that it is mistaken as flirting
    mikeman1414 mikeman1414 18-21, M Oct 31, 2014

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    He zipped up the back of my dress.

    .. At this band competition, I had to change in the school bus along with other students. Girls wore their dresses over their clothes and they guys just had to put a blazer on. Before wearing my dress, i wore my traveling clothes with a tank top and spandex underneath. There...
    Polliver Polliver 16-17, F May 18

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    taliaharpaz taliaharpaz 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I seem to flirt at work.

    .. Yet I'm engaged to my OH whom I love very much. She's half way around the world, has been for the past 7 months excluding Christmas time. That's no excuse, but there it is. I think I know why, having been doing a lot of thinking tonight. I'm exhausted, but I've had an hour's...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    It Is How So Many Guys Come To See Me When I Am On The Naturist Beach

    I mentioned in another story about meeting Pierre with his friend on the beach at Saint Cyprien how we met. Well, they told me the only reason they had approached me was because as I lay back I lifted my knees up, and I waved them around, so opening my knees to a kind of splaying...
    CEBarthez CEBarthez 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2012

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    There was this one time

    where I was talking to a old friend of mine and I had caught him blushing A WHOLE LOT and when I was done my friends went up toe and I said what was all that about ? I said he just started to blush then that's when they told I was My bad
    ghostbeautiy ghostbeautiy 13-15, F Nov 2, 2014

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    I think people mistake politeness

    for flirting now days ..... that's how much the world is changing I love a good flirt
    hobby34 hobby34 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    I am 23 and currently married.

    I tend to flirt without noticing...my husbands tends to mention it to me. I have always been that type of person that can easily adapt to anyone. So, I flirt not because I want you but because that's just who I am. ♡
    delissasheart delissasheart 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    It's just because being kind is

    so rare nowadays that it gets mistaken with flirting!!!
    ashfaaqb ashfaaqb 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    I tend to gravitate towards older men

    and unintentionally flirt with them. Older men are so sexy to me. I try not to flirt with them.. Or flirt period but it's just too natural to notice sometimes.
    stoplustfuldesires stoplustfuldesires 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    They think I'm flirting

    when I'm being kind or trying not to be rude to someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I flirt naturally and yes i'm aware

    that i'm some what slutty. I don't necessarily see it as a bad thing, i embrace most of it, just don't expect an explanation if i act otherwise. I am who i am.
    FierceF17 FierceF17 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 17

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    Melissaaxx Melissaaxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    It's Automatic, I Guess

    Aside from flirting verbally, I have been told by a few women that I have "bedroom eyes," so that I tend to look like I'm flirting even though I may not be trying to be. My W has seen it on a few occasions and I have to tell her that it was unintentional. She seems to...
    MetalRooster MetalRooster 31-35, M May 14, 2012

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    I am very flirtatious

    whether it is a guy or women that's just the way I am! I honestly don't even really realize it! But I don't mind it seems like they flirt back :)
    lovemags lovemags 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I told this boy that I could twerk(I was joking.

    that's my sense of humor xD). Next thing you know he's buying me perfume sets and calling me "his girl" o_0
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F Jun 9

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    I'm a straight male..

    . but I do "flirt" with both women AND men, in one sort of way. I'll make a little joke to the man in line with me at the library. I'll say something to cheer up the tired-looking young woman at the cash register. I'll show a bit of patience to the woman in the grocery store...
    dan13732 dan13732 51-55, M 7 Responses Mar 24

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    People never believe me

    when I tell them I flirt unknowingly but it is true. It just comes naturally to some people and is just really difficult for others. I think the key is not caring what the other person may think or say. Just say and do whatever you feel like and they can take it in a positive...
    porfavor porfavor 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    rebacc11 rebacc11 26-30, F Jun 7

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    The Line Between Friendliness And Flirting

    I'm honestly not sure where it is! I feel guilty if somebody mistakes my out going attitude or friendliness for flirting. I talk to everyone and am really open and talkative. I'll talk to anyone who can keep up a conversation! That being said, alot of the time its mistaken for...
    SeeChelseaRun SeeChelseaRun 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    frie936 frie936 22-25, M Mar 16

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    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    well sometimes i do know what im doing

    but some times i dont even realize that im doing it lolz XP is that bad? i mean i cant control it XD
    XxMyDemonsxX XxMyDemonsxX 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Most of the time.I only noticed it

    when my classmate pull away that pretty girl I was talking to and started lecturing me on 'how to not flirt every single bloody time or else I will cut off your tongue'. Seriously...I still think he is too uptight. Besides, she was blushing so I don't mind. ;)
    MrRuth MrRuth 16-17, M Mar 24

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    I've always been this way!

    ! My boyfriend hates it!!! I am just friendly...over friendly? I never cross boundaries though, and I'm starting to learn, being too friendly to everyone is not in my best interest. It creates drama. Like a random guy adds you on Facebook, then messages you. You message them back...
    Kayloves060814 Kayloves060814 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    People say that I flirt without words all the

    time and even though I don't say anything it's all in my body language and my eyes
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I'm friendly, confident.

    I come off flirty because I like paying people compliments. everyone likes to hear something nice.. there is nothing wrong with being flirty. better then having resting ***** face
    land0n land0n 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    I flirt without knowing it lol it's just

    who I am if you don't like it than deal with it lol
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    its so weird because I don't

    even know how to flirt and if I consciously try to flirt it doesn't work out but if I'm not really thinking about it, it flows through and I'm flirting. ITS SO WEIRD
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    and without them knowing it too.

    I'm a shy flirt, lol I have the whole damsel in distress thing down packed. I love to somehow touch a guys *** without directly outright touching it, I somehow manage to make them laugh and smile, name them feel good you know, make them feel like a man
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F Jun 9

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    My friends always tell me

    that I'm a flirt, but I never notice. Like, I don't twirl my hair or anything like that. But I guess I unintentionally flirt xD
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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