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I Forgave the Man Who Molested Me

Forgiveness of sexal abusers 88 People

    He raped me when I was 16.

    And 2 years ago he walked in to my church. I wanted to run and hide but I knew there was a reason. I went thru a lot but 3 weeks later I was able to actually hug him and talk to him without saying I forgive you. It was very scary and hard but I was able to pull thru with Gods...
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    When I was younger my dad used to touch me in

    places that weren't supposed to be touched. I had a friend named Jacob who I told everything to. He was my best friend. I thought I could trust him. I mean why shouldn't I have? I knew him for many years we went to each others houses on the weekends and we went to an after...
    brorodosako brorodosako 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Summer Camp

    I really liked the fun times my camp counsler and I shared when I was 12.  He and I had some great sex and he taught me lots about being a man.  I was never scared or embarassed about what he did.  It wasn't until I was 18 that I thought what he did might ahve been...
    wetbymorning wetbymorning 36-40 2 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Sick Relationship; Trying To Heal

    I am trying to get over a sick relationship.... I wish I had known then what I knew now. Today I am 30 years old. I have a great family, loving boyfriend, am an accomplished doctor, and on the outside it looks like I have the most perfect life. I was in high school. I fell in...
    Quiddity1221 Quiddity1221 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    I Forgave But Will Never Forget !!!

    I was looking for something completely different when i first found EP. I have to tell you, I was amazed at the stories I read on here because there were so many like my own, and I am not talking specifically about the stories of being abused. There were stories on here that...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Letting Go

    What he did was wrong. It will always be wrong. I hated him for so long. He is my uncle. He should have never did this to me. One day just this year after YEARS of hate. I saw him as human. He had hit rock bottom. I let it go. I feel good about letting go of the hate. I feel like...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Never Gave Myself Time To Forgive

    i wanted to forgive him and i think in some way that i did a very long time ago.its just that i was not even given time to feel anything before everyone was in my face telling me to let it go, i read something here that made me want to share my story. someone said that when...
    amicawinters amicawinters 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    The very few people that I have told about this

    always seem to question me, baffled at how I could forgive someone who basically took my virginity away at a young age. I had to. I could not stay enraged at the man who had molested me as a child, my very own older brother. Ever since I was molested by my brother on several...
    AiKii AiKii 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    I forgave my cousin for molesting me

    when I was a kid. Ever since he went to church more often, it was like he was a different person. so we're cool now.
    Babyblue95 Babyblue95 18-21, F May 4

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    I Begged For Mercy

    I literally got down on my knees and begged God to take him!  You are probably wondering what that has to do with forgiveness,  That is the point of my writing about this experience. I was my molested by my uncle when I was ten years old.  He not only took my innocence, he...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    Molested At 8 Years Old

    My mom married her husband when I was about 6 years old. Maybe about two years later she became pregnant with my little brother. I had to be around 8 years old when my step father started coming in my room when everybody was sleep. He would touch me and he would tell me not to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2011

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    A Very Long Time

    I carried my hatred for the people that molested for many years.  I almost consumed me and made me look at relationships in a hardened way.  I distrusted everyone that even appeared to be trying to get close enough to have a relationship with me.  In the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Every Dog Has Their Day

     My uncle sexually abused myself and two of my sisters for many years. We all suffered silently as we grew older. After 11 years, I finally came out with it in support of my sister. My sister is still a minor so authorities had to be notified. It didn't matter that so much...
    KnowJenny KnowJenny 22-25, F 9 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Overturned

    He molested me. He was my camp counselor, it happened. His conviction was overturned and he got to go free. I have never been free from the memories or fear. I have just found him after 25 years and don't know what to do now???
    jennieb29 jennieb29 26-30 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    A Little To Late To Tell Him

