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I Forgave the Man Who Molested Me

Forgiveness of sexal abusers 81 People

    I Forgave But Will Never Forget !!!

    I was looking for something completely different when i first found EP. I have to tell you, I was amazed at the stories I read on here because there were so many like my own, and I am not talking specifically about the stories of being abused. There were stories on here that...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F Feb 27, 2013

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    A Very Long Time

    I carried my hatred for the people that molested for many years.  I almost consumed me and made me look at relationships in a hardened way.  I distrusted everyone that even appeared to be trying to get close enough to have a relationship with me.  In the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Sick Relationship; Trying To Heal

    I am trying to get over a sick relationship.... I wish I had known then what I knew now. Today I am 30 years old. I have a great family, loving boyfriend, am an accomplished doctor, and on the outside it looks like I have the most perfect life. I was in high school. I fell in...
    Quiddity1221 Quiddity1221 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    A Little To Late To Tell Him

    I finally forgave the man that started me down the difficult road of life.  In the beginning I loved him because I though he loved me only to find out he was only using me for sex.  He was like so many others that abuse children(I was 5 1/2 when he...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    Overturned

    He molested me. He was my camp counselor, it happened. His conviction was overturned and he got to go free. I have never been free from the memories or fear. I have just found him after 25 years and don't know what to do now???
    jennieb29 jennieb29 26-30 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    When I was younger my dad used to touch me in

    places that weren't supposed to be touched. I had a friend named Jacob who I told everything to. He was my best friend. I thought I could trust him. I mean why shouldn't I have? I knew him for many years we went to each others houses on the weekends and we went to an after...
    brorodosako brorodosako 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    I forgave my cousin for molesting me

    when I was a kid. Ever since he went to church more often, it was like he was a different person. so we're cool now.
    Babyblue95 Babyblue95 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Is This Wrong To Feel?

    It's kind of weird but i forgive my father for what he did to me, i don't think i ever blamed him, or was mad at him for it. I don't feel however that i forgive him for physically abusing my mom and siblings. I don't know why i feel this way or if its wrong, its just how i feel.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Oct 11, 2011

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    Every Dog Has Their Day

     My uncle sexually abused myself and two of my sisters for many years. We all suffered silently as we grew older. After 11 years, I finally came out with it in support of my sister. My sister is still a minor so authorities had to be notified. It didn't matter that so much...
    KnowJenny KnowJenny 22-25, F 9 Responses May 4, 2009

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    He raped me when I was 16.

    And 2 years ago he walked in to my church. I wanted to run and hide but I knew there was a reason. I went thru a lot but 3 weeks later I was able to actually hug him and talk to him without saying I forgive you. It was very scary and hard but I was able to pull thru with Gods...
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Molested At 8 Years Old

    My mom married her husband when I was about 6 years old. Maybe about two years later she became pregnant with my little brother. I had to be around 8 years old when my step father started coming in my room when everybody was sleep. He would touch me and he would tell me not to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2011

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    Summer Camp

    I really liked the fun times my camp counsler and I shared when I was 12.  He and I had some great sex and he taught me lots about being a man.  I was never scared or embarassed about what he did.  It wasn't until I was 18 that I thought what he did might ahve been...
    wetbymorning wetbymorning 36-40 2 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Letting Go

    What he did was wrong. It will always be wrong. I hated him for so long. He is my uncle. He should have never did this to me. One day just this year after YEARS of hate. I saw him as human. He had hit rock bottom. I let it go. I feel good about letting go of the hate. I feel like...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    I Begged For Mercy

    I literally got down on my knees and begged God to take him!  You are probably wondering what that has to do with forgiveness,  That is the point of my writing about this experience. I was my molested by my uncle when I was ten years old.  He not only took my innocence, he...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    The very few people that I have told about this

    always seem to question me, baffled at how I could forgive someone who basically took my virginity away at a young age. I had to. I could not stay enraged at the man who had molested me as a child, my very own older brother. Ever since I was molested by my brother on several...
    AiKii AiKii 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    Never Gave Myself Time To Forgive

    i wanted to forgive him and i think in some way that i did a very long time ago.its just that i was not even given time to feel anything before everyone was in my face telling me to let it go, i read something here that made me want to share my story. someone said that when...
    amicawinters amicawinters 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    There is no shame that your woman cheated. There is no blame. It does not make you less of a man. The shame and blame belong with her. You are more of a man than the sneek she...
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    Okay, not one to normally ask this, but as I have seen several ladies on EP who are apparently into this same sort if thing, I feel ready to share the experience one-on-one. Here...
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    One time when I was in high school my parents were out of town, so I had to stay at my friends place for the night. Like usual we played some video games. He is a tall thin white...
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    I received full custody of my two children at the ages of eight and five years old.I raised them alone,through many turbulent years dealing with an alcoholic deadbeat ex-wife...
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    I guess there are men who are like this. It's just that sometimes women are too aggressive now compared to men.
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    In an environment of white men there are white women. Am a black man looking for a white woman.
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    I think I am beautiful most especially in the inside. I hope one day someone somewhere a special person would see how beautiful person I am.
    mySweetestMistake mySweetestMistake 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I have made a terrible mistake. I wrote a heartfelt response on behalf of my absolute deadbeat father of my three children. I have felt so guilty ever since, Like I'd betrayed them...
    Inspireme1 Inspireme1 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    Im looking for a black girl in the UK age 18plus for friendship/ relaionship, im in my middle 30s , white, little shy, is there any UK black girls on here? want to give you my...
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    Any girls want to chat to someone older?
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    I love you guys, and I'd love to hear from you
    PregnantRachel PregnantRachel 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Sorry if this is weird, but I sometimes think about what it would be like to be pregnant. I think it would be interesting in men could carry children instead of just women...
    RoryB01 RoryB01 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 25

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    Externally. And wisdom wise. But not solution wise.
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    i already have that person thats why im very happy that im finally meet him
    lhyn25 lhyn25 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I find white guys soo attractive ..
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    in my life I've learned that fathers are overrated. just a myth like the ancient Greeks used to tell.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 17 Responses 1 day ago

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    Black women: what occurs when the sun and the earth make love
    peterfore peterfore 46-50, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    How i wish someday i will find one or if God permits, my husband will change to be a better and responsible father and partner. For now, i am happy and contented with my only child...
    mas4074 mas4074 36-40, F 12 hrs ago

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    Doesn't exist I'm sure, but i'll play along... Okay so everyone likes to say otherwise but the physical is always going to be the first thing you notice so... I've always liked...
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I found EP specifically because I am a married man who is now in an affair with an OW. I stumbled across EP when I was googling for people with similar experiences. And in no...
    DeepXP DeepXP 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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