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I Flirt Without Knowing It

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    I used to be really shy

    when I was younger & would never have done this. As I have gotten older, gotten divorced, etc., I sometimes find myself talking to guys in a flirty way. Even when I don't mean to. My sons have asked me "why are you flirting with that guy?" LOL Now THAT'S awkward! Guys don't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Kindness is so rare now

    that it is mistaken as flirting
    mikeman1414 mikeman1414 18-21, M Oct 31, 2014

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    The Line Between Friendliness And Flirting

    I'm honestly not sure where it is! I feel guilty if somebody mistakes my out going attitude or friendliness for flirting. I talk to everyone and am really open and talkative. I'll talk to anyone who can keep up a conversation! That being said, alot of the time its mistaken for...
    SeeChelseaRun SeeChelseaRun 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Don't know whether it is a good

    or bad thing, like i'll be on a night out and one of the girls will say "you're so flirty, you're really confident" And i'm here like, "Really? Me, confident? / Who was i flirting with? / was i getting anywhere?
    MikeBrin MikeBrin 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2015

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    I told this boy that I could twerk(I was joking.

    that's my sense of humor xD). Next thing you know he's buying me perfume sets and calling me "his girl" o_0
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 9, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11 26-30, F Oct 11, 2015

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    People say that I flirt without words all the

    time and even though I don't say anything it's all in my body language and my eyes
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    It Is How So Many Guys Come To See Me When I Am On The Naturist Beach

    I mentioned in another story about meeting Pierre with his friend on the beach at Saint Cyprien how we met. Well, they told me the only reason they had approached me was because as I lay back I lifted my knees up, and I waved them around, so opening my knees to a kind of splaying...
    CEBarthez CEBarthez 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2012

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    I'm told I do, I never mean too,

    but my friends say I flirt and tease. It has gotten me in some trouble
    BumblebeeBeth BumblebeeBeth 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sometimes i find myself doing this.

    Driving a Schwan,s truck with many stops a day it,s just happens..Its not that i mean any thing behind it but you get to know some one after so many years and it dose...But just all in fun...But hey sales are up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2015

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    I flirt naturally and yes i'm aware

    that i'm some what slutty. I don't necessarily see it as a bad thing, i embrace most of it, just don't expect an explanation if i act otherwise. I am who i am.
    FierceF17 FierceF17 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2015

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    I do, I worked at a nursing home once

    and I would accidentally flirt with the old ladies there and subsequently some of them fell in love with me and things just got awkward so I left.
    passion4writing passion4writing 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    I'm a straight male..

    . but I do "flirt" with both women AND men, in one sort of way. I'll make a little joke to the man in line with me at the library. I'll say something to cheer up the tired-looking young woman at the cash register. I'll show a bit of patience to the woman in the grocery store...
    dan13732 dan13732 51-55, M 7 Responses Mar 24, 2015

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    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Lauren8451 Lauren8451 16-17, F Jun 23, 2015

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    it just sort of......

    . . . happens...
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2015

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    My friends always tell me

    that I'm a flirt, but I never notice. Like, I don't twirl my hair or anything like that. But I guess I unintentionally flirt xD
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    I have no idea why I come off

    as a flirt literally all the time well. ..only to guys but I don't do anything kinky or raunchy and to make matters worse he's my boss.But I've only met this guy literally 3 times he said we've known eachother 3 weeks which still isn't enough time to have a relationship and I...
    Darkprincess24 Darkprincess24 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2015

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    It's not my fault. And

    when I intentionally flirt I stutter actually STUTTER. *facepalms*
    HiIAmHana HiIAmHana 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    polylove0210 polylove0210 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I'm just nice to a guy,

    and next thing you know they're in love with me o.o
    xcrownlessx xcrownlessx 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 9, 2015

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    Honestly im just being nice to people

    and i guess it comes across as flirtasious... Oh well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    annacc11 annacc11 26-30, F Sep 18, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 17, 2015

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    not on purpose, it jus comes out

    that way.....ooops, my bad kmsl
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26, 2015

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    Oh gosh yes !!! And man do they stank!

    !! ..... Oh flirt Lol ok :)-
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M Aug 26, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa 26-30, F Oct 19, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 9, 2015

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    TheLittleEngieThatCould TheLittleEngieThatCould 16-17, M Dec 27, 2015

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    Yay this exists I think there are times

    when I know I'm doing It but sometimes I'm just innocent me digging a hole to deep
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    I don't know if I am in usual,

    but a lot of guys I meet seem to take my friendliness as if I am flirting with them. Can't a girl be nice and not give the guy the wrong idea?
    NataliatheDreamer NataliatheDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    They think I'm flirting

    when I'm being kind or trying not to be rude to someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    LOL I can't help it when I see a hot boy walk

    past me, or when they stare at me! Sometimes I don't even have to say something I just look at them a certain way and they will look at me, wink, than come up to me and flirt. A lot of the time I flirt without knowing it, and than people say I'm a flirt! LOL And I'm like what?
    Emily555555 Emily555555 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 28, 2015

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    It's just because being kind is

    so rare nowadays that it gets mistaken with flirting!!!
    alashfaaq alashfaaq 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    ilovebustyfemales ilovebustyfemales 41-45, M Aug 8, 2015

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    In a sense I would say I know it.

    But it's not always intentional. It's amazing how a smile or just a morning hello can so easily be transformed into flirting. Not that I am complaining.
    iswing iswing 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 21, 2015

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    Flirt?

    I never ever intend to flirt,maybe it's just that I'm trying to be so nice to the person, that it seems like I'm flirting??? :D Huh, come-on, is being so nice, a flirt??? :p I'm in between the two borders, I am nice and sometimes I guess I just take one step out!!! :p And...
    sunshineIcy sunshineIcy 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 12, 2015

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    It happens all the time!

    Even with people I don't think are attractive. It just rolls off my tongue.
    jessi3reynolds jessi3reynolds 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    Its like I usually don't

    but when I do, I do it unknowingly...
    Youtuberr Youtuberr 18-21, M Oct 18, 2015

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    Or maybe it's just people confusing being nice

    with flirting. I'm not really sure which one is correct, but. it happens. .-. I don't lead people on intentionally, or try to hurt them.
    StayGould StayGould 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    So I was sitting with one of my guy friends

    and this girl walked over, I thought she was going to try and hit on him, but surprisingly she started talking to me. After a few minutes she walked away and my friend was like "you know she was flirting with you right?" I had no idea, I've never been hit on by a girl before. I...
    dysfnkshnal dysfnkshnal 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2015

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    All The Time

    Actually that's not true .. or it is .. i do it so much now i don't even realize it .. lol It's just nice to put a smile on the other person's face that it becomes addictive .. but i also know not to force it .. it's no fun when it is forced ... it's a lot easier to flirt...
    pokerboy pokerboy 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Perfectdreamingskull Perfectdreamingskull 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2015

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