    I finally forgave the man that started me down the difficult road of life.  In the beginning I loved him because I though he loved me only to find out he was only using me for sex.  He was like so many others that abuse children(I was 5 1/2 when he...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Well.. I ran into a old friend I haven't seen since college. He seems to be doing fine and recently started a new job. We couldn't talk long but we exchanged details to stay in...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Because of the fact that I was molested I thought that touching private parts was a type of game so I did it with other kids. I never forced anyone. I just asked because I just...
    Lookin4answers123 Lookin4answers123 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The first woman to ever arouse me totally when I reached puberty was Nichelle Nichols as Lt. Uhura on Star trek. OMG. she looked so sexy on the deck of the Enterprise with her...
    chrissyk48 chrissyk48 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I wish I had a man who is nice and sweet and would take care of me and buys me stuff and spoiles me.
    veruyanako veruyanako 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I'm out in public I often try to show off that I'm wearing a thong. I pull the waist above my hips and sag my pants and take every opportunity to bend over or crouch down.
    MsElle88 MsElle88 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    my friend and i were roommate in our dormitory. i always in love for his feet.one day we start to play football. David was a good player also he has a beautiful face and nice big...
    goal9880 goal9880 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I have known I am gay since I was about 12 years old and when I was about 13 I realised that I kinda like this guy, the only problem is that he is my bestfriend and that he is...
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I have never told anyone, outside of the people involved, either of the stories below. *** I remember the second time I was molested vividly. We were visiting my mother’s...
    bluedevilss bluedevilss 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a white man and I can't begin to explain how overwhelmingly attracted to black women I am. The incredible dark skin......the luscious lips......the curvaceous body......the...
    open62 open62 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So at school I hang out with all girls and at lunch I hang with 5 black girls and, one is a diva,and they are all cool,and killed them with my white boy skills, so one of the girls...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was molested by another child (my adopted Aunt)and a man down the street. This has affected my sex life in three identifiable ways: 1 I was introduced to sex way before I should...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    By my elder sister, she is 10 years my senior. I have more to add to this and this mainly just showcasing how much of a mess I am. This is an experience and a question. It started...
    Wildestdreams98 Wildestdreams98 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Please I don't need you to be a king Or a superhero Or anything amazing I don't need you to make a lot of money Or try too hard Or be with my every second I don't need you to...
    013101jer2911 013101jer2911 22-25 6 days ago

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    Any can be a dad not every man can be a father
    Scotian5 Scotian5 36-40, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    not all men are good fathers, so u have to admire a man who is good father!
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 2 Responses a week ago

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    If someone had told me 8 yrs ago that I would be a dad I would have told them that they are crazy. Fast forward to now and my daughter turning 7 very soon and I couldn't see my...
    Scotian5 Scotian5 36-40, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    How's my makeup? It's just a little bit.
    Schumy Schumy 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This is one of those stories that seems as I it is make believe. As I am in love with my best friend, whom I have known for nearly ten years now, having met him in the last year of...
    Karmimiyan Karmimiyan 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Here's my story: I grew up in a tiny, deeply Southern town. With a small, close minded, religious family. Being different was difficult and coming out as gay was downright...
    lovelyconflict lovelyconflict 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I've never experienced the love of my father. He suffers from brain damage and does not remember who I am.
    wallflower01 wallflower01 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    every summer since she was 3 months old my daughter and I have a 2 week vacation together visiting my parents and family who live on the other side of the country. she never wants...
    Scotian5 Scotian5 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I have a daughter who will be 7 very soon. I was the first to hold her and from that moment I was hooked I have never loved anything or one as much as I do my daughter. I cannot...
    Scotian5 Scotian5 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 20

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    And goes and gets it. Even if I am not what he wants, being around a man like that inspires me to go get my dreams too. It takes a strong minded person to do what they dream in...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I really like guys who love kids. Not saying I want that in life but I really like like guys who love kids
    gundyone91 gundyone91 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am celibate and gay man.i am disabled. I feel I am the only gay man who has not had sex.are thete other gay men who are celibate? I feel so different from everyone else. I don't...
    Quinky99 Quinky99 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I love wearing women's panties it feels so good against my balls. I am totally straight but the sensation I get is second to none when I am wearing panties!!!
    pantyboy30 pantyboy30 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    i'm a fat ***. i love to eat and i love my thunder thighs. i want a man who will love my fat and think i'm sexy when i'm naked and my fat is hanging.
    bluesexgirl bluesexgirl 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 18

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