I Flirt Without Knowing It

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    lovelee83 lovelee83
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 1

    LOL I can't help it when I see a hot boy walk

    past me, or when they stare at me! Sometimes I don't even have to say something I just look at them a certain way and they will look at me, wink, than come up to me and flirt. A lot of the time I flirt without knowing it, and than people say I'm a flirt! LOL And I'm like what?
    Emily555555 Emily555555
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 3
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Sometimes i find myself doing this.

    Driving a Schwan,s truck with many stops a day it,s just happens..Its not that i mean any thing behind it but you get to know some one after so many years and it dose...But just all in fun...But hey sales are up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

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    annacc11 annacc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    I was a teenager with extreme social anxiety in

    a group home for bad kids after trying to kill myself. Halfway through my stay, a female counselor told me that I flirt a lot. I asked how I flirted, since I was always uncomfortable in any social setting, in any conversation. She told me that I smile and look up at people...
    DragonflySong DragonflySong
    36-40, F
    Feb 22

    It Is How So Many Guys Come To See Me When I Am On The Naturist Beach

    I mentioned in another story about meeting Pierre with his friend on the beach at Saint Cyprien how we met. Well, they told me the only reason they had approached me was because as I lay back I lifted my knees up, and I waved them around, so opening my knees to a kind of splaying...
    CEBarthez CEBarthez
    18-21, F
    6 Responses May 3, 2012

    Okay, this is going to sound pretty stuck up

    about myself. Apparently MANY people on here are mistaking my Friendliness with Flirting. So??? If you think you are falling in love with me, SLAP yourself because the way I am with you, I am with everyone else. Uhm! Hellerrr!? (This is EP. We are supposed to Spread Love &Make...
    EnvyEverly EnvyEverly
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 6

    So I was sitting with one of my guy friends

    and this girl walked over, I thought she was going to try and hit on him, but surprisingly she started talking to me. After a few minutes she walked away and my friend was like "you know she was flirting with you right?" I had no idea, I've never been hit on by a girl before. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    My friends always tell me

    that I'm a flirt, but I never notice. Like, I don't twirl my hair or anything like that. But I guess I unintentionally flirt xD
    LexyMarie LexyMarie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Aug 28, 2015
    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    It's just because being kind is

    so rare nowadays that it gets mistaken with flirting!!!
    alashfaaq alashfaaq
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 14, 2014

    Honestly im just being nice to people

    and i guess it comes across as flirtasious... Oh well.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    I do, I worked at a nursing home once

    and I would accidentally flirt with the old ladies there and subsequently some of them fell in love with me and things just got awkward so I left.
    passion4writing passion4writing
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2013

    In a sense I would say I know it.

    But it's not always intentional. It's amazing how a smile or just a morning hello can so easily be transformed into flirting. Not that I am complaining.
    iswing iswing
    41-45, M
    Oct 21, 2015
    Perfectdreamingskull Perfectdreamingskull
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2015
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I don't know if I am in usual,

    but a lot of guys I meet seem to take my friendliness as if I am flirting with them. Can't a girl be nice and not give the guy the wrong idea?
    NataliatheDreamer NataliatheDreamer
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21

    Don't know whether it is a good

    or bad thing, like i'll be on a night out and one of the girls will say "you're so flirty, you're really confident" And i'm here like, "Really? Me, confident? / Who was i flirting with? / was i getting anywhere?
    MikeBrin MikeBrin
    18-21, M
    Aug 29, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    it just sort of......

    . . . happens...
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015
    polylove0210 polylove0210
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 31

    It happens all the time!

