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I Forgave the Man Who Molested Me

Forgiveness of sexal abusers 77 People

    Molested At 8 Years Old

    My mom married her husband when I was about 6 years old. Maybe about two years later she became pregnant with my little brother. I had to be around 8 years old when my step father started coming in my room when everybody was sleep. He would touch me and he would tell me not to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2011

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    Sick Relationship; Trying To Heal

    I am trying to get over a sick relationship.... I wish I had known then what I knew now. Today I am 30 years old. I have a great family, loving boyfriend, am an accomplished doctor, and on the outside it looks like I have the most perfect life. I was in high school. I fell in...
    Quiddity1221 Quiddity1221 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    A Little To Late To Tell Him

    I finally forgave the man that started me down the difficult road of life.  In the beginning I loved him because I though he loved me only to find out he was only using me for sex.  He was like so many others that abuse children(I was 5 1/2 when he...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    I Forgave But Will Never Forget !!!

    I was looking for something completely different when i first found EP. I have to tell you, I was amazed at the stories I read on here because there were so many like my own, and I am not talking specifically about the stories of being abused. There were stories on here that...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Overturned

    He molested me. He was my camp counselor, it happened. His conviction was overturned and he got to go free. I have never been free from the memories or fear. I have just found him after 25 years and don't know what to do now???
    jennieb29 jennieb29 26-30 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    The very few people that I have told about this

    always seem to question me, baffled at how I could forgive someone who basically took my virginity away at a young age. I had to. I could not stay enraged at the man who had molested me as a child, my very own older brother. Ever since I was molested by my brother on several...
    AiKii AiKii 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    Never Gave Myself Time To Forgive

    i wanted to forgive him and i think in some way that i did a very long time ago.its just that i was not even given time to feel anything before everyone was in my face telling me to let it go, i read something here that made me want to share my story. someone said that when...
    amicawinters amicawinters 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    Summer Camp

    I really liked the fun times my camp counsler and I shared when I was 12.  He and I had some great sex and he taught me lots about being a man.  I was never scared or embarassed about what he did.  It wasn't until I was 18 that I thought what he did might ahve been...
    wetbymorning wetbymorning 36-40 2 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    When I was younger my dad used to touch me in

    places that weren't supposed to be touched. I had a friend named Jacob who I told everything to. He was my best friend. I thought I could trust him. I mean why shouldn't I have? I knew him for many years we went to each others houses on the weekends and we went to an after...
    brorodosako brorodosako 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    Is This Wrong To Feel?

    It's kind of weird but i forgive my father for what he did to me, i don't think i ever blamed him, or was mad at him for it. I don't feel however that i forgive him for physically abusing my mom and siblings. I don't know why i feel this way or if its wrong, its just how i feel.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Oct 11, 2011

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    Every Dog Has Their Day

     My uncle sexually abused myself and two of my sisters for many years. We all suffered silently as we grew older. After 11 years, I finally came out with it in support of my sister. My sister is still a minor so authorities had to be notified. It didn't matter that so much...
    KnowJenny KnowJenny 22-25, F 9 Responses May 4, 2009

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    I Begged For Mercy

    I literally got down on my knees and begged God to take him!  You are probably wondering what that has to do with forgiveness,  That is the point of my writing about this experience. I was my molested by my uncle when I was ten years old.  He not only took my innocence, he...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    Forgive, It Happened

    The situation was availability. He was a family friend. Who came to the house to visit mum during dads absence. mum had gone to look after gran. who had fallen down stairs. I would have been at school,but I was also taking advantage of mums absence. He caught me in a compromising...
    tomtom53 tomtom53 36-40 3 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    A Very Long Time

    I carried my hatred for the people that molested for many years.  I almost consumed me and made me look at relationships in a hardened way.  I distrusted everyone that even appeared to be trying to get close enough to have a relationship with me.  In the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Letting Go

    What he did was wrong. It will always be wrong. I hated him for so long. He is my uncle. He should have never did this to me. One day just this year after YEARS of hate. I saw him as human. He had hit rock bottom. I let it go. I feel good about letting go of the hate. I feel like...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    He raped me when I was 16.

    And 2 years ago he walked in to my church. I wanted to run and hide but I knew there was a reason. I went thru a lot but 3 weeks later I was able to actually hug him and talk to him without saying I forgive you. It was very scary and hard but I was able to pull thru with Gods...
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Related Experiences

    My fiancé is 25 & I am 28, It was really hard on me at the beginning as well. I was going to go visit my fiancé at his family house so I can finally meet his family & the night...
    sweetpea71986 sweetpea71986 26-30, F Aug 30

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    So,I believe an update is in order.I married my fiancé on Halloween 2013.Mainly because I believed in Second chances.That and his sister in law told me I would never a part of the...
    Lp82 Lp82 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I don't think they get enough credit but a woman once said to me, " A father doesn't need credit for something he suppose to be doing anyway" :/ idk - I think dads are cool, though...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11

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    A few years ago my dad celebrated his 80th birthday. It was a very moving experience and it has made a lasting memory, a cherished memory. Beyond meeting relatives, that I havent...
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    I don't really trust white men because I believe many approach me just to fulfill some fantasy. Sometimes I hear them saying some really offensive things when they believe no other...
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    I love my dad more than anything! I am tired of people telling me my dad is mean or stupid or abusive. You don't know him or me. He may be strict, but he is the only one that I...
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    Society tends to talk about, acknowledge and admire mothers as they are totally awesome (!!) but what about the dads? I don't think we acknowledge them enough. There are many good...
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    Axole Axole 18-21, M Aug 23

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    I try to be as a good a father as possible, but sometimes I fail. We all fail in one way or another, I suppose. Only if kids came with instruction manuals - but tiebreaks be robots...
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    More men need to 'man up' and take responsibility for their children. It's hard enough to make it in this crazy world, let alone trying to do it without the love, support and...
    Braden007 Braden007 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    ok i'm 21 years old i still go By my given name yes i'm a at home house wife yes i know he was gay from the get go we started it off as high school friends when we started college...
    thelostboyxxx thelostboyxxx 18-21 Sep 10

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    So, my man and I were playing with his little niece. She was laughing/screaming at him at the top of her little three year old lungs and he pretended to be knocked back and scared...
    XxSweetxSuffocationxX XxSweetxSuffocationxX 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    One for blow, one for show.......
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    Every since I can remember I have always caught myself watching white women. I am married and my wife is a sexy black women, but for some reason I want to experience a sexy white...
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    Partner at work leggings are on till 6 ish b4 I pick her up
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    I have just started writing a new blog chronicling the slow feminization and sissification of my partner by myself. This blog is not a work of fiction, nor is it in any way the...
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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
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    Cant get no better than the feel of toching yourself like someone else is doing it!
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    I like the feeling of wearing tights over freshly shaved legs.
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    I want a baby. Any volunteers?
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    The title pretty much says it all.
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    I have a weakness for teens. I admit it.
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    I do because my father decidedly ISN'T, nor ever will be. In fact, if I ever adopt kids, they will never, ever be allowed to be alone with him. If my mom wants to see her grandkids...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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