Post

I Forgive Quickly

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 326 People

    I Just Don`t Have the Time to Carry a Grudge - it takes to much time and energy.i useually get over it the same day.and as long as people don`t keep on with it,i will forgive.but...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 23, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Wow - I was writing a story for over two hours and my browser crashed. But I was almost done writing it and realized some things. I figured I wasn't going to publish it...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 4 Responses May 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've Always Been That Way... - When I was younger I used to forgive people easily all the time. They could've done the worst thing possible to me and I would still forgive them...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Apr 4, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Forgive and . . . Er, Forget. - Forgiving is not a problem for me. I let things go too easily, and I know it. But even with big problems, it's easy for me to forgive - the hard...
    Quetzal Quetzal 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It Depends Largely On.... - how bad it is ,and what it is I am supposed to forgive and the regretfulness of the sinner. I won,t forgive an UNREPENTANT gross act such as someone...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F May 2, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life, Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Always Have - I always forgive quickly. Some have told me too quickly. Almost as soon as the slight or argument are done ... I've forgiven. I don't hold grudges, times too...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    With Fault - I don't know what it is but I've never been one to hold a grudge or remain angry at anyone longer than a few minutes. It's like the moment I get angry I feel like...
    Linxer Linxer 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 22, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Always Have and Always Will - Even when I younger I forgave really easy.Someone could have beat me left me in my blood all day and when I got up I would get up hug the person...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16 18-21, M Aug 6, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This Is a New Concept For Me ... - I am learning, and just as anything that is new, it takes practice. I spent much of my adult life, and all of my married life, holding...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Forgive What? - In my entire life, there has been a small handful of people I've never forgiven.  It takes a force of nature to get me to that point.  Alas, some people...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 31, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People Make Mistakes... - I forgive most things quickly. People screw up, are selfish or don't think about consequences. Just sincerely being sorry is all it takes to get my...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses May 2, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Over Time, I've Learned -  I used to hold grudges and hate on the world and everybody in it but now, I feel that by holding grudges, I am just wasting my time, effort,and...
    reset reset 18-21, F Aug 5, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Forgive Quickly - My dad in particular has screwed our family over in so many ways, There are times when the arguments get so bad the police have to brought in to make sure...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F Jun 25, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yes I Do - I forgive easily and I forgive fast too, but the consequences affect me for a long time. I forgive, and I keep no hard feelings, but that does not mean that things go...
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 16 Responses Aug 8, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To Err Is Human, To Forgive Divine - I like that quote. It takes a lot to get me angry or upset, I tend to be able to put up with a lot. I tend to get over things rather...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I kinda hate that about myself.. Ive been lied to and betrayed so many times yet I forgive so easily its just in my nature. I just cant hold on a grudge on someone for too long...
    ginamarieexoxo ginamarieexoxo 18-21, F Feb 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lifes Too Short to Hold It - i used to hold alot of hatred for people because of the way iv been treated i let it go, now i feel a lot happier-  this people dont have a hold...
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Sep 20, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Way Too Quickly - me and one of my friends were just recently discussing this. (and yes, if you read this, you know exactly who I'm talking about). see i have this one friend who...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    However... - I do not forget.  People are slow to change and often repeat their mistakes.
    bricmpt bricmpt 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do believe in forgiveness. This doesn't mean forgetting though, let's make that clear. Forgiveness is a very complex concept to grasp; is it saying "it's fine" to something...
    cassidysc cassidysc 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Forgiveness I have done many things in the dark, things I'm not proud of, things that I need to ask forgiveness. But I haven't. I have not looked for forgiveness for my sins, and...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've learned forgiveness is possible and makes way for growth and love. Before I go any further I am going to make a disclaimer: this story will be a short novel about my life...