    Even with people I don't think are attractive. It just rolls off my tongue.
    jessi3reynolds jessi3reynolds
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2013

    Or maybe it's just people confusing being nice

    with flirting. I'm not really sure which one is correct, but. it happens. .-. I don't lead people on intentionally, or try to hurt them.
    StayGould StayGould
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    All The Time

    Actually that's not true .. or it is .. i do it so much now i don't even realize it .. lol It's just nice to put a smile on the other person's face that it becomes addictive .. but i also know not to force it .. it's no fun when it is forced ... it's a lot easier to flirt...
    pokerboy pokerboy
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Jun 5, 2013

    People say that I flirt without words all the

    time and even though I don't say anything it's all in my body language and my eyes
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 19, 2014
    TheLittleEngieThatCould TheLittleEngieThatCould
    16-17, M
    Dec 27, 2015

    Without your touch, I cannot feel.

    Without your lips against mine, Sweet as the taste of wine; Without our hands entwined together, Without us being bound forever. Without your touch, I cannot feel. Without your voice, i cannot hear. Without your beautiful voice, Forcing me to make a choice; Without the sound of...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 17

    Yeah! I never even knew it.

    I'm old. I don't flirt. But each of my kids says I do it all the time. I don't see what info as flirting, just being friendly and kibitzing but they call it flirting. I guess some habits never die.
    Serenitree1 Serenitree1
    70+, F
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    I flirt naturally and yes i'm aware

    that i'm some what slutty. I don't necessarily see it as a bad thing, i embrace most of it, just don't expect an explanation if i act otherwise. I am who i am.
    FierceF17 FierceF17
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    At time's I can't be myself

    because everyone takes it the wrong way. Why can't I love myself, smile, be happy, touch my leg, face, look in the mirror without you thinking that all I want is sex? Can you stop lying to yourself. Have you ever thought that I'm flirting with myself, all I want is myself. I don...
    Kstapleton1010 Kstapleton1010
    31-35
    Aug 27, 2015

    Its like I usually don't

    but when I do, I do it unknowingly...
    Youtuberr Youtuberr
    18-21, M
    Oct 18, 2015

    They think I'm flirting

    when I'm being kind or trying not to be rude to someone.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    I'm just nice to a guy,

    and next thing you know they're in love with me o.o
    xcrownlessx xcrownlessx
    16-17, F
    8 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Yay this exists I think there are times

    when I know I'm doing It but sometimes I'm just innocent me digging a hole to deep
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    I used to be really shy

    when I was younger & would never have done this. As I have gotten older, gotten divorced, etc., I sometimes find myself talking to guys in a flirty way. Even when I don't mean to. My sons have asked me "why are you flirting with that guy?" LOL Now THAT'S awkward! Guys don't...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    The Line Between Friendliness And Flirting

    I'm honestly not sure where it is! I feel guilty if somebody mistakes my out going attitude or friendliness for flirting. I talk to everyone and am really open and talkative. I'll talk to anyone who can keep up a conversation! That being said, alot of the time its mistaken for...
    SeeChelseaRun SeeChelseaRun
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Aug 20, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 26

    Oh gosh yes !!! And man do they stank!

    !! ..... Oh flirt Lol ok :)-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 26, 2015

    I told this boy that I could twerk(I was joking.

    that's my sense of humor xD). Next thing you know he's buying me perfume sets and calling me "his girl" o_0
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Kindness is so rare now

    that it is mistaken as flirting
    mikeman1414 mikeman1414
    18-21, M
    Oct 31, 2014

    I also flirt on purpose,

    flirting is fun!
    krg12 krg12
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 21

    Flirt?

    I never ever intend to flirt,maybe it's just that I'm trying to be so nice to the person, that it seems like I'm flirting??? :D Huh, come-on, is being so nice, a flirt??? :p I'm in between the two borders, I am nice and sometimes I guess I just take one step out!!! :p And...
    sunshineIcy sunshineIcy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 9, 2015
    goksu goksu
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 27

    i dun y bt it's in my vein ,

    i start flirting without knowing that i am doing it, bt conditions apply .............. now you guys tell all of you grls & boy did you ever do that in life not even in real life bt also at social media.
    hanryarthur hanryarthur
    22-25
    Mar 5
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