    RedHotCrazyPerson RedHotCrazyPerson 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Since when is forgiveness a better quality than loyalty" I've always been a stubborn individual just like my father and one of the biggest vices I have is being too prideful...
    Cantbelieveit20 Cantbelieveit20 22-25, M Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The choice to forgive is not only the right thing to do, but the strongest thing you can do for yourself. To forgive is to put your own pride aside and be the bigger person... To...
    autumnslove autumnslove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It...
    serachii serachii 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i always forgive people that hurt me,my mom has this same habit even she forgives people who hurt her i dont know why i have such a soft heart i dont like to take revenge,even if i...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I realize that everyone doesn't deserve forgiveness because I am not looking for sympathy if a person can't admit to me that they messed up I cant forgive that person and why...
    cantfoolthewise cantfoolthewise 31-35 Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is the first step to healing..whenever someone does me wrong, the first thing I do is say "I forgive you, it's in the past" because it honestly is!! Trust me when I say I've...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We were married almost nine years, I was pregnant with our third child and he cheated. Everything was a lie! Here we are two years later and the scars are still so very real and...
    undecided423 undecided423 31-35, F Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I forgive you and I am sorry. I wish to set my soul free and in order to do that I need to let go of the pain I've endured and the pain I've caused. I am sorry and I forgive you.
    Roibeard Roibeard 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Life is a long journey...we meet so many people when we are traveling that...we cannot stop in front of one person and hate him as we have to go far in our journey...you don't need...
    chethaki chethaki 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    if you don't forgive, there's more weight to your shoulders. why carry more trouble than u already have? grudges drain your energy, i don't bother. forgive and move on
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How can I after the days months weeks he hasn't talked to me for or not cared about me... Since I was about 4 I used To see him some weekends he kept saying we are going to do...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Never Will. I never forgive my mum for not believing me when I was raped and when she called me a ****. It still hurts thinking about it.
    slivereyes slivereyes 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Change your life by forgiving those that hurt/harmed you. I love this vid on forgiveness > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4tl_AAxQao
    InnerCalm InnerCalm 31-35 3 Responses Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    “Forgiveness is unlocking the door to set someone free and realising you were the prisoner." Max Lucado
    Simplified Simplified 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really need to forgive myself.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In high school I had bad depression. I had no idea what to do with myself or how i really felt. There were 2 guys. Guy 1: i ended up dating for a couple weeks and i knew it...
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    All i have to say is if God and Jesus can forgive us all, why can't I when I'm made in their image?
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No. It does not work like that. You do not forgive because you want people to walk right over you...even though sometimes it could be interpreted that way and they call you a...
    Psychologica Psychologica 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My life-pattern seems to be one of having intense flings with people, who are completely interested at the beginning, and then rather quickly lose interest. I'm always left heart...
    almalibre1986 almalibre1986 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had the problem of trusting too quickly. Giving my all in a situation where the person didn't give half of their all. I have been dumb at times believing that someone...
    LoveHard2014 LoveHard2014 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's okay that you called me fat a long time ago. It's okay you called me a freak because of my music taste. It's okay you called me a "b*tch" because I wouldn't do something for...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There is something about you that I can't let go of .. Your all the mean things that hurt but you keep me craving u
    Beautifulandintoxacated Beautifulandintoxacated 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's okay. You guys didn't know what kind of trip you were sending me on.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So what you need to do MY DOCTOR LOVE is to ensure you do NOT flirt with any other woman AND ONLY flirt with ME to help reassure me, YOUR LOVE I am the one woman you are fancying...
    MyDoctorLove MyDoctorLove 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My sister and i doesnt like each other, i like to fix our relationship but she doesnt have any respect to me, her big sister. That makes me want to strangle her.... I dont think...
    kaitlinpeige kaitlinpeige 13-15, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I ruined something amazing. It's a long story but I'll start on the night that we met. We'll just call him dd coz he was supposed to be the dd. Anyway, I was really drunk and didn...
    whitterz whitterz 22-25, F Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not easy but... It's worth it!!! Do yourself a favor and let go of the pain caused by those suckers!
    mamachi mamachi 26-30, F Apr 4

    Your Response